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Guys who don't like giving oral...
April 01 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is probably just a matter of personal preference... some guys like to orally please a woman and some done... just as some women like to please a guy orally an some don't. Is nothing personal against you it is just their like/dislike. I love going down on a woman and hate receiving... don't know why, it's just the way it is for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow, I'd say NEXT! if it were me. Oral is, for me, the best part of sex, penetration doesn't get me off. Both giving and receiving. I would certainly not be interested in someone who didn't give oral. Maybe he's not that in touch with his sexuality or something, maybe it's dirty or taboo for him in his experience so far. Either way, I wouldn't go there, I wouldn't give up on the best part of sex. - Ms Otori
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RHP User
13 years ago
if hes pleasing you in many other ways, it is possible to live without it. I have been with guys that havent done it
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RHP User
13 years ago
I practically live down there....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
all i know is its the most delightful and horney thing on the planet ... i simply love having my mouth and tongue put to the task at hand and getting her juices flowing .... before , during and after sex and any time of the day is great ! you chaps with no desire to go down on a woman are missing the good times
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RHP User
13 years ago
Say why....and I also think that you need to create an environment in which he feels comfortable in opening up a little....but....I don't really know your situation with just what you've said...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Great oral is better than sex at times.. Best form of foreplay.. Its a deal breaker if either Im not allowed or she wont..
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wingman2014
13 years ago
Feel sorry for guys who won't go there. Oral is a chance to be creative .- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think most guys love it I have ended relationships because the lady wouldn't let me go and drink from the velvet cup. I always say each to their own but for me no oral......what's the point.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love giving a woman oral pleasure. Yes, I understand some men don't like it but, for me, I absolutely love it! I am lucky enough that my current partner loves it too and she thoroughly enjoys me teasing her and bringing her to orgasm by way of my lips and my tongue on her lips, and especially teasing her clitoris. Just as a woman can bring a man to orgasm by way of oral, I adore doing the same to her, feeling her juices on me as well. I know it is all a preference thing, some do, some don't but, for me, I will always please my lady the best I can.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks guys for your comments, it always helps to get your opinion as you try to understand the others preference. I did send him packing because I feel the same about oral, it gets me off also so I'm thinking it's going to be pretty vanilla without it..... However the attraction is huge on my behalf and would like to understand him more for I make my decision. It might be minx blowing sex and teach me something or not :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
wow how can they not!!! I love it and cant get enough of it. nothing better than looking up and seeing someone expression on they face as you make them cum over and over with just your tongue :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
one of the biggest turn ons for me .. but yeah, in answer to your question, i think it's a preference thing.. on the other hand, not all girls like receiving either.. or maybe just not as much as id like, and that would be breakfast lunch and dinner so maybe im hoping for too much lol :P
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
If he is such an attraction,then the deal is worth some effort. As one of the post's alluded to,go somewhere private so you are not disturbed & communicate with him. Explain how this could be a deal breaker,you are willing to listen & try & understand. If you don't try then you will always wonder. We don't meet that many people in our lives where we have the level of attraction you are saying to be able to just let it go without exploring all options. Be proactive. Good luck
