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We met, he liked, we f*#ked, he said he wanted more...then....
February 28 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well. I suppose everyone has priorities. Perhaps he has other matters to attend to besides screwing? I mean, it's hard to imagine, but I find the priorities of others very intriguing! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Never ever think anyone is going to come back to your bed, no matter what they say When I get wet I will say anything, I have been known to promise them the keys to my car if they just keep doing that lil thing they do. Same with guys with nice hard cocks, have your mouth full of balls ready to explode and they will tell you that your the hottest, best little sucking slut in town Just enjoy the now, pin your ears back and enjoy Its not only men that do that its women as well. To get what you want especially in the sexual heat of it all, people will tell you what you want to hear. I hope you have lots of hot sexy fun on rhp, if it gets more than that , then that’s nice if that is what you want.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's not only the men that do that...I know at times as I am whipping the condom off them and getting dressed that I won't see them again but I don't tell them that to their face. It is easier to ignore them than hurt them and say to their face that you would never go there again! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
We met, he liked, we fucked, he conquered. Why people don't man up and tell people the truth... well it's awkward isn't it? It's easier to lie and say I had a great time, I would like to see you again so that they can leave in a cum induced happy cloud rather then an unhappy awkward situation where the woman could potentially turn into a crying, angry, unreasonable woman. To be honest, I do understand that it is hard to tell people the truth, I wanted a bonk I got it so now I am goneski, but what I don't understand is why go out of your way to say that you want more when it often isn't even necessary? Mind games. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
It depends on how you click. There are those girls I have been with that have only ever been a one night thing because I didnt feel anything more than that. Others just stay as a casual thing.On the other hand- sometimes we can just be jerks lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
If your going to have a one night stand... Keep it that way... If you know as a guy or girl you get attached to someone after you have sex... Don't leave yourself open for the hurt that a one night stand will deliver! It's always a 50/50 gamble if you leave it to your impulses.... If you want more than that.... Make the person earn it!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry to hear about what happened, but some men tend to enjoy a challenge, and of course when they get what they want tey move on to the next challenge. It sucks I know, but then again you don't wanna waste your time with someone like that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think a lot of men find wooing and then telling the women anything they like to hear..a game.. Sad but true.. Is like a game and when they win at the end( getting a fuck), they lose interest..Not nice i know, its funny though that some of these guys are willing to go to such extremes just to have sex... even just a one nighter... <<< shakes head xxTRIPSxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
It should be a one night lay down. A one night fuckyourbrainsout. I think a one night stand can lead to other things, hey my marriage started out like that the silly bugga forgot to go home for 18 odd years. Nobody has to earn anything , a relationship is not like a rabbit in a greyhound race thats the big prize. Other relationships can start with a one night stand.Its just that people need to get it in their head before they share their pink bits that it may be just a fuck and run and so be it. Nobody would get up wipe their dick on the curtain and say, yep nice fuck see ya sweet cheeks. You never know as they may get pissed on sat and not have a root then where will they go if they piss off ever plan B girl or guy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like lots of variety and hot sex. Only thing is thatI also likea guy to chill and not just shower and run. Occasional repeats maybe too. all a new discovery ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
...people do it, and as mentioned probably either an easier way of just saying that they really don't want to meet again on the spot or had an agenda coming in. Either way, better now than when you might just have a more substantial emotional investment made and watch the share price fall to zero. | Put up a pic and you will no doubt be flooded with admirers, zealots and other people that may be just what you are looking for and not what seems to frustrate the bejebbers out of you. | All good...just have fun with it or fold and walk away.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Why is it called a one night stand? . ummm your feet are resting on it take me up against the wall dear
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RHP User
14 years ago
stop generalising about men
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RHP User
14 years ago
