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Is Confidence Sexier Than Size?

April 22 2010

I want to know (as per Pervette's question)..Is confidence in a woman sexier than a womans size...big or small? Do you guys prefer girls that gym it 5 days a week and have rock hard abs and an arse you could bounce a 20 cent piece off? The girls in Playboy or most car magazines? That worries about how many calories she has had for the day? Or...do you prefer a larger or voluptuous woman that is full of confidence and is happy with her body without gyming it? Would you like to take a girl out that will eat nothing but a salad or a woman who is happy to woof down a hearty meal in front of you? Does size really matter? xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Nice question Funloving,I myself prefer a woman who isn't worried about what she eats and knows that her man is with her because its her and not something from a magazine cover.Confident in themselves and their body shape and they know this is what attracts a male to them and they can use this particular set of assets to keep him coming back for more but it can also be the way she thinks and an awesome mind is such a beautiful thing.PK !!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Nice tight hard bodies are fun, don't get me wrong...all of you girls are hot in your own right...but the Rubenesque ladies rock it for me...specially when they know they look good and Work it. ;-) But I love you all ladies. :-* :-D

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I would say confidence wins for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    confidence for me,size doesnt really matter.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    thats a gym junkie. not to say i wouldn't but so far the onesi have met have been up them selves and not willing to talk tothe person. my experience is limited, granted and i am sure thereare some realy hot women that would like to be with a rough neckwith a decent heart. but i over it. i look at you personality firstand what ever you look like can be a bonus but never a negatoryfuckin gettin philisophical again.thats why i don't drink. have a good ANZAC weekend peoplesand LEST WE FORGET.Earl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    U kinda asked a question I've been wondering and Roxxy and I fight over the phone about. I'm as paranoid as they come and she is always telling me i am stupid and I'm the prettiest "fat" chick she knows and yes she is allowed to say that as we are open with each other no bull shitting. I'm amazed so far at the answers WOW! You mean guys would actually say yeah I'm ok being as I am?????Nice to know really. Also I am large but do not eat large meals or make too many unhealthy food choices.I appear confident with how I present myself but not all what it seems. I guess I truly see men more shallow than what they appear to be so to those that take in heart and inner beauty and outer and ignore size......MMMMMWAHHHH

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Great question Funloving.. For me it is about being true about yourself...All i ask is if your big than say it..If it is alittle extra padding say it..There is nothing like a suprise when you meet later..Inital contact on rhp is done via email anyway.. then a phone call so you try and connect without a sighting..But if we are discussing what we like about sex etc etc we also talk about the pics i.e being recent so you can get a good visual.. Does this make sense ?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I`ve had my super model girl friend days their just to much work to keep them,give me a women thats confident and oozes sex appeal I dont believe shape nor size has anything to do with it Think sexy are sexy. I believe sexy is and attitude more than a look .I find larger and voluptuous women have very sexy phone voices cheers colt

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Bubbles hon, you'll do fine. I've seen your pics and yer as cute as a bugs ear!!!!!! Only problem is finding what you want in Taz. My sister complains all the time that there's not enough of what she wants in Tassie. Yer a hottie hon! RIDE IT LIKE IT'S STOLEN!!!!!! hehehehehe Mrs S xx Awww that's adorable thank you, as for bugs ears??? We talking Da rabbit or creepy crawlies as i do hope if creepy crawlies its like a Lady Bird LOL I love blowing Bubbles sad aye when i walk to the shop with my kids to buy MYSELF Bubbles to blow and have to begrudgingly share he he heOk so on the topic of Tassie men it's Slim pickings BADLY!!! Majority of men live in days of Dark ages think they still think its the era of The Cavemen. They rarely take care of their looks etc. I don't care if a man is Skinny or Large for god sake dress better use this thing called antiperspirant!!! Also how about some cologne when going out etc, Not Avon shit from 20 years ago sitting in the back of your mothers cupboard. Yet these men think they are entitled to something beyond their grasp and want a woman well kept and model material too funny they are so far unrealistic yet they get about like like a hobo. Manners from hell i could keep going yet the newer generation of men they care bout their hair and how they dress like back in the old times 1920's though dress different but pride in themselves. Obviously the good ones are gone to the barbie dolls. Bubbles

