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Guys, your perfect woman?

July 23 2009

Please induldge me! I want to know what floats your boat in a woman!! im not just talking about looks either

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    The perfect woman must be smart but not arrogant. Have a great sense of humour Be open to trying new things not just sexually Allow her man to spend a sensible amount of time with mates without guilt Also have a life of her own so she goes out with friends when you do or whenever. Can hold a conversation without being lost in it too much of the time. A great kisser Obviously great in bed. Finally you can see your unborn children in their eyes and no one elses. I hope this satisfy's your indulgences Tool88 Mark

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    gday there. in response to your question ,what floats my boat depends on the person in question.What i like to see is respect ,and time spent.Although looks are somthing it isnt all that .You look very hot in your pic i must say and with that i probably wouldnt hesitate dating you on tha alone. BUT -what i meen about time is that although looks are some what important i have dated a girl that grew on me with time.Sexy looks . are what everyone thinks about but it dosn't meen the person is the right one...I'm one to give everyone a go and wont state large women are out although they are not my fancy.Its funny how when you first date and it turns out to become a serious relationship,that over a period of time your physic changes,and with that you still have somthing that keeps you there..Question asked is how do you really think that you have to be attracted to someone to date them, when if you take the chance and give them a little time mayb the result would be what you really would be happy with .I find people expect really to much without givng everyone that time and chance..If its sex you want then these sites would be the last place i would seek as you can really find that anywhere.wonder what females really think as where really are from another planet..

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    dead set sexy women who have no idea that they are. thats perfect

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Fitness..love women who look after there bodies. not only is it hot but it shows a lot about who they are etc So yeah basically you float my boat ;)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Be prepared Tool, cause you're gonna get a whole bunch of cheesy replies stating "You" as the ideal... =P I would have to say for me the perfect woman is someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, has a good sense of humour and can see the funny side of things. Someone who doesn't moan and whinge about insignificant crap and is not Bitchy, Snarky or Gossipy. Someone who is adventerous and spontanious (without being a complete psycho). Understands that men need to do men things, without a woman looking over their shoulder every so often. Not jealous unless given good logical reason to be. Isn't so insecure that they worry about what everyone else thinks of them or their actions. Looks after their health and body but not fanatical enough as to prevent them going out and having a good binge (either food or drink) every so once and a while. Someone who loves their friends, who is generous and giving and appreciates the effort people go to reciprocate. Have a beautiful smile, smooth skin, shining eyes and soft healthy hair. And most importantly, Someone who will love to be loved and will love back unconditionally. But in reality there is no perfect Man or Woman, so that's why I guess the key to any succesfull relationship is to willingly compramise and put the effort in, because a relationship is an investment into your happiness. You will only get out what you yourself put in...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hey tool, Brains are sexy, Looks may get you interested, but it is an inteilligebt articulate woman that keeps you interested. Secondly, a sense of humour and a sense of fun. Looks, yep they are important, but what realy floats MY boat is an inteligent articulate woman who can carry a conversation and knows how to have a laugh and some fun. Hey............. I'm lucky, my perfect woman is my best firend and wife.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Confidence! Confident enough not to hold on too tight, because she doesn't have too, Confident enough to be vulnerable when she needs too, to let someone else lead when she doesn't have too; Condifent enough to let you have secrets because they don't threaten her. The physical side is all negotiable, but I've always preferred smaller busts :D

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    A short shopping list of the things that matter to me: I think people are connected by our experiences and attracted to each other by our pheremones. Obviously there has to be a connection for there to be any chance of a relationship between us, and even if we dont know what the connection is.. we should sense it. Some people taste better than others... and you can sense that too. Someone flirty that can make me smile even when I don't feel like it. Someone sensitive that I can tell my deepest secrets to without fear of being disclosed to others or used to ridicule me when things get rough between us. Someone with similar values to mine. Someone who has an opinion... I don't need a "yes" man/woman. Someone that thinks its ok to sit on the couch for an afternoon together without feeling uncomfortable about not having jibber jabber to say to each other. Well, that's five minutes fo my time... clearly there's more... but there you go.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    A Woman!! Who can laugh at my wisecracks. Has that sparkle in her eye. Softly spoken yet confident. Generous in nature. Well developed sense of empathy. Is largely independent. Will watch Q and A with me...and understand what they are talking about. Loves live music. doesn't really need me but chooses to be with me. Petite or slim to average in build. sexually adventurous...and a bit of a deviate...lol This all sounds a lot like my partner....hmm

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    you cant beat sexy between the ears, coupled with playful, cheeky and open minded that will do me ! lol ..... and if she is bi ohhh the perfect woman !

