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Where are all the eloquent charming Brissy guys?
August 31 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Or maybe they're all wrapped up cosy in their caves during the cooler months. It shouldn't be too long now for them to start coming back out. Myself, well I'm on the Gold Coast. But maybe I shouldn't lump myself in with some of the guys down here. It's probably worse here than in Brissy LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can I watch ? :) I'll be quiet and just sit in the corner ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP Brissy guys are here and around. We either don't peek your interest sufficiently, or our messages of contact go unanswered. Probably because ladies get inundated with messages. I've messaged before and didn't get a reply - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
EWWWWWWWWW no thanks. A "charmer" will tell you want you want to hear and make you feel good - until he what HE wants Once he has "charmed" you, the charm switch will turn off. I will say and It's true! I have met some really really "GOOD" men here in Brisbane. They are here. Good luck and hope you find what you are looking for. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
What the? You need to look up charming in the dictionary. Are people every positive around here? Love a charming man. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Foxy, I am standing right here.... To the OP, although I hate profile police responses, you really need to rework that profile because everything from the photos to the description is aimed at the opposite end of the spectrum to charming. I would suggest a less explicit photo, less lol language and more focus on how you like to be treated and treat others. There are probably some more subtle and better changes but that is what struck me on first viewing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We moved to Melbourne.
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RHP User
11 years ago
One here
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SimpleNeeds2' Foxy, I am standing right here.... To the OP, although I hate profile police responses, you really need to rework that profile because everything from the photos to the description is aimed at the opposite end of the spectrum to charming. I would suggest a less explicit photo, less lol language and more focus on how you like to be treated and treat others. There are probably some more subtle and better changes but that is what struck me on first viewing. - Posted from rhpmobile what a blatant double standard. Shut your legs lil missy, do not be explicit at all, cause your a woman and mind your Ps and Q then you might end up with some guy stuck back in 1950. Charming men are obviously only interested in the nice girls that can write some profile that suckers in those charming men with all smoke and mirrors. Just be yourself. After all when you go to a meeting offline, you will not have to hide behind a pot plant because your worried they might not like who you really are. Just wear the trench coat with some gumboots as it gets pretty thick sometime and you may have to wade through bullshit
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Warning! Warning! Danger, Will Robinson!"??? Obi1
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' What the? You need to look up charming in the dictionary. Are people every positive around here? Love a charming man. :) CHARMING (Dictionary meaning)- a person with an attractive and engaging personality, typically one who uses this to impress or manipulate others. CHARMING (Urban Dictionary) -a real sauve guy who knows how to talk to and get the ladies. sometimes known as a smooth pimped out player from the streets who knows how to get his. CHARMER - a person who seemingly casts a spell; enchanter: a snake charmer. Nope, I don't want to be manipulated or be around someone who knows how to talk the talk, a player or casts a spell like a snake charmer...LOL! Give me a "GOOD" man anyday over a charmer. :) Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
of That_girl_Friday's, profile, pictures and lol language... More, please! She's lovely - based on what little I have to go on. In fact, imma gonna get messagin' privligiz again purely on the strength of this silly infatuation for good girls with a decidedly inappropriate side - or two. ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
What a load of bollocks. Manipulative people use charm that is true. But not every charming person is a snake in the grass. I think Sean Connery is charming, George Clonney is super charming and women can be charming. Why do you often look at things in the worst possible light? When I type definition of charming into google this is what comes up FIRST. 1. very pleasant or attractive. "a charming country cottage" synonyms: delightful, pleasing, pleasant, agreeable, likeable, endearing, lovely, lovable, adorable, cute, sweet, appealing, attractive, good-looking, prepossessing; (of a person or their manner) very polite, friendly, and likeable. "he was a charming, affectionate colleague"
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RHP User
11 years ago
and that impish smile - what am I still doing here?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think your profile is fine and is geared to appeal to someone your own age no doubt. I can't see your picture but there is nothing particular sexual in your profile at all. It's still G rated, but that's a good thing. :)
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Can we have both a good and charming man? or is that too much to ask for or is this a contradiction? I like the idea of seduction, the great conversation to be had like normal human beings connecting, banters, wine and dine, etc. Sigh.... OP, any good tips on where to find the 'charming' and 'good' men you meet there would be great.... (getting my paper and crayon out and taking notes now )
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, inthekiss. Sometimes I just can't follow your thought process at all. It is hardly a double standard to make suggestions as to how the OP could improve her profile to help meet a different type of man than has probably been filling up her email to date. It is a given that the cock shot brigade will chase all women on site. The class of men the OP is expressing a desire to meet will be looking for something that stands above the crowd. In the past, members of this forum have critiqued men's profiles and inter alia, rightly suggested improvements of better profile pics instead of cock shots. In the OP's case, her present profile pic is a variation on that theme. And that is fine. However it will only attract the attention of men whose primary motivation is that theme, which I understand she wants to move away from. To be honest, a picture in the trench coat would be a good alternative as it conveys mystery which piques curiosity. Similarly a charming man is, as I take it, someone who is in it more than just the sex, someone who will engage in conversation and be pleasant to be around. Again the OP's current profile is fine for a certain class of men who probably won't look beyond her picture anyway but if she wants to attract conversationalists, it needs refining to grab the attention. The OP definitely needs to be herself but she needs to make her true self shine through and not get lost in the masses by following the crowd. