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Why is it sometimes you are so horny and then the big O eludes you?

January 23 2011

This has happened to me on a few occasions and I find it frustrating to the point of me cranky for hours afterwards. I guess it can be I am trying to hard but I just wonder how you can be feeling aroused both mentally and with that initial ignition point of want - you start to play (be it by yourself or with a partner), riding those magical waves and then that big O just stays tantalisingly out of reach. Have any other ladies had this experience and if so, do you know what it was that made it this way for you?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    That doesn't happen to women alone. Sometimes I get like that... horny as hell.. fucking everything that moves, red raw from all that action, blue balls.. that horrible ache in the testicles... and still can't cum. It's caused by over-stimulation. A horrible way to be. This is why people ought to have sex more regularly... more often... twice a day for example... rather than in binges like 15 on Saturday night.HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sorry i know this is a question for the ladies, and as a man i am not qualified to answer this but to make myself a better lover im very keen to know the answer. I have a half decent record of bringing ladies to orgasm, because i do whatever the lady wants, whatever else i can plenty sweet talk encouragement, plenty of tongue fingers toys intercourse for however long it takes to achieve to get her off. Even when her mind and body are in the same moment at times i have found it impossible to pleasure her to the full extent i would like to. And yes i would also like to know because a cranky woman after intimacy is a beast i prefer to stay away from. Also when i fail to bring a lady to orgasm, i feel i have failed as a lover.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I have actually given this matter considerable thought over the past twelve months as it happens to me as well. I also know that it happens to several men that I have spoken to about it. I am fairly certain that it has something to do with age. The orgasm is really great when it does happen but it is not the most important thing. The intimacy is far more important. Sometimes if you go for an hour and then have a break, start the slow build up again, plenty of cuddles and carresses you can get ther on the second round. However, I have been known to last for a few days without the big O happening. l gentle -jester, it is certainly nothing that you have or havent done that is causing this. In fact, there are men that get so bent out of shape about the whole deal that it is easier and kinder to just fake it and I do so hate doing that. I have had one guy feel so bad about it that he ended up having great difficulty getting an erection as he thought he was a failure. l Just because we do not orgasm, does not mean that we have not had a fantastic time...because we have.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Doctor Stalky and Doc Jeano, . Question - is it healthier to masturbate on a daily basis and will this mean that you will orgasm more easily with your lovers. . Or is it better to hold out and deny yourself - no matter how horny and wet you are & no matter how much certain forum members tease you with their banter - because that means you will go like gang busters when you do see your FB. . To masturbate or not to masturbate. That is the question. . Yours Faithfully Meeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Age & orgasms ...... yes been wondering about that lately. Mailnly with the older boys..........

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    WhooaaaaaThe hot summer night fell like a netI've got to find my baby yetI need you to soothe my headTurn my blue heart to redDoctor, doctor, give me the newsI've got a bad case of lovin' youNo pill's gonna cure my illI've got a bad case of lovin' youA pretty face don't make no pretty heartI learned that, Stalky, from the startYou think I'm cute, a little bit shyDaddy, I ain't that kind of girl Doctor, doctor, give me the newsI got a bad case of lovin' youNo pill's gonna cure my illI got a bad case of lovin' youWhooaaaI know you like it, you like it on topTell me, Stalky, are you gonna stop?You had me down, 21 to zip Smile of Judas on your lipShake my fist, knock on woodI've got it bad, and I've got it goodDoctor, doctor, gimme the newsI got a bad case of lovin' youNo pill's gonna cure my illI got a bad case of lovin' you

