Meeting people from a distance

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  For me i would travel and have to meet with someone that i connected with and we thought it would be fun..And we were right..sometimes its not the distance but the experience..Actions always speak louder than words !!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I live in Whoopsville and I fly to Sydney every two months. I have my regular friends. Love my guys they are great. One or two will be friends for life even when we no longer play together. It is a matter of being friends first, friends second and lastly being friends. The benefits is just that...benefits. It gets better the more amounts of times you see a particular person as you each get to know each others wants and needs. Fionabee

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  For people like myself, meeting people here is a bit limited. For me a regular trip is a the only real option. But for the city folk, well I guess you are spoiled for choice, but there are some really great genuine people out here in whoopsville.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  While I currently live in a good urban area - in that there are heaps of playmates for me to expore - I have been known to travel (and sometimes quite regularly) and have had some fun in the process...sometimes that bit of extra effort is well and truly worth it...you never know who you might meet...I do understand for some though it isnt possible but I would suggest not to discount a prospective playmate just because they dont live in the same area...if either of the party is willing to travel then you never know what fun you could get up to.... Kisses Focus

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It's never a wise idea to generalise that 'most' or 'nearly all' people who state they will travel do not. I find it intensely difficult finding anyone in my own little city that i'm attracted to and have and do travel interstate mainly because i like to get away. As to if it works - hell yes!! It all depends on the connection and what both people want - this could be an ongoing sexual relationship or a romantic entanglement. i would not rule out anyone simply due to distance more due to them being an ass but would caution don't let yourself be the one to do all the work. I won't travel for someone if they can't be bothered to return the favour. Keep an open mind, look at it as a way to explore in more ways than one.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Squirty, what you obviously do not understand is that people from Whoopsville are travellers. They are acustomed to travel. They will travel a couple of hundred k's to go to a party or a game of football. So don't jump to any conclusions you might just be cutting yourself out of some fun with some of Oz's finest country gents.

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  tank__girl

  15 years ago

  In my profile I say recently seperated. But 'immediately' after seperating after 14 years together, I met a wonderful guy from Melbourne on here, and we had a 15 month relationship. It was just a shame it was all way too soon for me to start a new relationship, I ended up breaking his heart We did the 'long distance' thing for 15 months, visiting eachother in Melbourne And Queensland at least every 6 weeks. As well as having a couple of awesome holidays in Sydney and Brisbane inbetween!! Just BE CAREFUL!! You never know who you might just happen to fall in love with!? Next minute you might just be thinking about moving your whole life to "Whoopsville" OR....have that guy from Whoopsville wanting to move his whole life into yours! My profile also says, I've been here before... March, 2007 I think it was lol....I had the most gorgeous girl come and stay with me for a few days from Canberra, also after meeting on RHP. (Red Hot Pics - Tank_girl..hehe, showoff I know!?) She came up another time for another visit too, lots of fun!! A lovely couple I met from Cairns, also planned their annual holiday around ME! hehee.... Theme parks by day, Tank_Girl by night. We still chat every now ad then. It's not a HUGE distance, but I've had people drive up from Northern NSW, and the Gold Coast late at night for midnight Booty Calls too...whom I've since met again...and again. Casual playdates who live far away....Bring it on!! Adss variety, excitement, free holidays yadda yadda.......just be careful! And also be wary of who you are inviting into your home before you do anything. I now always tell family or friends if I'm going 'away' or having a visitor over. I just had one of the best nights EVER, holidayig with a couple from down south. They holidayed in Maroochydore. Ow ow.....Guess what else!?? I'm off to Dunk Island next month to meet a nice, young boy who invited me there! Why not? Lap it up.....you only live once!!? Be crazy not to.......Free Holiday in paradise! Cute boy, maybe hot sex.. :P The only bad experience I have had that comes to mind......is baaaaad 'BO'. No way to sniff out if there could be a problem there via cam....Bugger!! Jump on the next plane to Whoopsville....... "it's best to regret somethig you did, than somethig you didn't do" All the very best Squirta! X

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i have travelled a few times to meet someone i have had good and bad experiences as you all know but if you have found the right person and have a safety plan in place its great...you get to see places you might not have ever seen...meet people you would never have met..show people your little spot in the world its great...if you can do it...do it roxxy

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Now this is a post I can reply to! Meeting someone by distance does work, or it does for me. All the guys I have met off this site over the last 2 years have been from Brisbane or further away. I live in Hervey Bay which is a 3.5 hour drive from Brisbane. Iv even had a guy come from Sydney once. Sure most of the time these are just a once of meetings. But I have a few guys eg. "lifesastory" who comes up and visits me once every 12 weeks or so. Actually he was just up here visiting last night Also I have traveled in the past to meet someone although I only after they had come to Hervey Bay first.. thats just how I do things. But yes I will say that meeting guys by distance does work. Put it this way I would rather meet guys who live 3 hours away than meet any of the local Hervey Bay guys... lol Taby.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Maybe I should also add that I will only meet with guys if they are from Queensland... So I dont contridict myself on an earlier post LOL Taby

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  When I first joined this and another adult site, I did say yes to interstate and country contacts....out of the many contacts, I would say only one actually followed up on the ole "I am in Melbourne every week/fortnight" line. The others just wanted to string me along, play on cam, waste my time, make a definate time to meet up and never show. I prefer my lust in person ......not on msn. Sooooo.....due to the actions of those who just like to mess with my head, I now choose to only meet local guys..... and I mean local, if the travel distance is more than half an hour, forget it. It can be difficult enough at times to meet up with someone nearby, let alone someone from whoopsville. Yes, I realise that I may be missing out on meeting with someone wonderful....and fabulous promised dinners, exciting sensual times etc .....but this way works for me.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  From interstate but not from this site, i'm not really in a position to travel interstate at present, and any major distance would require a bit of planning and lots of conversation beforehand, as i have been caught out before going for a meeting and them not turning up or some other excuse, I don't go expecting to sleep with but just have a good time and if it happens great if not well , it wasnt meant to be

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If you are SO intrigued and just can't get each other out of your heads you will meet. It maybe near you, near him or somewhere in the middle. If you can feel the chemistry with your msg's, msn and phone calls, hopefully there is cam as well it will happen. Don't discount long distance meetings, give it a shot even if it is just this one. It's not for all of us but can be sublime if right. May even turn out to be exactly what you wanted plus more! There are numerous ladies on her that will travel for the right man, also just as many men who will do the same. The up side of a LDR is that each time you meet it's like a new beginning, yet you still have the last embedded in your mind. The sex is amazing, everything is so special and unique because it is savored. You seem to pay special attention to detail. You enjoy it as your first and last, but you know there is more! Another bonus is the phone conversations, texting, cam etc........you just need to let your head go. Do you realize you can fit a nights worth of dating into 1 hour of phone conversation. By the time you get to date 3........look out! It's not quite 1st base but still good. How do I know, cause I'm doing it. I took a chance and will not look back, I am so thankful I did. I went into it as, 'Oh well he's 1200 klm's away what can go wrong' , now I'm here and happy. He's Fabulous, caring and just so sensual. Good Luck Latte xxx

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