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Male half uncut feeling a bit self conscious

April 01 2017

This is the male half here, and wondering about what others think of being uncut. I have read and heard that people prefer the male to be cut and being new to this both of us it makes me feel a bit uneasy and almost self conscious/embarrassed about what people will think if we ever meet another couple etc. will it be a turn off and will they be upset? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'll say that people who have strong preference on this, will probably let it be known early on, so will be easy to spot. There are definitely people who don't care or enjoy uncut cocks, or put a host of other factors ahead, as far more important. Hopefully you'll run into far more of these people :)

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    That judge you on a bit of skin will surely be judgemental on many other things. Best you be yourself and just take it in your stride and conclude they probably weren't worth your time.People judge me, you learn to accept that people like what they like and if they are closed to learning different views, my motto is, they can fuck off. Works for me. Lol.

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  • teejaylongsword

    teejaylongsword

    9 years ago

    Don't worry about that. You are a lovely looking couple. There is a reason why there are many people who don't like 'dick pics' - because a cock is not necessarily the initial or prime focus or point of interest. Once people see that you are a fit and charming couple, they will probably respond to that rather than Mr's cock. Once Mr's cock is out and proud, Mr would probably have nothing to worry about. If I were lucky enough to meet you two gorgeous people (yes I am hinting haha), I would see your uncut cock as merely part of the interesting diversity that is out there. Diversity is exciting. As long as it works it is sexy. I am cut, you are uncut, who cares? Looks like Mrs is still happy. She must think Mr's cock is just fine. That's one vote for Mr. Don't even question it. You want to be happy, horny and confident when with others so that the guy in the 'turtle-neck' will rise without a worry in the world. Now go forth and have some amazing times...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    There are plenty of people in the scene who don't care that a guy is uncut, it's certainly becoming more common particularly among younger guys, now that people are becoming more educated around the issue. If you're comfortable to do so, you can mention in your profile that you are uncut which would then weed out early on those who do have a problem with it. Alternatively, mention it early in the messaging stage so there are no issues should you end up meeting. Those who don't like uncut would be likely to ask you early on anyway. It's rather ridiculous that in this day and age a penis in its natural state can still freak some people out, but it shows just how strongly ingrained some of our societal practices are and how long it can take for attitudes to change.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' That judge you on a bit of skin will surely be judgemental on many other things. Best you be yourself and just take it in your stride and conclude they probably weren't worth your time.People judge me, you learn to accept that people like what they like and if they are closed to learning different views, my motto is, they can fuck off. Works for me. Lol. Honestly, from this woman's point of view, I really don't care if a guy is circumcised or not. It has never bothered me. Cleanliness and good grooming - yes. Itty bitty piece of skin - not so much. It's much more important I like and connect with the person attached to the penis than the penis itself. All the best with your search. KH

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    In recent years the rate of circumcision in Australia has fallen and it is now estimated that around 32% of Australian men under 30 are circumcised. The Royal Australasian College of Physicians (RACP) issued an updated policy statement on male circumcision in September 2010. If it really bothers you then you could consider elective surgery. That said, I'd think you could use this more as a filter for sorting out the folks that you may meet. Hell they may also think you're a tad gauche if you don't sticky your pinky out when sipping a dry martini. Our difference are often times what make us attractive to others! Best....... CM

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  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    9 years ago

    Could not care either way. Relax and enjoy. Person, not the penis 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    A few people make a lot of noise about it, dont let it bother you less you become as petty as them.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Uncut or cut as long as I am attracted to the guy, hes respectful, sexy and hard.😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Markov77

