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how far are you willing to go in bed and what things will you not do ever
December 31 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Illegal...the big three here, kids, animals and incest Painful......I am not, nor will I ever be submissive in any way, shape or form. The best I can offer is equals Humiliation or degradation...and to me this includes cumming on my face or in my hair, watersports, rimming, gangbangs and a few other unsavoury things.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have a rule unless on or the other or both is absolutely turned off by the thought of a particualr sexual act we will try it or find someone who is experienced and get ehm to teach us. 2 years ago our Bisexual natures were in the closet now it is a part of our sex lives (thank god). As for water sports start with non oral first and see if that is pleasurable. Also rationalise what you are doing how much different is it to blowing your male partner or you licking her sweet WET pussy. WOuld you lick your partners pussy after you have cum in it, many won't. If it is the taste that puts you off lay off the coffee and drink plenty of pineapple juice. We have boundaries and some we have yet to explore but that is what growing together sexually is about. Definately keep away from the illegal but the immoral(sic) is up to you.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Illegal...the big three here, kids, animals and incest Painful......I am not, nor will I ever be submissive in any way, shape or form. The best I can offer is equals Humiliation or degradation...and to me this includes cumming on my face or in my hair, watersports, rimming, gangbangs and a few other unsavoury things. Hi Fionabee, I am not agreeing or disagreeing with you, but you put Gangbangs under your humiliation or degradation paragraph. Just interested to know why you think this? P.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm with fionabee here. None of the illegal stuff as it's distasteful anyway, no pain or degradation and I'll never put myself in a position where I'm less than equal and there's no way i'd be a piece of meat for a bunch of guys to gangbang but i'm a little flexible with rimming and facials it comes down to intent and the attitude of the guy, if it's purely for fun and pleasure it's great, if he wants to cum on someone's face to degrade them he can aim for his own. Another thing i won't do is choke/gag on someone's cock. I don't get the appeal, it looks and sounds gross.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'fionabee' Illegal...the big three here, kids, animals and incest Painful......I am not, nor will I ever be submissive in any way, shape or form. The best I can offer is equals Humiliation or degradation...and to me this includes cumming on my face or in my hair, watersports, rimming, gangbangs and a few other unsavoury things. Hi Fionabee, I am not agreeing or disagreeing with you, but you put Gangbangs under your humiliation or degradation paragraph. Just interested to know why you think this? P. To me it all goes back to watching this sort of stuff as a teenager in the late seventies early eighties. One girl would get drunk, one of the guys would take her off somewhere and they would all take turns. It is somewhat like pissing on a person, a dog amrking its territory and no more. I have absolutely no problems with others that want to indulge in this sort of behaviour but it is not for me. It is just yuck! Men treating a woman like a piece of meat, using her. I am a one on one person, I make no appologies for that. Each to ther own. ***** MY OPINION ONLY ****
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RHP User
15 years ago
I log up a lot of miles in the air and willing to travel most anyplace to meet a creative, warm and inviting lover...and more often if we really click. I have the benefit of making my own schedlules up for "business puposes" so I will go a long ways. | Let me guess...I go the answer wrong again? Damn. | As to the rest...creativity, imagination and mutal agreement set the standard and I have yet to meet anyone that would push past the boundaries of some of the major issues mentioned above...or my own. Of course, I do like to spend time getting to know the person I am meeting and hopefully would not put them on the NQR list or ones that I would want to report to an appropriate law enforcment agency. | Ϲɧαṩιɳǥ Μιɗɳιǥɧʈ ♂
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maxking2010 I do not see a gangbang as a compliment...many men satisfying just one woman. I see it as the mob mentality...it is more like..."Oh well, any hole is a practise hole. All the the other guys are getting it so why should I miss out? I dont know the woman and I dont care really...I just want to get my cock wet. Feeling a tad horny tonight anyway." JMO.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Getting someone pissed as a fart and then exposing them to multiple partners is rape. It's not a consensual gb.. They're completely different things. A gb where one person feels safe enough to let go of inhibitions and be pleasures by numerous people simultaneously is an experience to savour and enjoy. This requires an element of power. The power to control the whole situation. I'd recommend that if youre unable to manage the situation yourself that you have a thoughtful minder to cease control at your instigation. