Wife asks to go to swingers club

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  My advice is: set your rules BEFORE you go. Make everything clear and be honest and open with each other. Don't go there expecting certain things to happen. Other than to have a few drinks, check out the venue and chat to some new people. Don't feel pressured, ever. Remember, just because you are in a swingers club, doesn't mean respect is left at the door. You say who touches your body. You say who can be in your personal space. And vice versa. Mostly just relax and enjoy learning about this new experience! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  justforthefun44

  9 years ago

  My partner was the one that got use into this site she was the one to brink it up. Her fantizie was to have 2 men. After some sweet talking I agreed since then we have never looked back. We call it our play time. Set your rule and stand by them no matter what.mwe now have mfm fmf fun as much as we can it is hard to find a female we just keep trying .

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  Sawadee

  9 years ago

  I think you're a very lucky man to have a wife who's wanting to broaden hers and your sex life to another level. Do you realise how many men out there would love to have a wife like yours willing to instigate excitement rather than leaving it up to the man all the times? Good for you , hope you enjoy yourselves.. Jay

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  It is always amazing what subjects come up during pillow talk. And lately the females tend to bring it up. If you would have ask me who instigated the idea, I would replied it was the men in the relationship. But lately the girls are the ones. My suggestion is..rules rules and boundries. Watch porn on the net with different themes and topics and ask would the other partner like that scenerio and visa versa. That way you are informed of lovers desires. When I meet newbies I always say..baby steps baby step. First step do your reserch on a club. Then next step is check it out together. That way you both can say that you visited one in the first place. Then go home and discuss what you saw and experienced.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Was going to comment, but saw this post was dated back in Feb 2017. Are you still here? How's your journey? Concerned and waiting to hear more feedback and both your opinions, going in as a couple.

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