this is a sex site...........if you expect to meet serious relationship material here....you are fooling yourself.... guys will say anything they like, be whoever they can be and behave however they need to........just to get you into bed.....and once they have done that.... look for the next woman willing to drop their guard for just that instant...... its just how it is.....women are the other way round.........begin with promises that its no strings....but after the deeds done...begin making plans for the next 3 weeks, and get all pissed of and snarky because hes not called....sounds like strings to me?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'D_G_T' Why is it called a one night stand? . ummm your feet are resting on it take me up against the wall dearahhhhh ohh I am sooooooo blond! I think I would like one of those with a cop that said hands up against the wall and spread your legs. ohhhh dam now I am going to get in my car and speed to the gym! I may get lucky
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RHP User
14 years ago
One night kneel? I'd settle for that.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and sometimes if they are good, stay. Just make sure the collar is on properly and that they are at least trained to go on the newspaper you left for them on the tile floor in the kitchen. | It's not easy when they aren't housebroken yet...but that could be what separates a one-nighter from repeat offender, not having to teach them everything. I like them when they know a few tricks of their own...surprise me, just don't chew on my slippers for chrissake. | I hate cleaning up messes...at least I can burn the sheets. | | I have a rolled up newspaper and I know how to use it. Why...do some of them like that?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Similar things have happened to me Tuscan, my past two long term girlfriends I met for what was intended to be a one-off thing. Just because it's a sex site doesn't mean you can't discovering a meaningful relationship but by the same token, I wouldn't expect it either. If you click and it works, keep doing it. If you're not enjoying it, stop. Pretty simple really. I've never found the game very interesting to be frank, I don't really enjoy chasing someone that much. If the feeling is mutual and you both enjoy each other's company, why the need for the game? What's so difficult with saying "I enjoy spending time with you, etc" and then doing as much?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh well NEXT
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes James of course, I agree. However people like playing games because it makes them feel intelligent. Strange little world. Sometimes it's enough to watch it unfold like an imminent train wreck, other times, the couple seem to enjoy each other's silly challenges. Who am I to argue with it if it works for them. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'll give you a one night kneel Stalky..........*just down here checkin' if those legs are real* ummmm hello!!!! been spending a bit of time in spin class have we? Looking good mate
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RHP User
14 years ago
True....but it makes it damn difficult when you're expected to play games.....be expected to do the chasing....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Cause most men aren't wired like that I don't think. They are after the chase, the taste of new pussy. That is what gets them going. I would say you are probably not the norm in this. Quoting 'jamesnp' Similar things have happened to me Tuscan, my past two long term girlfriends I met for what was intended to be a one-off thing. Just because it's a sex site doesn't mean you can't discovering a meaningful relationship but by the same token, I wouldn't expect it either. If you click and it works, keep doing it. If you're not enjoying it, stop. Pretty simple really. I've never found the game very interesting to be frank, I don't really enjoy chasing someone that much. If the feeling is mutual and you both enjoy each other's company, why the need for the game? What's so difficult with saying "I enjoy spending time with you, etc" and then doing as much?
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RHP User
14 years ago
How is this for a game Stalky.. I was chatting on and off to a friend most of today... and I mentioned at least three times I wanted to fuck him, well.... my exact words after some very nice chit chat were....1st email.... There is a hotel I want to try out... Wanna fuck?2nd email.....I should be squirming on your dick3rd email ... Fuck meAnd what do I get in return. Nada, doesn't mention it at all.. just talks about other... stuff. Master mind player? Don't tell the pretty girl with big ta~tas no, cause you could be horny later??? Or am I supposed to take him out to dinner first? Get him in the mood first? Pffffttt Men!!!LMFAO... Meeka
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Hawt1
14 years ago
All good points.. Great discussion.. Thanks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Poor Meeks.....your role-reversal game finally bit you in the arse :-PIs it just me or have you discovered the male version of what you were like at 16? :-P (or am I making too many assumptions? :-P)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lolz Meeks. Your mojo is back in triplicate huh? Would you like me to send you a tub of Rawleighs Man and Beast? The dude's obviously an idiot. Maybe he needs some electrodes to the brain and then a jolly good rogering to clear the sinuses! I know just the cure for you though. Dirty bird. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Has clearly lost his freakin mind !!!!!! Perhaps he would rather One night in Bangkok? no not the song.......two bricks oughta do it ahhhhhh I make special flat kok for yooooo
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RHP User
14 years ago
Don't go stirring the little Italian up, I've seen her take heads clean off with a few little words
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RHP User
14 years ago
