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Smaller built men and Bigger built women

June 09 2010

I was having a conversation with a nice guy today and I was asking his advice about how to approach the issue of attraction and size and my own fear of being with a smaller built man and doing some damage in the course of a wild sexual time. I do like a good wild ride. In recent years I have found myself avoiding smaller built men because of this concern. I am curious what both men and women, large and small, think about this issue. WILDly curious

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Us bigger women have the love handles, least they have something to latch onto when the ride gets wild hehe I have been with smaller built guys and had no problems what so ever, most men love the larger figure woman... The wild ride is the same whether you are the fuller figure woman or the skinny assed one lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Ok - so there's two thoughts going through my mind.. one from the silly side of me that say's "Oh what a way to die..." and the other more serious one that says "Are you being overly worried?" I know a lot of "larger women" and I use that term loosely, are worried about "breaking" their men. But seriously - if a guy is going to play with a larger lady, then he needs to be prepared for it. If he is worred then he should politley/kindly suggest alternate positions. If the gal is worried and is too shy to say something about it then avoid those positions that you don't feel comfortable with. Communication is the key here, and if both sides are honest and open about it and handle it in an adult manner then it's all good. WTG - I hope that the "nice guy" you spoke to was upholding the niceguy code of ethics... :-) hugs Wayne x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I guess the other side to this... and I thought of it just after I posted... is the larger/stronger guy with the slim/light lady... you know the ones that guys joke about "going snap"... I think the same rules apply here... as gentlemen we should not be causing our gals any more stress than they already go through. I've chatted to many a girl who does not think she is complete without layers of makeup or having her hair "just right"... honestly - personally - I prefer natural beauty over a fully made up woman any day. It's whats underneath that counts, not what you can cover up. hugs Wayne x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Generally I am attracted to the slighter build - never had a concern with breaking them in a physical sense, guys are generally pretty strong even when slim or wiry.I do love being with tall broad men though, although this has only happened a couple of times for me, because they make me feel a bit petite, which is awesome in itself.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Oh I just love the visuals surrounding this whole topic..... There's Tassie going hell for leather.... "Oops.. Oh dear... I broke another one...Oh damn.... take him away waiter... NEXT!" Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Oh I just love the visuals surrounding this whole topic..... There's Tassie going hell for leather.... "Oops.. Oh dear... I broke another one...Oh damn.... take him away waiter... NEXT!" Hugs Stalky PMSL WILD rider

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'niceguy0068' Ok - so there's two thoughts going through my mind.. one from the silly side of me that say's "Oh what a way to die..." and the other more serious one that says "Are you being overly worried?" I know a lot of "larger women" and I use that term loosely, are worried about "breaking" their men. But seriously - if a guy is going to play with a larger lady, then he needs to be prepared for it. If he is worred then he should politley/kindly suggest alternate positions. If the gal is worried and is too shy to say something about it then avoid those positions that you don't feel comfortable with. Communication is the key here, and if both sides are honest and open about it and handle it in an adult manner then it's all good. WTG - I hope that the "nice guy" you spoke to was upholding the niceguy code of ethics... :-) hugs Wayne x Nice....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Having been with both a skinny rail of a man and a man that had bigger breasts than myself ;) the only thing I found with Mr skinny was the bruising I copped on my inner thighs from his bony hips.Never worried about crushing him on top because if you have your legs placed right and support yourself with your arms you don't have to put too much weight on him. As for Mr Tits, well it does make some positions awkward and nothing worse than sweat dripping all over you when he's on top. Give me the bruises I say ;)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I'm samll build and have had some good fun with larger women....no problems....didn't brake any bones!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Seems you havn't found your self a rugged guy who can handle the rough ride :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Wayne said "WTG - I hope that the "nice guy" you spoke to was upholding the niceguy code of ethics." He is a real honey to talk to Wayne and yep I reckon he's got ethics! We need more nice guys like this one. Cheers WTG

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Sounds like you need a rugged man to take the pounding?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    God it would be dam funny explaining that the paramedics .. Gee I don’t know one min I was riding his cock and the next he broken in two????

