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First time at swingers club, what to expect?

September 10 2017

Hey guys, we're just wondering what we should expect the first time we go to a swingers club,m. Is it awkward? Are we too young? (18m, 19f) how should we dress? We're based in inner Sydney and are looking at the newbies night at our secret spot. Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile

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8 years ago

You aren't too young Expect to have people chat to you It's a great venue and everyone is respectful Other people will be like you nervous and unsure If in the unlikely event you have unwanted attention just say thanks but no thanks Everyone is very respectful and as nervous as you will be We have only been twice but have had good experiences Just relax be yourselves and discuss what your expectations are between you two before you go Have fun and let us know how you went

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8 years ago

You aren't too young Expect to have people chat to you It's a great venue and everyone is respectful Other people will be like you nervous and unsure If in the unlikely event you have unwanted attention just say thanks but no thanks Everyone is very respectful and as nervous as you will be We have only been twice but have had good experiences Just relax be yourselves and discuss what your expectations are between you two before you go Have fun and let us know how you went

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8 years ago

That is a great start. You already know someone. EACHOTHER! My suggestion is go there and observe. Ask questions and see what is around and what others have experienced. Then both go home and bang eachothers brains out on wat you both saw during the night. What you like and did not like.

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RHP User

8 years ago

That's my best advice - Posted from rhpmobile

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8 years ago

We would also like to know if it would be weird to attend such places given we are so young. What about the swingers parties or private parties? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I can't wait to go to one! i live rural so i want to make a trip to sydney to attend one. Not looking for a swing - just bit of girl on girl action. Its been a while since i hooked up with a female. Cant wait to do it again.. I've tried tot whole online dating thing but it is very overwhelming with searching chatting and yet nothing is face to face. Husband is also keen to give it a go! Which night or theme etc is the bets one to try out? Any suggestions?

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8 years ago

I have been several times to swinger clubs and in many ways they are more respectful than a normal club. It is a great experience just to observe but only play among yourselves. There is a people from quite a wide ranges of ages so no issues. - Posted from rhpmobile

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8 years ago

I have been twice but went with a couple as if you don't lots of single guys pester you so only go on coup,Es and single girl nights now

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