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Solo sex..
November 15 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is a good thing to be able to masturbate in front of another person its not that easy to do if you have not done it before. Most men flind it lovely and it takes the pressure of them. They can always come to the party on round two :) win win I think
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RHP User
14 years ago
not one bit.......its all good...and the guys that do, well they are just not very grown up, are they? its her body...to do with as she pleases...and if it pleases her to play, then she can go right ahead...i'm part of the play some days as shes texting or calling me at the same time..........sensational...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree with TuscanRed, for a guy to augment plays with his own masturbation is Hot if done entirely opnely. The woman can watch, read a book, join in or even disapprove --- all good. To see a woman masturbate is great too - turn on- whether its hands ortoy assisted again all good. Mutual masturbation (ie you on me and me on you - no penetration) is wonderful. yay The discipling and tease of mutual is substantial ;) Count me in with great or harder interests.
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RHP User
14 years ago
masturbation is natural. its so completely normal that its ridiculous anyone should have an issue with it....we are in a wonderfully satisfying relationship, where we talk about, and explore just about any topic...some things we will never experience, but that never rules them out of our fantasy play........sometimes these are purely selfish fantasies, and include masturbation as part of their realisation or exploration........and we share this.....if we find, are told, or think of somethin thats arousing and it leads to self pleasure...thats fine..as sometimes the sharing afterwards can lead to other more mutual play....we tell each other everything....including if and when we play on our own...and what it was that stirred us to this play...........all good, all sexy, all fun......we dont suffer as a result of each others arousal....its of benefit at all times......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' It is a good thing to be able to masturbate in front of another person its not that easy to do if you have not done it before. Most men flind it lovely and it takes the pressure of them. They can always come to the party on round two :) win win I think
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thought this was going to be about crackin'can of Solo and having extreme sex...with the Solo man...getting shagged silly wihle going over wild white water rapids...
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RHP User
14 years ago
no i think its normal .. i am often told to go Fuck myself
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'caitsidhe' Thought this was going to be about crackin'can of Solo and having extreme sex...with the Solo man...getting shagged silly wihle going over wild white water rapids... Not with that silly moustache he has......fun idea though.Did you say rapids or rabbits...??? The ears threw me.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
that could work...my Rabbit is waterproof...and if I bought another one and let them multiply...well, I would definately be shagged silly by going over the white water Rabbits...wouldn't need Solo man at all...he could just watch...
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contemplating1
14 years ago
for a partner to pleasure herself.... It still stirs me inside and gives me a high knowing that she is enjoying herself, even if I'm not directly involved. Though in the past, one partner I had caught me in the shower one day.....And her reaction was akin to me having an affair.....And it wasn't that I was holding back anything from her when we were together...... Have a good 'un
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is HOT, and for me it is a surefire way to kick off a hot session for both of us! Whether that is both of us going to town on each other or ourselves at the same time...it is good to mix it up a bit Oh and ill add that it can be surprising what you can learn about your partner just by watching them do it for themselves! Nothing wrong with it at all, and can lead to a WIN-WIN for all involved - just dont try to hide it, thats where trouble can start
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RHP User
14 years ago
i think the question was about masturbation, but as a solo sex act...not a spectator sport......as in, shes looking after business while you are no where around......
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RHP User
14 years ago
i sure wish my mrs would give herself one some time .....that way something would be getting near the pussy because it aint me .........grrrrrrrrrrrr oops anger should never be vented in forums Andy
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nice to see that arse back on the forums.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Doing, knowing, accepting...are all viewpoints as outlined above. There is another side which may disturb either of the partnership....what's going through the mind of their partner while masturbating?