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    this is definately something i have thought about also and am glad the topic has been brought up. I am 6ft tall...so height has always worried me because i am taller than most men, (thank fully mr shy is 6ft 6 - so i can still wear heels) but its not just my height...i have bigger hands and feet then most men and i have always worried about whether i look like a giant next to them....this is over and above what it would be like in the bedroom...i also have had discussions with mr shy about this...as i always felt i would smother them or squash them or in some positions suffocate them... Mr shy has also said as Wayne has.. "what a way to die"... Mrs Shy xxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69' They come in all shapes and sizes...It is what is in our hearts and heads that matters, not our outward appearance...Don't judge a book by its cover, sneak a peek at page 69!!!!I had more concerns about height, because I am only 5''2''... you just the right height baabeeeeahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.Earl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'shycouple11' this is definately something i have thought about also and am glad the topic has been brought up. I am 6ft tall...so height has always worried me because i am taller than most men, (thank fully mr shy is 6ft 6 - so i can still wear heels) but its not just my height...i have bigger hands and feet then most men and i have always worried about whether i look like a giant next to them....this is over and above what it would be like in the bedroom...i also have had discussions with mr shy about this...as i always felt i would smother them or squash them or in some positions suffocate them... Mr shy has also said as Wayne has.. "what a way to die"... Mrs Shy xxxx Can I volunteer to be a test dummy for you Mrs Shy? Please?... pretty please? :-) hugs Wayne PS - you HAVE to come to Sydney Drinks....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'niceguy0068' Can I volunteer to be a test dummy for you Mrs Shy? Please?... pretty please? :-) hugs Wayne PS - you HAVE to come to Sydney Drinks.... Yes Wayne, you can be a test dummy if you want...but you might have to sign a disclosure stating that I am not liable if under the circumstances "ie: if you are under me" you become injured or smothered or suffocated resulting in permanent disability or even worse death. As long as you sign the statement...bring it on!!..hehehe Mrs Shy xxxx Ps: I'll be there at sydney drinks...with bells on...(and maybe nothing else) hehehe...oh hold on...we dont want to scare everyone away...ok ok fine...ill wear clothes with the bells...LMAO

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    being a slightly built fella and always seemingto end up with bbw red heads i can tell yasits bullshit. ya can't kill the warrior sex.the other way round though i would be worriedabout. plus always feel like a pedo.ahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'mynameisearl2'being a slightly built fella and always seemingto end up with bbw red heads i can tell yasits bullshit. ya can't kill the warrior sex.the other way round though i would be worriedabout. plus always feel like a pedo.ahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl good to see ya back mate - we've missed the dive bombing of threads :-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'shycouple11' Quoting 'niceguy0068' Can I volunteer to be a test dummy for you Mrs Shy? Please?... pretty please? :-) hugs Wayne PS - you HAVE to come to Sydney Drinks.... Yes Wayne, you can be a test dummy if you want...but you might have to sign a disclosure stating that I am not liable if under the circumstances "ie: if you are under me" you become injured or smothered or suffocated resulting in permanent disability or even worse death. As long as you sign the statement...bring it on!!..hehehe Mrs Shy xxxx Ps: I'll be there at sydney drinks...with bells on...(and maybe nothing else) hehehe...oh hold on...we dont want to scare everyone away...ok ok fine...ill wear clothes with the bells...LMAO ya know... I suck at paperwork... mayb I should just sign the thing and die happy :-) Glad you will wear clothes to the Sydney drinks - could not have you there with JUST bells on... however, having JUST bells on at the end of the night maybe something that will occur... assumimg MrShy doesn't mind... hugs Wayne x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'shycouple11' Quoting 'niceguy0068' Can I volunteer to be a test dummy for you Mrs Shy? Please?... pretty please? :-) hugs Wayne PS - you HAVE to come to Sydney Drinks.... Yes Wayne, you can be a test dummy if you want...but you might have to sign a disclosure stating that I am not liable if under the circumstances "ie: if you are under me" you become injured or smothered or suffocated resulting in permanent disability or even worse death. As long as you sign the statement...bring it on!!..hehehe Mrs Shy xxxx Ps: I'll be there at sydney drinks...with bells on...(and maybe nothing else) hehehe...oh hold on...we dont want to scare everyone away...ok ok fine...ill wear clothes with the bells...LMAO ya know... I suck at paperwork... mayb I should just sign the thing and die happy :-) Glad you will wear clothes to the Sydney drinks - could not have you there with JUST bells on... however, having JUST bells on at the end of the night maybe something that will occur... assumimg MrShy doesn't mind... hugs Wayne x wayne, you sly old dog you......ahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahaN G M Snice guy mowing sevicesahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahaEarl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hey,I'm a big boy myself, never been into the slim woman, always afraid of breaking her. Maybe I should be more worried about the bruises.As for MrsShy, I'd love a woman who could meet my eye level in heels. Can sign me up too, I'd love to go out with a smile :).Cheers,Z

