RHP

RHP User

M48

Need to pay? (yes, the dumb question)

March 04 2014

So, I understand the economics of this kind of site... use the female of the species as bait to extract cash from men. But, does one have to pay? I haven't made up my mind if it's a place worth investing time/energy/cash... I'm not a tightwad, but a bit of prudence is sometimes worthwhile.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If you've read the long list of topics on effective messaging.... and learned from them... then what's $50 to give it a "trial run"?! But if your profile is same old same old... And you can't write an effective and engaging introductory email.... Paying to be ineffective isn't "prudent"... is it. I say....learn. About the game and roll the dice. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Your profile needs some work. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I found by joining it gave me much more ability to connect with ppl. U r able to open items that a guest can't. U can msg someone and not just send a flirt and hope they reply, mind u, u may still not get an answer. I, at first, tried to answer everyone and it became exhausting. Now, I answer ones that appeal to me. There are heaps of ppl who by the sounds of things been on here for absolutely ages. I have been on here only 2 weeks. 1 week as a guest ( limiting) and 1 week as a paid member. Your choice. Happy hunting. Cheers Lou - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    It's a site that provides opportunities for you to hone your communication skills if nothing else. I'd pay 50 to have a good belly laugh at all those bathroom mirrors sprayed with toothpaste, jizz and spit, that guys have used to take the reflection of their dicks. Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Pay - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    It's worth to pay and be a paid member. You don't have to go for the expensive membership, just a Premium one would do. I pay because I like having the emailing capability, because I have made some friends on here and I like to PM them for advice from time to time, etc. so spending some money is worthwhile in my case :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I go threw stages... i use to be a paid member to go into chat rooms but am over it now.I enjoy just chatting in forums and thats about it ! I am not a paid member ,and don't really think i will ever rejoin.The chat rooms use to crash,the male to female ration is 100 male to 5 females.A lot of rude men ruin it for the good guys. Last message i sent a woman when i was a paying member ,i was polite and got blasted back by her.She probably had a few rude messages and decided to vent on me..... So no i dont pay ,onloy time i do pay is when i buy someone a drink at the RHP drinks night thats are really fun!

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    12 years ago

    For the first 2 months I think and then thought fuck it and paid up... I've meet/spoken to some fun/exciting/wonderful/friendly people on this site (and a few fruit loops as well) I had some experiences that I probably wouldn't have had if it wasn't for this site. I would say that alone was worth my membership... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When I first joined and saw the hundreds of generic male profiles, I immediately got my credit card out to be able to message them all! Sneaky, RHP, throwing all that pussy bait at me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You can message and view dirty pics.....need I say more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    at least you are younger...and on the east coast... that helpsbeing attached doesn't help.I'm here for the forums now...as a paid member I didn't get very far at all... a few non committal replies and that was it...but there again my age location and marital status don't help either... I'd like to be a full member again but not before I get back to work...my hall pass is suspended until I get work again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I can't think who you mean? It's pretty hard to message sometimes one if your not a member OP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Looks like I need to work out what I want from this site before getting much further, or whipping out my cc to join the ranks of the generic. Interesting... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' When I first joined and saw the hundreds of generic male profiles, I immediately got my credit card out to be able to message them all! Sneaky, RHP, throwing all that pussy bait at me. well it's worth a go, not sure what vices you have, in the end it's not much each day for you to make up your mind OP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't need to pay, I use flirts to prompt men to message me, which apparently makes me a freeloader, according to a certain Sir who likes to Stir. I still get one free message per month, and in my two months here so far I've chosen wisely on a couple of good value forum fellas. Completely different dynamics for women and men here though, so this comment is pretty much useless for you. You're welcome, and welcome!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ..but I decided to pay immediately when I joined. I forget what the premium price was, butit's insignificant compared to some of the other frivolous luxuries I allow myself.In fact, it's something of a bargain I think.And certainly healthier than a former habit like smoking.Probably cheaper than that was, too..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes.... Pay..!! And if you're worth it it'll pay off pretty damn quick 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But, the door shall remain slightly ajar, until you pay to enter. I was a guest for a while, but found it to be frustrating and restrictive, so I paid for a membership for a couple of years. The door was opened and suddenly I could look around, admire the scenery, sneak up and squeeze the fruit and also exchange messages!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thing is mate....if your profile suck arse, and your messages do too, you're fucked. On the other hand.... Women get one free message a week....so be appealing through the forums and decide in a month or so.... What's time?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    maybe you have already. I paid the wrong membership and cant initiate a chat....bummer.