M50 F46

New to lifestyle

February 07 2014

Hi there, The wife and I have entered in this lifestyle in the hope that we can ad a little extra to our sex life, We have a rocking sex life as it stands, on a bad day, sex once a day on a good day 4 times a day, and there are more good days than bad. So you get the picture. Anyway, we absolutely love the intimacy of our sex, the looking and holding of each other, we've not tried playing with a couple yet but we feel that we my not get the level of intimacy we want. The Mrs is not bi, and has no intention of trying, just trying to get advice from other couples on how to maintain that closeness when playing with couples. Thanks

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QLDtwo4fun

12 years ago

Have some rules know what your partner expects of you, and give it a go. See where the journey takes you, and talk about it. For us, a swinging night out always leads to great sex at home whether we play alone or together.

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RHP User

12 years ago

make sure you are both enjoying it, check in lots with each other and remember that no-one is as important in this as your partner. welcome to another WA couple :) we are only recent to this ourselves and happy to chat about our journey

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RHP User

12 years ago

.. says nothing really.. No Picture, Plenty of 'ask me's ' and short descriptions ? It would be a good start to address these few things, make your profile interesting and add a few pics even if its only in your PG ( private gallery ).. If you're serious you will ...

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RHP User

12 years ago

Fix the profile and get others interested.Also pics help and don't have to be face pics.Ever been fishing then use the right bait.LOL.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Communicate with you wife before, during and after a play date. If you or your wife are feeling uncomfortable at any stage let them know and stop. When we first started in the lifestyle we found that going to a swingers club or party was less stressful as there was no expectation to play and there were also people there willing to offer advice on the pitfalls and benefits of swinging.

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