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75' It is probably just a matter of personal preference... some guys like to orally please a woman and some done... just as some women like to please a guy orally an some don't. Is nothing personal against you it is just their like/dislike. I love going down on a woman and hate receiving... don't know why, it's just the way it is for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think some guys get grossed out by hair and the taste from a prior lover or something?? Maybe his first experience just turned him right off of never going back down there???I know myself, hair does turn me off, as nothing worse than hair stuck in teeth (giving a huge grin afterwards eeeek!!) as well as hair caught in back of my throat causing me to gag not from the Penis.Maybe it could be an indication there maybe something wrong with him emotionally??Maybe he is embarrassed by a woman's vagina - I mean what good man who's into the ladies, does not like a woman's vagina?? beats me....I just had one encounter where chemistry was great, amazing really and I felt we got on really well, kissing passionate then that was it - all over Red Rover. Unsure why?? So I guess I put it down to "He was never that into me"..but who knows if they can't communicate openly and honestly- not my problem but theirs...After reading this Forum...I now feel rather GREEDY and a little selfish on my behalf, no now I must return the favor- so LOOK OUT!!FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
My first oral orgasim ever when I joined rhp a year or so ago yes late bloomer Its complicated as I am married so I get what I need sexually with others lucky he understands this so I have been able to go where I never went before and now I just love it If I am with a guy , yes I can still enjoy myself very much, I have a married lover who has never gone down on me but he gets me so excited in other ways. so no need to throw the baby out with the bathwater maybe have two or more lovers each with a special talent ..works for me but if you want a relationship with a man, then he needs to tick all your sexual boxes and you need to tick his , or its never going to work you will be like me wondering for a hundred years what it would be like to have a man taste me even then the guy had to talk me into it, as I told him it would never work...............lucky for me he was a doctor and knew where all the bits were and how it worked I think I lay back and ripped the sheets in my hands, and the neigbours wondered what the hell was going on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love oral sex, giving and receiving, but I was with a man for many years who took it completely off the table. Why? Because I loved him. We still had a very good sex life, it was just different to what I expected. Perhaps your man will change his mind with the right encouragement, or perhaps you will have a sexual relationship that is different fro.m your usual. At the end of the day oral sex is a very small component to a happy relationship- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' My first oral orgasim ever when I joined rhp a year or so ago yes late bloomer ..............lucky for me he was a doctor and knew where all the bits were and how it worked I think I lay back and ripped the sheets in my hands, and the neigbours wondered what the hell was going on.If only ALL men know how to do it ... there are some that know ... and do..... and then there are those that THINK they know .. and are less than satisfactory .. AND WOMEN are the same ..
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RHP User
13 years ago
experiences are more than just a tongue,so much in the smorgasbord to taste,to try. Taste is an individual thing,my tastebuds are not the same as yours.I loved hot curry,the hotter the better,then one day I had a mild one,OMG I had no idea what I had been missing.My ramblings here are all about doing and trying other things,This man's taste buds just may not respond well to the taste of a woman's juices,nothing he can do about that. I have also met men who were disturbed at the thought of tasting there own cum,go figure.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As much as I'm an advocate of oral (there's a lapel pin for you, with a big tongue in the middle), I do wonder does it matter that much? To me, it matters a great deal, and I am bold enough to say it would matter to my previous partners if I'd stopped. But is it so important to forgo all the good things he brings?It might, and that's perfectly justifiable - your expectations and your choices... but every single man walking this earth has some catastrophic flaw. Up to you to work out if you can live with this one (on the basis it is his worst flaw!).If you're after a lover and not a love, then grill him as to why, give him a chance to learn the joys (or get the monkey off his back), and if not then... as the ladies say...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' As much as I'm an advocate of oral (there's a lapel pin for you, with a big tongue in the middle), I do wonder does it matter that much? To me, it matters a great deal, and I am bold enough to say it would matter to my previous partners if I'd stopped. But is it so important to forgo all the good things he brings?It might, and that's perfectly justifiable - your expectations and your choices... but every single man walking this earth has some catastrophic flaw. Up to you to work out if you can live with this one (on the basis it is his worst flaw!).If you're after a lover and not a love, then grill him as to why, give him a chance to learn the joys (or get the monkey off his back), and if not then... as the ladies say... As to your question, why doesn't he???Gawd knows. Fear (of 'it', of failure, of repeating past mistake, of having another occurrence of a past bad experience), ignorance (of its beauty, of its benefit), or just dislike.