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Doctor Stalky and Doc Jeano, . Question - is it healthier to masturbate on a daily basis and will this mean that you will orgasm more easily with your lovers. . Or is it better to hold out and deny yourself - no matter how horny and wet you are & no matter how much certain forum members tease you with their banter - because that means you will go like gang busters when you do see your FB. . To masturbate or not to masturbate. That is the question. . Yours Faithfully Meeka Well, masturbation is not a sin. Let's get that elephant out of the room right from the get go. Secondly, the next time I see you, I'm going to kiss your hand like the princess you are (and sneak an opportunity to sniff your fingers).Finally don't over do it... what you need to do is try a bit of edging. Guys often partake in this practice to build up the back pressure so that when we do ejaculate, large quantities of that stuff squirt up to 5m across the room. (google world sex records if you don't believe me BR4). How you should edge is to fiddle with yourself to the point of climax but stop right at teh critical point.. do not go passed that point of no return for 48 hours... then make an appointment on my hot phone for a house call... check your Private messages for the number. :pHUgsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Age & orgasms ...... yes been wondering about that lately. Mailnly with the older boys.......... Actually premature ejaculation can affect a man of any age. But it is well established that a man's penis slowly loses sensitivity as we age, possibly the effect of rubbing against clothing and so on. The impact is reduced if a dude still retains his foreskin. Young uncut guys are particularly sensitive because their glans has rarely seen the light of day... they complain of being overly sensitive to the point that it can hurt to simply touch.. let alone rub frantically or suck. That sensitivity wains as we age and so guys should enjoy it while it lasts. As for making older guys cum... I highly recommend that you provide some unusual treatment... give their armpits a licking for instance. the unexpected shock of that and you quivering those firmly delicious arsecheeks on his cock ... well, I could well imagine you having to wipe down the ceiling... (especially those 2.4m ceilings... you know.. in Victorian times they had 3m+ ceilings... and I blame the decline in teh quality of our environment for modern man's lack of back pressure and the consequential reduction in ceiling heights in our homes) :pHugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The hot summer night fell like a netI've got to find my baby wetI need you to give me headTurn my blue balls to redDoctor, doctor, give me the newsI've got a bad case of lovin' youNo pill's gonna cure my illI've got a bad case of lovin' youThat pretty meeka melts my heartI learned that, bebe, from the startYou think I'm cute, a little bit shyHoney, I ain't that kind of guy Doctor, doctor, give me the newsI got a bad case of lovin' youNo pill's gonna cure my illI got a bad case of lovin' youWhooaaaI know you like it, you like it strapped onTell me, Meeka, are you gonna do one?You had me going down, 21 to zip Smile of Judas on your sweet lipsShakey legs, and rock hard woodI've got it bad, and I've got it goodDoctor, doctor, gimme the newsI got a bad case of lovin' youNo pill's gonna cure my illI got a bad case of lovin' youAwwhhh!HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    At 41, I do not believe that I have slowed down, either in the number of orgasms, or, the quality, or the vlumn, or the that orgasm, in fact, I think I am more sexual and sexually demanding now days.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    One guy I know is 50 and his libido has increased greatly and his orgasms last longer and are more intense. Maybe one of the benefits of getting older....??

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'Secondly, the next time I see you, I'm going to kiss your hand like the princess you are (and sneak an opportunity to sniff your fingers).Finally don't over do it... what you need to do is try a bit of edging. Guys often partake in this practice to build up the back pressure so that when we do ejaculate, large quantities of that stuff squirt up to 5m across the room. (google world sex records if you don't believe me BR4). How you should edge is to fiddle with yourself to the point of climax but stop right at teh critical point.. do not go passed that point of no return for 48 hours... then make an appointment on my hot phone for a house call... check your Private messages for the number. :pHUgsStalky You call me naughty. Just for you I won't wash my fingers for a week - hehehe. So gross. .Doc Stalky are you serious about waiting for 48 hours. I think you may have a typo there and actually meant 48 minutes. Because I may just rip your head of the minute you walk in the door otherwise. By the way I calculate that it should only take you 30 minutes tops to get to my place. Sheesh 48 hours! I just don't think I can do that. xxMeeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'Actually premature ejaculation can affect a man of any age. But it is well established that a man's penis slowly loses sensitivity as we age, possibly the effect of rubbing against clothing and so on.Does that mean that a man's cock gets smaller the older he gets. You know - does it shrink? LOLMeeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Just read your song Stalky - that's so sweet. In a dirty kinda way xxMeeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Does that mean that a man's cock gets smaller the older he gets. You know - does it shrink? LOLMeeka lolz... I don't think it does. although .. you know that anti wrinkle cream people put on their faces.... I once masturbated with it and I think it permanently affected my saucisson... I've had difficulty tucking it into my speedos lately!HugsStlky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' That doesn't happen to women alone. Sometimes I get like that... horny as hell.. fucking everything that moves, red raw from all that action, blue balls.. that horrible ache in the testicles... and still can't cum. It's caused by over-stimulation. A horrible way to be. This is why people ought to have sex more regularly... more often... twice a day for example... rather than in binges like 15 on Saturday night.HugsStalky amen to that... can be very anoying... its brilliant when you find a girl that can read you well enough to make this less frequent tho... LS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ....I love how these forums start , n end ... we started with the magical orgasm there one minute and gone the next ..and end with putting anti wrinkle cream on while we masturbate ....too funny .... i believe to that things are on our mind , even if sometimes we totally think we are in the moment , our minds tend to wander elsewhere.. the washing , sick children , or did i eat as much chocolate as i think i did today ... but luckily there is always next time ....or morning sex which after a missed orgasm is usually right there , just waiting .... Happy Australia Day ... ms c x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Doctor Stalky and Doc Jeano, . Question - is it healthier to masturbate on a daily basis and will this mean that you will orgasm more easily with your lovers. . Or is it better to hold out and deny yourself - no matter how horny and wet you are & no matter how much certain forum members tease you with their banter - because that means you will go like gang busters when you do see your FB. . To masturbate or not to masturbate. That is the question. . Yours Faithfully Meeka Well I am no doctor... but I can sure advise you on masturbation... I have a certificate here somewhere actually, and a trophy from Year 10. . I don't think there's anything to be gained by holding out and waiting. I think regular practice whenever you feel like it is best. If I was a girl (oh.. the stories that start with that phrase!!) I'd love nothing more than thinking a dirty thought and then sliding my hand between my legs and feeling how wet I am. And once your pussy and fingers are wet... well why would you hold back. . I guess I'm saying masturbate. you won't get tired of it... and just when you think you can live life happily pleasuring yourself, you should let a big cock slide inside you... just to remind you that masturbating is just practice...