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'andreweagle' i sure wish my mrs would give herself one some time .....that way something would be getting near the pussy because it aint me .........grrrrrrrrrrrr oops anger should never be vented in forums Andy
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RHP User
14 years ago
I really enjoy it if my partner pleasures herself, although it usually gets me horny just listening to it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love to watch girls getting off any thing that gets her going is fine with me . It's a huge turn on to watch agirl masturbate and even if Im tierd worn out whatever I wont stay that way for long.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sometimes if my wife and i have a Busy day planned we will just tell each other that we are going to play and take care of ourselves , it's no threat or anything it's just a quick way of getting a release and then off we go to do what else we have to do that day
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RHP User
14 years ago
my wife enjoys playing with her toys and I love watching, it doesnt bother me that she can enjoy doing that as much as having sex, the same as I some times just want a wank, but one thing for sure, we have held some group fucks, 6 guys and us to play with, and at the end of the night, when she has killed them of and no more hard cocks, she pulls out her toys and finnishs herslef of, much to the guys delight, so nice seeing a lady enjoy her own body,,
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RHP User
14 years ago
Why would it bother us? I always thought it was great that she was confident enough in herself to go ahead and do what feels best with or without me. I'd do the same! If I was tired I might pretend to be asleep but smiling the whole time but more often than not it would be the start of something more. That could mean playing with each other or ourselves as we got off on each other pleasuring ourselves. It's all good healthy fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd hope she was having less orgasms by herself than with me. But that's just pride fucking with me. Women should have as many as they want. As long as she's not flogging one off in the toilet after dinner then at bedtime tells me she's too sleepy. That's a handcuff and paddle scenario.RA
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RHP User
14 years ago
well sometimes when the misses and i are both too tired to have sex we will lighty touch each other then play with ourselves next to each its such a turn on watching my misses play with herself as i play with my self but sometimes im so stuffed i just listen to her pleasuring herself and usually after she cums im so worked up i get in and make sure she has a couple more orgasims
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am and have always been open and honest about my sexuality, turn ons, turn offs, kinks, enjoyment of masturbation, etc.. at the same time I have met people who cannot accept that "masturbation" can be seen to most of us a natural "self love act" I understand the question/issue, generally -from my experience- it seems to come down to the partner (who is not masturbating) somehow questioning "why" you have to do it if you in fact have a partner to give you sex.. on top of that their insecurity might play a part and question "who do you think about when you do it" therefore opening the flood gates...It's about pleasure, between you and yourself, alone *grin* and its such a sexy activity when your partner is "cool" with it, to the point that they might even "give you a hand" lolI dont see it as a threat, its more of a natural act that can be embraced and best of all, u can reap the benefits too *wink*
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love watching/listening/feeling when my wife gets herself off.If she's happy, I'm happy.Often does it when she cant get to sleep, but thinks I'm asleep.Always gives me pleasant dreams
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RHP User
14 years ago
i think my girl masturbating is great i like seeing her expressions and hearing her moans finger away i say
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RHP User
14 years ago
What so ever!!The only issues I've come across is when they don't masturbate! A healthy sex-life doesn't exist unless both parties are comfortable, sure everyone has preferences but generally there should be no boundaries....Play on...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Masturbation,it's sex with someone I love. ps most men I know love watching a woman pleasure herself...that way they can pick up tips!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think any guy would turn down an opportunity to see his girl pleasure herself. Although I personally would find it hard to resist just watching However it's a great sight to see.
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RHP User
14 years ago
its healthy to do this and helps you understand your body better id do the same and hope we could watch each other as well id find it hard not to eat you up .not very honest or mature if they cant take it anyway theres the ones who say they do and the ones lie about it lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Miss Star is a self confessed super star at it. Probably doesn't hurt that she's multi orgasmic & actually has a higher sex drive than I had at 15.In short, I love it & love hearing about it, not hearing about it & knowing its happening & of course watching :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
With flicking the bean. I find it frustrating though, as I'm yet to cum via masturbating. I just can't get there! :( I have a friend who has hinted at divorce if she ever catches her man handling himself, and she was deadly serious. Sad, really.
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RHP User
14 years ago
In a past relationship I bought a vibrator as I thought once every 2 or 3 months was insufficient... He found it andscreamed at me "Arent I enough for you that you have to resort to this!!?" He never quite got over my extra marital relationship with my battery operated friend...possibly because it was bigger than he was...clearly you can see why i am here now. One of my best friends here not only enjoys that i have toys to play with or that I take care of myself in the intermission, but it seems to get him going again...and also takes care of me for when he is not available...poor soul has bronchitis, so my little friend is quite busy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Like everything, sex, chocolate, beer etc, it's about striking a balance. If your partner would much prefer to masturbate instead of engage in sex, then yeah that's a problem. The psychological damage from that scenario can be, and quite often is, long lasting. The other side is, if one partner is to the opinion that "you do it to imagine you're screwing someone else" that's also quite damaging. And before you all ask "who would do that?", I'm very much talking from experience. That said as a means of complimenting a relationship, nothing can be more mutually satisfying, giving your partner a little show. Cheers, Chris xx
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Wild_Pagan_Love
13 years ago
I find it incredibly hot to discover a lady so overwhelmed by the desire that she has lost the power to resist that pent up urge. Very hot to wake up to as well ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Every night. I do it before bed, to help me sleep, and look forward to it during the day. Anyone that has a problem with it isn't the right person for me, and it will continue even when I do find a partner in the future.If you want something done right...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Forgot to mention, my girlfriend caught her husband rubbing one out in the shower, and she was deadly serious when she told me, that if she catches him again, that's it, they're over and she'll apply for divorce.Crazy, huh?