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Pretty much what everyone has said already. If you want to know what this awesome woman looks like- Just check out our profile ; )

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    thanks for the replys! Nice to see you fella's have got it right. it was a little observation of mine that i read another topis about what floats women boats in regards to men, and they didnt ask for much at all but you guys!! my gosh! haha it's good though! nice to see guys aren't taking second best. I'm inclined to do the same now ;) *adds 10 more 'musts' to her list*

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Roughfukr1 - Oh man, you can believe me when I say I have checked out your profile! :p Hugs Gaz

  • jandv

    jandv

    16 years ago

    A great friend, someone who scrubs up nicely when you take her out. Hot and dirty in the bedroom !!!!! LOL

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Considering the range of choice available on this site, it's very difficult to pass the initial physical attribute. Having said, I like the type of man that's rare and unattainable :) Only because I like a challenge :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Tool88 you say you read what women want and it isn't much. Seems you have'nt looked at many female profiles where they have a must list that knocks out 95% of guys before they start. Must remember though this topic is asking for the 'Perfect woman', not just what the guys will accept which is a whole different matter. As for me I find it hard being with a smoker. A woman that is giving and not always wanting everything given to her on a silver platter. One that has no sexual hangups and enjoys sex regularly. Has a decent body since like attracts like. Is a happy type of person don't like negative people. Clean Not possessive or overbearing Enjoys affection Not too much to ask or is it?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hold on a sec The reason you girls were not too picky, was that the question asked was closed, ie you had 3 choices. Your question was open ended, so it is natural you would get the whole gammut of responses. Gaz-shucks you have her blushing now hehe (Special flash for you my friend ; )

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    intelligence- an ability to talk on a broad range of issues but, at the same time, be able to poke fun at everything. I am a man so physical is definetly a plus in regards to fitness, i love fit women, prefer them tall but some short are amazing too. Definetly a legs and butt man. High sex drive too love a woman who initates sex as well. I can't package a simple "what i like" - i prefer brunettes but love some blondes. It's a simple question but requires a complex answer.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    This has been an interesting forum to read. Altho of everything ive read from the guys in this forum all my friends say the same things in what is their ideal woman. Yet the problem is the perfect woman usually becomes the best friend and never the g/f lol.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    some of these replies are outstanding! thanks to the guys that put in a genuine effort to explain their desires...beautiful reading! :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Maybe i was misunderstood, i never acussed anyone of being picky. And i did say 'pefect' im well aware I was simply just making an observation on what i had seen, i was also interested in what others thought about it. And justjeans65 i think your onto something!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    A girl that doesn't expect me to have a 5 year plan that involves every tiny aspect of life you could fit in it. I'm a really cruisey guy that is happy with my life as it is. I'm sick of having girls expecting me to do things to my potential. Yeah, I get it, I'm smart, I'm creative, I can do anything if I put my mind to it. But I'm happy with things as they are at the moment. One day I might take over the world, but right now I just want to relax and have fun. Why is it so hard to find a girl that just wants to have fun and enjoy what we have right now? If we're going for perfect then I like intelligent, arty girls in bands that have good bodies and awesome style. I don't really get into typical beauty, I like my girls to look and act different to the norm. That's what really attracts me.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Tool, guys, other members of the establishment, let me settle it for you all right now.... Alexandria_d is the perfect woman!! Check out her profile. If that's doesn't scream man killer, nothing does. I thank you all warmly for your time, xx ;-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    A pulse is always a good start. From there, I'll take each person as they are. Who can define the intangible?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    rescue007, Yeah I really like the almost professionally posed pics.. but what's a "Veyron"? Warm hugs Gaz

