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Whilst giving head, how many guys would like a finger up the bum?

September 26 2009

Just a question out of curiosity.   Ive heard that it makes for a very intense orgasm so just wondered how many guys out there would like their partners to do it and who thinks it's very taboo and wouldn't have a bar of it.   Oh, and would you like the girl to ask you first if you would like it or just do it?

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  • Almost_Ready

    Almost_Ready

    16 years ago

    Didnt your mother teach you any manners ..Never speak with your mouth full oh and always chew.. no forget that bit! You would have my complete & utter trust given the position we would be in so.... whateveryou wanted to do would be fine by me..By the way thanks for the flirt but I really did mean "I liked your profile".. your hot but then in one picture you looked cold... Good luck with your search   Cheers Oldog

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If you read sites that teach you how to turn men on sexually most will say that most men like that. However there are some that dont. Manners: Hey baby would you like me to put my finger up your arse while I blow you off. If you say no I wont be disappointed. And by the way dont even think about doing that to me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I suppose it depends how far up the ass the finger goes. Also lubricated? Hmmm... never tried it but I suppose it could be true. I don't think it's taboo after all, it's a chick's finger right?!?!? He-he! Probably prefer her to just do it and not ask. I think the shock/surprise coupled with everything else would make it all an even bigger orgasm if it works!! :) I think basically everybody, guy or girl, wants a better orgasm so if it is true I wouldn't knock it back.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    No - a finger around the anu is fine, stroke it as you would the underside of a cats chin, and putting it slightly up there is fine, but don't waggle. Half a fingernail lengh is all i can take. Of course licking ass is nice just makes sure he is clean.   And as far as I'm concerned if a girl does it to me without asking that is fine, but expect it back in return!   Oh and don't sniff the finger afterwards!! That's just wierd :P   a

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Don't ask. Milk me! Just lube up and bang a few fingers up there fingering wildly towards the front side when the urge takes you... and do the same thing to your fanny with your other hand. Ask for permission?I expect your mouth to be full of cock... and I appreciate that this makes asking a little difficult. :p so just moan loudly.... it will all work out fine. Warm wet stcky hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've had it done to me by an ex, set her a challenge to get me off from head....still to this day I'm arguing that she cheated, but I'll never say no to it again and won't complain if they don't ask.   Guy's and gals, I'm straight, but it's not my fault our prostates are up the other hole. Unless you can suggest another way to access it, I guess we just otta let someone go there ;P   Cheers,   Michael

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Gazpacho: lol, good point re: mouth full of cock.   Thanks for the comments. Ive always wanted to try it but too scared to ask the man if he wanted it. So many guys seems to have no problem doing it to the ladies but are very anal phobic when it comes to themselves.   SalAndy: and of course I would hope i got it in return...intensifies my orgasms!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I reckon if the guy is letting you rim him...and perhaps rub a finger over and around his asshole....if you grab the lube...i reckon he'll have a good idea of what youre gonna do....so he can pull away or say no....but if he says nothing....or better still...pushes his ass towards your finger....id say youre good to go!Oh...and pushing inwards firmly between the balls and the asshole is another way to put some pressure on the prostate if he doesnt like the finger up the bum. That may be a good way to get him into it??If you get a guy nice and hot and horny...most will be happy to experiment.....just use lots of lube....and if youre a bit wary of the mess factor (possible if he isnt expecting assplay and hasnt cleaned out) then just slip a condom over a finger or two. Or wear plastic or latex gloves.  A handjob wearing gloves with lots of lube feels pretty good im told!Just my opinion....BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well, I for one love this kind of play, and yes it makes the orgasm much stronger, longer and in more than just the penis (whole body or anal orgasm).  I must say though, probably a good idea to ask first, as some guys are homophobic or very sensitive about this area, and some may just not be as clean as preferable for this kind of activity.  As for lube, the best is actually spit and precum, all natural so start him leaking, then get your finger/s covered with precum and spit and slow and gentle.  Give it a rub, a tease, tip in and take it slow, the way most girls enjoy anal sex.  Once he's enjoying it, maybe offer him another finger or two, and if you did that to me, be ready to swallow....xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yeah I would let it happen but if you ask I might get apprehensive if I think about it so just do it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have done it before and it works fast ;)   But having said that, its not something I like doing.  The ewwwww factor just grosses me out.  No different from me prefering the guy to shower immediately after he fucks my ass lol. I think you should ask, but in having said that, I prefer to surprise them ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It all depends on how big your fingers are ........and wether or not you licked them first....... :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hehheee... Eiboon... it's better to lick them first than afterwards hehe..... It's important if you are into arseplay, to remember that the sticky stuff can cause a nasty yeast infection if you cross contaminate... lolz.... so it always pays to have some wet wipes close handy! :p   Gawd.. the subjects of topical conversation on this forum... hehe.. you just can't say that sort of stuff on yahoo answers.. hehe.    Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Damn it is excellent! the first tim eit happened to me i just about blew right then and there! LOL. Def no issues with me or with most guys i speak to or know.   Lee.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yes Please... I love some light anal rubbing and probing but only lightly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    MMM, its ok by me to get a finger or two in the rear whilst getting head, especially if the one giving me head is as hot as you angelic

