RHP

RHP User

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First time at a club...

April 07 2018

Hi, newbie looking to go (alone) to a couples / ladies night at a club. I have some questions... is it ok if I wear just nice underwear and a dress? I don't have super sexy clothes and wouldn't feel comfortable that way anyway... so will people still talk to me? I'm not sure if I will want to play - is it ok to chat to other guests, watch and explore without engaging in activity if I'm not comfortable?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Our first time we were given a tour of the whole place by the owners/hosts, run through the basics and rules, (from another post we see your going to the same club we went to) there was no pressure to play by anyone and dressed nice but not super sexy, we felt welcome and comfortable and ended up chatting with other couples and singles in a group, and later that night invited to play by another couple.. great night, and highly recommended..

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    8 years ago

    You’re in Brizzy. I would be your wing chick. I haven’t been either but would like to as well. There would probably be some ladies up there that would go with you? I know a couple of months ago there was thread on ladies social meet in Brisbane if you do a search. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi Janey,, We had all the nerves and anticipation you would expect. Our advice is wear your sexy underwear under your normal clothes if you wish or you could change into them in the ladies or changing rooms if they have them They will have lockers we are sure. Our experience with the couple's/ladies evening in Perth was one of enjoyment. The people we spoke to were lovely and polite. They put us at ease as did the hosts. The thing to know is everyone is their for the same reasons. Make friends have a laugh and some fun. Anything you are uncertain of do as we did and chat with the hosts they'll put you at ease and advise you of the protocols. You are not under pressure to be involved at all. Just embrace the ambience and company and only play if you are comfortable. You'll be fine. Have a fab time..xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thanks for the advice - wish I’d seen it before I went!! Was very welcoming and friendly. - Posted from rhpmobile