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    My tastes are very simple..... Tattoos, not the Rose Tattoo kind on the upper arm with some barbed wire etc etc but some well drawn artwork. A killer body doesnt go astray either.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    If I found my perfect woman, I wouldn't want her as a best friend, I'd want to marry her. Unfortunately I haven't come even halfway to finding her.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    There is no such thing as the perfect women. Firstly, how many guys have been out with a women, and the women agrees with pretty much everything you want in life .. but after getting into a relationship, they start to change their tune. Most people go on looks.. so be honest. They say intelligence, quick wit, etc etc... but if it doesnt appeal to the eye first, you wont go beyond that first step. The thing that most have not said is communication. If you dont have that, then you got nothing. And sick of hearing that men dont understand a women. Of course they dont, why, cause women wont tell it like it is, instead they pussy foot around the subject but expect men to know exactly what they are talking about. You want the perfect women, the guys have to say upfront exactly what they are looking for .. and not to change at all. And if women cant accept that, tough luck. Women are the ones who change their minds all the time to suit themselves no matter how young or old they are - and yet they say the guys change... no they dont, they will always be the same guys right from the begining to the end (and thats what most women dont like .. as they like them to be clay .. for them to be moulded into what they want). Remember looks fade, people get wrinkles, grey hair, a bit of flab etc with age... so what you see now ... you may not see in 20-40 years time... Just be totally honest (remember - Communication is the exact thing - and if you dont have that, you dont have anything).

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i don't beleive anyone can be "Perfect" for another person, there will allways be the little things that demonise a relationship to some degree. I reckon its all about compromise, guys and girls....chuck the bloody lists away where all flawed in some way.....find someone you can mostly be happy with! and will love you for who you are. Cheers nev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Gav - top geAr ran an awesome top speed run of the veyron - you tube it ;) it's recently been outdone as the fastest production car, garaunteed 417kmh. And has nothing on Alex ;p

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    There's some truth in that old saying about men wanting “a lady in the pallor (socially), a chef in the kitchen and a slut (or a tart) in the bedroom”. Yeah there’s that undefinable something that attracts you to another person in the first place but I think ultimately the perfect woman for you does become your best friend. I don’t see why it shouldn’t work the other way around, just us fellas are probably to dumb to see what’s right in front of us so justjeans65 and Tool88 if your attracted to a male who’s your best friend, go for it. As to what it is that makes a woman perfect. I don’t really know what it is and I think is different for everybody. I’ve known women with model good looks that I’ve found unattractive, but I’m sure other blokes would overlook whatever flaws I saw. On the other side I’ve known women who many might say were not attractive but I’ve been drawn to them anyway

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Tool88....Thats my answer....you look perfect to me.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I can say i found the perfect woman for me. To start with , she is my best friend, great mother, highly intelligent and we can discuss and talk about anything. We both been in marriages before and so look at a relation in a differend way, my wife is a bit af a perfectionist and hates falior. As a result she works very hard every day to make us happy, on top of that she earns a few 100K a year, has the most perfect body i ever could dream of. I get sex whenever i want and she likes to experiment new stuff.  She is bi and so like that she forfills my dream of sharing with other women. She also gave me the most beautiful and high intelligent son. there is no way anyone can top my girl  :-D I'm so proud of her. A

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I have to agree there is no such thing as perfection. But for me the the right woman would have the following. great sense of humor, easy too talk to. Great personality . Knows how to have fun and be adventureous in and out of the bedroom. Hey and if the are attractive that would be a plus  but not inportant.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Craftsman9'The perfect woman must be smart but not arrogant. Have a great sense of humour Be open to trying new things not just sexually Allow her man to spend a sensible amount of time with mates without guilt Also have a life of her own so she goes out with friends when you do or whenever. Can hold a conversation without being lost in it too much of the time. A great kisser Obviously great in bed. Finally you can see your unborn children in their eyes and no one elses. I hope this satisfy's your indulgences Tool88 Mark

