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What do the ladies of red hot pie prefer , condoms or letting there lover cum inside them? ladies ?
November 03 2016
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
It was condoms all the time, it's safer (STI's and Pregnancy) for both me and my playmates. Plus I knew who I was sleeping with but I only knew what my playmates told me and you can't believe that. Now I'm in a monogamous relationship, we don't use condoms, but we have had regular check ups since doing so. My preference is to not use condoms with my man, because I adore all aspects (the smell, the taste, the feeling, the mess) of sex without condoms with him. 💋
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
If and when we play with others, safe sex and condoms, are a must. When we make love to one another, we don't need condoms as we are in a monogamous ,long term, loving marriage. Obviously it's nicer to make love without condoms. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
But only with a very trusted monogamous partner which happens to be my husband currently. So as much as I love it, condoms are a very necessary and frankly unquestionable decision with playmates along with regular testing.
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
The Definition of Monogamous - Is when you are married to, or in a sexual relationship with one person at a time. So if you are having sex with other people, you wouldn't say you were monogamous....💋
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
I was of course talking about a sexual monogamous relationship which "refers to two partners remaining sexually exclusive with each other and having no outside sex partners." All Information is off the Internet 💋
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We have been married for over 19 years. We rarely play (have sex) with others. Perhaps just a couple of times a year. If and when we do play, it is always together as a single, unified, entity. We therefore consider ourselves to be in a monogamous relationship. That's our opinion on the matter. You are entitled to yours. But let's stick to the original topic should we? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28andKC72' The Definition of Monogamous - Is when you are married to, or in a sexual relationship with one person at a time. So if you are having sex with other people, you wouldn't say you were monogamous....💋 Picked up on that also with the earlier 2 posts. If a couple swings (has other sexual partners) they are polygamous. If the couple on the swingers (adult contact site) are in a monogamous relationship they are not swingers. The Rule Book needs some clarification when 1 of the 2 people are monogamous and the other is polygamous.I'd believe if 1 strays it makes the whole of the relationship not monogamous. Back to topic, OP you profile states "Safe Sex For all activities"That's the way it should be until long term certainty is reached.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Pop1986, this shouldnt even be a question? if you ask a lady what she prefers and she says she like you to come inside her, how many other guys do the same thing? Not to mention the fact that she could possibly even take you for child support for the rest of your life should she use you to fall pregnant. In this lifestyle unless with a regular trusted partner and with check ups, condoms should always be warn. Even when engaging in a ffm 3some you should be changing condoms between women. ive been to parties where there have been 8 plus cpls.. i used more then a box of condoms, but i come out with no sti's and had a great time. Think of this way also. if you have unprotected sex with a girl and you have an sti, she then contracts it and has a gang bang with 4 guys unprotected, they each then go and have a ffm each. All are at high risk of contracting what you gave one girl in the first place. Thats 13 people. Lets help to keep this lifestyle clean and safe. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
My girlfriends and I have been unusual in that we've always used condoms for penile/vaginal sex, even after being STI cleared and when in complete monogamy. I've never trusted just one form of contraception. We've always used condoms plus oral contraceptives, for the women who have been able to use them from a hormonal perspective. (Not every woman can.) Apart from reduced risk of pregnancy, the advantages include not needing as much cleaning up afterwards, which suits for late night or early morning sex in bed when there are sleepiness or time constraints. It also helps reduce the risk of introducing the human papilloma virus from one partner to another, which can reduce the chance of cervical and penile cancers developing later in life. Some of my girlfriends missed the free high school vaccination program by a few years and had not been able to afford or otherwise go to the lengths to get the private scripts for a full course of Gardasil vaccine. It definitely wasn't encouraged for males to get until more recent times. (And yes, I know I mentioned being cleared of STIs beforehand, but HPV is not part of standard screening.) I also find that it makes sex during a woman's period easier and more enjoyable for both partners. I'm not even going to mention the advantages for anal: that's a no-brainer, as far as I'm concerned.The last advantage is in decreased sensation for me, so a little more 'staying power.' Imagine how much more juice (no pun intended) the Energiser Bunny would've had if he was completely wrapped in latex! The disadvantages are well known. Decreased spontaneity "in the moment". Less sensation and intimacy. Expense, though they are quite reasonably priced when bought in bulk from online. The need to have them with you when travelling and so-on. The awkward dilemma of disposing of them when staying with friends/family or camping. The fact that condoms are never 100% effective, so it's no guarantee the caution will always pay off. The need to withdraw the penis immediately after ejaculation instead of having basking in the afterglow time. The small risk of a partner developing a sudden latex allergy, if not using latex-alternative condoms. The last disadvantage is getting funny looks when people find out we used them despite being long-term monogamous. People seem to liken it in their mind to adults with training wheels on their bicycles or using sippy-cups at a cafe. I'm not sure that's quite a fair comparison, but it is amusing, at least! (And if I had the courage to use training wheels and sippy-cups in public, I would do a lot more cycling and make less mess at cafes. Just sayin'.)