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I must admit that I opened this thread with trepidation, fearing that I would have to spend time elaborating about an artist with his brush versus a painter with a spray gun. Thank heavens this is about a preference in women! In truth, a woman that exudes confidence in herself, is witty, charming and can carry on a conversation in spite of the occassional lulls is by far the most attractive! It is tragic that we are inudated with a belief system of perfection. What is that and by whose standards? Personally I will choose my own over those preconceptions that, in the main, are the work of now unemployed Madison Avenue MBAs in the advertising industry. And here we thought the GFC would not have some trickle down benefit? The definition of beauty is not solely held in the eyes of the beholder...but rather the eyes are a gateway to the heart. We are fortuate to have so many very beautiful women in all shapes and sizes in this world. xFunlovingX you are truly amongst them.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Was the question most asked when I explained I looked different from my photos because I had lost weight. Forget about size. If the guys want an athletic type they will say so in their profile. Confidence is very sexy no matter what gender you are. And by the way. I still have my curves.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I'm a bit of a fussy guy and shy. I've slept with women who I wasn't attracted to at first glance but they won me over with their confidence - it made them damn sexy as hell. It's not about abs and gym work - yes that will improve your self esteem but many shy girls go to the gym too. If a girl knows how to flirt and it looks like she knows she'll show you a good time, how do you say no to that? Do you find confident men attractive? j

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'quietcolt' I believe sexy is and attitude more than a look .I find larger and voluptuous women have very sexy phone voices cheers coltCan't quite say I have a sexy phone voice ya know the days of Tape recorders Waaaaay back in the days and you could record yourself or your fave song on the radio...I scared myself hearing my voice.See i have heard weight is no issue etc but then I dunno the people I have met which is only few are kinda suprised as if they thought me saying I wasn't little over weight was just a woman being a woman "Oh does My butt look big" kinda thing. Yet strangely one guy we had ....."fun" we are mates now he was overly keen on me and then we met it was great had fun and he stayed and was keen to drive hour to me following weeks but as for relationship and no matter how much we can enjoy time together and do stuff with my kids and myself, it wasn't going to be anymore than that as wasn't his body type.Yet good enough for friends and other activities if you catch my drift....so as much as you men pour out the compliments I take anything that is said to me like a grain of salt and also know the possibilties of you saying same thing to others is high. I believe u got more chance of a relationship u truly desire with someone bigger as they are usually loving loyal and keen to pls and I read somewhere on a thread that someones partner sex drive went down with weight gain...I can't find a man who can keep up !!! Bubbles

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    As a mate of mine used to say: gimme hips and tits!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    From your pics that I can see you're gorgeous, from your forum posts and support it seems you're confident outgoing and have a great personality, run with it! I completely get what you're saying about the guy who is happy to do all the relationship things EXCEPT for the relationship and i've been there myself and i took me a long time to realise it was me holding him away and using excuses fro him..know what I mean. Your gorgeous, go for what you want, you cant lose because at the end of the day you will have what you already have or you will have more :) Ps. i'm often on varying ends of the scale and my confidence prevails over my body size any day of the week :) Its cliche but you gotta love yourself for other to love you :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    What is important for a woman (esp sexually) is her libido and how that can be affected by her ego/attitude/self-image and the like. If you look into a mirror while naked and critisize yourself/the look of you, naturally your confidence is going to take a fall. Correspondingly your attitude alligns itself with 'how could anyone else like me?' and the libido drops. The ego can go either way from boisterousness to self-pity to out-in-out denial. I like the look of all women. what can be ugly is whats inside(as outlined above) Again, nothing is wrong with anyone, lest thinking make it so.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Confidence cannot be faked. Thats the problem. once you realise you dont care what others think...thats when all the men seem interested. They just want women to realise what they have...just by being them. In my experience...and I am no skinny gym girl..ive got children and a mummy tummy...its only me who really notices it. We notice our floors...the men dont... SO, just be yourself girl. Be happy in the body you have and the men will see that... Mrs S xxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I tend to find women who are confident & comfortable with themselves a LOT more attractive regardless of size.Many larger women (including my wife ) are sexy. My wife seems to never have a problem picking up & it appears to be her attitude & confidence (although in her case it's almost arrogance...lol) that makes her popular with the boys. I know that is what attracted me to her. As far as relationships go I've never thought of as body shape or size as being my defining criteria for deciding if I'm goig to get involved with a woman or not it always comes down to the connection you feel

