Do condoms secretly turn the whole thing into extra foreplay?

November 25 2025

It’s that whole “let’s stay right here a little longer” energy, the teasing, the edging, the hovering in that almost crossing the line space. You’re both worked up, you both know where it’s going… but neither of you is rushing to grab the condom just yet. You’re both playing safe, and know that just sliding in is not an option. Somehow that makes everything even more intense. That stretch before the condom even comes out can turn into its own kind of extended foreplay. Sometimes making play so much hotter. I’ve been wondering, if others find condom use extending foreplay in this way rather than just being a pause?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 months ago

    have not gien the matter much thought but I am foreplay fan and more the better

  • JustAManNextDoor

    JustAManNextDoor

    7 months ago

    I totally agree that everyone's favourite little raincoat can add extra excitement to foreplay and when used in edging or prolonging the foreplay vibe. I had a partner who prefered to be on top and used clitoral stimulation along my shaft to bring herself almost to orgasm before I would slide in to finish. We did this covered so if I came early then the mess was contained either way. The most important thing is that condoms are used. Just got to find the right time to put it on!!

  • TheMinx

    TheMinx

    7 months ago

    I've played with a hot wife who put the condom in her mouth and slid it on her husband using her mouth. That halted play while I had a ask where how when did you learn this skill 🥵 Wasn't a buzz kill but more of a blew my mind.

  • selfless__lover

    selfless__lover

    7 months ago

    Well that was a very erotic description! 🥵 I'm all for as much foreplay as possible and it can be a fun way to keep playing and pushing the limits before any sort of penetration. I don't think that being in a relationship where you no longer have to use a raincoat should diminish that though. If it happens then it would be a good time to talk about it and why the anticipation and build up is more important than rushing into anything.

  • Temptress_T

    Temptress_T

    7 months ago

    I had not thought of it this way but YES!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 months ago

    I totally get where the post is coming from, that lead up is so hot and tbh I could leave it there and not even bother with the condom sex as for me it feels average at best.

  • FatboyTimmy

    FatboyTimmy

    7 months ago

    I hate the damn things. I love giving foreplay for as long as a girl needs it. An when she is ready to go so am I. When we stop to put a condom on, I always lose the momentum and have to start again. For me it diminishes the sex. I’ve tried putting it on at different times to try to sort it out. I’ve even had one girl demand I keep going. An as we were laying there catching our breathe, tossed me the ciondom and said let’s put it in now and see how it feels!, 🤣🤣

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 months ago

    I like to use the condom in foreplay. I take the tip of it in my mouth, and roll it down with my lips, squeezing on the way down the shaft. You’re literally deep throating him. 😈 I’ve never had any complaints.😈😍🔥 Try it ladies

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 months ago

    I always found condoms to be a nuisance, so i am glad im sterile now and they are no longer necessary once you know your partner well enough. That said, i found them difficult to get on my girth, and have never found one that isn't tight as hell and cutting off circulation. never a good time to stop and put it on which breaks the mood. I show respect to a new lover and put one on without being asked early on with a new lover, foreplay can happen with it on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 months ago

    Depends on the man, Personally I can go for hours and I wear most women out. And as for the sex part, I'm unfortunately unable to father children and so far every partner I've had likes this quality in me. As for the condoms,... they're A good accessory for some, but for me it takes half the feel and pleasure out of sexual activities. And just for the record,... I have proven to a few ladies that I can play all night and not worry about sex AND after a gal has cummed 4+ times over 2 hours and run out of juice their sensitivity gets too high and they need a break, then %90 of gals from 18- 72 yrs can't help themselves and they fall asleep then wake up 8-10hrs later. "I am here to serve my queen as I was taught 40yrs ago" ....