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Swingers Clubs in Sydney
August 10 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Am following this thread with interest...My man and I also keen first timers...We are not nervous... BUT...What do couples wear to swingers party? What are 'the rules' how do u turn down or accept sexual flirts? Are their mattresses on the floor, couches, beds?? What do u do if a guy takes his condom off?? Soooo many unknowns, but looking forward to experiencing it all....!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would go to Couples Club in Surry Hills one night, and Our Secret Spot on the next night. It all depends on which weekend you go and if there is a theme night on. Those nights are more popular so more people will go. I personally know that Angel and Demon night at Couples Cub will most likely have a lot of couples in your age group which would be good for you. It is also normally a large and wild night so good for watching if you are too shy to play on your first time at a club, you always get a few couples who are first timers so it's fun to chat to them and have walk around together. Look up their website for details of the different theme nights, same for Our Secret Spot. There are loads of topics in this forum giving advice and discussing what you should expect. Also there are good topics in the Couples Corner section. Go have a read of those. Just remember, have fun and you only do what you want to do and what you feel comfortable doing. There is no expectation of you at all. If you want to just watch... then just watch. If people ask for you to join them, you don't have to if you are not interested. All you have to say "I am okay". Also in the orgy room when there are bodies everywhere there is often wandering hands.... you can tell people not to touch you if you don't want that. It is respectful to ask first anyway. Everyone is cool with that have fun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of Couples Club Surry Hills one night and Our Secret Spot Darlinghurst the next, as they really are different enough to warrant it......... The First Timers Friday at the Couples Club has your age group (well most nights) and since everyone is new, it's a gentle entry, however Angel Demons night is really, really fun :)....... Good luck and Enjoy
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RHP User
11 years ago
What do you do when a guy takes his condom off?? Well one he should be putting. New one of each new hole but if he attempts to poke you without a condom you tell him NO. And walk away. What else were you proposing to do??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry. That should say he should be putting on a new condom for each new hole.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeka...You have misinterpreted me...But its OK, as I am an 'add on' to OP (sorry notscared33) I. have heard that some men in these clubs, prefer sex without condoms, so have one on....but sneakily remove it whilst fucking. The woman does not know till after the act. This scares me, due to sexual health risks. In this scenario, do u scream, attack, call security...???? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
That can happen anytime, even on one on one situations. I would slap his face and have a right go. I would probably tell everyone in the immediate vicinity he is not to be trusted and I would tell the club owners and have his arse thrown out. I wonder what the police would do if you reported it? That is why your hubby is your wing man... He needs to keep an eye on what is happening behind your back.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Whisper in his ear. Gee I wish you hadn't done that. Can I have your number for when the baby comes. Or maybe ... Welcome to the AIDS club. Many people won't agree with me but I think that is such a low act and a deserves no mercy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you...xx. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It pays to be vigilant for sure...........but I am sure that wont happen!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
We're interested in visiting our first club, probably to just watch rather than participate initially. Looking at going in about a month from now for logistical reasons. Any suggestions on where to go? We'd prefer somewhere busy and with people who know what they're doing rather than a "first timers" night. We're a little daunted by the details of where to get a costume and where/when to change (silly perhaps, but there we go) so any tips on simply arriving suitably would be welcome too :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Haven't you asked this before? Anyway I suggest you go to Angel and Demon night at Couples Club in Surry hills. Have a look at their website for details. A&D night is a theme night held on the first Friday of every month. A wife variety of people go and there will be lots of experienced as well as new people. Dress sexy/fetish or as an Angel or demon. Or at the very least come all in black. No jeans or trainers. You will get a locker with towels and sarongs in it. They are located in the communal change room. Everyone changes in the one place... But clothes, bags, etc in your lockable locker. It is BYO so give your alcohol to the bar staff. Just ask the woman at the door about where everything is as you are new. There is no pressure to play and you are welcome to walk around and watch only if you want. Always ask before touching and no means no. That also means you have to ask someone before touching too.... Just in case you fun yourself naked in the orgy room surrounded by a heap of naked bodies. Condoms and lube in every room. There is no real privacy at Couokes Club... Communal showers, spa, etc. hope you don't pussy out like lots of people do. Too many gunnas and not many doers. Thinking I should set up a Meeka's swingers club tour for Muggles and newbies.
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RHP User
11 years ago
iPhone typos. Sorry. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is more upmarket but less people but same set up. Everything communal, no private rooms, etc. But also very nice, but I have only been once on opening night.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes, we've asked before but more with "aspirational" intent rather than any serious plan. Now the baby's been born and we're a bit sorted it's more seriously on the agenda. Thanks for the advice. So is changing into these sarongs optional, for when you've decided to get a bit more naked?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Re Our Secret Spot, what do you mean by more upmarket? Are the people different, or is it just the decor?
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RHP User
11 years ago
And more upmarket as in decor, OSS used to be a small brothel so all rooms have bathroom, etc. As for clientele I don't know but I would imagine that thy would be very similar between the two clubs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Voyeurs will sometimes stay fully clothed or stay in their sexy dress / outfit so you don't have to get more naked. Although it is nice if you do. Always a little off putting when you are having sex and a couple is standing next to you watching fully clothed!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry I should say, bring an outfit or two in your bag, that way you have a few options and you can wait to see how comfortable you feel on the night. So you can get a little saucy or a lot. The Mrs will know what I mean! ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I suggest you go to Angel and Demon night at Couples Club in Surry hills. Have a look at their website for details. A&D night is a theme night held on the first Friday of every month. It so happens it's tomorrow.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks again. We're planning to go to the A&D 1st Friday in November... already can't wait :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
The Mrs has some "angelic" lingerie ready to go, and my devil look may not be quite as convincing, but I guess nobody's going to be looking at me anyway. Planning to get there 9.30ish... heard there should be a reasonable crowd there then?
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are also going to Angels & Demons on Friday 7th Nov and will be meeting naturalnaughty there :)) We will be there around 9.30pm before it gets too busy and we can't chat We always have a fantastic night at this party KnB
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have done both the Couples Club and Our Secret Spot, they both do first timers on Friday night. I prefeered Our Secret Spot, there wasn't as many younger people there but I did find the atmosphere to be warmer that at the couples club, I also found i felt more comfortable as there is more showers and toilets at our secret spot, I found that playing on matteres on the floor at the couples club for me was something I wasn't really comfortable with, I have only been to the couples club once but to our secret spot a couple of times now and I would stick to the couples club.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks threesome222 for that point of view. We're giving Couples Club a go tonight, and if it's our cup of tea then might give Secret Spot a go too some time in the future. Looking forward (slightly apprehensively) to tonight's entertainment!
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