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Perth Clubs - A little nervous about body after 70kg weightloss
November 29 2017
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
That's seriously amazing. You walk into that club and own that place like the beautiful woman that you are. One of the main things l love about clubs is the varying body types and ages that attend. I've seen larger ladies with confidence that is amazing to watch. I'm yet to have someone tell me to put my clothes back on, so go enjoy yourselves and too be honest who gives a toss what anybody else thinks anyway. Have fun 😃
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RHP User
8 years ago
All sizes can be seen in them. Nothing to be nervous about. Once you go and see everyone else, you will come to peace with yourself. P.S. you can not judge a club in one night. Try a second impression of all clubs world wide. Never know it my be busy or slow. Always give a second chance
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RHP User
8 years ago
Try all clubs worldwide twice ! 🌍 Now there’s a mission !
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for taking the time to reply everyone...... it's helped put my mind at ease somewhat. I'm so excited to be going! Can't wait! The more information the better! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
In the 4 years I've been going to clubs, I have found them to really help my body image issues. I see normal, regular people, and I see they all have "imperfections" like I do. But I don't care one little bit. I see sexy people because sexy is an attitude not how you look. Fake it if you need to, eventually you will feel as confident as you should. Remember that everyone likes different things, and plenty of people will find you deliciously gorgeous. PM if you want to ask any questions about Perth clubs! Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
Definitely helps with body image issues, l have found the same thing. Certainly confidence boosting to see everyday 'normal' people and not runway models that l assumed would be there.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Everyday people just like you and me. Nothing to fear. CHECK EM OUT!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Congratulations on a huge effort in losing your weight!!I have been to clubs in Melbourne and swingers parties.There was always different shapes and sizes there and the others are totally right.It is our own body image issues that affects our confidence.I am very far from perfect and the only person who seems to worry about it is meSo go forth and enjoy the experience.Once you get there all your inhibitions disappear.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you everybody for your comments & advice. I'm so excited to be attending on Saturday night. Everybody who's reached out here and via PM have been very kind and offered a lot of insight and advice. If people at the club are as friendly and warm as they are here it will make for an amazing evening ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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tylannister
8 years ago
Another round of congratulations from me, too, explore! I kind of had the opposite situation where I had lost a lot of weight, but gained it all back when a friend invited me to one of the clubs in Perth. I was excited to go, but nervous about how I would compare. My friend insisted (as everyone else here has) that there would be people of all ages, shapes, and sizes there and I would have nothing to worry about. She was absolutely right. There was a full range of body types. I wound up having a great time and hope you do, too! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Explorewithus. Thats an awesome achievement and well done, im sure you feel 100 times better. Ive lost 20kg and i thought i was doing well. Ive been on the receiving end of people who cant see past ripped abs, tattoos and chiselled looks, and you know what? My life is sooo much better without them being in it. I hope you have a fantastic time tonight and many more like it xxxx and remember weight comes and goes, personality doesnt....stay beautiful, both of you 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Way to go explorewithus! I second third and fourth what many others have said here about feeling confident. Sexy definitely starts on the inside. You also have made amazing and courageous strides! You should feel on top of the world. I’ve never been to a club but hope to check one or two out in Perth in the near future. Please share your experience with us once you’ve gone. I’ll be cheering for you!!! Hugs - Rina - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you do feel self conscious you could wear stockings and a garter or a full bod crutchless set up. In saying the above, generally speaking from my perspective it is great to get to clubs for body image. :-) Have fun x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks Everybody!! Im feeling really at ease about it all now. Slightly disappointed that where we are going doesn't have lockers or anywhere to really change/ dress down....may have to rethink what I'm going to wear....hmmmm - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you everybody for your comments and feedback. So pleased we went and will definatly be back in the near future! - Posted from rhpmobile
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