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Very similar to the other recent thread. I've only ever slept with one woman who could be classed as a gym junkie. She oozed confidence and wasnt just a salad eater so she was great. To the point it was her that dragged me to the bedroom the first timme we met. I find with largwer women there is a bit of both. Some are happy in themselves and that is great, then there are the ones that can't stop complaining about themselves. So the confident ones sure give me them, the complainers can go complain to someone else. I would say the same about the gym junkies but the only ones I have known have all been confident in themselves.One last thing I do not like is profiles where the woman is obviously larger and they put down that they are average size. Maybe they have a warped idea of what average is but it puts me off because it is like they are lying to themselves and others. I remember seeing one profile that looked like she would be at least 120kg and she had a little extra padding or something like that. One look at the pic and you thought this girl is huge. Being true to herself and others she should put large. That in itself shows a bit of confidence. I would prefer a profile where they say they are larger and don't have a problem with it compared with one that they look large but they say they aren't.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thanks for your sweet words and kind opinions PollyannaEveryone has certain;y had some interesting views....think I should Leave Tassie HA HA HABubbles xxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It goes for men too...I find confidence (not arrogance) in a man very sexy regardless of his body shape or size. Huge turn on to have my brain cells nuzzled :) BUT...there also has to be a physical chemistry. To get both confidence and chemistry in the one man...woohoo!!! Jx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    So what does this man want. I have always been an admirer of larger woman. All the ones I know have had a strong sexual confidence and were also very comfortable in their skin. They were fun and lively and a joy to be with. I also found them intelligent and engaging to say the least. I haven't had much that success with slim people. The ones I have known tend to be focused on the body beautiful. Its a bit hard to have a relationship with someone that cares more about their self image. I just wish more women that I am interested in would get out there and embrace their bodies and their sexual beings.As for Bubbles my dear, you are gourgeous as you are. I just wish you lived a little closer. I can cook and clean, great with kids, and adore the female form in all its glory. I also have learnt to bath and shave.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It's almost common knowledge by now that I much prefer women with curves but I have seen some alarming self esteem problems in the gym junkie types. I stay away from the body perfect types, I have found them more often than not to have serious socialising and self esteem hang ups. I have little time for people who consider themselves a better class of person because they are slimmer, prettier, more handsome or better built than others. Someone who can express their true deviate, their dark desires and true self will get and hold my attention. As I've said many times, 36-24-36..... Only if she's 5'1"....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'thegardener68' As for Bubbles my dear, you are gourgeous as you are. I just wish you lived a little closer. I can cook and clean, great with kids, and adore the female form in all its glory. I also have learnt to bath and shave. He he he Thank u gardener very cute lil message for me and appreciated if I was older I would be thinking rather deeply and considering "The Chase" Ha Ha Nice to know some men out there can cook and clean though I like to do most of that myself but good when you have a gentleman willing to help out.... Can't remember the last meal that was cooked for me more so last meal a man cooked me. The bath and Shave bit cracked me up!!! Though I like some men unshaven lil rough round the edges look can be dam sexy....just clean in hygiene is a must.BUBBLESQuoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged' As I've said many times, 36-24-36..... Only if she's 5'1"....Ha Ha You Like Sir Mix Alots Baby Got Back song I gather??? LMAO ! Only larger woman I know who doesn't complain about her weight is Roxxy so there are other bigger ladies who are happy with how they Look? WOW! Good on them that's not me though.A lot of women just go to the gym to stay fit and unwind or some to get away from kids and husband for time to herself, nothing wrong with being somewhat conscious of your health. I love the gym just lack motivation and drive to go when I get free time especially boxing and weights but Im one of those people who likes having someone to do it with and push me as in challenge me though I still gob off and say screw you but deep down I LOVE IT! HaBUBBLES

