RHP

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should we name and shame?

December 07 2010

I hate reading other ladies profiles that say they want a man that is unattached....and you know 100% that one of the guys on their friends list is not single....... what should we do? send a message to them and let them know, or let them find out for themselves..... it really shits me, and i am not a man hater at all ................ i know people on here that are married and do not hide the fact - weather its right or wrong - iam not here to judge... all i ask for is honesty

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Friends lists can be just that. I know it is in my case and I would suggest same for others as well. It is not the great wall of conquests. Before you name and shame just think about it first.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Why would it bother you unless these women are friends? You need to put more energy into your own life rather than worry about others! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I am on friends lists of people who are not seeking married people as well, but then it is obvious I am married...the person might already know he is married. They might just be friends...You never know.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I figure you treat people shamefully no naming and shaming needs to be done Karma takes care to of it .... Live your life build a bridge and get over it.... Why waste valuable life energy on the past.... If they didnt treat you right get our there and find the one that well they sure are out there, there are some gorgeous gents in this world who treat a lady as a lady not a two bob hooker. Now will get down off my soapbox. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    im only looking for single men but i have at least 5 or 6 men on my list that i know for a fact are married or taken in some way i also have women and couples...i dont do women or couples out of my 24 friends only about 8 are single men so i totally agree with Orbitron...just because they are on your friends list, doesnt mean you have slept or sleeping with them plus some people like to collect friends...makes you look good or something lol roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Why would it bother you unless these women are friends? You need to put more energy into your own life rather than worry about others! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Until I meet someone face to face, I assume that pretty much everything I think that I know about them is half-true at best. That means that sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised, but I'm never let down.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have a 21 year old girl on my friends list but I am straight. I have a couple of guys who are young but I am not into young guys. I also have women in thier 30's and 40's as well as couples. I play one on one. These people are my friends. Maybe you would like to look up the term friends and see what it means. Why would you find it necessary to try and cause trouble like that?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    isn't their friends list just that? theirs? we have people on ours that we will never meet, who don't match our search criteria, and do we care? we live our lives to our values, not the values of others. in the real world, we have friends that others don't approve of. we don't care for this approval. you should leave well enough alone, unless invited in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have noticed that some people seem to collect "friends". I'm not sure it makes them look good. Personally I don't like being lost in a crowd.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well I know of 2 guys on my friends list that are now involved. 1 is now engaged and we still keep in contact from time to time. I have even spoken to his lovely girl. another contacted me last week to let me know why he had not been online for a while. He now has a girlfriend. hehehe...I had already suspected that! lol..... good on them! Friends are just that..friends. I am not into couples or single girls but still have them on my friends list. I have guys on there that I enjoy chatting with and would proberly never meet as a friend. Funny thing is some ning nong guys from over East might be looking at my friends list and think I would like to chat... DERRRRRR NOOOOOO.... lol.. I have also meet heaps of wonderful souls from my meet n greet that are not on my friends list. For me a friends list is just that. A friend. Doesnt mean I have rooted them all. Mind you I'm sure some might like to ..hahhaha.. huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Snowshoe' Until I meet someone face to face, I assume that pretty much everything I think that I know about them is half-true at best. That means that sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised, but I'm never let down. lol. we believe nothing and assume its all fabrication until proven otherwise. that way we are rarely if ever disappointed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    why dont we just go back to the crazy topic previously about cheating and combine both of the forum threads, they read the same dont they

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    omg i have hundreds on my friends list, it doesnt mean i know them all it just means i am a friendly kinda gal.. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    omg i have hundreds on my friends list, it doesnt mean i know them all it just means i am a friendly kinda gal.. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What is this? a witch hunt? get a life, what a sad SAD topic.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ...that can happen when you go fishing alone

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'LoveCurvie'I am on friends lists of people who are not seeking married people as well, but then it is obvious I am married...the person might already know he is married. They might just be friends...You never know. true - i suppose i never really thought about it that way thanks for your comments all, my intention wasn't about causing issues, it was more around protection... but as a lot of you have said :my friends list is just that, my friends list " thanks for your feedback.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It's your business as to who or what or the depth of the level of the friendship you keep with the people on your list's...as they people have said above...you may not have slept with them...you may have just had a coffee or a drink with them or you may have only had a msn chat with them or you may never met them except for a friend request...at the end of the day does it really matter?? For me personally it's all of these if someone approaches me that I don't like their profile for one reason or another I just simply don't accept their friend request simple as that...especially if they say they are attached cos I am not interested they need to read my profile straight up :).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i think i see where your going Mz spoil if you have a friend on here and you know she only wants a single man between 20 and 30 and you know for a fact the man she is chatting to is married and 40...then if she asks then yeah let her know what you know and let her make her own decission about what to do but unless she is a good friend i wouldnt go out of my way to interfere but just because he/she is on a friends list doesnt mean anything is going on and hey...welcome to the forums...have fun and stay safe roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Friends are just friends.... It's your business as to who or what or the depth of the level of the friendship you keep with the people on your list's...as they people have said above...you may not have slept with them...you may have just had a coffee or a drink with them or you may have only had a msn chat with them or you may never met them except for a friend request...at the end of the day does it really matter?? For me personally it's all of these if someone approaches me that I don't like their profile for one reason or another I just simply don't accept their friend request simple as that...especially if they say they are attached cos I am not interested they need to read my profile straight up :). Well Said Kitty...My freinds list is exactly that, MINE! If I choose to befreind a transexual, a gay guy, a couple, or a married lady then thats my business...I choose my friends one one else.... Bridges need crossing but dont cross them until you have too!!