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'tonguemagic8' One here Turn around so I can see your charming face.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Gulliver111' OP Brissy guys are here and around. We either don't peek your interest sufficiently, or our messages of contact go unanswered. Probably because ladies get inundated with messages. I've messaged before and didn't get a reply - Posted from rhpmobile Interest piqued after viewing your profile pic!! But just am just tooo far from you so my interest has 'peaked' and now on a downslide.... Help?!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lily, G loves to travel. Unfortunately a sneaky weekend here and there can be a hollow existence. The longer I loiter on this site the more I look for friends I can truly hang out with and fully enjoy the company of. OP your profile is fine. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Friday it's seems some of us are too old for you,or the pipe you are smokin intimidates some of the guys on here!Probably in that in between age bracket,they are either married,coupled up! Funny times have changed at your age just went to local,nightclubs for a playmate if single! Ps ,don't live in Melbourne no need for trench coat up here!
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RHP User
11 years ago
How about we add another adjective to the discussion? Quality. I like to consider myself a quality man. A quality find. Have been told as much or similar. Agree with all comments that there does seem be dearth of men who write quality replies to profiles. Conversely, there are a lot of lazy male, female and couples' profiles that have been auto filled. Whilst I bypass them, such lazy profiles are encouraging lazy responses. This is definitely a topic to watch. The responses should be interesting and I intend to add to the topic as it progresses.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personally, I love the chase. The flirting, the anticipation -- all part of the dance of seduction. For some people charm works, but for others they are only here to get a quick fix and rely on physical appeal alone. Humans are a diverse bunch and just like in real life you will come across all types here. Keep looking, keep an open mind and you will find people that you click with. Try being honest and specific in your profile as to what you want. Hope this helps, good luck in your search
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' When I type definition of charming into google this is what comes up FIRST. 1. very pleasant or attractive. "a charming country cottage" synonyms: delightful, pleasing, pleasant, agreeable, likeable, endearing, lovely, lovable, adorable, cute, sweet, appealing, attractive, good-looking, prepossessing; (of a person or their manner) very polite, friendly, and likeable. "he was a charming, affectionate colleague" Yup yup. Quoting 'SimpleNeeds2' I would suggest a less explicit photo I was going to say the same thing. Wrong or not, I think that main pic of you performing fellatio just won't make many men think "thought provoking conversation". I think it is more likely to attract guys who want to be that cock you are sucking, not the gentlemen you are looking for. My 2cts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inthekiss' Quoting 'SimpleNeeds2' I would suggest a less explicit photo, less lol language and more focus on how you like to be treated and treat others. There are probably some more subtle and better changes but that is what struck me on first viewing. Shut your legs lil missy, do not be explicit at all, cause your a woman and mind your Ps and Q then you might end up with some guy stuck back in 1950. Charming men are obviously only interested in the nice girls that can write some profile that suckers in those charming men with all smoke and mirrors. C'mon woman, you made that rather black and white, don't you think?
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RHP User
11 years ago
oh we are here, but continue to get the classic "sorry thanks but no thanks, or your not what im looking for" its either that or as Gulliver111 said we message and get no reply but then they complain about douches that they meet
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Simpleneeds, I think you're spot on.......I know if I get a message I will always read the profile and then look at the pics, before replying. A few minor changes to a profile, can make the world of difference as to who shows you interest, I know this because I did it to mine.... Good luck Miss Friday....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Aw ladies, forget the dictionary terms. After all, this may very well be the OP's first post on the forums. And although her post is somewhat at odds with her profile pic, she should be welcomed as I am sure her motivations are undoubtably on the level. Welcome Miss Friday!.. are you new to Brisbane?? Obi1
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Obi1Kenietzsche'she should be welcomed as I am sure her motivations are undoubtably on the level. Welcome Miss Friday! Welcome Girl Friday!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Miss Lily, you forgot to add that you'd like to take a 'peek' at some of Mr. Gulliver's assets as well, just as much as I do ;) On-topic, I think Miss Friday's profile is fine. She's being herself and knows what she wants. And girl_friday, if you find any eloquent and charming men, remember to share. Good luck in your search ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with meeka.... Not ALL charming people - be it men or women - have malicious intent. All your post suggests is that you've encountered a few shit men and are wanting to brandish ALL charming men as bastards that lack any ability to have genuine intentions and integrity. And of course your search results reinforce your point; it has to otherwise you'd have not posted them...... Just sayin. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP. Your post states that "I wants is to be the main attraction among a couple of absolutely charming gentlemen who can woo me with charming, thought provoking conversation before I consider arriving at their hotel room in little more than a trench coat!. This suggests you do not want one, but two charming men to charm you with thought provoking conversation at the same time, then meet both of them in a hotel room. I am unsure if the "James Bond" type of charming man would want to share with another man. I suspect it is hard enough finding 1x charming man that fits with what you want, let alone two at the same time but good luck ? Personally I do not think your profile picks are too bad (portray sexualness and willingness to please) however believe it would not hurt to have an additional photo or 2 in a nice dress or something to show a bit of class for that discerning charming man. Just my opinion though
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love the piqued/peeked/peaked group of words. Most don't even know the first one exists in it's written form, yet use it in the spoken word. As for the charming Brisbane men, we're around. Some of us have probably messaged you already. Maybe taking a moment to reply and get further into conversation than the initial message might yield better results?
