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is 15 to 20 minutes too long.
November 22 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Grandma let me start by saying that I asked you not get on RHP and ask these questions. It possibly could be because Grand dad keeps falling asleep while he is orally pleasuring you. The other issue is what is your hurry, you are 85 and obvioulsy still in good condition and not going to pop off in the next 20, enjoy the ride so to speak. If it is because of Grand Pa get a toy boy, no not me we are related. I will intro you to a spritely 70 yr old who claims to be multi orgasmic , has a nine inch togue and has learnt from Tibetan Monks how to breathe thru his ears. I hope that helps you. In a way it is better that these questions are asked on RHP and not round the Xmas table like lat year where you complained about swallowing cum All my love your Fave Grandson
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RHP User
15 years ago
go for it girl take as long as you like but just get a man that cn last as long or he may be asleep and leave you finding yourself gaining toy pleasure then again if you worry about something enough it does make it worse ,,,,,,,,,,,try to just be in the moment and not worry about anything Andy xxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Did I mention more foreplay? Seriously if a guy isn't winding you up enough beforehand so that you aren't bouncing off the walls like a epileptic slingshot within a few minutes, at least SOME of the time, he's doing it WRONG. And from what some women who are in the know tell me, that might be because you're accepting guys being sexually selfish, instead of making it clear beforehand that bad sex won't cut your mustard.
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RHP User
15 years ago
on the day and the man or the mood. It can sometimes be over in a matter of minutes and ready for round two or alternatively it can take hours and hours and................mmmmmmm Just relax hunny. Nothing wrong with you at all.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thank you Fiona..ur words are gold.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Leaving out the physical-tired, unwell etc or the psychological-stressed, tired, anxious or the emotional-you may still be emotionally involved with someone else-even though they are absent through death or a sudden separation. We often forget how intuitive and sensitive we actually are...although we live in the 21st century the wiring is a lot older...and at times your body may not be responding the way it should be to another as although they look good, say all the good things-they aren't really good for you...and this is your body's way of letting you know...it gives you a big sign for "no" and "danger"-through this sexual dysfunction...if you've never experienced it before... Even if it is a casual thing-it's not good to mix with the bad energy...and your body knows even if you don't know, can't or don't care to see it.. Whether or not you want to believe in it-it happens...like when all the hairs stand up on the back of your neck...or you feel suddenly cold and you realise you're not in a dark place on your own... I say always go with it...listen to your instinct. If you reflect on your past or poll some of your friends that may have had a relationship crisis-when they then discovered their partner was lying to them in some way-whether it be a new addiction to alcohol, drugs or gambling or even cheating on them-when they think back there is usually a correllation between as the situation became acute (although they were unaware of what their partner was doing at the time)-they experienced an increase in the sexual dysfunction or inability to climax quickly or at all-they had never experienced before... Great sex is not a guarantee that the person you have it with will be good for you..either... However, there is a very big difference between the hapless lost good souls that are actually frozen in their pain or anguish and can't help themselves let alone give to you, which makes them no good for a relationship but it's going to be a fantastic sexual encounter because that is what is at their core-they are good souls-and when you have sex you encounter what they are at their core. Then there are the dark souls that prowl and predate pretending to be creatures of light-and you know how they end-you walk away and think but they looked and they seemed but.......it just didn't happen... because they were not there for you to share with you but to take from you. Hindsight is always 20/20-best indicator-of what you're getting watch them around animals and kids-if the neighbours cat that kind of looks at most people with a quiet contempt and hasn't moved in six months-hisses or runs away at speed when they arrive or the neighbours kids in the front garden cry or won't talk to them-when they usually go up and say "Hi" to anyone-I wouldn't be going anywhere near them...let alone letting them in the door or near to me... NymphetamineDrm
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Hubby says i have to shush so others can concentrate! ha! Tell hubby to shush and let you do your thang sexy lady :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Nymph,Thanks for your wordy discourse, I wasn't thinking dysfunctional, just a bit slower than I would have liked...I think you have single handedly managed to put me off sex forever lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Let me do the math? That's what...about 6 in an hour? I know, I know...and I cross checked on my abacus...but after the first 3 or 4 in an hour there is a fair chance you may loose count, put your feet up, kick back and enjoy the ride. That's not half bad at your age!