Funny James.. I have known this guy for a year now and he always does it.. I obviously like it... Begging, pleading... Please will you kiss me, fuck me & treat me rough, I want to come in your mouth before you come in my arse... You know what I mean :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
But thanks James, I am touched by your concern :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
Any time meeks :-P
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RHP User
14 years ago
You will work out which ones are stringing you along and which will be ongoing playmates....my best advice would be to be absolutely clear in your profile or contact with these men, about what your expectations might be for further play. Explain you would rather them be honest if they don't wish to take it further than one or two playdates. If you are also looking for more than that, also be very clear about it too, if you are asking for no strings and 'then' change your tune, that alone can send them running regardless of how good you are in the sack so to speak. Only you can set the levels of respect and honesty from the start.......and begin by not accepting less than you deserve. xx DGT
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's what people who lack courage and integrity do. Unfortunately it seems that makes up the majority of people in the world.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Fly_boy1987' It depends on how you click. There are those girls I have been with that have only ever been a one night thing because I didnt feel anything more than that. Others just stay as a casual thing.On the other hand- sometimes we can just be jerks lol Quoting 'lmfao12' If your going to have a one night stand... Keep it that way... If you know as a guy or girl you get attached to someone after you have sex... Don't leave yourself open for the hurt that a one night stand will deliver! It's always a 50/50 gamble if you leave it to your impulses.... If you want more than that.... Make the person earn it! Quoting 'jamesnp' Similar things have happened to me Tuscan, my past two long term girlfriends I met for what was intended to be a one-off thing. Just because it's a sex site doesn't mean you can't discovering a meaningful relationship but by the same token, I wouldn't expect it either. If you click and it works, keep doing it. If you're not enjoying it, stop. Pretty simple really. I've never found the game very interesting to be frank, I don't really enjoy chasing someone that much. If the feeling is mutual and you both enjoy each other's company, why the need for the game? What's so difficult with saying "I enjoy spending time with you, etc" and then doing as much?Its surprising how very different an outlook three guys of approximately the same age .... can be ... If I had to chose the best response, attitude, and outlook .. it would have to be James .. I would say you have walked this earth before and have so much a more mature attitude that doe not correspond with your chronological age ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
James has obviously never walked the earth before. That's just silly. I mean look at him! At best, he bounced around on three legs. :) I think all the points of view exposed by these three guys have merit. Each from a different perspective. That's what I find so intriguing about these forums. Not everyone has the same experiences, interests, lovers, demons or hang ups that I have, so their opinions are interesting to me. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Bummer....it took me another7 years of marriage before those hooks got rusty, I wouldn't be so impolite now, but a..a..a..h I remember those days... young wild and full of cum, say anything to blow days...forgive me but I sure would like a taste of that again... have a good wine.. be pissed fo a while and move on..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Make a bigger impact, its simple genetics, we simply are not programmed to be with one person, that is something that is slowly being re-programmed over thousands of years. So unless that impact was massive Its on to the next one.Stand out as the one that cannot be forgotten and you wont.But women do the exact same thing but i think for entirely different reasons. And increasingly so. We have all done it, BUT when your the one that makes the impact, i cant get away from you and if i am it drives me nuts.Figure than one out.
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RHP User
14 years ago
What some people say, and whether that remains consistent with what they do, are just conversation. And it's not gender specific that women hang their hopes on what men say, and visa~versa. . After all is said and done, a lot more is said than done.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Because He is a user and he hurt you real bad that's wrong. Nearly all the men just only want sex they don't care about women's feeling's at all. But there are good men out there don't do this at all. Because I'am very lucky lady to have a good man. In my past I was in the same position as you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Blame it on hormones I say...the dopamine rush of feeling soooo good and then no longer the inclination.....these things are often about timing and inclination.....women do it too.....guilty
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RHP User
14 years ago
everything else is a bonus!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nearly all men are use's women for one stand's and that's wrong because us women we get hurt in the process and it's wrong. I've been there and was a very long progress to get over. So I waited for the right man to come and I have him now forever. Not all men do this there are good men out there.
