So about the subject.. dildos

September 17 2011

so i was reading the other topic and that brought to mind an interesting question...What i want to know is: do guys get intimidated when girls bring toys to bed? and if you have never done that before... would you actualy be interested or rather open to the fact your.. significant other brings in toys? and if this bothers you.. i want to know WHY?!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    In fact my very first vibe was given to me by my then boyfriend and I have had one ever since like all good girls do. I find that a lot of men actually ask if I have toys and want me to bring them with me. Men that have been married for many years in monogamous and vanilla relationship are keen to experient with toys. We have had various topics on this recently and the majority of women on here agree that skin is best and nothing can replace the real thing BUT some play with toys actually inhance the mood.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Both of us have initiated introducing toys into play before and have enjoyed them a lot. I even received one as a Christmas present! I agree with Fiona in that experimentation is great for any sexual relationship. I cannot understand why toys of any kind would make someone uncomfortable because yes, whilst the real thing is fantastic, I have never viewed toys as a substitute, more as an enhancement or accessory. I am yet to discover a toy that will replace a man anyway LOL so prefer skin on skin contact any day! Flirty x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Toys can be a bit of kick...depends on what they are and the male anatomy lends itself well to a bit of additional stimulation. Some of these are very gender specific and some are actually designed for mutual enjoyment. | Bring it on....please.

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    ...and we never lose the child in us do we ? ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...or should we talk? | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'I am yet to discover a toy that will replace a man anyway LOL so prefer skin on skin contact any day! Oh, never mind...you must have meant rabbit skin, right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We talk enough! You are SO mean to me sometimes ... *putting on my very finest pout*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Pout condoms? Never heard of them...and I have been using Skyns. | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'We talk enough! You are SO mean to me sometimes ... *putting on my very finest pout* Oh well either way, if the rabbit has any decency about him, he won't mind at all. | Even Charlie "The Bird" Parker knew when he was playin' the blues....practice safe sax. | Blue is one of my favourite flavours...and chartreuse too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think whatever the need is cool as long as the thought is agreed upon box on ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Never had a bad experience showing off my dildo!!!! xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hi there fellow rhp'ers Mr cns here once again lol , i think guys should open there minds alot more.I have brought Mrs cns all of her toys and i and we love them from the smallest to the weapon of mass distruction i have never felt intimidated by her toys infact i love using them on Mrs cns than she does on herself. I just cant understand how guys feel intimidated by a girl and her toys,,, ( ithink they have weak minds ) there is nothing better than useing toys on a female. The last toy we brought was a john holmes dildo know that dildo i call the ( grim reeper ) it would test any female thresh-hold for pleasure and pain. She has a draw full of toys and we love them all,,,,, but my bank ballance does'nt. I think alot of guys out there need to live life alot more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    play with Lego ^_^Play, not *play* before any of you filthy buggers start with the 'trying to get the bits back out" kinda stuff...But that's just me ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Not at all!!! The toys can do things I can't! It gets me crazy when the toys get you girls all wet and messy and I come in for the final moment!!! Great fun!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...and l love being pleased and pleased..oh and pleased even more. Insatiable nah   l don't think guys are intimidated by toys.....i like to think they just need to expereience the pleasure they recieve from pleasing. The rest is history.   sometimes you just gotta have them regardless........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Not at all,a good way to start the fun.