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    MMM, its ok by me to get a finger or two in the rear whilst getting head, especially if the one giving me head is as hot as you angelic

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I always used to think that any arse play was a bit gay, until my ex lubed up a finger and slid it in. Damn. I almost blew the back of her skull out. Its not something that I do all the time, I am not about to lube my own fingers up and play "hide and go fuck yourself", but when the moment is right it is nice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It makes for a very intense orgasm indeed and can be a lot of fun not just for the gut, but for the lady if she is 'into it', though a small vibe may be better than a finger. Some guys will not have a bar of it and think it is 'gay' but they truly do not know what they are missing out on!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    there's nothing wrong with it as long as everyone is comfortable.at the end of the day, if it's pleasurable, who cares about the stigma around it.. Not just that, but ANY pleasurable experience between consensual adults...Man up boys, and bend over.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i find the best way to see if it is liked is not necessarily to ask, but to do as I do to a partner. that is with a wet finger put it against her butt whilst going down on her. f she is turned on by the idea she will push against the finger and you can return the pressure.some like this way has they don't have to ask but they do enjoy. the moans are the give away to what they really enjoy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Always wanted to try getting head and being done with a strap on, any takers!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    love it and return favour also as it always makes her orgasam harder

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    SalAndy has hit it on the head here... spot on to the word. Cheers for saving me having to say it, Have a nice day everyone :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    its  the most intense orgasm you can have if done properly. First time for me when when i was 18 with a 40 yr old lady , 25 yrs ago. missed it thorough the years of vanilla relationships , but ive got it back. The best part is if your partner has the right spot she can literally feel the build up to what normally is a massive load .She moans i moan and its just intense. most times i nearly blow the back of her head off ,, thats how good it is . give it a go guys .,,,you wont look back ,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I like to be anally teased while receiving a blow job.... its very arousing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sometimes this can be VERY enjoyable...   But don't just shove it up there - ask first, or be subtle about it, a little light rubbing, pressure and voila - up she goes...   Vaka

  • Darkknight81

    Darkknight81

    16 years ago

    I love it and will enjoy it more if i didnt have to ask.... just make sure its all well lubed up.... great orgasm esp while receiving head... anyone want to give it a go i'll help lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    last month i was with this great grl who had a fine art at it, i was not the first time i had for me but this girl,,, WOW, i swear i had multiple orgasms from it, un heard off some may say but it was the best rush ever.   good i miss that girl already. lol :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    if it were to be your finger angelic there would be no objections from me!   and i'm with missbj as long as you work up to i think there is ample time for the guy to say whoa!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Love it. Even better when you dont have to ask her to do it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    A total yes, those who say no have never had it done to them, those who have say yes everytime.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've had a few women do it hey. I've never came so hard and long than the first time it happened. Alot of women out there won't do it though which is fine with me but thats a good thing to do if you just wanna make him blow real quick. Works like a treat everytime

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    you sound like one very skilled operator.LRE (bows low)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Dont mind a finger at all actually. But remember you might just get a finger back !!