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Friend Reqests.......what makes you accept them?
April 29 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Are people Ive met, formed friendships with, maybe played with or if interstate formed a "email,messaging" friendship with...my list is quite short...and Ive have a few that I reguarly chat/play with, who arent on my list...I rarely initiate a friend contact. but it is nice to receive one.. I dont understand the random requst, especially from people Ive never even had any contact with whatsoever... What is the point ? Is there a popularity contest out there that Im not aware of ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
People on my friends list are people I actually know , have met and enjoyed real time with . I only add people I've met in real life and connect with .
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't quite understand why anyone sends friend requests without as much as a message or any interaction at all and tend not to accept unless we've at least chatted a little first. Maybe some just like to look like they're popular by having a lot of friends on their profile or maybe to stalk you. Who knows.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have people on my friends list that I have either met,or have chatted to via email or phone.....I have both men and women in my list of friends Love the pic Azure Blue ...gorgeous xHugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have a mix of people we have met, chatted in live chat or have messaged with. Plus what I call my "art gallery" . Those yummy profile pics that saves me doing endless searches to have a perve at. It gives a general idea of what takes our fancy...Oh and there was a bit of a running joke I had with someone ( who shall go by his nikname of "Friends whore" so as he definatly knows it's him Im talking about lol..) who accepts anyone that sends him a friends request, so we had a bit of a race at one stage to out do each other..in my defence I still collected yummy profile pics..him on the otherhand.. It bemuses me that people can seriously get their noses out of joint for someone eles's friends lists.
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RHP User
14 years ago
They are people that I have met or have spent a fair amount of time on line chatting to them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Only if they are some one we have met in person. We put that down on our profile and we still get FR from people. Usually a good sign they haven't read our profile.There isn't a real point to it. If they are your friends then you don't need a reminder. Though some people use it as a way to see what people are posting on the forum.Tim
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jenniecruising
14 years ago
No friend requests accepted unless we have had the pleasure J&C
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RHP User
14 years ago
When I keep getting friend requests from someone Ive never so much as spoken to Do I look lonely ? What's even better is how they completely ignore that little section I have in my profile specifically for the friend request thingy, it's really close to the part where I say what I am actually looking for which 90% of them do NOT meet.So yep, keep sending them dickheads, I love saving them up so I can spend a whole day deleting the requests one by one
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RHP User
14 years ago
l did it that way and now l do it this way.......because l want to
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RHP User
14 years ago
All mine are from the Forums and one is a couple that I met through a drinks night held by the regular Forum people on here! All others I ignore! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some just online buddies or forum posters, some are prspective playmates and some I just like their profiles. I have only put in a few requests and they are to compatible potential playmates to show seriousness.I think people do it randomly as a compliment and a different approach- indicating that they really dig on you and want to be friends + more. I don't see anything wrong with it before or after a message because most of them are probably guests and think there might be a higher chance of being noticed seeing as though flirts are often not looked at or are overwhelming.Cass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
to the rare few that have sent me request's, no offence... sorry but.... if we met and got along no worries, I'm a friendly guy. I've lived in far nth qld and so it was difficult to meet people but I'm in sth east qld now so chances are better, altho I still move about at times. I thought I'd say that in case the lovely girl who abused me for not befriending her is reading....I did explain that you to you sweetie but I guess you're the kind that doesn't take no for an answer...it's not that I don't like you, it's that I don't know you. I'm not picky or stuck up, I just like to know who I'm actualy friends with. I'm off for a little while peeps have fun and play nice :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
If our dog was a member, I would send him a friend request, I'm sure he would accept. I hope.
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RHP User
14 years ago
My friends list is short and those are people I know and have enjoyed their company and developed friendships with. I also have friends that are not on my list with whom I've developed friendships with away from this site. I ignore random friend requests because I dont see the point in collecting profiles of people I don't know. I don't need to know or want to know when they log in either. I feel its invasive of my privacy for my profile to appear to them whenever I log on.
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RHP User
14 years ago
we added a few...but then realised it was one of those things that people either dont care about...or judge you over... so we stopped....theres a few hundred people waiting for a response for their requests for us to add them.... we wont be....as it doesnt really matter to us.......
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
We only accept friends requests from people we have played with..except in one or two exceptional cases. but they are still people we know in the real world. This isn't Facebook
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LoveFrenzy
14 years ago
When we first joined and didn't know any better everyone seemed to want to be our friend and after we got to 30+ we realised that we had never met any of them and and hardly had any communication with them.We then undertook a culling exercise and got rid of all the ones we had never met (sorry).We now only have people we have met or at the very least have regular communication with. (or if they just look hot).
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RHP User
14 years ago
We only accept friend requests from people we have had considerable online chats with / spoken to / or met in person.
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RHP User
14 years ago
especially cyber friends....make my world more realistic
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' especially cyber friends....make my world more realistic And when they start to piss you off, there is always the little red X you have been unfriended friend
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RHP User
14 years ago
Only people I have had some kind of interaction with, be it online or in person, gets on my list. I don't accept requests from "friend collectors" as I can't see the point.
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