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How Can I Find a Female Partner or Couple to Visit a Swingers Club in Melbourne?

February 26 2025

I’d love to hear from those with experience: • What are the best ways to meet couples or single women who are open to this lifestyle? Especially in this app? • Are there specific clubs or events in Melbourne that are more welcoming to newcomers? • What should I know about etiquette, expectations? If you’ve been in this space before, I’d appreciate any tips or insights you can share! Looking forward to hearing your thoughts. Thanks

Comments

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    one year ago

    Go to a swingers club / party on a night that they allow single males in. As opposed to finding a woman to take along, so that you can gain entry to a couples party / club masquerading as a couple. Most of the clubs now do NOT allow the male half, if an alleged couple, to go into the play areas without his female companion. For good reason!

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    one year ago

    My thoughts on this subject is why not just concentrate on finding a girlfriend to start with and enjoy her for what she is not where she can get you and just wanting a girlfriend or partner to enter the lifestyle ,I’d like to add a ffs but apparently that’s not a positive comment ,😡

  • LiveLifeNow28

    LiveLifeNow28

    one year ago

    Wow the judgement in these comments. You don’t need to find a girlfriend to enter this lifestyle. You can meet someone online here and organise to meet up at an event or venue. Or a couple. We have done this and it worked well. Try Wet on Wellington on Thursday nights or Between Friends bar. But going with a couple is the best way to get a taste of it and see if it is for you.

  • Felicitous

    Felicitous

    one year ago

    Wow so much sinicism from others...🙄😳 Like EVERY person on here is supposed to already know the nuances of this crazy world that takes others years to unveil! God forbid any questions are asked about the way things work.. . The questions seemed to be phrased in a sincerely genuine .. 'I'm curious way'. If Op is new to the scene and trying to understand it's expectations and intricaseas why not ask them? Perhaps some less judgemental tips could be employed Like... ' OP at these events genuine couples are favored over strangers entering as one' 'If you want a girl to accompany you, be prepared to pay for her time and ticket unless you have a connection and she's looking for company to take her' Some events males can attend alone. Depending.. cost can be steep. Check out the events page and post a date.. to see if anyone is interested. Seekandplay's suggestion is great.... - read up as much as you can. P.s being a guest doesn't generally help guys approach as most women are guests. P.P.s Saying you're here for a fun time / not a long time isn't very enticing. Some work on your profile might increase your chances for connecting. Search the forum for profile tips.

  • seekandplay

    seekandplay

    one year ago

    There are lots of ways to get into this wonderful world, and there are plenty of ways as a single male but it definitely is a lot harder! So, you’re going to have to learn to be patient. There are venues, but generally you need to be partnered or wait for a singles male night. Between Friends Wine Bar will often open up to single men, so keep an eye on their website. Wet on Wellington will only allow 5 single males on their couples night, at a steep price of $350. Shed16 is another venue to look at. You’ll also find there are social events, mixers etc that are a good way to get to know people in a social setting before jumping in to a sex party or venue. There are also private parties that you can attend, again generally you need to be vetted. There are quite a few advertised on RHP, so start dipping your toes into parties as that’s where you’ll mingle with couples and singles. As I also mentioned, the Melbourne Swingers Reddit page is a really good starting point. That’s what opened up this whole world for me - I didn’t know what RHP was until I found it on that Reddit page. If you want more info, just message me.

  • Number456

    Number456

    one year ago

    Pay someone bro,