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happy0450
11 years ago
As Pascal said; "Continuous Eloquence wearies. Grandeur must be abandoned to be appreciated Continuality in everything is unpleasant Cold is agreeable, that we may get warm". My take (by no means original) is that behaviour breeds behaviour. Additionally, we meet someone, and instinctively we mirror behaviours to aid rapport. Its not deceptive, just societal conditioning. I sense there a equally numbers of charming and eloquent guys and girls in Brisbane and on this site, so it comes down to being clear what you want and presenting the same. I'm looking forward to meeting some of them when I return after three years of overlooking the Indian Ocean
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RHP User
11 years ago
whether charming/nice/a good guy/ect its simply not that hard just be yourself, be genuine, theres nothing bad about getting horny and being naughty and having fantasies but some simply intelligent communication and respect goes a long way everyone is different, but there really isnt any excuse not to be genuinely nice at the start and it doesnt take much effort to keep that going thats what i think anyway pitty we dont have a psychological remote for people with a "nice" button and when i say nice, i dont mean being a christian fellowship follower who wont have sex until theyve married a born again pure virgin...or whatever the hell it is that they do just having some simple manners and treating others as you would expect to be treated thats "nice" because im pretty sure nobody wants to be treated like shit
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was going to ask you to respond, but did you leave? Your profile is locked, which I think is a shame as the written part was great imo.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that's because I am a blonde, I find it hard to follow those tinny little air bubbles over my head as well.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
You called? Lol ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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yankmychain56
11 years ago
southern Louisiana, and my neighbors are the crowd from 'swamp people'
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was a tad black....bloody charm school I went too should give me me munny back!
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abcplus1
11 years ago
You will no doubt get inundated with offers after posting this :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
:-P Unfortunately I moved to gladstone :-P - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
...where some are languishing and would love to chat with you ! 8 )
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RHP User
11 years ago
Pfft what a load of bollocks ! There are I am sure plenty of charming geezers out there not blowing my trumpet but I have never been or will be someone who will talk crudely to someone I have never met and even after that I doubt I could do that! Just maybe.. the message you receive AFTER the "non-charming " message is from someone who is genuinely charming , I get that you are probably inundated with messages therefore a bore to go through them all totally understand but you just never know . This site is what it is but charm and manners I believe goes a long way and chivalry is not dead ! Good luck :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I apologise for my random oxymoronic-esque post. Yes, my photos were relatively risqué and agreed, on the other end of the classy spectrum. But sometimes you just want a reshuffle. I suppose my question was more focused on whether men are willing to put in the boring pleasantries and exchange messages. And if women are happy to dive into a hook up, without really exchanging messages and sharing the more "boring" conversations. I personally, much prefer to be on the messaging bandwagon, and find myself more keen on wanting to sleep with someone if they stimulate me mentally. Haha, more brains than braun, I suppose. But thank you for all your replies nonetheless :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love the new profile pics! And you said to ask.... so, what is your relationship status? ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'Quoting 'Meeka100' What the? You need to look up charming in the dictionary. Are people every positive around here? Love a charming man. :) CHARMING (Dictionary meaning)- a person with an attractive and engaging personality, typically one who uses this to impress or manipulate others. CHARMING (Urban Dictionary) -a real sauve guy who knows how to talk to and get the ladies. sometimes known as a smooth pimped out player from the streets who knows how to get his. CHARMER - a person who seemingly casts a spell; enchanter: a snake charmer. Nope, I don't want to be manipulated or be around someone who knows how to talk the talk, a player or casts a spell like a snake charmer...LOL! Give me a "GOOD" man anyday over a charmer. :) Foxy I hear ya Foxy!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nice improvement on the photos, Girl Friday. Sexy but not over the top. My only other suggestion is that you take the spirit of your last post and put it into your profile to spell out what you are looking for. You have articulated it nicely here so you might as well say it there. At present you say you don't like flirts (which is the general consensus). Why not say that you prefer someone prepared to put in the time and effort to message you and stimulate you mentally, or wording to that ilk. Your posts show you have it in to express these thoughts. Also look through the recent thread on female/couple profiles for suggestions to improve. Most of the issues there don't arise in your profile, but it never hurts to check as takes a while to refine a profile to its final version. As to your question, it really comes down to your patience in separating the wheat from the chaff, until you can find a man who looks like he meets what you want. They are out there, just hidden in the masses of others.
