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  SweetSerenade

  25 days ago

  Unfortunately the majority of window shopper and fake profiles are single males. And the ones that do message predominantly lead with one word like "hey" and nothing else, or make little to no effort on their profile. They give a bad name for all single males, and that sucks but it is what it is. We're open to single males, but it's much easier just to head out to the valley and pick up a vanilla guy for the wife to play with, than the rigmarole of lining something up through the app.

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  PandaAndBri

  25 days ago

  From our point of view, we will seek a single make if we want one but having said that, I get enough messages in the chat as it is. I am not an anal girl and am quite small downstairs so I don’t know whether I could accommodate DP. I thinks it just that the overwhelming amount of messages that could be flowing, leads profiles to list that. We do play singularly but I am selective so I don’t want every Fred, Dick & Harry messaging me. I think that’s more the issue, not the homophobia.

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  SolidPresence

  25 days ago

  I thought it would be obvious that if someone says on their profile they are after women or couples, then men should not message them. When men that either can't read, or think they are so amazing that the couple just won't be able to help themselves, send messages anyway, it is akin to not taking any notice of or completely disregarding the other person (or couples desires or wants), and if that happened a lot, then the couple would rightly be pissed off. On top of that, some couples get a shit load of messages from single guys, even though their profile says they are not interested and those messages now fill their inbox. I think it would have less to do with homophobia and more to do with being allergic to people that are so selfish that they don't factor in the other persons wants and message anyway. I'm only a single guy, but I would assume a little bit of empathy would get most people to this conclusion... but maybe I am completely wrong.

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  WildestDream

  24 days ago

  Unfortunately lot of single guys have made a bad name for the whole category, so even the good ones are paying the price of this kind of behaviours Than in some other cases some hubbies cannot accept to have their feelings harmed from seeing their woman having pleasure with another man. In this case we are not speaking about swingers, but just a couple looking for unicorn for growing the male ego

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  Sescalinata

  24 days ago

  Having chatted with a few women in couples at events, it seems that a few of them are only going along with the swinger thing because the husband is desperate for an MFF. Single men for her are off the table. One husband apparently flew into a rage at a party because a good looking young guy was chatting to his wife and threw the guys car keys into the pool. These are just my observations and of course, it is not the case in the main, but could account for the "NO SINGLE MEN" statements in some profiles. Ive previously had a couples profile on RHP but we were looking for bi men.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  24 days ago

  It's because of two reasons. 1. Couples choice. 2. Thirsty men and their expectations. See it all the time! Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  24 days ago

  I think OP you have skiped over one important thing: CONSENT. Let's get this straight, a couples preference isn’t fear. Being happy with your partner with one person doesn’t automatically equal wanting more people involved. Couples don’t owe single men anything, just because they enjoyed one dynamic. but expecting other couples to say yes to what you want, is entitlement. That's exactly why a lot of couples say , NO SINGLE MALES Ms Foxy

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  nutsundae

  24 days ago

  For many couples, isn't it a bit like a NO JUNK MAIL sticker on the letterbox? Lots of couples are very open to play with single males, but don't include men in their preferences, and state clearly in their profile they are not interested, purely in an attempt to keep their inbox manageable and their sanity intact. Of course, many others genuinely have no interest whatsoever in Single Males. Which is completely their prerogative. Remember, not all couples are interested in unicorns, either. They generally don't need to plaster in on their profile though, because I don't imagine too many couple profiles are getting smashed every day with a conga line of women asking if they can fuck Mrs. High-five I guess to any that do....

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  Everest

  23 days ago

  I’d say the bulk of the couples I’ve played with have “no single males” on their profile for the exact reason nutsundae pointed out