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Wouldyoukindly'Hey,I'm a big boy myself, never been into the slim woman, always afraid of breaking her. Maybe I should be more worried about the bruises.As for MrsShy, I'd love a woman who could meet my eye level in heels. Can sign me up too, I'd love to go out with a smile :).Cheers,Z Hey Z...thanks for the compliment...its always nice to feel that tall women are accepted....because of my height i tend to find tall men ohhhh so yummy...but its not all about size...height etc...a mans mind is the biggest turn on or off for me...oh..perhaps another forum. Thanks again Z, your profile sounds cool... Mrs Shy xxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'mynameisearl2'being a slightly built fella and always seemingto end up with bbw red heads i can tell yasits bullshit. ya can't kill the warrior sex.the other way round though i would be worriedabout. plus always feel like a pedo.ahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl Hey Earl!! Ordering you a sumo costume for any random encounters you may have with an energetic plus sized performer! That and several rolls of bubble wrap...just in case!! Myname....forever thinking of her men in arms

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    a skinny man and a rubinesque woman works just fine....It always makes me imagine a sheep dog scooting over the backs of a herd of sheep.........they seem to be able to access all areas ........never broken one yet, altho many have been left panting

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Great to see ya back. Oh help me I'm fragile. Can you send me a couple of curvy redheads. You are surrounded blue leader. Ah hahahahahahahahHahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Fab RFB5.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'missbowpeek'a skinny man and a rubinesque woman works just fine....It always makes me imagine a sheep dog scooting over the backs of a herd of sheep.........they seem to be able to access all areas ........never broken one yet, altho many have been left panting I think I've found your sheep... damn it the bloody kiwis got there first... what ARE they doing to them.... hugs to all the lovely Kiwis here Wayne x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Can't be bothered after reading the first few posts... I suffer from petite syndrom. :P So bigger will quish me! WTF am I do? ahhhhh alone huggies sweetptite41xxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'shycouple11' this is definately something i have thought about also and am glad the topic has been brought up. I am 6ft tall...so height has always worried me because i am taller than most men, (thank fully mr shy is 6ft 6 - so i can still wear heels) but its not just my height...i have bigger hands and feet then most men and i have always worried about whether i look like a giant next to them....this is over and above what it would be like in the bedroom...i also have had discussions with mr shy about this...as i always felt i would smother them or squash them or in some positions suffocate them... Mr shy has also said as Wayne has.. "what a way to die"... Mrs Shy xxxx BANG .... couldnt have said it better....give me tall ... PLEASE .... I too hate feeling like a giant (oh .. and i have big feet and hands too) I find it amusing when talking to a guy that is shorter ... with me saying exactly that ..... and they tend to go ... oh but I love tall women .. i dont mind if you are taller ....... dude .. did you not read ....I don't like feeling like a giant .. besides having sex standing up .... is awkard with shorter guys ... just the way it is .... So for me .... tall ... lean hips ..... cute face ..... and intelligence ...... and i am sold ....(yes i know ... and i have been told ... i am fussy)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69'Less is moreGood things can come in all shapes and sizes, including smaller packages, just unwrap us gently...I take solace, in the thought that we are all the same lying down Sweetpetite!! I like the way you value people, regardless of their differences. Trish for PM! Cheering WILDly