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Bubbles baby....we need to move...look lots of men that love "fat chicks"...yes i did say that...whooo hooo or better yet buttercup....a holiday....with a new man in each port...melbourne stop over first please hehe and then where ever the hell Holsworthy and Taree are lol roxxy xxx....of to check out ruggedly's profile again...god i love that tee shirt

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'geturroxyoff' Bubbles baby....we need to move...look lots of men that love "fat chicks"...yes i did say that...whooo hooo or better yet buttercup....a holiday....with a new man in each port...melbourne stop over first please hehe and then where ever the hell Holsworthy and Taree are lol roxxy xxx....of to check out ruggedly's profile again...god i love that tee shirt Yeah a holiday. Taree is 3 hours north of Sydney on the coast, 25 degree here today, no need to have erect nipples just because the weather is cold, more than enough room at this inn for a pair of lovely ladies like yourselves.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    If you hang out in a gym you get to meet lots of curvacious volumptuous women who are wet and sweaty as well as determined and confident and this makes them as sexy as all get up even though they dont have an arse hard enough to crack walnuts on. Great company in my opinion. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thanks to everyone that contributed to this post. I know a girl who is very very large..but she is upfront about it and the men just crawl all over her...I say good luck to her!! But, what infuriates me is in the chat rooms she puts herself down (on another site) and I cannot believe the words that she types. Unfortunately alot of girls on the site label her as a "slut" I think that they are just jealous that she can get the guys. I do think that beauty is what is on the inside. My ex fiance was not an attractive man to most people nor to me when we first met..but the more I got to know him...the more I saw a gorgeous hunk of a man sitting beside me!! On the other hand I went out with one of Australia's top male models many years ago and within 2 months saw him as the most ugliest man I ever met lol...I remember he was getting ready for a shoot one morning and I was watching him and out of the blue I said "God you are the most ugliest guy I have ever known"!! True confidence is more important than looks .. arrogance is not!! Unfortunately there are many guys out there wanting to have the "Trophy" wives or girlfriends (look at most of the celebrities and sports people) and this I feel is what causes alot of self esteem issues. I say be happy with who you are and learn to love yourself!! As one of my favourite books says "If you can't love someone else, then how can you believe that that person can possibly love you?" xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    An average girl with confidence is always the sexier then a hot girl with no confidence!

  • nort4t

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'enticemee'An average girl with confidence is always the sexier then a hot girl with no confidence!

  • nort4t

    nort4t

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'enticemee'An average girl with confidence is always the sexier then a hot girl with no confidence! I agree, just add a smile and you have me hooked.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    OK guys...you say you love a bigger girl...or a girl with curves...So what size do you consider curvy??For alot of guys.....14 to 16 is a big curvy girl.Now dont get me wrong....the guys that like me do so because of WHO i am....NOT just what I look like...but honesty...if guys really loved bigger girls...I wouldnt still be single.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBJ' OK guys...you say you love a bigger girl...or a girl with curves...So what size do you consider curvy??For alot of guys.....14 to 16 is a big curvy girl.Now dont get me wrong....the guys that like me do so because of WHO i am....NOT just what I look like...but honesty...if guys really loved bigger girls...I wouldnt still be single.JMO...BJxxx oh miss bj...i love you...thats the best thing iv read in days mwahhh..... roxxy xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Gals Us Aussie blokes we want Boobs and we want to hang on to ya Gals all the more fun size 6 8 Yuck

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    physical attributes are one aspect of a person, their personality and confidence are what does it for me though. I don't mind a ladies size, be she a size 6 or a size 20, if they have a great personality that really helps a lot. Personally I know I'm not a Ken doll - I'm not likely to win the Mr Australia award anytime soon in this universe - but thats me being real about it. Likewise I much prefer a lady that is real about herself too. If she's a size 18 and wants to loose a few kg - then so be it - that's up to her and I'd totally support that. I think that people who focus more on looks than other things are in for rude shock one day when they wake up and see they are "just normal people". Anyway hugs Wayne