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Cheekyarses
9 years ago
We just celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary and we do not use condoms- but with others yes we do. With the exception of one couple 🙃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lovinit was not splitting hairs as you put it. She was merely making a clear definition - she used the term monogamous as did I. In addition however I then referred to playmates. How many times you give or receive intercourse with others either as a couple swinging or separate is a moot point - one partner per year apart from your spouse or 200 makes no difference. Sexually monogamous is as Lovinit clarified and thanks for doing so, as some other posters may get confused 😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
You are talking about casual play partners then not a chance of playing without a condom - way too risky. My partner and I have now gone back to using condoms again as I'm taking a break from the pill, but when I was on the pill we didn't use condoms together most of the time. Always always always with other play friends though. Just not worth the potential consequences to not to! Miss Little xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Traum246' Back to topic, OP you profile states "Safe Sex For all activities"That's the way it should be until long term certainty is reached. Interesting. The OP did say the question was just out of interest, so the topic may be a genuine exercise in hypothetics and curiosity. But it does beg the question, is that profile information accurate?
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RHP User
9 years ago
One of the best things about being in a monogamous relationship now is the pure joy of being filled with my mans cum...its so intimate and sexy to share :)
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Paradisepair
9 years ago
One love... better way to describe a loving sexually open relationship. cum is fun but safety first...
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
When we as a long term married couple, make love, we don't use condoms , as we consider that part of our relationship - the one where we have "unprotected sex" with one another, to be "monogamous sex", and as such there is no need to use "protection" as neither of us have any STI's / STD's and so when we make love to one another , "bareback", it is safe sex. However, if and when we play with others, this falls outside of what we see as "monogamous" sex, and as such we will always use condoms. Hope this makes sense? lol
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
I was simply clarifying myself and my relationship, my relationship is sexually monogamous, until we both decide other wise. I don't really give 2 flying fucks about your relationship, but i see sexually monogamous as how I clarified it, oh and that's not just my option, that's what the word means. oh and I hope that makes sense? 😊
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mrsrealistic
9 years ago
dynamic - its hard being reasonable with people that have just met and are all gushy etc compared to long term stickers - i give them 6 months - you are correct in our understanding - cheers
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks everyone for your input on my topic, all out of interest as I was wanting to know how the ladies thought on this matter. My profile is correct as do practice safe sex for all activities,like I said was only out of interest. Thanks again everyone - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'pop1986' Thanks everyone for your input on my topic, all out of interest as I was wanting to know how the ladies thought on this matter. My profile is correct as do practice safe sex for all activities,like I said was only out of interest. Thanks again everyone - Posted from rhpmobile All good, man, you passed the test. Let the (safer) fucking commence!
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RHP User
9 years ago
And all over me. When we realised we were getting serious we both got tested. When we play with others it will most def be safe sex. Its one of the most intimate things for us...theres absolutely nothing between us.
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Hate condoms with a passion but the possible alternative to them is much worse. Such a passion killer when in the heat of the moment you have stop and roll on a rubber. I don't care how sensitive makers claim them to be , they still dull's the sensitivity we long for. The amount of times I've heard ladies say ' I wish you could cum inside me, shows me it's a annoyance for them too.
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