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Are you a moaner, groaner or prefer to say sweet nothing..?

December 30 2010

I’ve realized that not many of the guys I've encountered have ever really moaned… groaned… or said much when they're sooo horny, sooo hard & we're getting down & dirty. I know I can't help myself from gasping, moaning or letting out a slight squeal of delight, so is it just a guy thing to say sweet nothings?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I can't speak for other guys, but personally I tend to make almost no noise...at least, as far as I'm aware. I've never been sure whether that's the norm though, because, let's face it, in porn the guys are almost as vocal as the girls. And, while I realise that porn usually can't be counted on to mirror real life, I've always just assumed I was fairly quiet - I've had one or two girls ask me why I don't make more noise. So, I don't know...I guess I'm usually just concentrating too much to spare a thought for waking the neighbours ;-)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I was a serious noisemaker prior to children. Also, I've discovered that I make some loud involuntary noises in certain situations. ... otherwise I generally breathe heavy. That's me. But if you ever hang out in any of the SOPs you'll quickly discover that not all dudes are quiet lovers.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Most of the guys I've been with are dead silent, and whenever I encounter a guy who actually makes some noise it's a mega turn-on! Guys, if you're enjoying it, vocalise a bit!! (Not too much...)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    .... which I guess stems from our origins together in uni dormitories / at the parents house and such where keeping discreet was needed. We did have our teenage daughter tell us off once though, and then she moved her room to the other end of the house. Sometimes I think it would be nice if we felt free to make a bit more noise - helps with the "feedback loop".

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Never really put much thought into it....but now the question has been asked.... Think i would have to say that i am a heavy breather, i love a loud partner..lets me know if im hitting the right spots. the noises that i make i wouldnt describe as a moan or a groan...maybe more of a grunt...haha...oh and i love the dirty talk too

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I have a fair bit of a deep and rumbly voice anyway...so the closest thing I can say is that I growl, maybe a bit primal and rarely quietly. In the moment too...I am prone to saying things in one of two other languages that really can't be translated, more of an experience and feeling. But quiet... | ...no way.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    A few I have found are quiet, very quiet. Most are quite vocal. they talk, to me mutter sweet nothings, moan and groan and occassionally let out a yell or two......especially during oral or on point of orgasm. Most guys have always made more noise than me and in tricky situations I have had to cover thier mouths as a reminder to shush.

  • tank__girl

    tank__girl

    15 years ago

    Moaning and groaning turns me on lots...! Silence, and being stared into your eyes is sometimes a bit odd at times?? Mmmm guys who like to send videos of them masturbating etc.. It's soooo much better with audio..! Wink wink.. Deep breathing, a bit of moaning mmmmmm sexy.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I do moan and groan but it is fairly quiet on occasions I get a little more loud but generally it is soft :) LC

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    it al depends on the company and or headspace i'm in at the time"if i'm with freinds that i get that comftable with i'll laugh,joke,giggle,groan,grunt, sometimes at the same time lol talkins allways a great motivater. i guess with folk's i meet 4 the first time i hold a little back, but i find the more you open up the better the sex & everyone finds what they need? p.s i've meet ladies that say, JUST SHUT UP AN FUCKME NOW!! RITE NOW, lol ballgages can be fun 2 ! heheheheh.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I usually talk and moan through it.. dirty talk/sweet talk, and sexy suggestions...makes me harder and them creamier as we role play alot, different people and names help build the climax's (us pretending to be different people.) cheers Bernie

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    when they say nothing i love moaning and groaning from men...such a huge turn on i can be as loud or as quiet as you need me to be...but not too quiet or i need a pillow to shut me up hehe roxxy

  • ArtsyLusttty

    ArtsyLusttty

    15 years ago

    is a f*&king TURN ON!!! :DBring it on, guys! s3d xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Most guys if not all have been quiet, even when you ask them to talk dirty and to not hold back, wonder if guys realize how much of a turn on it is to here them groan and moan!! Nothing gets me wetter then listening to that Msboobyz

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I can't keep quite...I dont think about it, just let it cum naturally...and when i am cumming...i can get loud, especially if its been one of those really long buildups, where you have been on the edge for a while.....