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RHP User
15 years ago
How quickly do you want to cum? I'd think a quickie is going to take at least 15 mins so you're cumming right on time and if it's a long session you're up for multiples - sounds perfect!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thank you to the lovely ladies with their words of insight and wisdom. When dysfunctional got thrown at me I thought..'that's it.. all over red rover'.. and then along comes Puppy, not just reassuring..but giving me the hope of multiples as well. Rock on lovely woman xx
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Tart_Du_Jour
15 years ago
It takes me that long and often longer for me. I actually prefer a slow build up because for me it makes things better in the end for me personally. Anyway, as long as you don't have to be anywhere afterwards, what's the rush?
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RHP User
15 years ago
can i ask what the hurry is ? i bet more of us out there wish 20 mins was all it took lol , lay back , relax , and dont forget to breathe ! oh and dont forget to practice !Much love , Jonesy76
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp'Hey Nymph,Thanks for your wordy discourse, I wasn't thinking dysfunctional, just a bit slower than I would have liked...I think you have single handedly managed to put me off sex forever lol. CrackUp My intention was neither to offend or frighten..... Nor did I say you were dysfunctional... dys·func·tion also dis·func·tion (ds-fngkshn) n. Abnormal or impaired functioning, especially of a bodily system or social group. dys·function·al adj. Sex is fantastic-it's greater better than any drug-it's a gift from the gods and should be enjoyed... It's sad to see people suffer unnecessarily sometimes...when they can avoid it-the suffering not the sex that is something definitely not to be avoided when there is so much high quality sex available everywhere in absolute abundance. I guess I could have gone for the standard uni-syllabled response... However that's not me now is it? 85 and on a social/sex site? What could I possibly tell you that you have not already pondered or experienced CrackUp? We are all in debt to people like you the pioneers that don't fear breaking with convention... You should consider yourself the Magellan of rhp... I therefore wish you safe journey across the peaceful sea-well as peaceful as this place can be... NymphetamineDrm
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RHP User
15 years ago
That is not too long! Omg... for someone who loves long extended sessions of foreplay, 15 - 20 minutes and I'm hoping he's only bought me to the edge two or three times by then! Hopefully you find yourself playing with someone who knows his way around a woman and loves working your body and your pussy, and makes you feel at ease. :) xxSoubi
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RHP User
15 years ago
You could take as long as you like if there are a couple of guys involved. :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I used to think I was weird because I take a long time... sometimes I dont at all... I actually went to a doctor about it... but Ive learned to be ok about it :)I sometimes make my girl wait that long... let her teater on the edge I say... then when she goes.... she nearly passes out and I cant stop grinning :Dfun for all... after that I let her go as she pleases :)everyone takes longer and shorter guys and girls alike... some guys go super fast, some dont...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I used to be able to do it in about 2.5 minutes. Now I take a heck of a lot longer and only with the help of toys. Not sure if my age has anything to do with it or merely the fact that my partner and I have a very healthy sex life. I have found that if I am feeling very horny I can knock a few minutes off the clock. On the upside, I have much more intense orgasms and am able to multiple orgasm more intensely. I would suggest you sit back, relax and enjoy the journey. If it feels good why hurry.
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RHP User
15 years ago
For Mrs SR its all to do with how relaxed to start with, and how secure she feels and how aroused. Having teenagers in the next room does not make for quick shrieking orgasms.For me I love oral sex - its just where I was born to be (sic) - so longer is good too.Worst thing is to make it into a problem...Mr. SR.
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RHP User
15 years ago
A woman's orgasm is as much an issue of trust and comfort as anything else. However there is a guaranteed formula: Keep with your eyes closed as much as possible and listen to your sexiest tunes. First 5 minutes eat strawberries and icecream or whatever puts a smile on your dial. Next 5 minutes just run your finger over your face with still with eyes closed - ears cheeks jaw lips nose eyebrows. Next 5 minutes massage moisturiser over neck arms and chest but avoiding nipples - circle but do not touch. Next 5 minutes lightly stroke belly and thighs only. Next 5 minutes circle your pussy but do not go inside or touch clit. Next 5 minutes lick finger and tease nipples. Next 5 minutes stroke/oral pussy. Next 5 minutes go for gold. Damn thats 40 miinutes - I guess you''ll just need to shorten each step until get the speed you want - but do you really want to??. I'd rather double or triple the time involved personally.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Problem is it takes at least two days of preparation ...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I usually take so damn long that his hand or jaw gets sore!I will then take over and ask him to help me.Part of my issue I think is the inability to fully "let go".Oh and if I've been drinking...forget about it!One day i'll get there...but 'til then...i'll keep trying!!JMO...BJxxx
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