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  Felicitous

  19 days ago

  I agree with the above comments.. Firstly ...the 'tone' you're perhaps implying or reading into with capital letters employed - likely comes from a place of frustration from those that also don't have their profile read as has been said. Making it a BOLD statement so not to be missed. Secondly sexual preferences are just that - to each their own.. however I do feel that while many new couples are seeking a FFM experience, or MFMF there's a much smaller % looking for MFM or MMF. MMMF (at least in the beginning) Why? So many reasons.. not always male led - for example FFM maybe the girl is not keen on being with another man and wants to explore her bi side. There's also societal and socially cultured expectations and personal conditioning. Is FFM seen as more acceptable vs MMF this must play a part. Soft porn usually has this dynamic? I definitely think there are a % of men in couples that don't want to see their partner with a man but will happily have a lady... Who knows the reason - I do personally find that pretty ironic.. Equally plenty of hot wives don't want their men to see women.. Depending on the couple and their dynamic not everyone has the same rules. It is how it is 🤷🏻‍♀️ The other part of your question.. 'why no' to more men in the bedroom' as above that of course comes down to personal preferences and comfort. Likely a million different reasons from both sides. Just the same as plenty of MFM experiences don't include double penetration.. Assuming such things and that being the reason to say no to singles is also pretty ironic 🤔 😂 What's involved in those decisions.. I assume it all is Ego / insecurity/ vulnerability/ attraction/ comfort - from both parties. V

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  Ladyfingers

  17 days ago

  From my experience it’s a male ego thing, you know some want to control the situation for various reasons, like lack of confidence. I have a solo profile here plus a solo one and a couples one with my husband on another site. In our couples profile my husband has strictly ruled out single men but single women and couples only. We swing but again it has to be with another couple or single women. I am only allowed to pair up with a single man at events/venues if he’s with another woman. Often who we are attracted to is different. I have a solo profile simply to explore my own sexuality and I am able to attract more like minded people who I find attractive mentally and physically

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  Elizabethhenry

  16 days ago

  When we started our account in here about 7 years ago we listed our interest for "single men" We had our parameters stated on our account for the blokes. We had messages from what seemed like every body who viewed our page. Literally over a hundred messages flooded our inbox. Slowly sifting through the mess, there were one of four types messaging us. The pic collectors The "hi". no introduction. Blank profile with no details The " i know I'm out of your age parameters but...." And lastly the wanna be "alpha" males "invite me round and I'll fuck your mrs better than you" We quickly discovered that in order for us to fulfil wifeys cock craving, we opted to find like minded couples. We get the best of both worlds and have less shit to sort through.

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  Fuckmywifexxx

  15 days ago

  We never CAPS SHOUTED NO SINGLE GUYS but when we first opened up we thought our journey would be linear it was too advanced for us. Now it's our favourite dynamic - with the right guys.

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  OurfunSYDcouple

  10 days ago

  We have played with a few single males and can say some meets were great and some not so great, however as part of our journey in this lifestyle as a couple we try to take something positive from every interaction… Some things that have really frustrated me as the F of this couple is the dishonesty and misrepresentation that some guys offer to try and lock us in to meet… Now hubby has no issue watching me get pummelled and join in and out as he sees fit, however there have been some guys that have showed up to our place that look nothing like their pics they provided or start changing expectations once they are there including one guy who asked my hubby if he was going to wait outside the room while we played which was totally outside of anything we had discussed prior to him coming over… We have had some negative and positive meets with couples too where they have misrepresented how involved both parties would be in the meet causing an air of uncomfortablness and weirdness when everyone is in the same room… Whilst we have slowed down meeting with single M’s it’s purely because there are so many other dynamics we are hoping to experience and would like to figure out personally as a couple on RHP how to attract genuine couples and single females where all parties are open, comfortable and excited to meet and play with us all above board with hang ups or insecurities. Best wishes and happy playing to you all who read this response!

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  Mrnyceguy

  10 days ago

  As soon as I read on a couples profile No single guys I don’t even bother.

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  GlitzyGiraffe

  9 days ago

  Fear? No fear. For us, simply not our primary focus. There is only so much spare time, so we are replying to priorities of our interests.

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  OwnedAndAdored

  8 days ago

  It’s the overwhelm. Too many chats from too many people. When we have interested in men on we get a lot of messages from single men. It’s overwhelming sometimes to juggle too many chats. Three active chats is my limit and then I start to struggle. It’s nothing against them. It’s purely overwhelming.

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  Gettin_outtahere

  7 days ago

  Ok team, as someone in that single male category, I'd love to know what helps get a couples attention amongst the mess? Even I get random messages from local and interstate single guys (because my profile says Bi-sexual) that are generic or simply "Hey". So I get the overwelming disappointment and can only imagine the quantity of messages going to you that just sap all capacity to try and entertain a single guy. However, PLEASE don't give up on us all 😂 theres good ones out there still trying to be decent and fun.

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