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    All hot girls have confidence....dont they?.....or is it arrogance!.......or complacency!Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Haha MissBJ ... so true! I've been single coming up to 4 years and I've fluctuated between a size 14 and a size 16 during that time (I tend to go through phases where I alternatively love / hate the gym). And I've actually had men tell me that I'm just not relationship material because of my "size". As someone who used to be 160kgs, I find those comments quite amusing as I had a VERY long term relationship with someone while I was a size 26+!! So who knows. These days I don't even worry about it. If the guy is shallow enough to care about my dress size, it was never going to work anyway!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    exactly! I was going to ask the men to define curvy ... please?Do they mean size 14+, or 18+ or does it not matter what the size is, but rather it's about boob and hip to waist ratio.< would love to know.lilmiss xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    exactly! I was going to ask the men to define curvy ... please?Do they mean size 14+, or 18+ or does it not matter what the size is, but rather it's about boob and hip to waist ratio.< would love to know.lilmiss xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I agree and would also been curious to know

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Yes I also believe in saying your big, men hear 14-18 Okay now thing is your right YOUR NOT RELATIONSHIP MATERIALAs they can't show you off as Trophy to mates at club, bar, sports, work Dinners while their mates women are wearing teeny cocktail dresses caring bout their looks and their materials and how much money that man can provide for latest Botox, Lipo, Boob Job. Who wants a woman who is large still is pretty to look at and loves you for who you are not what you can provide for her material wise and hunny she isn't saying look your not material wise cuz your dick size just doesn't cut it how can I boast to my firiends. Also funny how these men that say this are so bloody average or not all that and bag of chips but we look deeper. I met one guy we had great time on phone and via net we clicked had connection which he felt, met up all was good had great time met up few times each week. I was great girl and even though was good enough to bed I was only worthy as friend not relationship. Still great guy but he wasn't much chop to look at and had a gut on him and was sexy at all???? We still get along well and catch up.What's with that. Yet half these morons end up down at heartbreak hotel as they couldn't keep the LITTLE TROPHY!Okay and to those Little Ladies not all of you are like that I'm talking bout the mans problem of being such bias visual pigs and always trying to impress others rather think of what does he really want in life. I mean excuse me until u got abs and guns of Vin Diesel Or The Rock. Also Gorgeous face I think u need to wake up Fellas!!!BUBBLES

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    confidence, confidence, confidence!!! But then I am rather partial to curves as well so a confident, curvaceous woman! omg...I better have a cold shower and little lie down...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Depending on your definition of curvy but, confidence is sexy, no matter who it's on.However, confidence and sexy are different things to forming a relationship. I'm not looking for a relationship on RHP, which is good, cos whilst I get plenty of interest in shagging, I have a profile up on RSVP (I know, I know, but it's winter and it gets cold and I'd like someone a bit more regular to share my bed with occassionally) and get absolutely zero interest. However I'm also not the prettiest fat girl out there. LOL I'm way hotter in person than my pics - seriously! So curvy girls can be sexy, but when doing the internet dating thing, we're generally not suitable as prospective girlfriends. Oh, except to that freak that wanted to watch me eat. Gah!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I find confidence a minor thing. I respect a willingness to show vulnerability,openness and a wear your heart on your sleeve outlook. I might say that im not good at any of those things .. so when i see them i admire them. As for body shape, yes it is important that you find the person attractive ... slim is fine but not essential. There are many benefits of a fully figure and more to play with. haha. :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I know Im not gonna find a guy on here...coz even though "men luuuuuurve curves"...I have wayyy too many for many men to handle.But that's ok...coz I haven't found my 6'4" guy... with a great chest...8 pack abs...ass of steel...and legs of iron...with a good solid 8 inches...at least as thick as two of my fingers....of always-hard-for-me cock..So...I woulda knocked them all back anyway.LMFAO!!!JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    toooo funny love xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    There is more to a woman than her size. The worst sex I ever had was a size 8. She looked in the mirror at herself and just lay there moaning. Dead root. No connection. Bony and uncomfortable. So to look sexy doesn't mean shit in bed. It's confidence and bounce.(he he he hee just got mental image of DD's unleashed bouncing above me. ) Well it is hard to say. What it is? But it don't matter. It's the person. If they are comfortable with themselves they are more likely to shine. Shine be happy and have fun. Fab.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Confidence and attitude wins every time! Give me a confident, sexy and slightly kinky LOL lady any time - regardless of the size