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    1.  Wear a dress with flowers on it. 2.  Cook me a nice meal.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Nice eyes and a genuine smile, a little cheeky with a mischievous sense of humour, caring, not nasty, intelligent, built like a woman, loves to hug and cuddle, enjoys lots of foreplay, funloving, adventurous and without hangups. That's about it.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You don't hang out on the Sam in the city blog do you?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You forgot to mention 'Mute and submissive'.... Dude, even I do poste shit like that one. You are in trouble now- girls   (at least femisnists/aggrobig ones etc   :-))  gonna have you decapitated..... :-)  Start running now boy. They are on their way....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    They say beggers can't be choosers. But as long as I'm not begging, hell it can't hurt to have a checklist more vast the black hole. The Galactic kind. She must possess the ability to recite Shakespearean quotations on demand. Be able to move one eyeball at a time. Fluent in Bengalian, Church Slavonic, Kataang and Cuban. An in depth knowledge, and highly trained in the art of fencing. As in the flimsy swordsmanship sport. However, a raised eyebrow shall be cast should she be able to erect a straight fence. Generally facial hair such as a moustache is not favoured.. however on such evenings as 'Mexican' night, they'll be of distinct advantage. Same goes with redheads. You shall remain in the closet until 'Scottish' nights. Alive. Will fluctuate in a crowded elevator. Preferably in my absense. Blow fire. Blow glass. Will blow up letterboxes with me. Aside from that.. she can be short, round, tall, brown, plump, thin, sporting a Dolmio grin. Big, petite, curvatious, sweet, dust her off boys.. she's not obsolete. All girls need a little lovin'. Good day.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    For me the perfect woman would be; A woman who is balanced and in control of her emotions A woman who is independent and secure A woman who is a free thinker and is able to formulate her own opinions A woman who is driven, constantly looks to improve, succeed and achieve A woman who is vivacious and confident with her body A woman who is encouraging and supporting That's it....the dream gal.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    eye's as sharp as lighting and a mind to match.a body so well looked after you'd swear it was uncle robert's vintage rolls royce.a voice that would have made nina simone give up singing.biceps that hide like a paris jewel thief but leap into action when duty calls.a quivering, warm, wet cunt that would be an excellent extra in a ridley scott film.a catalogue of ideas that will keep me happily in ponder mode for a minor age when she leaves.LRE (asks for nothing)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    is a caboose with no beginning and no end..... preferably mute.

  • fl37ch

    fl37ch

    16 years ago

    why would you want to know or even care tool88, as you profile clearly states that you are not interested in men, or are you yet another one of these so - called 'bi' women ... hahahah!!! LOL

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    rescue007 : you're too kind ..  :) gazpacho41 : a "Veyron" is a very expensive toy.

  • Trent_23

    Trent_23

    16 years ago

    alright here it goes   for me its - sexy - funny - caring - honest - shares some of the same intrestes as me i.e sport - can accept and love me for who i am   guess she is out there somewhere

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    My girl mel .We are both from long term marriges that lost the spark So i guess we have spoke about the issues that we faced when we were married to our ex partners .Now we do all the opporsite comunicate ,do different things together,laugh honesty,ect ect my perfect woman is mel

  • kassmebits

    kassmebits

    16 years ago

    I vote for Mel too, my perfect woman!!!!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hi tool, iut's that x factor known as pizazz, that sparkle in the eye, that one tone in a laugh that makes it unique and genuine, the confidence to accept happiness even if its not what they thought they wanted

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Wow some really good replies here - first 2 seem to sum it up thoughI think there is a perfect partner for any individual, i'd go so far to say there is not just one perfect person but many. The chances of actually meeting many are very slim so best to jump in head over heals with any potentials you do come across!!!I think we all need different things to compliment ourselves and also to challenge so we keep growing. A perfect relationship is a mix of everything mentioned above. I'd also add that it is essential for both people to be self-aware. There's no happy ending in meeting the perfect woman if the man doesn't know himself. I've been fortunate to meet some amazing women over time and I'd consider a lot of them as damn close to perfect BUT they were not perfect for me at that stage of my life. I've been with the perfect woman for 10 years now as we met at a time we could both fit into each other and had the maturity and tenacity to hold on to each other for the wild ride ahead.Now, with tongue firmly planted in cheek...if I had to hazard a guess to the perfect woman for US the Tool baby you've gotta be in the running!!! (Hmmm our tongues would love to be firmly planted elsewhere ;) )

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Elvira

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'princevaliant' 1.  Wear a dress with flowers on it. 2.  Cook me a nice meal. i love it!! haha

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    the perfect girl ahhhh well someone sweet, caring and loving, enjoys quiet nghts in and fun nights out. would love to be spoilt rotten, and loves movies. would recite lines from movies like i do. someone who has thier head screwed on stright and is going somewhere in life. must have beautiful eyes, and soft touch, yet also a rough play fighting side. someone who wants to share it all with you, not just keep it to them self. they must be loyal

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'fletch0004' why would you want to know or even care tool88, as you profile clearly states that you are not interested in men, or are you yet another one of these so - called 'bi' women ... hahahah!!! LOL I'm not interested in single men on here messaging meWhats with the hostility? Am i not allowed to ask a question regardless of my sexual preference? grow up