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    im quite a smaller body size and love being with larger women!! bone on bone not good..all about the curves the womenly figure mmm !!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    im quite a smaller body size and love being with larger women!! bone on bone not good..all about the curves the womenly figure mmm !!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    im quite a smaller body size and love being with larger women!! bone on bone not good..all about the curves the womenly figure mmm !!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'frocker' Quoting 'shycouple11' this is definately something i have thought about also and am glad the topic has been brought up. I am 6ft tall...so height has always worried me because i am taller than most men, (thank fully mr shy is 6ft 6 - so i can still wear heels) but its not just my height...i have bigger hands and feet then most men and i have always worried about whether i look like a giant next to them....this is over and above what it would be like in the bedroom...i also have had discussions with mr shy about this...as i always felt i would smother them or squash them or in some positions suffocate them... Mr shy has also said as Wayne has.. "what a way to die"... Mrs Shy xxxx BANG .... couldnt have said it better....give me tall ... PLEASE .... I too hate feeling like a giant (oh .. and i have big feet and hands too) I find it amusing when talking to a guy that is shorter ... with me saying exactly that ..... and they tend to go ... oh but I love tall women .. i dont mind if you are taller ....... dude .. did you not read ....I don't like feeling like a giant .. besides having sex standing up .... is awkard with shorter guys ... just the way it is .... So for me .... tall ... lean hips ..... cute face ..... and intelligence ...... and i am sold ....(yes i know ... and i have been told ... i am fussy) Hi Frocker, I have not formally been introduced to you, but I have read many comments on the threads by you...so thought id say hi...and reply... Just wanted to say...mrs shy says no no no to standing up sex with shorter guys...the logistics just do not work. It is all fun and games trying to figure it out, but in the end...its just annoying. This is the quickest way to feel like a giant...standing up...trying to get point A to meet point B...hahaha sorry logistically impossible. you know what they say about a man with big hands and feet...hehe...what does it mean for women with big hands and feet???...LMAO Nice to meet you Frocker... Mrs Shy xxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Im a skinny guy. Growing up I always thought that BBW's loved me because they thought if they f**ked me they'd catch my metabolism?? Or maybe it was the Jackhammer effect?? Either way, I didnt break !

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    What Can I Say......Guys are sturdy as well as girls.....It's no different than a lady thinking she is going to squash some guy going on top or whatever, Compared to some guy thinking he will hurt some girl by giving her a good pounding........! Regardless....I know where your coming from.....I have a friend that is quite large and she was reluctant to go on top of me,on the carpet of her lounge room floor in fear that she would squash me....she was surprised that she didn't........Iv'e had some wild times with big Girls, and iv'e never been worried about, or been hurt........Well so much for assumptions ! Tam.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thanks for the intro Mrs Shy .... totally agree ... sex standing up with a shorter guy ... total no go ... and yeah .. annoying ...lol and i have no idea what big feet and hands say about a woman I will point out though .. at 5ft 10 i am the shortest female in the family ..... and that includes my 15 and 14 yr old nieces

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'frocker' Quoting 'shycouple11' this is definately something i have thought about also and am glad the topic has been brought up. I am 6ft tall...so height has always worried me because i am taller than most men, (thank fully mr shy is 6ft 6 - so i can still wear heels) but its not just my height...i have bigger hands and feet then most men and i have always worried about whether i look like a giant next to them....this is over and above what it would be like in the bedroom...i also have had discussions with mr shy about this...as i always felt i would smother them or squash them or in some positions suffocate them... Mr shy has also said as Wayne has.. "what a way to die"... Mrs Shy xxxx BANG .... couldnt have said it better....give me tall ... PLEASE .... I too hate feeling like a giant (oh .. and i have big feet and hands too) I find it amusing when talking to a guy that is shorter ... with me saying exactly that ..... and they tend to go ... oh but I love tall women .. i dont mind if you are taller ....... dude .. did you not read ....I don't like feeling like a giant .. besides having sex standing up .... is awkard with shorter guys ... just the way it is .... So for me .... tall ... lean hips ..... cute face ..... and intelligence ...... and i am sold ....(yes i know ... and i have been told ... i am fussy) yoohooo... this way frocker... I'm over here.... ;-) hugs x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'frocker' Thanks for the intro Mrs Shy .... totally agree ... sex standing up with a shorter guy ... total no go ... and yeah .. annoying ...lol and i have no idea what big feet and hands say about a woman I will point out though .. at 5ft 10 i am the shortest female in the family ..... and that includes my 15 and 14 yr old nieces Check out shycouple11 stats... she's 6ft he's 6ft 6... I'm sure their kids would dwarf me at 5'11.... hehe... hey maybe if you come to Sydney drinks and I can get Shycouple11 to come too you can meet in person.. hugs Wayne x