    Markov77

    9 years ago

    I'm in a similar situation and have always been self conscious about my natural existence. Some people do prefer cut and I have come across it a couple of times. One inparticular when I was chatting with a female on here and we were getting along well and swapped a few images via Kik. We were both keen to catch up and then she asked if I was cut. I explained I wasn't and I have amazing hygiene blah blah blah.... after that I never heard back from her. I try to be more confident now and have accepted it. I never would share images with people that showed my beanie on however have now started sharing images with a play friend of mine and have found it's helped me accept it and realise she still finds sexy. I would say that was the biggest step for me and helped me the most. Hope that helps you a little.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It really doesn't matter if a guy is uncut as long as they have bathed properly. Nothing worse than going down on a guy a realising they haven't shower recently - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    9 years ago

    I have more of a problem if the penis belongs to a fucktard than if it's cut or uncut.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I actually prefer uncut but i'm not upset if i unveil a cut one

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Everyone is entitled to their preferences, but they're not entitled to make you feel uncomfortable if you don't match their preference. Personally, it doesn't bother me either way, and I've never noticed a difference between cut or uncut when comes down to the business end of things. As FitandHorny put it, it's only an issue if the cock in question is attached to a fucktard... no time for that, regardless of whether it's cut or uncut. I will say though, that I find it easier to give a guy a hand job if he's uncut 😉 My favourite lover (yes, I know I shouldn't have a favourite, but meh, shoot me) is uncut. Lately he's taken to sending me videos of him making himself hard. It's so hot to watch his cock slowly emerge from its covering as he gets hard. Makes my mouth water and my lady parts melt 😍

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    That's more a reflection on them. My cock is in it's natural state and I hold my heads high ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    There are things we can't share on a public forum, which is the case with me. I now prefer cut but, and that's the bit I can't share. But although that is my preference, I would most definitely not turn a guy down or be turned off, if everything else was on target to head towards a meet. If I'm into them, I'm into them, and I'll love every part of them 😋

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    But I really don't care. If I like a man and want to have sex with him, it's not going to make a difference if he is circumcised or not. I hate the reasons behind the majority of circumcisions, other than vital medical reasons, but that is another issue all together. If someone is judging you because you have a foreskin or you don't, then you've dodged a bullet! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Thanks everyone :) appreciate the comments and makes a lot of sense! Puts it more in perspective now!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I prefer cut, but mostly because that's what I've had the most experience with. Always looking to broaden my education. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • kerningpairs

    kerningpairs

    9 years ago

    Google "Christopher Hitchens circumcision" for an amazing 3min takedown of a Rabbi on this subject. Do you know that the Jewish practice requires "metzitzah b'peh", or "oral suction circumcision." Removal of the cut for skin by mouth. Big problem with babies catching herpes and other STIs, even dying. It would be criminal to perform unnecessary and unanaesthetised labiaplasty on baby girls - circumcision should be the same. Treating the childhood assault as a trivial matter and the preference of cut cock as trivial says that the trauma the practice produces is not real. We don't accept ritual scarification of children in any other way. Time to recognize it for what it really is. PS: I'm uncircumcised and find cut cock reminds me of the horror the guy went through as a kid. So, not so arousing to me, but not something that kills the moment... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm uncut and have never felt self-conscious about it. I do find it odd that there are women out there who are vehemently opposed to an uncut penis. I'm guessing they feel the potential for uncleanliness is high, but that's a pretty big assumption to make. To be honest, there's no way of knowing if a woman is 'clean' until you're up close and personal with her bits, so I see it as something of a double standard.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm uncut and never had a complaint from couples who's partners are cut I think it's all in the head ....that's my pun 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    If you need some help. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    8 years ago

    Honestly don’t worry about it. You want to share yourself with someone who will accept you as you are. Sexy is as sexy does. A confident person who knows what good they bring to the table and treasures my body and person as a whole will always have my time. If you make anyone feel irresistible and sexy the rest doesn’t matter! Have fun :) P.S I’m yet to see the variety :) maybe they are the male equivalent of a unicorn - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Sexy_2016

    Sexy_2016

    8 years ago

    Coming from a couple that both prefer a cut cock, if you're going to share/post a pic of your cock pull your foreskin back, it's a much better way to show off your cock & way more appealing to people that prefer a helmet rather that a hood..

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