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    1. Confidence is sexy...irrespective of size 2. True confidence, rather than a confident facade is inspirational 3. Perhaps if we valued the soul beneath the fabric...more than the fabric itself... we would see more confidence 4. Perhaps contradictory, (but i don't think so), 2 me....its face + Personality / Charisma over body every time. 2b :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    There is nothing sexier than a woman who is very self assured and comfortable with her own skin, someone who respects themself, but doesn't need to have a body like venus in an effort to impress others. The difference between women and girls is only one quality... self confidence. Cheers Dwayne xox

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    by the ex for Mal Nutrition.she wanted to hook me up with her mateAnna. Anna Rexia.recons it would sound like a wind chimein a hurricane.........ahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahaEarl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hi ladies.... my name is troy,, my friends call me Taz. I am a cuddly / bigger build guy from enoggera in brisbane and i have known alot off bigger females from when i was in the local bdsm. i dont discrimate on a females size or her looks, i except a female for who they are and i hope i get the same in return. bye and ciao for now

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I would have to say that I prefer sexy curvy girls over the "conventionally beautiful" girls that the media tells us is the epitome of womanhood lol. When I see girls like that, all that goes thru my mind is 'should I offer to make them a sandwich? They look hungry.' Not saying that there aren't people out there who are into that, I'm just not one of them. So rock on curvy girls!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Give us a woman (or couple) who is confident with their body, mind and its sexy needs any day. The sexiest part is always the mind and atrractiveness is more about attitude. If you wanta get physical then a pretty face forgives so many body issues anyway but always be aware you cant expect people to like your body if you dont yourself so either fix it or accept it but either way look after it and have fun with it as its the only one you are gunna have. But when its all said and done sexy is a whole package thing (ie attitude, sense of humour, confidence, nice eyes, curves etc etc...its a long list LOL) it doesnt have to be perfect just real. MR SRFUN

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    One of the most sexually amazing women I ever had the pleasure of knowing was definitely not a small girl. Not morbidly obese, either - she kind of reminded me or Sara-Marie from Big Brother (before she slimmed down and glammed up).

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ifor me i like gym toned bodies nearly as much as jelly filled curves. a hot body is one that has good proportion and symmetry. sometimes disproportions are even more appealing, like bigger breasts or broader hips respective to waist or a gravity defying butt. size in itself is irrelevant if the proportion and symmetry is there.....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    now ladies dont lynch me for my comment but firstly we guys and girls need to and like to get to a certain point where we are happy with our bodies or think we need to lose a kg or 3 here and there. I know i try to when a tummy starts after the winter lol but i think I PERSONALLY am rather happy with my physical appearance and i think when i have met many RHP girls is that they too are very happy with their body image. But besides the initial physical attraction that doesnt last long if the confidence isnt there... so i think we all get attracted to the confidence of a woman. After all you want a woman who knows her stuff... and she in turn would like a man who does too... although swapping 'trade secrets' is part of the learning process and fun!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I have said it before and I will say it again. It is whats on the inside that counts. Could be a skinny ass model but if she doesnt do it for me then there aint no hope. As long as there is a connection does it size really matter? Hey I am no oil painting myself and there are plenty of people on here male and female that shouldnt live in glass houses and throw stones. If you like what you see go for it. If you have the confidence that is>

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I must say that as a red blooded man, I prefer a lill from column A) and a lill from column B), but males being males we are visually stimulated creatures therfore a fit, toned sexy body along with intellegence, wit and sex appeal is a great combination. I believe there is too much complacency in people, and people need to realise they are what they eat, and seeing any person male or female woof down a meal is no great turn on.. I think that just because a girl looks after her physique, it doesn't mean that she doesnt eat. I apologise in advance to those people whose cages I've rattled in writing this, but everyone has an opinion. Good luck to all..