  • Cougarxx

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    16 years ago

    Oh Stalky, you are a laugh. Break one, next! LOL! The girl's that are a more cuddlerly size, most times have great upper assests. i have been with "larger girls" and have not been broken. Maybe a smile on my face, other than that no problems. So don't worry about breaking us, if we are woried I am sure we would say soomething. If we are not lost in the cleavage. :) Now, that is a way to go!! Miss B, I am sure you would leave me panting, for more. Shane

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'frocker' Thanks for the intro Mrs Shy .... totally agree ... sex standing up with a shorter guy ... total no go ... and yeah .. annoying ...lol and i have no idea what big feet and hands say about a woman I will point out though .. at 5ft 10 i am the shortest female in the family ..... and that includes my 15 and 14 yr old nieces Check out shycouple11 stats... she's 6ft he's 6ft 6... I'm sure their kids would dwarf me at 5'11.... hehe... hey maybe if you come to Sydney drinks and I can get Shycouple11 to come too you can meet in person.. hugs Wayne x LOL ... I will get there if i can ...... man u r persistant lol ....... but honestly .... being a single working mum ..... chances are slim at best

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'frocker' Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'frocker' Thanks for the intro Mrs Shy .... totally agree ... sex standing up with a shorter guy ... total no go ... and yeah .. annoying ...lol and i have no idea what big feet and hands say about a woman I will point out though .. at 5ft 10 i am the shortest female in the family ..... and that includes my 15 and 14 yr old nieces Check out shycouple11 stats... she's 6ft he's 6ft 6... I'm sure their kids would dwarf me at 5'11.... hehe... hey maybe if you come to Sydney drinks and I can get Shycouple11 to come too you can meet in person.. hugs Wayne x LOL ... I will get there if i can ...... man u r persistant lol ....... but honestly .... being a single working mum ..... chances are slim at best I'm emailing you airplane tickets as I speak ;-) you will however have to fly the plane... hope that's ok with you... whats that... oh... sorry I thought your name was focker... and that you were related to the airplane dude... shit... crap... fcuk.... I guess I'll have to rethink that strategy ;-) hugs Wayne x PS - the venue has been selected... had a great night tonight with Mr and Mrs Shy and another gal as we did a pub crawl around Parramatta to decide on which venue... we all agreed on the venue.. and it's gunna be great!

  • Cougarxx

    Cougarxx

    16 years ago

    Come on frocker, come to the drinks night. Then i can get a cuddle. I am looking at comming from Melbourne. Shane

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Glad to hear there's a veny Wayne! Looking forward to it!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Are you guys banding together now? .... ganging up on me so to speak ....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Cougarxx' Come on frocker, come to the drinks night. Then i can get a cuddle. I am looking at comming from Melbourne. Shane Hands off the frocker... I called Dibs first mate... get in line ;-) Wayne

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'frocker' Are you guys banding together now? .... ganging up on me so to speak .... We are indeed... I'm working on an evil plan to get the gang together... this will be my first drinks night and I aim to make it kick ass. :-) You VILL COME TO ZEE DRINKS NIGHT.... ;-) Might even have a surprise visitor from the west.... ;-) hugs Wayne x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'frocker' Are you guys banding together now? .... ganging up on me so to speak .... We are indeed... I'm working on an evil plan to get the gang together... this will be my first drinks night and I aim to make it kick ass. :-) You VILL COME TO ZEE DRINKS NIGHT.... ;-) Might even have a surprise visitor from the west.... ;-) hugs You are silly Wayne .... Father Xmas lives in the north ... not the west .... and besides ,.... wrong time of yr Wayne x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'Cougarxx' Come on frocker, come to the drinks night. Then i can get a cuddle. I am looking at comming from Melbourne. Shane Hands off the frocker... I called Dibs first mate... get in line ;-) Wayne Seeing as Wayne is going to be so selfish I will have to give you that Hug you missed out on in Melb Quoting 'frocker' Are you guys banding together now? .... ganging up on me so to speak .... Dont worry sweetie between you me and a surprise visitor from northern NSW these boys wont know what hit them. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    slim guys can held it if they could not they would not go there by all means girl ride as hard as you want. If you are going to hard they will let you know.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    As a BBW... and only 5'3"... all I can say is when you've got a feather bed to lie on, who would want to stand up for sex... My legs always go wobbly when I cum... standing up is just not an option. Such an adoreable thread... just gorgeous! Sparkles 1963