  • singlewood

    singlewood

    16 years ago

    Well to me its pretty easy1. someone who listens to my mind2. someone who speeks her mind3. confident enough to when to be and when not to be assertive4 someone who never has a "HEADACHE"5. someone who is not a closed door in that are willing to talk listen and experiment6. loving

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Perfection is in the eye of the beholder... and each women offers a fresh opportunity to re-examine ones own definition. for me.... and in no particular order.... 1. She has a voice and is not afraid to use it as an extension of her mind. 2. open minded and either an active or latent sense of adventure - open to the possibilities that another person can bring to her life. 3. physically attractive to me - whatever that is at the time 4. happy in herself - even if not happy in her life. Theres more but no need to bore....... Not sure if that makes me picky or not...... is just 2b . Cheers, 2b :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    To be honest i find myself gagging at the soppy goo im about to write but its true.The perfect woman has nothing to do with looks. Nor has it to do with sexual preferences or what she does for you. ITS AS SIMPLE AS THIS...... its a woman who can make you so happy that you don't notice anything else but how happy she makes you feel

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    your love for me is undebateable your sexual appetite is insationable you never ever make me wait at all delectable inflatable you!   you dont have problems with your weigth at all. you never steal food off my plate at all I never have to masturbate at all unstoppable inflateable you   you never seem to menstruate at all so your not angry when im late at all i feel permenently flatable unpoppable inflateable you   etc tim minchin nailed it!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hmmm, could be several different perspectives depending on contexts, eh? I particualry enjoy the psychology, or thrill of the chase, or teasing and flirting...and encouraging your perfect woman to flirt, dress sexily etc. around other men and giving her the freedom to feel aroused by others, which oddly enough, means a hotter time for you...I like to fuel the infernos lol...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hi All :)   GREAT comment 2ballons >Perfection is in the eye of the beholder< !!!!!  So So true   For me there are two sides to it, Have to have attraction in both physically and spiritually,   Physically - Women between sizes 12 to 18 - Average size breasts b to d - A woman who knows she is attractive but doesn't walk around with tickets on herself - Really like two toned hair (brunette's with alot of blonde highlights (mmmmm So hot) - Must take care of herself (eating healthy etc)  but realise life is also about having fun and will let herself binge now and then when the situation calls for it - Deep eyes - Silky skin that feels beautiful to touch - Great sex ;)   Spiritually - MUST be able to connect with them - Must have a great vibe about the person - Positive and happy person (I know everyone has bad days but in general I mean) - Able to laugh at things including herself - Able to lose ourselfs in a conversation/debate with each other (lose track of time because were just so connected) - Open minded, Wants to keep experiencing new things in life (both sexually and non-sexual things) - Believes similar things to me or happy to accept what i belive and not look down on it or try to convert me etc - Someone who is grounded (Not bitchy, jealous or not much negative crap without reason) - Wants me but doesn't Need me and makes me feel wanted - NOT a Victim with life - Connects during sex   And I also belive that no one is perfect but Someone can/Does have all the above (doesn't mean every single thing about them is perfect still lol) but that's were compromise and communication keep the relationship great :)   Cyas   Hihellogday :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Tool88,   After looking at your profile I'm thinking you would pretty much float my boat! Puppy (Mrs) and Mrs go fot it are also in the same category.   However, I have to be honest and say you never know until you meet someone. My mates think I am wierd and as a male you can meet the most attractive woman and something about her just doesn't do it for you.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kimosabe ...pls explain??? would be nice to see your picture..   The perfect woman is somebody who makes one  happy.....!!! and  look forward to seeing her when you are apart.   Best Mates!!! yep     .....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kimosabe ...pls explain??? would be nice to see your picture..   The perfect woman is somebody who makes one  happy.....!!! and  look forward to seeing her when you are apart.   Best Mates!!! yep     .....