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'fionabee' Illegal...the big three here, kids, animals and incest Painful......I am not, nor will I ever be submissive in any way, shape or form. The best I can offer is equals Humiliation or degradation...and to me this includes cumming on my face or in my hair, watersports, rimming, gangbangs and a few other unsavoury things. Hi Fionabee, I am not agreeing or disagreeing with you, but you put Gangbangs under your humiliation or degradation paragraph. Just interested to know why you think this? P. To me it all goes back to watching this sort of stuff as a teenager in the late seventies early eighties. One girl would get drunk, one of the guys would take her off somewhere and they would all take turns. It is somewhat like pissing on a person, a dog amrking its territory and no more. I have absolutely no problems with others that want to indulge in this sort of behaviour but it is not for me. It is just yuck! Men treating a woman like a piece of meat, using her. I am a one on one person, I make no appologies for that. Each to ther own. ***** MY OPINION ONLY **** Hi Fionabee, The circumstnaces you refer to , would certainly not be acceptable and i agree with you. I was thinking more along Stalky's comment, where a consensual GB was organized.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Fionabee, I know exactly where you are coming from. Particularly with the girl getting drunk and then allowing a group of boys to have sex with her. I do remember those days - not very nice at all. Or maybe the girl that lets her boyfriend's friends do her because she thinks it will make him love her. Horrible. . . Stalky - yes I know that the two situations are COMPLETELY different!! Not sure why but like Fionabee that is where my mind goes. . . Maxking - the girls that this happened to were treated with contempt (back then) no one respected them at all. So the feeling is that men standing around waiting for their turn would not be viewing the women with an respect and therefore that is degrading. . . I am not talking from experience her at all - and I know GBs are not about what I have mentioned above at all. But I guess my "experiences' of group happenings when I was younger has skewed my view of what it would be like. NOW - put me in in a room with men & women. Well to me that is just having a good time. What is the difference - fucked if I know?? . . Confused Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
But I was asked for my opinion why I felt gangbangs were degrading so I gave it. In those bad old days ... it was actually called a gangbang. It never happened to me but I did witness it a number of times. For me now...it is still the same thing...concentual or not. For me, it will never be a compliment, it will always be a insult.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe it is the the term "gang bang" ??? Sweetiepie you mention mmmf and I think you are a brave & out their lady and that is all good. . But I guess the connotations of the term "gang bang" is really bad for me. I suppose when I was growing up (cause I am so old - Geez i have to stop saying that) but when I was growing up and even now when people normally say gang bang they are not saying it in a nice way or meaning good things. RHPers being the exception of course.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are all saying in the old days.... but I am sure it is happening now to young girls. Dare I mention footballers here. No I won't. But you know what I mean. xxx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' But I was asked for my opinion why I felt gangbangs were degrading so I gave it. In those bad old days ... it was actually called a gangbang. It never happened to me but I did witness it a number of times. For me now...it is still the same thing...concentual or not. For me, it will never be a compliment, it will always be a insult. I agree - the terminology was the same in the country that I grew up in... and so was the meaning. I know it's used differently these days, but I understand Fiona's distaste for the term.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I find it amusing how some writers have hijacked the original question. The original question was about a broad range of what is acceptable. A gang bang organised by guys on an unsuspecting or unwilling is RAPE, a gang bang either organised or attended by a female who enjoys the feel of mutliple partners is her business. Notice I have not gone the degradation trail, the reason why ppl do what they do is there business to a point. If I were ever involved in a GB and thought the female was only doing it as she felt worthless I would not participated and if I knew the person I would tell her. The saying goes that "there is a fine line between pleasure and pain", unsure if the Maquis de Sade or Chrissy Amphlett coined it. There is also a fine line between what is legal and illegal, it is all based on consent and continuing consent. Back to the original question as my soapbox has broken, everyone has an opinion everyone has limits trust your instincts and explore and never be judgmental of others who enjoy things you find distasteful. Meeka just have a look in chat and ask yourself: does a guy respect women by his intro line of show me your tits or let me see your pussy and then think, are all RHPers nice lol? Not having a shot at someone as hot and not old like your self
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RHP User
15 years ago
agreed : Illegal...the big three here, kids, animals and incest .. I never say never to anything reasonable as in most cases there is an exception to every rule ( hell I once said I would never give head..ha).. but the more I'm turned on the more options you have.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting '2into2' Meeka just have a look in chat and ask yourself: does a guy respect women by his intro line of show me your tits or let me see your pussy and then think, are all RHPers nice lol? Not having a shot at someone as hot and not old like your self Well you can come kiss my fat butt. Pucker up... LOL. Pretty please? I will respect you in the morning!! Point taken 2into2- I think I need to attend one as an observer first then I can make an informed decision. Then we will all be happy. xxx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
does my arse look big in this???? xxx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' does my arse look big in this???? xxx Meeka No, that arse is divine!!!!
