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Mens pics on couple’s profiles
June 26 2026
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PandaAndBri
25 days ago
I certainly agree that if it’s a couple profile, I want to see a photo of the man. If I don’t see a guy’s picture in the couple blog, chances are you won’t get any interest from us. And considering a lot of couples are driving by the females veto, you are putting yourself at a disadvantage to even get a lock if we don’t have any idea who we could be playing with. Bri
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nutsundae
25 days ago
I've got some awesome fishing pics?
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Nightglider
25 days ago
🙌 YES!!! Couldn’t agree more. As a solo woman in this space any thought of connecting with couples has been held back hugely by factors you mention. Very few or no pics of Mr while showcasing the “Hot Wife”, then to only have communication from Mr is extremely frustrating. Even a solo guy profile pic with a toilet in the background is better than what most couples provide for Mr. Disclaimer: Toilet pics not recommended
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selfless__lover
25 days ago
My immediate thought on any couples profile where both partners aren't shown, is that someone must be letting the team down 😜 It usually proved true when my partner and I were looking for other couples too. It's hard enough to find four people who all find each other attractive, without leaving it to guessing games because all the photos are only of one partner.
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Shared_HotWife
24 days ago
Depends on the dynamic and what they are looking for? If it’s for swinging where it’s a partner swap then it makes total sense to show both people. For us, we’re not couple swappers so less need to have a balanced profile picture section. We have HotWife in the username as that’s what our dynamic is… however there’s quite a few variations of that theme too… most HotWife profiles only have the female especially if they are cuckold. We aren’t cuckold so we have a couple of couple pics too
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Samwich4wifey
24 days ago
Yes 🙌🏻 so frustrating! Not to mention the “couple” profiles where you’re assuming talking to both parties and all of a sudden “my wife has found her own connections and isn’t meeting anyone new right now/has had surgery and can’t play/is pregnant/ or insert other crappy excuse here as to why it’s just a guy talking. Make a single male profile then!!
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Deetsy
23 days ago
Absolutely agreed. I love to see what a guy looks like. I hate that I have to ask almost every single person. Can I see a picture of your face? I hate a photo where it’s taken in a mirror and the phone is right in their face and all I can see is their body. Yes the body is great but I also want to see the face too after all the face is what I’m looking at and kissing as well. 
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Chelsea83
23 days ago
This! The number one reason I'm yet to find a couple to play with. Profiles with no pics of the man and all the pics of the women. All the communication from the man and no comms with the women. As a single female I thought it would be alot easier then what's it's turned out to be.
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LandR202
23 days ago
Yeah … In my humble opinion when there’s no male pics on a profile it can be because a) they’re a fake couple profile and it’s just a dude or L b) the dude is letting the team down (either physically or in his pants) so they have the profile for the benefit of the female partner … Either way I just assume that profiles where there’s no pics of the bloke don’t want to swing/swap but are more here for single men or for hotwifing scenes … This whole thing is so complicated tho … I have another issue in that I find it hard to like anyone based on appearance and really need the guy to be a total Adonis to want to bang without any social exchange And I don’t think Adonis or his brother (Henry Cavill) are on this app … so I always feel anxious meeting anyone… And I never feel excited until I feel excited… and I don’t know when that will happen (if at all) actually sucks having esoteric tastes and trying to swing … just saying
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Hedonistics
23 days ago
Right!! Amen
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SeduceMeCharlie
22 days ago
FUCK YES It's about pleasure for both M and F and for me as a unicorn while I need good chemistry with my ladies I need to be attracted to both F and M
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DaxtotheMax
22 days ago
I have had this exact rant in the last week. I hope this post makes some couples consider upping their profiles! Could not agree more!