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RHP User
14 years ago
"Love boys playing hard to get" Hay chilli, like your way of thinking, it's not good but gets the job done, if they aren't going to answer, move to the next, life is to short for games.😃
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RHP User
14 years ago
Cause unless you plan on being with the lady in a relationship, after shagging a woman, what else is there to achieve... Never wank over the same porno more than once either..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Perfect timing for this discussion. Recently played with this guy... he wanted to stay the night. OK that's different but he lived quite a distance so let him. He kept texting me all week, asking if I was seeing anyone else, assuring me he wasn't and we met up again. Tells me he really likes me and all that BS and doesn't want to share me with anyone. I didn't say a word about wanting more... only thing I'm interested in is hot passionate sex. Then hear nothing! Can't play a player and most of us on here are players. I found it quite amusing that he needed to say all that to get me into bed, then got possessive and then vanished. Wasn't needed at all - he had a great body and was charming. I bet the next girl on his hit list is hearing the same thing.
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6exxy
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' It's not only the men that do that...I know at times as I am whipping the condom off them and getting dressed that I won't see them again but I don't tell them that to their face. It is easier to ignore them than hurt them and say to their face that you would never go there again! xFunlovingx
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mrsrealistic
14 years ago
men tend to go for the kill but after the cum is when they decide -sorry girls but thats the way it is-talking and comfy hugging is what done it for me
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RHP User
14 years ago
same reason women do
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RHP User
14 years ago
some people stay some people play...so what you might have thought it would be something more & it sucks that its not but hey you only met him once, brush yourself off, forget about it & get back on the bandwagon. Each & every person is different & the only person that will ever know WHY is the guy so don't waste any of your energy worrying about .. that energy can be put into finding someone who is worthwhile & in the meantime have fun :) xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Majority of men are all the same whoo you to get in bed then once they have had you lose interest because they have tried you,and move on to greener pastures,now i said majority not all.
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RHP User
14 years ago
So are there a bunch of profiles on here created by the same person just to answer this subject? I dunno about you lot, or who you've been shagging, but men (yep, fuckit, I'm going to generalise here too) don't feed you lines just to get you into bed. You probably make them think you're up for a shag only.Men (yep, that broad brushstroke) like intimacy and cuddles and being close to and hanging around someone they like. Men aren't going to hang around someone they don't like, and often you can't tell until the shagging is out of the way that someone is ugly inside and out and a starfish to boot!Men are awesome and I love them. Women should be mor honest with themselves, and the fellas they're talking to, about what they *really* want.
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RHP User
14 years ago
it's entirely possible that us girls can and do give shit head ya know!!! . No seriously though, if the guy doesn't feel that 'zing' of connection, just as us girls don't, then you can't bag him out for doing exactly what we would do.....like not go back. It works both ways girls. They're allowed to not be that into us, just as we are them....let's keep it real here!
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RHP User
14 years ago
DGT & PBG, the original question is why do men never contact you again after they have slept with you when they have said that they want more. And sure not everyone floats your boat and yes there may have been the odd guy who might have chewed his arm off to get away from me.... But it doesn't take much to let someone know that you don't want to take things further. Come on, you are aware when someone is expecting more because you have given them that impression to begin with. I still say... Grow some balls people!. I do admit that I haven't read all the responses above. I have a short attention span.... Next!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I know all about your attention span.....it's all that water you're swimming around in young Dory I only used head as an example, it seemed nicer than bringing up the fact that we can be dud roots too! we can also have expectations of what it 'might' become , beyond the reality of it. The nature of a woman's heart and mind Meeks (well except maybe yours, mine, and PBG's LOL) He may not have meant 'more' as in relationship, but more as in another hook up, but got a whiff of a whole nuther different 'more' and got the flock outa there
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would rather honesty than being ignored. Being ignored without a reason hurts more.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't sugarcoat if I do not feel a connection. So honesty is the best policy. As DGT said, girls do it just as much as guys. The door swings both ways!