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RHP User
13 years ago
each to there own ........ I know I could not live without it, both giving and receiving with both males and females. I can not understand y he would not like it as I the female also luv giving another female pleasure and yes we all taste different as does males. Nothing better than someone goin down on u then kissing them passionately to get the full benefit.....HMMMMM
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have no idea! I think it's lovely! Love giving and receiving it would definitely be a dealbreaker for me. Maybe he just doesn't like the taste, maybe he gets claustrophobic? He needs to find one of those strange women who doesn't like it either. Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
As my RPH name suggests, I'm a big fan of oral sex. It's a huge turn on for me! :) But I was talking to a mate about it.... He and his wife don't do oral sex! They are germophobes.... And they think it is dirty! I tried explaining some things to him, but in the end, they are a very happy couple! So each to their own! But I know I can't live without it and I think the majority of guys would agree!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Obviously a bit of genital hygiene is important but I love the taste of a woman and the obvious pleasure that I can give her. There is nothing better than the sight and sound of my girl cumming as she squirms on the the end of my tongue. The satisfaction for me is awesome.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love oral as much as the next RHP'er but frankly, I can live without it. Deal breaker for me? Probably not (provided its not based on selfishness, you know, take, take, take). If everything else rocks your socks, go with the flow I say. Just because he doesn't like it today, doesn't mean he won't tomorrow. Mrs Inadditionto - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Watching a woman squirm and moan while I'm going down on her is the biggest turn on for me😍 Best foreplay ever!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
... Of confronting where he came from ...! GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL Blindfold him and ask him to stick out his tongue then give him a nice warm Apple Pie-not too hot...so he can actually feel what it's like. You may never know he may just eat the whole lot and ask for more.. :-) FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
...how does he feel about kissing your 'open' skin, your neck, your breasts, your thighs? It seems to me that if he enjoys, say, making love to your fingers with his mouth, he's only a nudge away from being a diligent oralist. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I must say I actually find it funny to read comments like "I can't live without it" lmfao you make it sound like its a breathing apparatus lmfao- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Best part of sex is seeing the look on a woman's face after enjoying oral, oral is unreal, :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' ...how does he feel about kissing your 'open' skin, your neck, your breasts, your thighs? It seems to me that if he enjoys, say, making love to your fingers with his mouth, he's only a nudge away from being a diligent oralist. Seems logical doesnt it.Some guys just have this active dislike of the idea of doing it ... and if that is their issue, trying to change them is never going to be long-lasting Im afraid. Sexual compatibility is something that most people rarely talk about.No idea why that is... its a fundamental pillar of a balanced relationship.Better off knowing what you're in for before you commit to a relationship with someone.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75' I love going down on a woman and hate receiving... don't know why, it's just the way it is for me. I am like this too, its a turn on for me giving oral but am a bit uncomfortable when receiving it....am i the only girl in the world (or on rhp) who feels like this??
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm totally obsessed with going downstairs. It's probably my most favourite thing to do. Feeling a woman squirm in your arms as you explore every inch is just fantastic. For me oral sex is a precursor to everything else. The intimacy of oral sex opens pandoras box.As to why he doesn't like it, it's hard to say. Past experience could be the problem. Maybe it's a safe sex thing? To answer your question, I don't know anyone that has a physiological problem with it. Is he selfish? Does he want to take everything but give nothing?
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happy0450
13 years ago
Is the bigger issue here his reluctance to discuss the issue ? Always feel so critical to be able to disucss the what, and the why Clearly not the issue with you - however the only time i have struggled is around hygine. Otherwise, really my favouriate past time, it feels very inimate and naughty. I love taking time to tease, to apply different levels of pressure and pace, to flick across her clit from side to side, up and down, or around in circles. Then at the right moment gently slidding one finger, or maybe 2 or even 3, depending on the response. Finding the allusive G spot - then that difficult brain gym monent, one direction with the tongue, another with ones fingers. Hmm, may have got a bit sidetracked from your orginonal question
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RHP User
13 years ago
gotta love it !! its always my first encounter , gotta eat it before you beat it ....
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