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Wecome
21 days ago
How many pictures of the guy is enough..... 🤔 asking for a friend 🙃
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MrandMrsEss
19 days ago
I find the depth and breadth of the people, the reasons they are here and the level they are at to be quite expansive. Sure there’s a whole load that aren’t very deep at all and the scarcity of true alignments sure can be frustrating at times but everyone has their reasons for doing what they do. We all like to put out best foot forward, for some that might be an impressive body or part there of or a beautiful face or for some it may be a beautiful mind. Now Selfless_lover makes the point that if one side doesn’t put up as many photos as the other that they are somehow letting the side down. Well maybe that person isn’t as confident or maybe the reason that person is with a stunner has to do with the “connection - the kind that starts with eye contact, builds with a lingering touch, and crescendos behind closed doors” or maybe like me they just hate posing for photos, the only ones that show me in my natural habitat is when I am draped in my kids and they are not Pie appropriate. Now I’ve been around a while and had my fair share of connections and I can absolutely say that the best connections have always been the ones that caught me off guard, the ones I didn’t expect and look back on thankful that I didn’t judge too quickly. With respect to profiles and because we are generalising, which we should never do but here goes. We (yes both of us) have found that the more a profile is reliant on the perfect photos within, the less the other features that lead onto that elusive “connection” are present. So many times we have swapped face photos and MrsS has not been at all instantly attracted to the guy but open to see if their personality might win her over only to have them decline further contact as we don’t match - off one photo! This is a great auto red flag for us and we are happy to see them go. Usually though they will lead us on a bit in the hope of getting to view more photos of her and people wonder why people say no to sharing many photos. Personally the less we see displayed the better. Faces are important, bodies lesser so but nice to have a general idea but we honestly prefer not to know what you look like nearly naked as it’d be so much more of a thrill to uncover that in person. So yeah I’m a bloke with the hottest wife in the world, I’m pretty sure I don’t measure up in the same metrics as her but maybe just maybe I have some other things going on 🤷♂️
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Pocketrocket602
14 days ago
It's basically cat fishing 🤷♀️ the male knows he's letting the team down and wouldn't get a look in from half the people looking at his partner. Screams insecurity to me and I want no part of that dynamic. Also females with almost every pic filtered or with make up does the same for me. A nice natural pic will get my attention more than anything else.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 days ago
I sincerely hope that a lot of couples are reading this forum and posts and taking all the feedback in. 🙏 Ms Foxy
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MontyCarlo
8 days ago
100% love this post….can’t tell you how many times I’ve met a man on here by chance and retaken his RHP photos for him to show key body parts (pecs, arms, back, smile, eyes, butt etc…NOT dick pics) because he has missed expressing his physical attractiveness in his profile. Low effort input equals low effort results. Show us your (non-toxic) masculinity 🫦
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MontyCarlo
8 days ago
And I mean this for couples profiles as well as singles profiles btw.
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OwnedAndAdored
8 days ago
We have two of our male and three of our female because those were the pictures we liked of ourselves that didn’t show faces. But perhaps you’re right and we should make it more even and add another of him. Pointers on what to take for the third photo of him for our profile would be appreciated (sorry to jump in on this post) In our albums both nsfw and the one with us clothed we have a pretty even mix of us both.
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Explorethenmore
7 days ago
Great post!! Agreed!! To add to that, it’s great if both people in the couple chat not just one.
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OnTheRun
7 days ago
Yes! Stop riding on your hot girl’s coattails, go get a nice face care routine and some pretty underwear. 😇
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BazKat
6 days ago
Thank you about time this subject has come up. I personally am not interested in looking at the ladies tits I have my own to look at 😉 I will scroll through if no guys pics, become it’s only fair that us women see the good stuff as well.
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MzBehave
6 days ago
And I know Men can recognise if another man is good looking… Be a good visual for all to see. Men enough of the token belly and boxers shot, I will literally see 20 in a row, and I agree if you are a couple seeking a female, both need to put the work in, you become attractive with effort and I love to join couples but it’s easy to tell if it’s more about him than her, and it’s easy to tell if I am only invited to be her experience or experiment and reason to keep her man happy! Be authentic, have nice photos and we will find that attractive. 🥂 ☺️
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MaybeOnline
6 days ago
Regardless of how many hot hubby pics I put up, wifey gets 10 x the hearts and interactions from males. Maybe just us, but the ladies dont interact as much as the men. Thoughts?
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CarpeDiemm
yesterday
But she looks way better than me 🤷
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