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Id love to hear your moaning and groaning!!...Enough said!! Sally

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i myself especially when told by a nice hot dom girl to be a big slut boy for her i cant help myself as i know also the hornire it makes her the better i will get my needs meet mmmmmm

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    msboobyz i moan and groan if you were topping me celtiboy133@ y

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yep - moaning, groaning, and dirty talking.... is a MASSIVE turn on !!! xxx Meeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yes when i'm giving Oral i get going It's the Most beautiful and tantalizing taste in the Whole world . It cant be helped when your enjoying yourself that much ohhhh Yes More Please

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    more of a moaner I think .. not much of a talker ... but also agree with the ladies : moaning, groaning, and dirty talking.... is a MASSIVE turn on !!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Whats the point of getting naked with someone and letting go physically if you don't moan and groan,,,,,,Love the moan the groan the dirty talk,,,,,its all good. Should be mandatory,,,,,,,,if your not making noise you must be asleep. It could sadly be that some people just dont give the other person anything to actually moan about.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love love love getting feedback of the audible kind, it's a major turn on. silent guys are somehow just that slight bit less satisfying One thing that always amuses me is that it's usually guys that say "i'm cumming" when you're going down on them, as if somehow you wouldn't notice that you're currently getting a mouthful, haha. I'd find it much more useful if the girls would be the ones to tell me in that situation!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I am not sure how much noise I make...have been told by others that they can hear me 3 rooms away...and have been told by others that I'm pretty quiet...so...I dunno!But I do LOVE a man that moans...groans...talks dirty to me...growls...then goes quiet and kisses me gently...sigh.YUM.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i had to sack one that was non vocal......it creeped me out !! Kept wondering if he had carked it...... i couldnt relax or concentrate !!....................love the dirty talk....oohh oh oh such a turn on.....love to hear a man enjoying the activities and growl as he cums .......and what is it with men that have to announce they are cumming ???.........every one stand back.......beware.... brace your selves...."im cumming".....monty python springs to mind for some reason........sorry youre all going to burst out laughing now when you announce it ...lol

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    There is nothing sexier than a man that moans .. those noises .. god they drive me wild ... I can cum from just listening to a man moan .... and I love to know when he is cumming mostly but the increase in sound, the volume and yes I do like to be told.. cos baby that really does it for me .. and no matter how many times i have cum during the sex I will completely crash over the edge when he does... I have been known to make the odd noise here and there too.... ok ok I am noisy .. VERY noisy ... Horny as Hell just thinking about it ... where is a noisy man when you want one !!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    It's like having sex with a dead body if he doesn't moan and groan. Moan like a woman is a big turn off, I like my man moan like a man. HOT! Gis

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Im a noisy little critter im told....................................lost in the moment have no idea what noises i am making Some have taken to placing their hands over my mouth.....which is very hot,,,,,,and others have thrilled me by inserting fingers in my mouth......oh dear........................that is very very nice too !! LOL.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i can be as quiet as a mouse or make all sorts of noises, but it all depends on my mood and also the woman im with, if there quiet I tend toi be quiet and so on and if there vocal I tend to be as well.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love to talk dirty during sex obviously especially when I am about to come it just makes everything so much better if you have not done it try it.Also i like to let her know if something feels good. If it feels good I'll tell her then she will know what I like and hopefully do more of the same. I also like to please her so when she lets me know if its good it will make me harder and happier.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'tboy3' i myself especially when told by a nice hot dom girl to be a big slut boy for her i cant help myself as i know also the hornire it makes her the better i will get my needs meet mmmmmm Hey tboy.... Great armpits... just saying. :pHugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i talk dirty/groan and growl then roar like a lion at the end sounds /feelings and sight all come into play i think Mr B

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Maxking2010' I can't keep quite...I dont think about it, just let it cum naturally...and when i am cumming...i can get loud, especially if its been one of those really long buildups, where you have been on the edge for a while..... Very True! Like that about you! HEHEHE!!! I like to hear the pleasure! & as for me! Yes I moan with orgamic pleasure! My Man will always Know What I like! xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' I'd find it much more useful if the girls would be the ones to tell me in that situation! he finds it totally errotic for me to make some audible sound as appreciation of his efforts but frankly I am too bust concentrating. In hindsight I guess it would be of benefit to him if he had some indication that he is on the right path and things are progressing to an ultimate conclusion. Silence seems so - non communicative