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RHP User
13 years ago
love watching my gf' pleasuring herself.. the variation and intensity , the rise and fall of her breathing when she's close, the fullness surrounding her finger... then the release.. hmmmm.. love's me watching too, so its a win win..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your girlfriend has a serious problem.. talk about controlling ? Doomed to fail if a man cant have some self pleasure without having to worry what she is thinking ?? shudders...
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blueballs212
13 years ago
...get out now mate...get out now!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We often masturbate together.......Lot more control over timing it together and the orgasms are so intense
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RHP User
13 years ago
that would turn me on so much seeing my partner there masturbating i would have to jump into bed and shag the shit out of her
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RHP User
13 years ago
We both do it - sometimes alone, sometimes together. Sometimes after we fuck, she wants more, so reaches for the vibe. I don't have any problems with it. Do what feels good.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i am the luckiest guy i think ,living with a nymph ,she is the best at havin sex by herself but i love to watch as she uses different toys to masturbate with ,epecially lifesaver iceypoles they are the best .especially if i wont afters .but we try to make it last for a long time so she can try to squirt the ceiling .she loves her body and so do i .
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RHP User
13 years ago
The only time it would be a problem is if she was doing it but knocking her partner back because of it. Even so, nobody has the right to tell anyone what they can and can't do to themselves.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find it a turn on when Mrs Classy says that she masturbated.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is nothing better than watching a girl orgasm! I don't care if I am getting her there, someone else or she is solo. On second thoughts, I would prefer to be the one making her cum. But if she is doing it herself I can watch for hours, or until she unties me...
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
Cool its fun playing with yourself in front of another. It takes courage most people are a little shy. Great to watch..some love web cam no cam for me. I prefer to be in the room to hear smell the scene
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RHP User
13 years ago
Let her have her fun.No problems at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love it when a woman masturbates in front of me, cant wait to suck her fingers after she cums, they seem to like it when i do that before throwing her down on the bed and penetrate her
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RHP User
13 years ago
does recording it and sending it to me as an mms message on my mobile constitute 'in front of me'? masturbation, and sharing that we do indulge , is sometimes included as 'foreplay'.... its an 'invitation' to join the fun, or a 'wish you were here' kinda thing as well...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Unless it was resulting in being turned down all the time, I wouldn't mind. My girlfriend masturbates sometimes, usually in front of me or in the room when the mood strikes her. Sometimes she might ask for help, other times I offer and others she is fine to finish herself off.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There's nothing better than knowing my gal has enjoyed herself if I'm not around, tired, or not in the mood. Especially when she captures it on film.. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hubby loves it.... Although he does complain when I leave my BOB (Batttery operated boy) underneath his pillow! As he was woken one night with tingling sessions and thought he was having a herat attack before he realised he had just bumped the on button LOL MRS SRFUN
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Summertime123
13 years ago
My girl luvs caressing herself , solo or with an audience , uses fingers or toys has done it indoors and outdoors the outdoors experience was wild to say the least ... On a beach with a casual watcher was a real turning for her ....
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
wowwow11 - that is a classic answer - your often told to go and fuck yourself - love it...my husband loves me playing and masturbating in front of him. He finds it a real turn on and will join in after he has watched for awhile....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Masturbation is a part of the journey of self discovery for both sexes. It should be mandatory for all teenage girls to learn how to enjoy their body.( lol, pretty sure most boys figure it put pretty early!) It's a fun and sexy part of a healthy relationship, with so many variations that can be enjoyed either together or individually. Like all things, if you have open communication and a good relationship, it can be a delightful addition to a couples sex life - who cares what or who is being thought about while you masturbate or for that matter what made you horny enough to want to play. And I have to say....when you are single it's downright essential!! I've never met a man who didn't love to watch.....or for that matter who could watch and not want to join in....and I must admit I certainly can't watch without joining in 😉
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RHP User
13 years ago
I admit to being sexually greedy. I am not that concerned about sex every night or every few days type of thing, but I expect good sex and lots of orgasms when I get it. I know that I am orgasmically greedy and I dont want to stop when I start. I never leave home without my favourite toy in my handbag if I am going to a frends, and its often in the glovebox of the car 'just in case' I have had the ocassional male unimpressed at me pulling out my toy and getting myself off for another dozen orgasms or so. Some have rolled over in disgust, once told I was rude and he left LOL but mostly men are more than happy to join in some how be it just stroking me or their hand with mine. I understand men are visual and do enjoy looking, and majority especially enjoy watching a woman be it with toys or porn or just general perving. I have my toys and not scared to use them, with or without a partner, and if they dont like it, then tough titties coz I am not going to deny myself pleasure LOL
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