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I want to experience a woman without my husband

February 22 2010

How do I tell my husband that I want to experience a woman with him. We did this when we were younger, but he spent too much time on the other woman. And he really just wanted me to watch.  I want to be the main one in the action. Any suggestions?

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  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    16 years ago

    i highly recommend the pillow talk for such conversations, you know straight after you have blown his mind with hot sex???just be honest and explain that you are curious to give it a try and that it is just that you think you will feel more comfortable on your own (also helps if you promise details afterward) i am sure if you are honest and upfront and don't make it as though he has failed in some way he will be supportive of your fantasy, can also help to ask if there is anything that he would like to try, maybe as a reward for letting you live out your dream he could have something fun in return (give and take).Anyway good luck with it, hope it works out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Tie him to a chair and cut him loose when you are both ready.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Make him watch you with another man and then tell him you want another woman!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    have some respect for your husband, do not do it, or i can guarantee he will leave you. I would!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Take him in your mouth , bring him to the point he will blow his load if you mention you and another woman at that point !!  sheeez i almost did !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thats a strange comment coming from a man that wants to experience a couple!   I would tell your husband - have a frank and honest discussion and then when you find the right woman for you all meet together and have a drink and a chat so he is more comfortable with the idea.   Good luck.   Pusscat

  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    16 years ago

    how is it you can say such a thing when you don't even know her husband??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Did he have any respect for her when he was with another woman and wanted her to watch??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ooh i think stalkys idea is the best! lol ...and the most fun.. hmm so maybe mention to your husband over coffee or brekky or sumthin that u would liketo try a ffm again but u would like to choose the other lady this time and u hav a bit of a fantasy u want to play out? but u want it to be a surprise for him.. could give him a few hints, tease him :)...then go for it girl! go hav that amazing mind blowing 3sum that u deserve cause that last 1 u had sounded like a bit of a dud ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i want you to go sit in the corner...in whitehawks old chair

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hahaha... Milky was a free spirit and took instructions, or directions, or advice for that matter, from no-one. The kind of guy who ran his own race uncontested... and I miss him!   But ShynSly is also winning me over. Gotta love the consistency despite all adversity!   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    THAT SOUNDS LIKE GOOD ADVICE.   IF HE CAN WATCH YOU GETTING WELL AND TRULY FUCKED AND BE HAPPY FOR YOU, THEN YOU HAVE REALLY FOUND A GOOD GUY.  AFTER ALL, YOU WANT TO REALLY SAVOR THAT MOMENT AND REMEMBER THE GOOD ONES.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If my beautiful wife told me she wanted to introduce a woman into the room for a threesome, i would leave her too-YEAH RIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT THINK NOT!hehehe, just dusting off Whiteys chair for ya shynaughty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'SORRENTOSEXY'i want you to go sit in the corner...in whitehawks old chair   You see the resemblance to whiteys hall of shame replies.. I was starting to think I was seeing things.. Or just going rhp bonkers.   Lmao...   Pixie xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    JUST WHAT I WANT!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    YEAH THAT'S THE WAY TO GO/

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    we must not be to quick to judge without hearing shynaughty reasoning for not letting a woman bring a another woman home to play with in front of hubby. was there a bad experience we dont know about? there are does and donts with a unknow lady, like...if she drops a condom on the floor be careful picking it up if she's wearing the strapon, thats just to name one. who can think of another one???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Do not do it?????  Why would he leave me, for bringing another woman into the bedroom?    He is a male after all?     Tie him to a chair...I like that and am sure he would too I can see him coming before he got near us.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    shybutnaughty, You can't be serious !!! I say go girl.   I'd love mi girl to come home and tell me she has played with another woman, OH wait, she has done that!!!, Giddy up, and do it again!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Looks like I am organising a girls night out on Friday!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think shybutnaughty88 has misunderstood the meaning of the word "non-judgemental"......But as for toomuchtime...make it into HIS fantasy...I love the tying him to the chair idea...both of you girls work on him....then do your thing...or the three of you get on the bed....then you girls tie his hands to the bedhead...and even better if you two got it on....ON TOP OF HIM!!He would have a close up view....but couldn't do anything!!!God...even I would love that!!JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ahahahahahaahahahahahahahadeputy Earl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    CRACK!...i'm ready for some ball stompingQuoting 'shybutnaughty88' have some respect for your husband, do not do it, or i can guarantee he will leave you. I would! BULLFUCK!!...(excuse me ladies)...you'd be in there...tongue hanging out...panting, getting all hard...and why shouldn't she do it...i'm just dusting off whitey's chair...it's been so lonely of late...soon, i think i'll be rounding up a posse...(spelt it right this time)theSHERIFF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You are right guys!!!!!!!!   You go for it love.........   My husband does'nt mind me playing with girls on my own!!!!!!!!   He likes the juicy details later, gets of on it.......   M & S xxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    start from wherever point you are comfortable , but start talking about last time when you were younger....what you liked and what you didn't....then tell him how you would like to do it again and how you would like it to go this time....and tell him why....if he wont do it.. tell him he is being unreasonable lol ... 2b :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Gwadddd...Not another Hoppers Crossing nut job!   must be something in the water there...   I  lilke 2b thinking!   And the chair idea.   I have straps to tie ya hubby to the bed..wanna a loan?   LOL..   Huggies   sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think his husband must of left him ?   How can you say something like that when you dont even know the person or couple in the situation. Get a life dude

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    have just read all these responses and they all have their own merit what do i think? my girlfriend asked about a lady to play with, wow every mans dream so my mates all said when the subject was brought up me , well hadnt really thought about it so we met a young lady and we played and played, and played, and she moved in , for about three years the young lady we met moved on and my relationship with my girlfriend changed forever. WE GOT MARRIED , fifteen years ago still married , happily and still playing from time to time best thing i ever did. Mr shewants2play