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Blocked before having a chance to answer message - why???

May 18 2014

Several months ago I met a lovely RHP man and enjoyed a dinner date with him and ensured he knew I wanted to see him again and take things further next time. At that stage he indicated he would be in touch with me again however after a few weeks no further date was locked in. I messaged him to enquire whether he was still interested in meeting up again and he then told me he had reread my profile and didn't think he could promise what I was looking for.Well, I look for different levels of arrangements from different people depending on age, how far away from me they live, what interests we have in common etc etc.In this instance I then thought he sounded indecisive and that it was a pity he didn't discuss the issue with me first before making his decision....but I just accepted that he seemed no longer interested in seeing me again and I then moved on.I did notice however that he still periodically viewed my profile and wondered why seeing as he no longer wanted to meet again.Today however he sent me a message asking if we could go out for dinner again then take things further afterwards.I politely answered his message but he will never know whether the answer was yes or no because he blocked me before I had a chance to send the message.My question is - why would someone bother to send you a message then block you an hour so later before you've had a chance to send your answer to them?

Comments

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    If it was the opposite gender situation in that you where the male then I would say, welcome to the male world.

  • Enjoylifealways

    Enjoylifealways

    12 years ago

    Maybe he had a partner who found out what he was up too. Only reason I could see

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    He regretted sending you the message and didn't want to know your reply. Perhaps he was worried about what you would have to say. You'll never know, but it doesn't sound like a man you'd want to be with, so no harm done there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sounds uncertain to me. Could be as simple as he's shy - puts himself out there and then regrets it. Was he on here because he was recently divorced or similar? Otherwise, would have to go with Enjoylifealways comment - something else going on that you don't know about. Either way, sounds better to steer clear until he's worked his own head / situation out, otherwise, will continue to just mess you about

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How do you know that you were blocked? Maybe he has just removed his profile and wants you to text him? Idk? It doesn't make sense otherwise.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You dodged a bullet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    just not that into you? NEXT!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    He wasn't that into you but was having no luck elsewhere......

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' How do you know that you were blocked? Maybe he has just removed his profile and wants you to text him? Idk? It doesn't make sense otherwise. I wondered the same thing.... x Me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    the cowardly bastards who abuse you first then block you before you can reply. Probably just as well for some of them otherwise I would rip them a new one!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You dodged this one. Keep looking. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    He just wanted the last say. And given that you were ok with him not wanting to take things further, he thought you'd be lost and crumble at his feet. Bullet dodged OP, don't give it another thought, as right now, he knows you've been thinking about him. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Pondering the imponderable.... It's just not worth it ,but I love solving mysteries too,I know exactly how you feel wbppwb hugs xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Could quite possibly he was sneaking on this site without his partners knowledge, keen to get extra but not quite game to follow it through. The fact he was still viewing you but not game to come forward, think your lucky stars as i think he would mess you around(timewise)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Maybe he has just removed his profile and wants you to text him? I've had messages from girls saying "don't want to be on this site any longer, text/email/call me if you want to catch up" [PS. for the RHP censors: it was NOT on this site. Everyone loves this site. It was somewhere else.]

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Don't use energy worrying about it .... obviously he has some issues that you will never know NEXT

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have been blocked just for looking at a profileI've read a profile bang its a good one I fit all the criteria send a message only to find I've been blocked I don't know if this happens to women but I'm pretty sure I'm not the only male this has been done to. like what most say, don't worry about it move on. Plenty of fish in the sea(for some)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It happens a lot. A lot of people have blocked someone and then it stays on, like forever. I don't think anyone goes through their block list and up-date it. Wbppwb have you ever heard of power play? Or control, some people play games that might not be of a sexual nature but it gives them a satisfaction that is like an orgasm.I believe there are people here on rhp that gets great satisfaction of not showing up, turning people down and sometimes even watch people from a distance being disappointed by a canceled meeting. They are time wasters. A good way to check the temp is to have them write about themselves, fish for information and use it.Get their number. Ring em up on a payphone or get a play number. Decide where to meet. Be in control. Look for what you are after. Ask for what you want. Be a little bit egoistic and don't be afraid of turning people down. Make sure you enjoy it. I have heaps of people perving and lurking at me hi has blocked me. Thank good I will never meet these people and if I do they will be embarrassed when I point out that they blocked me. Update your block list everyone. You might get new friends ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' How do you know that you were blocked? Maybe he has just removed his profile and wants you to text him? Idk? It doesn't make sense otherwise. .....when I hit the button to send my return message, a message appeared on the screen saying the inbox was locked so I attempted to view his profile to check for sure and it said "profile unavailable"I think that all means I'm blocked doesn't it?Anyway, I hope not to have my time wasted by any further occurrences of that nature by anyone.......but that may be asking too much mightn't it!

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    12 years ago

    It can be this simple yes, no, yes, final-no....but feeling embarrassed at these flips...so block. Only you will have some clues why he will flip..generally people who can't get clear answer from their own instinct don't know how to trust and clear doubts with others. One clue can be Yes - when horny, No - when the hand has stopped. Just for coincidence today an inter state cpl who never had any interaction with us looked at our profile and blocked us. Such hard to understand event is extremely rare with us. I did had some curiosity to know why it happened but only worth 20s of my time. I couldn't figure out, cleared my memory and you reminded me it again for another few seconds...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You nailed it! My sentiments exactly

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It could be that he edited his profile and that it became locked for review. I'd say that is the more likely reason.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I laugh at those really insecure types who like to reply to a non-offensive message with personal abuse, THEN they block you... desperate to have the final word. Petulant.... and oh so funny Do you hold your breath too?!