Couple or club?

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  BungCpl

  8 years ago

  When we started a few years ago it was all about curiosity of what is out there and what we might see, we started at a club, watched a few others playing and played a little with ourselves. Over time we both become more confident and open to playing with others and that confidence continues to grow each time we go out. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  As it is a neutral venue where you can chat with others around the bar , and then watch the goings on, without there being any pressure on you to participate or join in. It’s a good place to start , in a safe place - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Great replies, thanks guys. Makes complete sense.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Nothing worse than going on a couples date night and there is an uncomfortable feeling and you are stuck without an escape. At least at a club or party if there is no connection just move along. But try not to push the issue if she does not want to go. Nothing worse for her to feel uncomfortable or make a scene in a location.

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  Lovinit28andKC72

  8 years ago

  For me personally I'd do the online chat then meet and greet with no play first to get a sense of who the other couple are, to find a good connection and judge how you both feel about moving forward with them. I can be quite shy in group scenarios where I don't know anyone. Making conversation with complete strangers is hard work for me in a group, I feel much more comfortable having who, where and what planed and discussed before hand especially for the first time. I don't like to rush decisions and often make the wrong choice for myself. I've said yes to some propositions only because i felt obliged because of the situation I was in but not because I wanted to. It's just a personal thing, I like to plan and have control :) KC72

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Again, really appreciate the comments. I am sure my better half will join me at a club and it does sound like a way to introduce ourselves without expectation or need to commit to anything (or end up feeling like we let anyone else down).

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  You have a single profile are you sure its her idea and not yours?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  His profile says he is married. There is no law against having a single profile.

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