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Anticipation or Immediate Gratification
February 16 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm multi orgasmic, I don't need 'the big one' I have heaps of them. I'd get very frustrated with edging and it's not a good frustration. I like anticipation in the form of seduction but give me my orgasms as I'm ready to feel them :) Mary xx
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GM4funxxx
9 years ago
I find a little anticipation makes for a more shared and deep experience. Not to say I don't really enjoy a spontaneous quickly as I come through the door 😚 Basically it's ALL GOOD - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The mind game is my thrill, it's all about to banter and chase for me. Don't get me wrong though, it must finish with gratification.
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GM4funxxx
9 years ago
Mustn't post before morning coffee. From a male perspective I think it's all about edging, or else the party cums to a screaming holt so to speak. But it then leaves time for other activities. It's a win win situation 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
My wife and I love the anticipation, the tension it creates is what makes the sex very hot. We talk about what she's gonna wear that night before having sex, what role we are gonna play, which costume we could buy etc. When the moment finally arrives, we'd be roaring to go ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
The art of seduction and the build up of anticipation both before meeting and at the start of a meet. Long drawn out foreplay mmmm. But in saying that, tease me too long and I'll most likely turn into a sulking child. Not into edging at all. I don't cum that easily, so a build up is great and makes it more likely I'll explode. But if you try edging with me, I'll probably lose sensation and there will be no reward. In saying all of that sometimes it's nice just to ravish each other from the second you meet - clothing being torn off, limbs tangled, immediate gratification.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Done a few variations and all good if you are in that zone and have time on your hands. But at the end of the day after the one big orgasm, seems a waste of time and resources if its purely for your own gratification. Different if its part of extended play to satisfy your woman and you want to go the distance. For me, its reading the situation and satisfying your playmate. Either floats my boat. Its unsinkable......
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RHP User
9 years ago
The build up actually before taking your lover to bed is all part of edging for me. Touching and kissing is all part of the foreplay Extremely hot if she is playing with me in the kitchen 😉😂.lol. Taking your time as Annie mentioned is what it's about.Planning in advance and setting the scene. Certainly believe by doing this allows you to build up an atmosphere that hopefully escalates into the bedroom or kitchen bench. 😉😈 Having the time to be selfless allows for extended play I've found. Maybe not as intense as a fast and hard encounter but would be my preference. Nothing wrong with a quickie either just the right time and place. 😉😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
Much better chance of riding the orgasmic wave for both of us with build up and anticipation so that would be our preferred. Some of the tantric techniques come in handy in keeping arousal in the right zone. There's always a time and place for a frenzied quickie but rather take my time any day. Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me, I mostly enjoy the interaction..... which doesn't need to be sexual. I simply like the engagement with others. I am sensuality based so that is at the core of my more intimate engagements. (It would be interesting to know though, who says they like the anticipation, but send messages with a more immediate expectation). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I love an extended build up, starting well before the encounter with exchanging of sexy messages. During the actual encounter I will draw out the time before I even start touching the other person or removing any clothing, then by the time we actually get to the 'main event' so to speak I'll usually already be wet from anticipation and the naughty thoughts that have been running through my mind...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Can be intoxicating, the tease, the innuendo, the mind running rampant, but it can also sputter and fizzle out. If the moment presents itself grab it, spontaneity burns bright.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Both have their appeal for me, depending on the situation. I love edging when I'm solo and masturbating. I don't find that it makes for a more intense orgasm necessarily, but prolonging the arousal and pleasure leading up to the orgasm is sensational. I also love the build up that happens in the days before catching up with a lover: sexting, teasing etc. so that when we finally meet, I'm wet and climbing up the walls with horniness. And that's when I want the instant gratification lol. Like Mary, I'm multi-orgasmic... I cum easily and often from penetration, so having an orgasm early on in the session clears my mind and leaves me free to focus 100% on my partner 😍
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RHP User
9 years ago
...of getting to know someone and seduction then becomes the art if there is that magical connection. Of course once this has been accomplished there is nothing at all wrong with arranging an agreeable time and place for immediate or at least quite prompt gratification. Personally I wouldn't want one without the other and always hope to be a friend and a repeat offender!
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
I like it when you spend a whole day building up to the event, teasing. flirting, nerves. Ive had some spontaneous meet ups and you have to move quick and get your mind ready. The downside is you can over do it and doesn't quite go to plan or someone cancels
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RHP User
9 years ago
Anticipation / Absolute seduction with a lover. The kind that can go on for weeks and when you finally meet up, you're so damn horny that your panties are drenched and you can feel his sex. Then you desire the gratification 😜 I like both. Tho tho mind wins hands down. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Edging is nice and sensual and juicy wet.... 👄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
"...and see what's on the slab. I see you shiver with antici... pation" Definitely a tantrically-titillated anticipation kind of guy. Life worth living on the edge. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can't get enough. Just light touches on the head of my cock and I can feel like I'm orgasming for hrs. I like to take playmates to the edge too. It seems more often than not in that situation I can get them to lose all control, all thought and see them lose themselves in pleasure. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Building up to the moment is the most important part. Building up over the time you have just enhances the final hour... Still, sometime quick and dirty can be just as good..... :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
it depends on the situation and the person i am with...anticipation before the actual play...the mental game...can be super sexy...but it can also let you down by increasing your expectations as for edging once the fun starts...mmm...i prefer the "edging" of the guy's orgasm..loli like long, passionate play...i am very multi-orgasmic, and with the right lover i can go on for long hours...so i like a guy who's not in a hurry to get to the destination and enjoys savouring the journey as much as i do...of course i do love a good foreplay...but as to how long that needs to be ...only depends on how long it takes for him to get me going..
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