RHP

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F45

What are people on here looking for

November 15 2009

sex

Hi All   So I was wonderring after looking on all the profiles lately how many people are looking for a casual fling and how many are looking for an ongoing thing..relationship or casual....   It seems like a lot of work goes into hooking up.... does anyone hope to meet someone they can have an actual relationship with...   And if you do what are you putting into your profile or messages to express this   from someone who knows really good sex comes with exploration and getting to know each others bodies.. likes/dislikes

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well originally I would have said I wanted something more but now am after whatever is on offer. If it leads to more all the better but I'm not going to knock back a good time just because it wont lead further.Looking at profiles most people seem to only want casual which varies from casual with the same person to casual hookups when they want with different people. Always look with the hope that someting good will come of it but these days after so much rejection it is hard to expect anything so just take it as it goes.As for work in hooking up. I don't think there is much work involved at all, well there isn't if you are a woman. I have a female housemate that talks to about 50 people from on here and if she wanted could hook up with a different guy every day if she so wished. Yet every day she has more messaging her to choose from. Finally yes you are correct in that knowing/learning about someone definately helps in the bedroom and the sex improves with it. Nice to see someone from close by

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well I kind of agree.. but also disagree... because I've had the most memorable sex with strangers I met walking down a garden path... or a steam room... or a swing club.. or a sex party... I couldnt tell you their names let alone their likes and dislikes... in some instances it was too dark to even distinguish their faces!! ... however.. the part I agree entirely with is this... the sex with those same people was really good sex because we did spend a lot of time exploring and getting to know each other's bodies.   I like meeting people and flirting with them... you can't help making some friends this way.. but I'm not looking for a "relationship" or "an affair"... and if sex happens by reason of this meeting of the minds.. then OK. I'm up for it... Also, I dont mind perving. :p   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I sent one here about an hour ago, about rooting in the back of the ute, must of screwed up or something. I'll give ya the short version this time, Ute, unko, messy, amateur, pissed, sniffed my fingers for hours afterwards, you know until the smell of sweet pussy is all gone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Basically it in my profile...I think !! I am just after FWB or a FB .... Just looking for what the wife cant offer... If it turns out to be more well... just play it by ear and see what happens. What are you really after ???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    usually it says it in their profiles, if people would only read themGuys, i think a lot of you dont read profiles, you just look at pictures and waste your valuable message allotments.So advice: read profiles before sending messages and that would save a lot of wasted time.Ours says NO single guys, yet i get about 10 daily from single guys asking to play with me..lolIt is just starting to get really annoying now, so Please, read profiles and that may help you in knowing what people are looking for.Leesa

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Nah - no one hooks up here - lots of talk and lots of 'the one' messages on profiles so it is a very confussing site - as I thought we were all here for sex...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm after a bit of everything really.You can never have too many friends, so I am always open to friendship, and the same goes for a relationship if the right person comes along.  As for casual sex, well there'd have to be an attraction atleast.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    My goodness onehotfella i dont know what you are doing wrong, but we have met hundreds of couples, single ladies, single gents from this site .We are also happy to say that there have been many relationships created that we are aware of from this site.Me being one of them, i have found my other partner for life and we are all so happy.So i dont know what you are doing, but this site is certainly not for sex only.Leesa

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It is interesting to note that although this is a swingers site apparently people hook up - wow - must be an age thing - my take is that this is clearly a site for people to hook up FOR SEX - if you find your 'life partner' at 55 on this site then things are grim...I have no intention of waiting that long or searching on a sex site to find them   I will  now sit back and wait for the senior citizens to regale me with their 'success stories' and how I must be doing something wrong... ohh please!!!   First and foremost a sex site - you can dress it up however you like!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    As a couple we definitely aren't looking for a relationship and initially it wasn't even friendship, although after some time we have realised that friendship comes with the territory and it has been great.   And who would have thought we would be messaging people / adding friends who are in categories that we aren't looking for!  We are just enjoying it which I think is more the purpose of this site than anything else.   K.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    for my hat!!!...it is lime green with orangle splotches here and there...about 8 inches high..200 mm for the decimal-ites...oh, and it had a purple paint splodge from when i was painting the family room...hehe...so ya really can't miss it...so, let me know if ya find it, will ya?...fanks...jose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hasn't anyone seen my hat????jose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am looking for a serious relationship....but im having fun on the way!Oh..and I think my profile is pretty clear about what Im after....i think??Actually...maybe its more clear about what im NOT after....lol!Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I probably should start utilising the messaging service once in a while. I am looking for FWB, someone you could hang out and have fun with and have casual sex with. Or if they don't want to hang out, just casual sex is fine too, lol.