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What's with the insult and block manouvuer?
August 17 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I do agree, playful minx. The other thing that irks me is when you have exchanged a few emails with a fellow, and it becomes painfully clear to you that you are never going to meet for whatever reason. When this is communicated to the guy, the response from them is "well thanks a fucking lot...You have wasted my time, I though you were GENUINE not a PLAYER" and so on. Surely there is nothing wrong with sussing a guy out via email before you meet. Some guys on this site seem to think that the exchange of a flirt/email/phone number means a guarrenteed "root". Yes, this is a sex site, and I do want sex. I just dont want it with YOU! Wake up to yourselves!
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jm2089
16 years ago
Wow PlayfulMinx - why are there so many hot women in Perth ??
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RHP User
16 years ago
Think some might just be sore losers.. I've knocked back a few then they send a message asking why??.. what's wrong with me.. I'm a strong believer of being upfront and to the point no sugar coating so they get the answer they asked for. And what do you know I get an abusive reply and added to there block list. One guy even said he copied all my pics. Well sorry guys I'm having trouble finding appropriately sized paper bags. Maybe some of you just need to grow up, get over it or whatever if you can't handle the truth why ask... Geeezz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wait a minute- It wasn't me Minxy! But some people don't take rejection well. As for me, I would only say f* you in a completely different context. :p and I've only ever blocked someone who's blocked me for no apparent reason.... and only then because I don't need any egotistical nutjobs in my life. Warm hugs gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it's hilarious that guys will beg to see my PG and then call me ugly if I say no, why did you want to see my boobs then monkeyboy?
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RHP User
16 years ago
yep have had all that happen and i dont understand why. You say no cos they simply dont fit your criteria dnthen you get a load of abuse back and they also block you.So guys if you are wondering why we dont always answer messages, this is one of the reasons!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you can't handle no you should not be here. We get no many times. So what. Can't be friends with all. When we say no to someone, we expect them to respect that opinion. Whatever the reason. If the person has a problem with it, we tell them to go to Midland brick, buy a bucket load of bricks, build a bridge and get over it. Playfulminx are you talking about Fabio, the most beautiful man in the universe? lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Seems pretty pathetic to me...Nothing wrong with chatting to someone via emails and then if you decide that the guy isn't what you want...and then you tell him, hey, he should take it with grace and move on...if a guy sends an insulting message and then blocks you...think how lucky u were that u didn't hook up...What i don't understand is someone asking to be your friend...and then they block you so u can't email them and have a chat!!!! Is this some sort of prank that rebounds around the wonders of RHP?...What is lacking in RHP is that when I do block someone (because they have indicated that they are not interested and I don't have the greatest of memories and i would really like to avoid contacting them again by mistake) why can't RHP make them not appear on your search lists?...shame about that...But back to the topic at hand...if a guy insults you and blocks u, thank your lucky stars...mwah to u allJose
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RHP User
16 years ago
The fact that you are getting angry about it only gives the power to him and the satisfaction that he is after. He is probably reading this forum now and laughing. I know what its like to get knocked back but I also realise how superficial and fickle sites like these are so I try not to take it to heart.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's just their way of confirming that you made the right decision to not go ahead. There is no point getting wrapped around the axles by window licking numpties.
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RHP User
16 years ago
some ppl hey. wish there was a site that could some how filter out all the dickheads!!!The next great invention perhapse :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry we dont muck around i just say "no thanx" and block usually only because they are wasting our time and if your not interested then you never will be. Might be a little harsh but better than being abused and hassled etc.
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RHP User
16 years ago
to be abused after rejection shows their true selfs why would you want to no some one like that you would think they would get over it and move on it go go;s to show the mentality of some people when rejected
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RHP User
16 years ago
A simple no can turn one from a "hot babe" to an" ugly troll "who has apparently suffered some sort of loss from the suitor in 2 seconds flat!! If you make not like the answer , simply dont pose the question in the first place.
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RHP User
16 years ago
With the new site here is easier to block which suits me just fine. I dont hesitate to block people I dont like. Love the idea of more filters [new invention] so that after the block they cant even see you or find you in any search...cease to exists on RHP. More filters please RHP... Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
You may think its their loss, but what if down the track s/he is browsing for profiles and you catch their eye looks, personality or description wise.Beauty fades, but message histories last forever.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Messages only last 6 mths unless we make some effort to save them somewhere else. We like to save them on the notepad on the persons profile. The stats do remain... Cheers MrsP
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree some guys are so judgementalflat out wantin to meet you even goes as far as exchanging numbers,when they meet you for the 1st time they sound if they are so interested in you and after the night is over they dont contact you no moreso how is a woman suppose to feel!!!!We feel used and abused...But remember though guys its made us WISER!!!!!And therte is a few of the in WEERIBEE VICTORIA i have been old by a few people fro this site.
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Hmmm..I couldn't give a rats arse if someone blocked me...im not aware if anybody has yet.....but i have heard a few people say they have been abused and then blocked, so they can't get abuse back....blocking either way...seems a bit childish to me....i'd rather accept the challenge of the argument, but it would probably be a childish argument anyway...?
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RHP User
16 years ago
We had a profile as me being a single girl (to get away from the alpha male syndrome - but with my hubby as being one of the guys) wanting guys to join me in a GB. I had the best message on another website from a 50 y/o guy who once he had sent it to me blocked me (just so I didn't get the chance to respond) The message I got and I quote: "u would just need one man like me two men makes you sound like a slut I dont fuck fat chicks anyway" If only I had a chance to respond with something like "I wouldn't want to play with someone who is not adventurous and doesn't know the difference between voluptuous & fat" I guess that is what blocking is for. xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Minx,I agree with you, No means No the first time and the last time, but it would be niceto even receive a knock back (politely of course) in the first place lmao.CiaoPierced
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RHP User
16 years ago
ive yet to get a no from anybody and if ever i did then that would be ok with me- theres never enough time in the day to satisfy everyone anymore :):)
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