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The outgoing chatty girl or the girl who sits down on her own?

November 08 2009

Often when I go out clubbing in Adelaide with my friends hitting the usual spots I find that more often or not that out of my group of friends im the one who receives the most attention from the guys. In this case i am the girl who is having a good time but needs to sit down and take a break so she can get up and dance a bit more or simply has sore feet. In the mean time my single friends are chatting to the guys and dancing with them on the dance floor. Now the guys dont really talk to me until ive gone and sat down and strike up conversation with me and these are the guys my friends have been chatting up all night. so why do the guys come talk to me when my gorgeous friends have been chattin n flirtin with them the whole night?

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well, I'm a guy.. last time I checked... and when I'm at a club it is nearly impossible to speak because my voice is .. well.. in the lower frequency ranges.. and I really have to shout to be heard.. it's incredibly annoying after a while... I really can't have a conversation when every time I open my mouth the person I am talking to says "What did you say?". Perhaps other guys also feel this way.... anyway, it might be easier to talk when your ear is right there, rahter than having to lean all over your beautiful breasts to get in your ear... of course, I am merely speculating... since some men dont seem to mind leaning all over a beautiful pair of ta~tas any chance they get. Of course, this is just a spur of the moment theory. :-) Hugs Gaz

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tamworthguy46

16 years ago

What's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this ? Do I know you ?...Mind if I sit down ? You have beautifull Eyes ! I suppose there could be many reasons ?, Maybee they are looking for conversation later in the night, or they feel more comfortable 1 on 1 Maybe they noticed you have been watching them and are checking you out ? Xo Tam

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RHP User

16 years ago

maybe a single, happy, pretty and friendly looking girl like yourself sitting alone is a much nicer prospect for a male! whatever you are doing, keep at it! It's obviously working! lovebittenxoxoxox

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Bubbaj

16 years ago

I am the girl that sits and relaxes while my girlfriends are the ones chatting up all the men and flirting with them.... I dont get anyone sitting next to me talking...maybe its time to move to adelaide... :PPLEASE PICK ME PICK ME!!!

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RHP User

16 years ago

Thanks everyone for replyin to my post, I have responses for all of you. Gaz - Can completely understand what your saying there, I have trouble hearing at the best of times one of my tricks is I pull out my phone and write what I said on it n show it to the person im talkin to so they can understand Tam - Thanks for the compliment. Why am I here? Broaden my horizons, maybe meet the man of my dreams. Mainly coz I work shift work and find it hard to make plans to go out here I have some close friendships with guys but there's rules in place that u cant fratenize with management. im not even meant to hang out with my best friend who is a manager but i tend to ignore it since only one of the other managers has a problem with it. LoveBitten - thanks for such a lovely response. Bubbaj - Adelaide is a lovely city im sure there are plenty of lovely men that would want to meet you Cheers Gutta_Angel

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RHP User

16 years ago

LMFAO Bubbaj.... I cannot for a minute imagine you pretending to be a wallflower. Your so bloody vibrant in a crowd of naked people.. lolz... I just couldn't imagine you sitting still in a crowd of people fully clothed! A trip to Adelaide would be fun though... :p Lots of beautiful RHP people from Adelaide! Hugs Gazza

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RHP User

16 years ago

i don't know, maybe it's easier to sit down and talk, regardless of who it is, than it is to dance and talk. And since you're with those other girls, you're kind of a familliar face instead of sitting down and talking to a perfect stranger. Having a known common ground, however ephemeral is less intimidating than starting from scratch.

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RHP User

16 years ago

well.... back in my younger days (before kids and post-baby jelly belly etc). when i did go out with the girls to clubs n pubs... i was the one bustin the moves for hours n hours dancin me little butt off till a sexy stud with the smooth mooves picked me up at closing time and carried me off into the sunrise to make sweet sweet love to me. chatting up.... nah wasnt much for it, couldnt hear, i let the body language do the talkin! LOL. but i had a friend back then who was the wallflower and not much for dancin, she ALWAYS picked up too. so i guess... it depends on if they want ya for ya conversation or ya dance moves LOL. ah yes, i vaguely remember having loadsa fun out on the dance floor.to quote the sexy Joe Nichols "tequeila makes her clothes fall off..." unfortunately, i wont even wear shorts in public now so so much for dancin!!! love jemma365117082

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RHP User

16 years ago

I am a naturally chatty person also love to dance..Maybe I move around to fast for guys to get a chance to chat to me...hahahhahaaha... Love those great nights of dancing to really unwind. sweepetite41 xxxxxx Do what makes you happy

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