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    how can you not moan and groan!! ...omg...every muscle working and every sense fighting to reach its peak... i have to let out !! ...its total, and mutual satisfaction..for mind and body.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I've learned to be quiet if the kids are asleep in the house, but also have my vocal moments when there's just me and a partner. Phone sex is a really good way to "practice" because all you have to go by are the sounds and the descriptions from your imagination, and if it's done right, it can be awesome!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    All shows me that he is alive and hasn't carked it on me! Can't stand a male that makes no noise...you don't know if they are enjoying it or playing the last Episode of Home & Away in their mind! < I used to see a guy a few times and he never made a sound! I asked him why and he really didn't have an answer! I told him that if he did moan and groan and actually breathe his orgasm would be more powerful! I find that guys that don't make a sound also hold their breath at time of orgasm thus not getting the full brunt of the orgasm! He did this after a couple of times and he came soooooooo hard that he was breathless....mmmmmmmmmm!! Would love to see how he is now in the sack! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love it when my subbie boys moan and groan with pain - it means I am doing a good job lol. I also love it when they beg for mercy too. But they are all the same when they orgasm and they all make a biiiiiiig noise.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Funloving...I assure you, blokes generally never have the issue of thinking about anything other than the task at hand. Especially not home & away ;-)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    This could get me in trouble, but lately for some reason I start screaming out red hot stock tips...you know the kind, insider trading info and the rest. Funny thing is that these have been really paying off and most seem to skyrocket in value in a couple of days, so ladies... | ...who wants to be a millionaire?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'rdmgcer' Funloving...I assure you, blokes generally never have the issue of thinking about anything other than the task at hand. Especially not home & away ;-) if i dont want to cum...il think of homo away

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I tend to take my ques from her....if she's making noise, so will I......mind you i do prefer to make noise/talk whilst everything is happening

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ...depends on the situation with me.......if its slow & sensual then i'm usually fairly quiet apart from the deep and heavy breathing, but if its hammer & tongs than i like to give it a real go with my lungs. I grabbed my neighbour the other day as we sometimes help each other out in the sex department. Anyway, it was a super hard & fast throw down & we barely made it through the front door......both of us were screaming the house down so much that our dear OLD neighbour (about 75yrs old) came over to see what all the commotion was. I think she got the hint when she saw us both half naked on the floor.........me with a raging boner & her with sweat pouring from her face and clothes strewn everywhere..........hahahaaaaa. Needless to say that it depends on the mood for me but i swing both ways in terms of being vocal. I do absoltely love a woman that gets loud though....the louder the better i reckon. YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWW

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I tend to grunt & growl, but have been known to moan a bit. Im generally pretty quiet, and prefer to hear her than myself.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I used to have an orgasms with a Pillow over my head because I was scared of anyone hearing me.. In the bedroom, with men' I do a great fake moan and "have you seen when Harry met Sally". I find if he is really hmm *sugar coating* not the best lover you ever had and you just need to get him to cum really quickly the louder you say, moan the words "fuck me harder" or "I'm cuming baby" that generally gets them moving very quickly. "phew"... love the saying "hope the door hits you on the ass on the way out “all the while thinking thanks for wasting my time". However to lovely D and R there was no faking, it was all me,*thinking you should give classes on the art on how to not only how to treat a woman but also how to make love to them so they keep coming back for more" the difference is the honesty and the trust. "I even gave up the pillow for them". Oriah x.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I am definately a moaner and sweet/dirty talker dependng on the situation. It helps your partner/s know when they are doing something that feels good. And love a girl who is vocal. Turns me on to know a girl is really enjoying herself..mmmmm

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love to hear a girl talk dirty and moan and scream. Being from the corporate sector that 'on-going assessment' lets me know whether what I am doing is pleaing my partner. The sexy thing in the world is a woman who knows how to enjoy herself and relax. Let it out! Likewise, I love to get vocal and talk dirty. Even though I am a very repsectful person normally, I love getting dirty when doing it, name calling and the like.

  • SexyArse

    SexyArse

    15 years ago

    Turn me on!!!! Love a guy who lets out a moan or a groan. Huggggggggggggggge turn on. Makes me wet thinking about it. C'mon guys we love to hear how much your enjoying it. Especially when our mouths are wrapped around your cock. MmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmMrs SAOT xx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'oriah' I used to have an orgasm with a pillow over my head because I was scared of anyone hearing me. | There is a lot to be said for good pillow muncher... | ...and the feathers tickle when they fly!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I find it so hot when a guy adds a bit of dirty talk & moans a little not many do tho but the keepers always do hehe

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    that all depends on the person an how well one does their job and how well one knows one but whats worse is a quite woman unless of couse she like to be gagged