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absence of profile pics
June 08 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi suck_start :) It is the most annoying and ridiculous excuse. And........a lot of the time the reason they dont is because they are nothing like what they say they are. . As for the "I think your hot what do you think of me?" flirt, there should be a reply that says " Well show me a face pic moron and I will let you know." It is easier to just delete. . There are a few good guys out there....but they are rare. So good luck and have fun.
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RHP User
15 years ago
"I think you're hot what do you think of me" is the flirt that gets sent automatically when someone rates you as hot in the "hot or what" section of amateur pics. .Take it as a compliment... and move on... or you could also say thanks.As for the rest... well... have you seen some of the pictures people use as avatars around here? Im sure some people are better off without one! :p I mean.. sure you have nice abs... but ffs clean that slime off your vanity basin.. it's disgusting!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi suck-start,It is not just the guys that do this.We as a couple find the same thing and i'm sure that there is the females out there that do it too.xxtickliishxx..... can think of lots more flirt replys that there could or should be... my fav is the short answer is No and the long answer is nnnoooooo!!!!!! lolHave fun
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RHP User
15 years ago
One time, before I had learned to get a face pic FIRST before giving out my number, (I was too soft in the early days of dating) this guy finally sent me a pic from his phone....................it was a photo of a car accident ! WT...... . He claimed the face pic wouldn't send . Total tool................
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LeoQueen
15 years ago
Hi Suck_Start Anyone who is serious about meeting has a face pic. In 5 years on RHP we have not found an exception to this simple rule.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yep, totally agree, people must think we're all idiots :-)I've had exactly the same situation with women that have no profile pic and then you go through this arduous task of trying to get a picture of who your talking to (and then you get an old, small, jpeg artifact covered image or similar). I never understand why!! As you say...stick a clear image in your private gallery and then give me access...it's not rocket science :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
First of all, welcome to RHP. This is one of the first things you get to learn on here. Unfortuneately they dont ever stop so you will quickly learn to just ignore these stupid wankers. OR... buy yourself a crystal ball and wave your hands around it so they can materialize outta a puff of smoke.Im sure this is what they expect us to do...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Honest, I have tried to put a face pic in my public gallery but it still comes up restricted to guest members. I wonder if it's because I look so much like Shrek... | ...or maybe even Donkey. | | Oh no, here come the villagers with the torches again!
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RHP User
15 years ago
If they can send you a pic by email then they can add one to their private album. If they can't be bothered with it then why should you?And for those who don't put up face pics because they don't want people to find out they are on this site, don't complain at the lack of response.
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RHP User
15 years ago
99% Timewasters or Just to Hard!!! CM: l am a guest and can see facial pics in the PG's, perhaps your facial pic is has been taken from the wrong angle Therefore restricted
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RHP User
15 years ago
Looks like it might be time to shoot them all again, huh? | Quoting 'inspirit' CM: l am a guest and can see facial pics in the PG's, perhaps your facial pic is has been taken from the wrong angle | And here I thought stepping out of the shower then getting all spiffed up before hodling the camera above my head and looking up was a bit artistic. Maybe next time I will throw some pants on and hope that I don't keep getting those rather rude comments like "gezzz your nose is longer than Pinocchio's and looks funny". | Thanks, Inspirit...a woman's point of view is appreciated.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Honest, I have tried to put a face pic in my public gallery but it still comes up restricted to guest members. I wonder if it's because I look so much like Shrek... | ...or maybe even Donkey. | | Oh no, here come the villagers with the torches again! I've had guests say they can't see the profile pic from my public gallery and they they can't see the private galleries once I have given access. Anyone know why this could be?
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RHP User
15 years ago
often nude shots are restricted to guests as are any rude ones - the perks of being a paid memebr I get to see all the naughty pictures...mmmmmm . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I might have to change my profile pic then
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'trumper'I might have to change my profile pic then but the pervert that I am likes your profile pic....sigh.... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'trumper'I might have to change my profile pic then but the pervert that I am likes your profile pic....sigh.... . Kisses Focus But I'm getting head spins from hanging up-side-down :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'trumper' But I'm getting head spins from hanging up-side-down :) just give me access to your PG - problem solved , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I always think you're hot!!! . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
it might surprise a few of you but not everyone enjoys the fame of their face and personal interests be broadcast. speaking for myself i have grown adult children and a business where i am well known in some circles.obviously i have no desire for my private life to be exposed to either before group for any reason.apart for the embarrasment it could affect me seriously financially. the other issue is photo reliabilityi can say ,its very low.i have been meeting women regularily for over 10 years and can state that only a few lived up to their photos, not that is of great concern to me, but as some of you put such great store in it ,worthy of mention. if you girls are genuinely interested try broadening your views a bit. for example.i always offer to meet publicly first, that way if no connection or spark is made then no harm is done and everyone can move on.pictures alone dont convey much either, some of the sexiest women i have met may not be model material,so what!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi suck_start, Like yourself I'm fairly new at all this. I think it's either just a matter of being way too lazy or they are trying to be discreet about being on here, but there is a simple solution for them......Private Gallery. It's not hard.For me a profile pic is a must as so I know who I'm talking to.CheersHex
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RHP User
15 years ago
to give my phone number to someone without seeing a face pic. And the few times I have provided email address they instead add me to their msn list and delay sending a pic. I hate that.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I rocked up to meet someone once without sharing a face pic and I saw the look of disappointment on his face when he saw me. I never want to experience that again so I insist on sharing face pics before meeting someone. And yes I do keep them in my private gallery because Tassie is small. If you show me yours I'll show you mine Face
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is an adult site, and some of us prefer to only send face pic to playmates we have made contact with and after an initial chat - other wise we might just look each other up in a phone book;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
pics should be available, or the profile kept suspended until they are.......perhaps pics should be only of the profile owner, and not af some inanimate object........perhaps they should not allow pictures that originate anywhere other than the persons camera/phone etc.......