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Of course all the illegal stuff and a couple of other gross unclean acts..but not gang bangs in the current day meaning of the term. Like others have said above..there is a big difference between a gang bang and gang rape. In a gang bang the woman must be in charge and obviously she should only partake with guys she trusts in a controlled situation. In that situation, the woman is empowered because she has the men on her terms. An eight guy GB has been our limit so far, and it was lots a fun...and certainly not degrading in anyway. It is no different to group sex sessions with say five couples all going for it..or say one guy and many girls...group sex is group sex no matter what mix of sexes are playing. If it's consensual between all parties it cannot be classed as degrading or humiliating to anyone involved.PS Mrs Sweetiepie.....if you need any help with your MMMF quest...just call!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Men treating a woman like a piece of meat, using her. ***** MY OPINION ONLY **** I do totally see your point of view but the way I look at it is the man is the meat that I'm using to fill and satisfy me... Very enjoyable Otherwise I'd try most things once... all depending on the person/people I'm with and the situation (but definately no kids or incest) xxx Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was reading through the way this thread has gone off topic and was going to mention the way it was being talked about as "the bad old days" before Meeka brought it up. I'm sure this still goes on all to often and it's not just drunken footballers. I'll bet there are a lot of young teens out there who are abused in this way just as some of us may have witnessed in "the bad old days". Or has the mentality of younger people changed for the better? Sorry to take the thread further off topic.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love it when a partner can bring new and exciting things to the bedroom so long as we both agree on them and enjoy doing them with eachother. Some things you might try and may never want to do again. Everyone has their boundaries and so far I've enjoyed exploring them but have and would never done naything against some one else's will or without their consent.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Safe, Sane & Consentual. No kids animals or incest. Sounds right. I personally dont like water sports or rimming. Doesnt mean I wont watch you doing it Also Gangbang...I think of the porn movies gangbang and cant see myself ever doing the lay on the bed while they line up...Not sexy, not sensual & def not me! That said An orgy of epic proportions would just be plain fun! The gangbang you girls were talking about...kinda like what happened in the car in that John Travolta movie? Sat nite fever?? Thats terrible & rape. You make it sound so commen! I hope it wasnt! It certainly wasnt around in my teen years. Mrs H xx ps. Are first cousins incest? Or only if you plan on having kids? And is it a problem if say the lady has had menopause, no chance of conceiving...is it still bad? Cousins, siblings, parents? pps. Im not asking for me either just in case you are wondering! Just curious to see what you think about it! ppps. And are animals actually illegal?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Bhalalalala Thats so Funny bhahahha Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' Oooh why thank you Brett, so gracious and lovely of you to offer your services, i most certainly do have your number on speed dial. xx Sweetie
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RHP User
15 years ago
your bitterness shines right through. Seriously this is getting boring. Just give it up.
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RHP User
15 years ago
bit creepy too, yeah?
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RHP User
15 years ago
How far do you go.... I don't want to do anything illegal. That's my limit. I also don't like having scars and bruises that I have to explain to my mum or my clients. I've certainly done some things that make me wonder why... I mean.. licking armpits for example.... it's trippy.... the right smell can send me deleriously mellow... with the right smell, a person can do anything to me after that... I'm totally intoxicated... and sometimes... I errr... lick... armpits. That's disgusting I know... you don't have to tell me... but I can't help it... sometimes things just happen when I let go of my inhibitions. To try learn something about yourself... you should let go of your sexual inhibitions every now and again and see where that journey takes you. Be a "yes man" for once in your life and you might surprise yourself, disgust yourself.... but learn something about yourself, your desires and what really turns you on.. I dont mean get's you off.. I mean.. what makes butterflies.... and sends your mind numb with dopamines.HugsStalky
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tank__girl
15 years ago
I spent some time with an adventurous man who also LOVED smelling my armpits! I used to think it was a liiitttle bit odd, but he seemed to have every 'weird' fetish there was, so it really didn't bother me. If it made him feel good, sexier, hornier and I'm going to reap the benefits, then woohoo....Bring it on! I was recently spent a naughty night in with a very naughty couple. After hours of dancing, licking, sucking, fucking, squirting etc. there was copius amounts of sweat 'sweated'..?! Then, I got a whiff of the females armpit... oh my...butterflies!!? I could't help but to lick it, and mash my face into her armpit..intoxicating myself i her scent..it was incredibly sexy, and a huge turn on, I couldn't get enough. Then 'Hubby' says..."Suck her toes" she loves that....Mmmmmmmmmm, kissing and licking her feet also very much 'worked' for me. I have had fun with feet before, kissing, touching, sucking. Then I was about to cum just from that without eve touching myself, or being touched, so had the most amazing orgasm after sticking that nice big, fat big toe fair up my wet snatch heheheee...A little bit of a big toe wiggle, and woohooo...Wooooshka....Wowee. It was hot. I agree with Stalky, you should let go of your sexual inhibitions every now and again ( or every time if you like to make the best out of every situation?! ) and see where that journey takes you. Oh, and Trumper, unfortuantly 'kids' have not changed, nor ever will!? I work closely with teenagers, and 'tweens', and know a hell of a lot more that goes on, than what what any of their parents know what they get up to! No amount of educating adolescents on the effects of alcohol will change what goes on, just like in the 'Bad old days'. That's what 'most' kids do, go to parties, get drunk and get fucked. Yep, it does still happen, whether they like it or not. Kids will be kids, just as we all were, trying our hardest to get away with doing the things we shouldn't be? Eg. Sex, Drugs, rock'n'roll. That's life. We can't stop them wanting to, or stopping them from having sex, but! We can at least try to educate them on having SAFE sex! That's what my Mum did hahahaaaa.....and it worked. Clever. Oh and fiona, another question, just curious. What is it you find humiliating about rimming? To me it's pretty much the same as oral. Do you not like to lick and suck cock? What the difference? Unless youre being made to lick a 'dirty' ass, I can't see how and why it would be humiliating or degrading in any way. Ta! Answer to the original question, as long as nobody gets hurt ( or caught?! ) I say...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes Golden Showers are an acquired taste! You'd wanna flavour that up with some Tequila and lemon I imagine. It's amazing what works for people. Accept your limits - and surely they're your own.
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