The art of flirting

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Men can be elusive creature;s at times, have you tried the shy approach? Or even going out of your comfort zone and treat him as second in line? They can be very competitive! If that does"nt work, just grab him gently by the balls and seduce him with your mouth. If that fails throw him back and move on.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  The one that works the most is just to give them a little smile as you look in their eyes! Not a huge Cheshire Cat smile with eyes as big as dinner plates (scary) lol....but just that little "knowing" smile....no teeth showing...just cheeky! Lol does that even make bloody sense? Or, you could slowly look them up and down and then look in their eyes and smile! No words needed...the eyes and the smile says it all! Then sashy your cute little butt away and watch him either follow you around or come up and ask for your number! Works EVERY time! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I find it is fun to touch the person in conversation, not too long, or obvious, just for some personal contact. Talk to the person whilst starring into their eyes and smiling. If it feels right move in closer to whipser cheeky things and have a giggle. I like to keep it nice and light, short and sweet, u want to leave them wanting more... Maybe an encore of a butt wiggle if they watch u walk away and a cheeky smile and giggle ;)

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  billecart

  15 years ago

  when i was into bands 25 yrs ago and young.. i couldnt face the rejectioni didnt know the rulesand cant read body languagethat realy sucks still cant read a lot of things like thatmy mates , well half of them always had someone to take homemy best one liner was several n/y eves ago at conectionsit was a hot nite and i spied a girl on the fire escapeshe looked like she needed a drink of wateri said you look hot refering to her conditionshe was frienly to mebut i didnt know what id done till aftermy point being just be natural , relax, dont be crass( unless your both drunk.lol)dont expect anything to result from the exchange straight away. but look them straight in the eyes, hopfuly you will have that sparkle people like in themcan some one magic my some body language ability, ive got the sparkle

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Krissy_G'Its something I really struggle with. Thanks Krissy.....it's nice to know it's not just me. xx And thanks for the advice everyone. It will give it all a go. I'll just have to be brave because I really am shy (without alcohol and thats not good). Have a great easter everyone. MWAH

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If a cute man tries to talk to you and you can think of nothing to say then smile sweetly and tell him you're terribly shy and can think of nothing to say and ask him to please do all the talking. It'll come across as flirty :-)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I flirt with men I'm not attracted to, women and gay guys. So basically I can flirt very well with people I'm not interested/have no hope with. It's good practice... in theory.However a guy that I'm attracted to, I can't flirt to save my life! Hell, I can't even pick up the signals when they're flirting with me. Often, too late, I've had a friend tug my by the arm and say "He was flirting with you" and I've just groaned becaquse it's been too late and they've disappeared. (Big tattoed/pierced guy who was fanning me at BDO Sydney, if you're on here, message me, or wink me, I WILL be in touch!)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  yep, if you get eye contact you have generally got a good base to work with... smile a little, look away and then back again. if they are interested they'll still be looking. it's not hard to be confident when there is a room full of people separating you, my problem is when they approach.... i can't think of a damn thing to say! Once you get to know me tho i can be very wicked..... ish xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'However a guy that I'm attracted to, I can't flirt to save my life! Hell, I can't even pick up the signals when they're flirting with me. Often, too late, I've had a friend tug my by the arm and say "He was flirting with you" and I've just groaned becaquse it's been too late and they've disappeared. (Big tattoed/pierced guy who was fanning me at BDO Sydney, if you're on here, message me, or wink me, I WILL be in touch!)Lets put some of the great advice we're getting into practice. I know next time I will think of RHP and be strong. Thanx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I have to admit that there was a time in my life when I was bashful...then I turned 7 and it all seemed to change. | Really, how many times can you ride an elevator with the same person that might catch your eye and not want to say hello...so just do it. I suppose if you have an agenda then it's different, but I just like meeting and talking to people, so just start up a conversation with anything that might be appropriate (or inappropriate) at the drop of a hat. If the response is positive then I have someone new to say hello to the next time I see them and if not...oh well. | Ice breakers are great...and sometimes the other person is just as interested as you are. Now if I say something completely and totally out of character to a young lady on an elevator like "Hey, those shoes look great on you" and she smiles shyly and answers...who knows what might happen. Okay so I actually did say to a young lady in an adult shop who was looking at the Lelos in the glass case... "That purple one really rocks" and she jumped out of her skin...but she still smiled, then bought it. | And even better if I happen to get that very feminine shy little smile that says "just say hello, will you"...I can usually get in about 100 words per floor before the elevator doors open. | Quoting 'xxticklishxx'I think its because deep down I just dont trust men... | If it helps at all...I don't put much trust in anyone until I know them, male or female...but there only one way to find out. Just say hello...and see where it takes you. It's easier to close a door if you want to than it is to open one if you have already slammed it shut. | Besides...you can never have too many friends.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Im shy also, Ive actually turned & walked away from men, only because I didnt want to make a fool of myself if I spoke. Yes I can flirt & be cheeky with people I know & not really interested in. You'll probably think this is foolish though it is a bit of fun, if you practice flirting, acting cheeky & sexy in front of a mirror, when its time to flirt you will remember the fun you had & end up with a cheeky grin, your body lauguage will also express how terrific you feel because it was fun & when we are confident in ourselves we normally relax & the flirting can begin. Just go with the flow & have fun.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  in RL usually , but if I'm having a first coffee or drink with people that I've met very briefly on a site then I , if appropriate , (which it almost always is) , become suddenly fearless and full of flirty spontanaeity , if I go to a pub or club I don't do very well at all , too shy. Lucky I get alot of action off the net. However my shy nature is starting to go. The only advice I can give from the male perspective is that it's all about the eyes and body language , a little touch of our hand , brush against us. And do the fucking hair flick coz many of us actually know that one now ;) speak a little provocatively , but be more provocative with the body language , then just lean in for the killer kiss , and he's your piece of ass. Main thing is act naturally , all those movements are natural , so let em flow. Loz

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Generally, anyway. Sometimes I will meet someone and it just flows naturally, but most of the time I just try to be direct instead. It might not be as effective, but its easier. I think its all just part of having real chemistry vs wanting to get laid.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Actually, all that junk that I wrote up there was just a cover-up...I am so shy that before I learned a little secret, I would about pee my slacks if a good looking woman in a short skirt got on the elevator with me. In fact, I would just keep looking at my own shoes and push the button so I could get off on the next floor before I started getting an erection. | Okay, so the secret? I actually don't like them but got a pair of those really shiny patent leather Gucci dress shoes....you know the kind, with that ridiculously long toe out the front? Yes I know...not much of a fashion statement but they came with a perk. | I can still stand there with my head down and be shy, but those damn ugly shoes work like mirror...so if you ease your foot forward just a little you can peak? Hell yes, panty check...and if she isn't wearing any then, and only then, will I say hello. So will the Armani anaconda, but for some reason everything seems to work out just fine after that and if she is wearing them I can still jump off the elevator... | ...and head for the nearest bathroom. | | Some times even a frog can turn into a prince...you just never know.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Mmmm yummy , nice lips those , oh yeaaah , ok you passed the test ; you can have me

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  At the end of the day, men are are fairly simple creatures and we don't generally respond well to subtlty (well, I don't!!) I think too many opportunities are wasted when members of either gender are not direct. And I don't mean 'show us your tits' direct, more like chat for a while, see if there is a connection then say 'do you want to get a coffee sometime' kind of direct. That works for me, but then my wife is a HUGE caffeine addict and rarely knocks me back (and sometimes shows me her tits!!)

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