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RHP User
14 years ago
...by a woman. same thing. I'm an emotional guy, and yes it hurts. we had been on and off the idea for 8 months - and finally, it happened, and she burned me. best advice? get over it. remove them from your contacts and memory and move on. it's difficult, but I'm trying this approach, and I feel better already!re-iterating everyone else, basically. everyone does it...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Seeing as PBG made a good generalisation, I'll follow. Woman may say they're just up for sex, but pretty soon they want to hang out, want you to meet their kids or want to meet yours. I'm a reasonably nice guy, say nice and honest things, but that is not love! I do not want to live with someone, or get married, or have kids. I'm happy on my own with sex when it arises. Even though I say all that, the number of times I get the "oh, so you just used me for sex then" line. Gah! I had sex, they had sex, a pretty fair swap if you ask me. I was used too, but I don't mind that one bit! But no, most women want sex PLUS something else. The idea that I must give something to get sex has a word. That's when I exit stage right. Or when it was just a crap shag, that would do it too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'D_G_T' it's entirely possible that us girls can and do give shit head ya know!!! . No seriously though, if the guy doesn't feel that 'zing' of connection, just as us girls don't, then you can't bag him out for doing exactly what we would do.....like not go back. It works both ways girls. They're allowed to not be that into us, just as we are them....let's keep it real here!
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RHP User
14 years ago
when the deed is done and no further calls don't let it get to you. Those wankers always come back down the track with a message,"hey Babe what's doing" LOL send em a text back who are you! That is the best revenge,and when they say there name and say something like "don't you remember how much I loved your pussy' say nah I don't know who you are and then say oh wait your Steve when his name is something else. Play the players!!!!! NEXT Another good pickup is send your favourite buddy a text saying wanna fuck,he'll say yes. Did that recently and OH MY God did he love my revenge sex haha! Spose that is using and abusing,am I bad???
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RHP User
14 years ago
Don't let them know they were good, Get up get dressed and when they least expect it say well i have to go. Do not text,let them call you,they will. These guys need to be treated the same way. Yes don't give in so easy to their whims. If it is sex on a 1st date treat it as that until they contact you ,then the ball is in your court. What we can't have we want and if they feel like they have been used they will think about the next girl. lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
guys do that alot,women as well i imagine , im not one of them and its about tactfully squeezing the answers out, the least someone can do is say it was good but im not willing to meet you again, but people for some stupid reason go the very long way of telling lies instead of the truth,its ridiculous !! bit of honesty goes a long way, if i could meet a woman that i clicked with sexually and mentally, i would be knocking down her door every second day to see her again,i wouldnt care if i seemed too keen,at least my actions are honest in continuing to show interest.i dont know what it is about the mind games, one second very enthusiastic , the next, wont get a hear a thing back for them all i can say is people need to get some guts and speak some truth, its just good manners after all
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RHP User
14 years ago
In response to Havesomefun72 Well I'm a reader of the forums but first time 'responder' here... but jeez your comment made me want to reply. NOT all women want more at all. What are we all so emotionally needy that a couple of fucks and we are introducing our kids? Maybe you need to 'screen' your playmates a bit better and not just say yes yes yes to anyone who replies... just saying! BTW - has someone been stalking the women on eharmony to boost their ego perhaps!!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Of course not all women want more from a bloke than sex, but I reckon most do, maybe a generalisation on Havesomefun's part, but non the less for the most part accurate. From what I have read, and this may be an urban myth, where's SLK? but a womans brain secretes Oxytocin which causes a woman to want to pair bond. Perhaps women who can fuck like a man are deficient in regard to Oxytocin.My own personal feeling is that deep down most women want and crave the white picket fence, monogamous relationship.It's just the way females are wired......mostly....there are of course always the exceptions to the rule...I have even met one or two of them.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
Don't think of it as a one night stand or casual sex, just think if it as helping out a fellow Aussie have an orgasm. Sex is simple. Stop bloody complicating it. It makes the rest if us look like we have attachment/daddy issues.
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