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have had our share of complaining and trying to work out why people cant show a picture even in a PG. Along with a host of other strange behaviour we couldn't work out. In the end everyone is different and if they don't want to put pics up or do anything that falls into what your looking for better just to move on. It works much better than trying to mould them into what you are looking forWe found a solution for almost all our complaints and its working very well I must say. Its called the block button. Just one simple click and all the confusion, frustration and time wasting instantly vanishes.It frees up lots of time and energy for the real people that we do click with. That being people that have a pic are willing to meet in person and are looking for the same experiences we are.Tim
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
Time wasters, dreamers & wannabes....don't waste your time with them!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just time wasters...zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz and being fair.... some of them dont mean to waste our time... They are just not ready to get past showing their face or whatever. We get sick of helping people thru the "HOOPS"...and spelling it out to couples and single guys. WE need to see BOTH of youFaces pleaseYes your boob is great...is there any more of you?Wow a big doodle (when you squeeze the shit out of it)...do you have a nice smile? Seriously, if your only looking at pics and chatting with your partner about playing...maybe put that on your profile :) B
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RHP User
14 years ago
some of us want discretion - so we do not have pics here, especially not face pics, but happy to swap with someone that would keep my discretion - we just have to chat and become friends first :-)This is an adult site so it is not alays acceptable to have your face picture here when it can be seen by anyone - even perhaps your teenage kids ! If we did not need some discretion we might even date using a phone book :-)
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
I agree with the majority on this one anyone who is serious will have pics up, you dont have to have them in Public that is what PG is for if you are worried about your privacy.I have heard them all before: "i haven't worked out how to load them yet" - my response well get back to me when you have!!"i am a high profile person and don't want to be recognized on here" - ppfft yeah right (read that i don't want my wife to see me here)The list goes on and on but in reality i am not into 'Blind dates' i want to see a face and i am happy to show mine so no pics will equal a 'no thanks' response.Same goes for the 'profile builder' profiles, if you are not creative enough to write your own then you are probably not creative enough to entertain me in bed either!!WBYM
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just got on this the other day, and didn't have a pic up and kind of enjoyed the anonimity of it, while letting my profile do the talking. I seriously haven't got one photo I want up here, I've never been one to pose or been around cameras much. I took this one with my phone and it sucks, doesn't represent me at all how I'd like.The sending one through other channels is possibly the same kind of annonimity fear of being recognised, not from a partner but by the boys. we can be just as vicious as you womenI just read crazy mexican's veiw and he's spot on too. The other thing is I rekon they need a few more flirts, or you should be able to jumble them up, cos' sometimes half is right but the other half isn't relevant.Anyway, I'm new, forgettaboudit
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think people are misunderstanding the complaint about absence of profile pics.I think the complaint was originally directed at people that have a RHP profile without any pictures at all. As in nothing on there public profile not even a general faceless body pic and nothing in a Private gallery. Be it a face pic or a general body pic.How the hell are you going to know if your atracted to them. I wouldn't take the time to drive out and look at a car/ house without a seeing some photos first . Just to make sure I wasn't wasting my time. I cant imagine making that commitment to meet some one and just take a punt they are attractive. All you have to go on is there vague description in there profile. They could look like a calven celin model or a dogs ass for all we know. People want to make there own judgment and a picture tells a 1000 words.Yes personality is just as important its 50/50. For us anyhow it has to be a pass in both boxes. The personality takes time to bring out though talking, chatting, flirting and what have you . The looks can be judged instantly when you see a pic. So we prefer to see the pic 1st make a choice within 30 seconds yes or no. Only if we find them attractive do we take the time to get to know the personality's.We also much prefer to get to know the personality face to face than through a pc. Remember its a different set of rules for our day to day friends where personality is all that matters. Here we feel being a little shallow 1st up when it comes to looks is fine as in the end we are looking for more than just friendship from our RHP friends .This crap about your kids joining up to RHP and Looking at your photo's. What a load of rubbish. If you put face photos in a private gallery it wont happen. You make the choice who you let see them. I am sure your kids are not going to be looking up mum or dad and saving up their pocket money so the can buy a premium membership to see all your juicy pics anyhow.Your more likely to get busted by your kidsor friends by using MSN,Yahoo hotmail or god forbid facebook not RHP. Actually we hit the block button as soon as anyone asks to send pics this way.Discreet body pics on your public profile and a clear face pic in your PG is the way to go if your worried about discretion.Tim
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