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Single Guys at Swingers Parties
October 18 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
That kinda seems like a double standard to me.
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Mr_DarkChocolate
13 years ago
Quoting 'xxticklishxx' That kinda seems like a double standard to me. i like u! friggen perfect reply & i couldn't agree with u more
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xxticklishxx' That kinda seems like a double standard to me. Yes, it is a double standard, BUT, when single ladies are allowed, you wont get thousands turning up. However, if you allow any and all single guys (by single, I mean a guy turning up on his own) then you stand the real chance of 100 or so turning up, and thus having a guy to girl ratio of 25 or 30 to 1. Which means no fun for anyone.
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mick19781
13 years ago
Haven't been to many parties I'm tipping, some people are down on single guys, these are usually the same people who don't go to parties where single guys are allowed. They have a perception of what they believe goes on when in reality it is very different. Quoting 'heywood_djablome' Quoting 'xxticklishxx' That kinda seems like a double standard to me. Yes, it is a double standard, BUT, when single ladies are allowed, you wont get thousands turning up. However, if you allow any and all single guys (by single, I mean a guy turning up on his own) then you stand the real chance of 100 or so turning up, and thus having a guy to girl ratio of 25 or 30 to 1. Which means no fun for anyone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm with the first 2, it does seem a double standard. However, I need to clarify, are you attending a said club or just a swingers party at someone's house?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Each to their own! Firstly, all of us have different preferences, some want no single guys, some like a few single guys, and some like as many as the venue will hold. We believe that as long as the number of single guys is limited to a "handful", they have an intergral role in balancing the tone of a party, as much as single women! We like to meet new people of all persuasions, besides, without stereo typing single guys, they are generally a fickle bunch and dont assume they will turn up at a party just because they have declared an interest in unbridled lust. Many have met their needs in the fantasy of the party! We have been to some parties but they are not advertised publicly, so not an issue we would be concerned about.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have private partys a few times a year. and usually only invite couples.. However we have been to plenty of partys with single girls and guys there.. They are still fun and if you arnt interested you just say so....pretty easy really :) Sometimes having extra guys or girls is good...as some cant play/dont feel like playing/arnt interested in you/ cant get hard/ are too fugly/ too stuck up or whatever.. so hand choosen singles can be GREAT Going to clubs with 10 single guys and 2 couples is NOT so good..Obviously there needs to be a balance and "something for everyone" B
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RHP User
13 years ago
We find it misleading to attend a swingers event and singles are there. Swingers by defininition is couples. At the very least we should be told that singles are allowed, so we dont go!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Single guys are the biggest revenue stream, always have been , always will be. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
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RHP User
13 years ago
Swingers clubs can be pretty tame... Mainly just vanilla sex really. But parties can be lots of fun and as a single girl I think places with no single men are okay. But then again I prefer bi-sexual boys and bi-sexual clubs where anything goes. Now that is really naughty fun.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes I have been to parties were the ratio was probably 10 to 1 or there abouts. Good if the girl is into gang bangs but not really my thing. Each to their own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why does it matter if the people are not couples? Or will you only do a straight swap? Doesn't that get a little boring? By the way, long time no speak... How are you? I assume you have been causing trouble some where :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
And I like the single guys, but too many and they start groping which is not nice
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RHP User
13 years ago
We think the topic has been answered quite well by, Bodybutter and Adventuretime, but would like to also comment. This lifestyle has such a variety of desires, only do what ever rocks your boat! The parties and clubs we've visited over the years have had single guys and we've found that if you don't engage with them, they seem to get the message that you're not there for them. Our preference is couples only play, as we find it a nice mix that seems to flow quite well for what we desire, compared to a bunch of guys waiting for their turn.
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RHP User
13 years ago
A few misconceptions out there ... never been to a party where a hundred single guys turn up ... We host parties and we compose our guest list carefully, usually 3 - 4 invited single guys and they are our regular play mates ... guy's we have met and befriended in a mfm situation and then introduced to our parties ... so it's not open slather lol ... We have also attended a lot of parties ... the single guys, no matter how many, are in the same environment as the couples and the single girls, therefore are bound by the same party rules ... So much variety at parties ... love it! Have fun ... be naughty
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RHP User
13 years ago
A while back I was messaging with someone on RHP who was keen to meet, but only at one of those regular parties organised on here. Of course, they severely restrict the number of single men, I was no hope of getting in. That said, I can understand the restrictions.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been fortunate enough to be invited to private swingers parties a few times as a single guys. From what I gather from the people I play with there is always a preference to have more men then women attend. Not a dramatic amount that would turn it into a sausage fest but just enough so as all the women are satisfied. If you have the right people organising the party it should be a great time had by all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We dont think that stacks up having extra guys at swing parties to ensure the ladies are satisfied for two reasons. 1/ Female Bisexuality, we have attended parties where 3-4 ladies locked themselves in a room, that made a huge imbalance when you consider there was only 6-7 couples and 2 single males, left 2 ladies to 8 guys! there till pretty late. 2/ The amount of couples whose husbands get on here and report they had 4 plus ladies at a party.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Like I said if you have the right people organising the parties then all will walk away satisfied. All about knowing who to invite.Quoting 'softbi' We dont think that stacks up having extra guys at swing parties to ensure the ladies are satisfied for two reasons. 1/ Female Bisexuality, we have attended parties where 3-4 ladies locked themselves in a room, that made a huge imbalance when you consider there was only 6-7 couples and 2 single males, left 2 ladies to 8 guys! there till pretty late. 2/ The amount of couples whose husbands get on here and report they had 4 plus ladies at a party.
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