  • Innercircle

    Innercircle

    16 years ago

    Mrs Rockercouple!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hi ya Tool88,   A woman for me should have a good sense of humor, with a decent personility & have good outlook on life. There,s no such thing as the perfect woman for anyone. If there was the world would be less fascinating.  There must be chemistry between us & I like a woman with an open sexual outlook & not be obsessive & know that I will trust her. The woman will need to be confident &  not be afraid of her man(unlike some).   I bet you'll get a few guys say "you" as they only view your pic not using their brain. On that note, I do like a woman to be attractive (in the eye of beholder) with good self esteem (not easy - if you get my drift)        Finally I would like to know what your supposed perfect man would be? Cheers Ondy (Dreammerchant)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i was going to try and write something witty funny and honest but kjandnev echoed my sentiments beautifully some great comments......awsome read

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I think the difficulty (read: intriguing and contentious therefore winning formula) with a topic like this is that it forces you to choose between two parts of yourself that shouldn't really be brought into conflict. I'm not a fan of generalisations but I hope you'll allow it if I say that the two main camps here; that side of you that has learned the hard way or has seen it go right and wrong and has been collecting the details like some ironically twisted version of Cluedo such that getting to your heart is like getting into an exclusive celebrity club with your own version of the American idol panel of judges out front; and that other side that has taken those experiences and taken the time to turn them around in your mind, to investigate and analyse and realise that moments, by definition, have no future that if you can love and lose more than once there must be something inherently similar about the process of falling 'for' another person and that as risk is prevalent no matter who you choose, there's more fun to be had in taking it easy and letting go of yourself a little. Don't get me wrong I find it difficult to take sides here as the details-oriented crowd (which is more my experience) may suffer less contact for their high ideals but will more likely survive with a healthy and unscarred level of trust for those they choose to have and hold, but how will they cope if perfection can't be attained or is ripped asunder by some unseen hand or ultimate transgression? - nobody wants to end up in a house of cards. Then again, the other side of the argument certainly seem more likely to achieve some semblance of balance in life in that a wider net is cast, the game becomes more like a 4-dimensional version of Twister than a detective story and as you're willing to take the good with the bad, getting burned, having things turn upside-down and inside-out just doesn't scare you as easily by the third or fourth time. In reading the responses here and elsewhere in similar topics I can't help feeling that the undercurrent has more to do with how confident you are in your own ability to keep moving forward, resolving those questions that plague the approach of a new decade; what should define me as a 20, 30, 40, 50 year old; how unique do I have to be without falling into obscurity or mediocrity? I certainly feel like I've reiterated what's already been mentioned by more astute members above and elsewhere in the forum, and I'm aware that long passages sometimes reek of arrogance and conceit, So my apologies if this isn't to your liking :) The shortlist is; Jet-black shoulder-length hair unkempt in that just-woke-up kind of way; almond-shaped blue-grey eyes that linger just right, a smile that fades in and out of barely there sexy allure and compassion; I'm sure there are many others but just these would get me over to the other side of the fence with the whatever happens happens crowd!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    "Such a question could be considered quiet deep, from perusing the diffent responses from the varying females - which I would see as very hard not to respond.Anyway, people are allowd to their oppinions without any judgemental disapproval.Whether you are going for looks that hav thick wallets or a mind, body & soul fun times about them, it shouldn't be skoffed @, butt, humans being humans - can't resist. My qualities in a female, if she is out their and having a twenty two year fashion history is.................... *A great sense of humour - that can make me laugh * Her own sense of confident interlect & passion for what she believes in - in life * Has her own fashion statement & takes an firm interest in he appearence in a manicuring way.*Gives as much luv as she recieves in a genuine way * Willing to hav open discussions to the difficulties and postitives in a r/ship. *A blonde bob ( servere is good or the traditional is good) both air (to me) a higher degree of confidence...with black eyebrows. * Petite * 36b - 24/25 - 35/36. Sumone that is willing to aid in building open minded futher as two genuine energies beating as one. Now!!! the trick is...Is this person a figment script of one of my short novel, romance verses or cards written, that's the tricky labyrinth thinking. If, & I hope my genie is real. 28.7.10..." ReverandLust.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well for me thats an easy one,,,,, any female who acts the way she would every other day,she is who she is and does'nt change herself to try and impress a guy she attracts a guy for who she is and the way lives every day. To me that what a ( PERFECT WOMAN IS ) someone who is herself everyday of her life, because i don't change who i am to impress a girl so why should they do the same to try and impress us. I believe we are who we are for a reason and thats what should attract the opposite sex, not some fake image of what someone wants us to be or would like us to be. After all i think there are enough poeple in this big wide country for some one to find exactly what they are looking for it might take a bit of time but you will find it,so i think poeple should be who they are. And they will find there perfect someone who they are looking for.