The point of adding friends??

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  A very good question, and I have to admit I send a few friend requests, I guess just because the option is there. I have no idea if it serves any real purpose because you have your hotlist too, which of course only you can see.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  but I have a good collection of friends. No idea why really, I never ask for friends, I do receive a lot of requests. Many of them I have never even spoken with others have been lovers, some I will never meet, some I just converse with.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  On my friends list are people who I look at and they make me feel happy for one reason or another- memories, conversations, pictures or strength. Every person on my list is awesome. And I look at them and no matter how sad or down I feel they make me smile :) Xxviolet

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  gazpacho

  12 years ago

  Easy access to the discussions they've participated in.... Easier to find when you wish to contact same... Their activities come up in my news feed so I don't have to go searching... Cheers Gaz - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Paradisepair

  12 years ago

  There's instant messaging privileges that happens when you friend someone. Could be wrong...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Yes I was curious about that too, thanks OG 2800 ! I have assumed the "friend" are people that you have hooked up with....I will usually check out a woman's friends list before msging her but it can be a little off putting to see & read some of the pathetic shit some guys put out there about their sad arsed selfs.... Also I hate it when one if the "friends" checks me out in response.... I understand there's a way to block your ID when viewing peoples profile but think that's only with a PC user and 99% of the time in on my iPhone Sticky Rick - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  In the forums, adding photos, interested in events etc..... All my friends are people I have met and enjoy their company.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  All of my friends are people I'm friends with in real life. Just makes it easier to see if they've posted on any if the forums, etc,

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  We've tended to accept friend requests from those we have actually met. However, it interests me to find that how others can judge you by association of people you have met (whether you have played or not) or to assume you've slept with the lot. I say if you want to know more about me................ ask! Mrs TTFxx

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Is when you check out a strangers friends list and then "hate" when said friends look at your profile in return... Maybe if you put some "pathetic shit" in your profile you might have some friends and or improved ratios too... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

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  Two_Tarts

  12 years ago

  The only benefit is that you get to see what your friends post on rhp, and of course that your friends can see and know that you do like them and want to actively include them in your circle. If you just add unknown people who randomly send you a request then it kind of defeats the value of a friends list. We have only added people that we have actually met and enjoyed their company enough that we actually regard them as our real life friends and would be really happy to enjoy their company again. We certainly have not gotten naked with all our friends, and sometimes we may have met people many times in social groups before we moved from seeing them as an acquaintance to a friend who's presence adds meaning to our time. If we find that we do not have not have an active interest to see people, or our different paths mean we have fallen out of contact with then for a long time then we will remove them. Not because we don't like them or would not be happy to see them, but because we like it to represent where we actually are today.

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  Seachange73

  12 years ago

  In the early stages of my membership here, I had accepted friends even from those I haven't really spoken with and it got out of control. I took a little break - 2+ weeks - from RHP and evaluated my progress here. Then it occurred to me it did not make sense to have that many friends I dont talk to. It is not Facebook and there are no bragging rights. So I deleted my friends list a few weeks ago and started anew. Now I am being friends only with people I have connected and chatted with. I have limited it to 2-3, turning down friends invites every day from strangers. Just being true to myself. And if I want to track any new progress with my friends, I will contact them. Simple. The friends reason to track their movements in RHP is quite creepy and stalkish, IMO. Lol. But hey, they are free to do as they please with each other as they are consenting adults. None of my beeswax...

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