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imupinthesky2
11 years ago
I can personally say, I have had the "UBER PLEASURE" of engaging with Miss Friday in the past, in the written formshe is a very delicate, sophisticated articulate hard working professional lady who has great morals and ethics with which comes from a very hard working family background I am going to also say, her pics (like mine, like yours, like all of ours) are an indication into our livesI find them tasteful, erotic and enchantingher profile reads as she is, young, vibrant and charismatic, just to name a few We all have our ideas and ideals ... but Miss Friday was merely posting a thread to see what sort of response she would receive to her idea ...fictional or non-fictional ....I am guessing going to a hotel room in little more than a trench coat could imply that she isnt planning on going to play chess with these charming individuals ??? I salute you, literally :P
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Just checked your profile as people were commenting on it and it triggered my curiousity. I am not sure if you updated it since they have commented above but from what I read, you have a lovely well written and constructed profile. The pictures are great and sexy. Nice one. Not sure about xrated pics mentioned above as have not seen them nor do I have access to them as a guest here. Good luck and remember, share....
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's why you need to come looking for a couple..... Then you get treated extra well.... Lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im right here thanks. Actually im more of a good man than an actual charmer. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
...Dear TGF maybe conduct directed market research and mirror the results.. Check out the guys profiles you feel best suit and match their tone....lil marketing goes along way :) I those that know me say im more a Good Guy than a charmer - as Foxxy im suspicious of OTT charm, in saying that though if i find you sexy articulate and independent can not but help a lil charm :) SDx Ps i find semi revealing pics attractive.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i dont know if i would be called "charming", "good" or "nice". it is not up to me to label myself. i simply try to treat people the way i would love to be treated. to me when a woman says "charming" i think polite AND good looking. both visually and mentally stimulating. i doubt women these days would apply this to me. i do however, like to think i go the hard yards to engage a lady in a meaningful conversation. how else do you find the connection to turn a quick romp into something deeper and more meaningful. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Charming / non charming? Work out what u want, as an individual, see if the "respondent" or "interested party" has it, take it from there, gamble now on then, adventure CAN be full of surprises.. Enjoy! TDHL - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Gulliver you've never messaged me, why is that? Mind you Brissy guys I've found won't venture out if thete's an hours commute involved 😳 hell that's just slack in my books!! ~ Indy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't mind how long the commute is and will travel anywhere as I don't just expect everything to be one way, you have to make the effort for both enjoy each other, - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The OP has taken her profile offline, hopefully she will return to continue this fascinating discussion. Best wishes to the OP and all contributors, it is a most interesting read.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Orangesound' The OP has taken her profile offline, hopefully she will return to continue this fascinating discussion. Best wishes to the OP and all contributors, it is a most interesting read. The OP has met someone?? I wish her all the best if that is the case. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hop on a plane and come down to Newcastle for the weekend. We know how to treat a lady.😇 AFGM x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCurves' Can I watch ? :) I'll be quiet and just sit in the corner ;) - Posted from rhpmobile ....and I'll take one of the other 3 corners if that's ok?!? ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
No such thing as a Prince Charming type of man? How else to treat a lady?
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RHP User
11 years ago
including a charmer , but never a manipulator...? If fact when chatting to a lady and she tells you you're a bit of a charmer.. I take that as a compliment... Don't see why some ladies take it so seriously..
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP....in the trenches of RHP:-) Q xx
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IamMrSilly
11 years ago
I think I can at least hold up some conversation and be 'charming' in the good way. Your profile made me smile as it was witty and smart. Please don't change it, reading it made me want to meet you in real life just for the pleasure of your conversation. (and this was before I found this forum thread) It would make my weekend if I was to meet up with you (just to enjoy your company of course!). But I suspect I am older than the age you are looking for! PS: I don't bring any baggage! but neither am I looking for a full on relationship, just friendship. While I cannot upgrade my membership (yet, but I intend on doing it) as I am recently separated and don't have financial separation yet, (and at that she runs for the hills and was never seen again.)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Winning profile, OP. Lol at all the guys here confessing their charming nature.
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