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rhp members friend request
July 23 2012
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Zsuza69
13 years ago
We know how you feel. We dont accept any friends unless we have spoken to them for more than a couple of times and only then if we still think they would be fun to meet. Mainly after swapping face pics.
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RHP User
13 years ago
People I have met. I do not get why people add others they never met. I guess you develope an online friendship but I would have no idea if that person was real or not. Or what they said they are or even if its their real pictures. They are just pen pals till the time I meet them. My friends are not always people I have had sex with either. Even then I wait for them to want me to add them as a friend, as some people like their privacy. Especially people I photograph.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thats exactly why I never send friend requests, I'm not here to piss people off, well intentionally anyway.Though I'm always open to accepting them from people on theForums who I respect and like. I don't need to have met thempersonally.Some from here are even Facebook friends.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
happily accept friend requests from absolutely anyone and everyone,I do not understand that practice. I accept friend requests from pepole I have met and liked, or people who I have chatted to online.x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Facebook to me is exactly my (for want of better word) " Real" friends. Quite frankly its a lot harder to find me on facebook as it is here and my pics of family to me are far more personal then some random breasts and body shots we have up in public on this site. Hence my facebook friends is a marginally smaller group then the number of friends on our list here..So...The faciilty of "friends" on here I use as either people we have met, types of people that interest us,or rather yummy profiles we like to look at .If they have no pics and just send out a friends request its a simple ignore and delete .Not too sure why some people get so wrapped up in what or how many friends OTHER profiles end up with? Whinge about your own if you must that's fine. either way it aint no pissing contest worth writing home about.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to wonder if they are like 'trophies' as in 'oh look, I have lots of friends on my profile'. I prefer my friends to be real rather than pictures. Just my 2 bob's worth.
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DonnaBrett
13 years ago
Except for one or two very rare instances we only accept friend requests from people we have actually played with.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Pretty much agree but I'm not the sort to send out requests to all and sundry. I only ask if I think the person is interesting and would find me interesting. I don't facebook (yes a sad pleb). But its a wide wide world out there. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
And again another 2 requests today from 2 rhp members, who ive never spoken too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
yes im sure thats what it is,only get rejected from me
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
I checked out your profile paradise14. It is one hot profile page so i suppose some people may want to be associated with that. Giives them a lift & they may feel that by being on your page it may in some way improve their chances,give them an edge in some way.You know i am friends with her so i must be hot.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We only add people we've met or have spoken to regularly. I have the same rules on here as for my Facebook. If they aren't actually friends, they don't make the list.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thats how it should be
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes thats a point! Thankyou for the compliment
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RHP User
13 years ago
paradise will you be my Friend please
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thats my way of thinking as well
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RHP User
13 years ago
I really don't understand this! I've stated specifically at the start of my profile that my friends list are only people I've met and/or emailed (pen pals)...and yet I still get requests from people I've never talked to. And while I can kind of understand Guest members adding others to try and initiate contact, what confuses me more are those that are paid members, send a friend request, and don't email...and after you decline, send another friend request!
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RHP User
13 years ago
as Ive never had a friend request in all my time here on RHP PMSL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey look at the other side, they want to be your friends. How is that a bad thing?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Also, what's the con of adding someone to your list? There is no privilege of adding someone to on to your friend list at all (eg. being able to see PG, unlimited messages, etc.) Having them on your list is the same as not, so I don't really see the point of getting fed up with it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I prefer to at least chat first before deciding whether we get along well enough to be on my friends list. But my pet gripe are the ones who send their first message asking (and expecting you to agree) to meet up. Announcing that I'm lucky enough for them to be travelling to a town near me! When I say no thanks they question why.
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RHP User
13 years ago
SO 1 ???..........how did you all meet the ppl you have here on RHP???......im sure you were not all friends before you joined!! I feel that the friend request is there for a person that thinks they may fit into anothers likeing ...or possible more!!!!!!!...So to let that person know that they are intrested in ......there profile.......It is some thing that is not as direct as a ??? but lets ppl know if they have a chance in which they can send a msg ...without ...giveing the wrong impression and leaveing the chooseing to chat ....up to the person or persons.recieveing the Friend request
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RHP User
13 years ago
It actually can be a negative... I've had my eye on a certain guy on here and sent him a flirt to gauge his interest first, and he took about a month to reply back to me, after I had culled my friends list, saying that I originally had had 'too many friends' for his liking. I guess having too many friends on your list can be a slight turn off for some as they may (wrongfully) deduce that you have actually met and played with them and have little to no preferences in who you play with, unless of course it's some extortionate number where you know it's simply impossible that anyone could be THAT busy!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'City_Kitty'It actually can be a negative... I've had my eye on a certain guy on here and sent him a flirt to gauge his interest first, and he took about a month to reply back to me, after I had culled my friends list, saying that I originally had had 'too many friends' for his liking. I guess having too many friends on your list can be a slight turn off for some as they may (wrongfully) deduce that you have actually met and played with them and have little to no preferences in who you play with, unless of course it's some extortionate number where you know it's simply impossible that anyone could be THAT busy! I guess that is up to him. I think having lots of friends on your list only means that you're popular. In another swinging sites, there are couples with 1,000+ friends, whih I'm sure it's impossible to sleep with 1,00 profiles from all over the places. Also, deducing you from having too many friends? Imagine this is the outside world, would he assume that you have slept with all the friends you have had? His logic doesn't make sense.But after all you found out why and (probably) resolve the problem, communication is the key, which is why i really hate when people ingore each other for minor things.
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RHP User
13 years ago
of course,your already on my list
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think there is a right or wrong with this...just different opinions. Some people are go getters regardless of it being a sex site so they intiate...while others are conservative and hold back. Personally...i'm not interested in having a friends list of 25 plus but i'm happy to talk to anyone. It doesn't bother me but i'm happy to add people from here onto facebook. It's a sex site so i add women that i like as a person...once i've established a like to them it means i'd have sex with them....which means i add to my friends list lol. Pretty simple for me lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i like to meet or at least have some conversation first before i decide if i consider then to be my friends
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RHP User
13 years ago
However, this isn't the outside world,imagining it doesn't make it so.It's a sex site, what were you saying about logic.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'choppyme' SO 1 ???..........how did you all meet the ppl you have here on RHP???......im sure you were not all friends before you joined!! By chatting to them first before accepting a friend request (and telling them I prefer to chat a bit first).
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RHP User
13 years ago
I will only accept a friend request after I have met someone....to me they are not friends until then.....they are just acquaintances regardless of how many times we chat.I am inundated with requests which is flattering but my profile does state I will not friend you until I have met you.Goes to show they don't read your profiles.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you serious?? This isn't Facebook!!!! Im sure you probably wasted more time typing this than you ever will on declining requests :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' However, this isn't the outside world,imagining it doesn't make it so. It's a sex site, what were you saying about logic. Cheers Felonius Yeah, what I meant to say was why would someone judge how many people the other person has slept with by looking at how many friends they have. I guess it eventually falls upon how you interpret it personally. But I don't really see the point of being annoyed when someone want to be your friend.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The more friends in life you have the more fridges you have to move on the weekend.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well we agree there is no need to add people as your friend if you are not going to meet or play.All the people that are on our friend list are only people we have met or played with.There was one profile that wanted to add us as a friend yet they had 400 on their list anyway why they wanted us we will never know.Maybe they wanted that magical 401 number?R
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't get it, I don't accept random friend requests here or on FB.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To make them look soooo popular.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Me neither. xxxxx
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