swingers club first time

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I have never go to a swingers party or any party of that kind but do have some friend that have done this type of thing as a couple. It depends if it at a hotel/apartment which can happen from time to time or at someone's house. If it's at a place where you have to walk around in public you wouldn't go with a very raunchy outfit that spells out what is going on. If it's at a owners house you can usually when a coat over your cloths till you get in. A lot of the time it start as a social gathering with drinks to start and conversation than one after another the group start playing till everyone is going for it. When my friends went they are a couple it was at a hired apartment so he went semi formal and his partner went in a sexy cocktail dress with sexy lace panties and tops... The clothing will also depend on the type of party wether it is a bdsm party or a casual sex gathering, as bdsm will probably wear some sort of leather or latex. Hope this helps and if I was in Perth and you where willing to have me as a swingers partner I would go with you... Both swinging virgins lol

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  Hottie1

  11 years ago

  At a swingers party. Each venue will usually have a dress code, some don't. We attend debauchery in Melbourne and upon arrival you need to dress in erotic wear/sexy attire, I would classify a corset and sexy undies as appropriate. We actually also attend more private house parties and you don't have to dress down and all people arrive clean and casually dressed. You can watch at parties and not participate in any other way if you wish, do not feel obliged to play if you are not comfortable. No means no, I have a series of responses I use if I'm not interested in playing. I don't mind people watching but some people make comments whilst watching a play which I find distracting. I have in the throws of passions told people either to begin fucking or fuck off and talk some where else. You want idle chit chat, do it in a common area. The host of the party/club should give you advice when you tell them you are new at this. Good luck, I love the parties we attend, I hope you enjoy your first one when you go. They do become a little addictive. Mary xx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hello, I would love to go with you to a swinger party. I have been in one or two private swinger parties, and people just wear normally (to impress) and at some point everyone get naked or some girls leave their sexy lingerie. Then the fun starts. : )

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Some women like to go thinking they will only see but at the end the start playing, Too HOT. lol

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  As there is no swingers club n Perth at the moment apart from Pleasure Lounge - which you need to show your interest in the events section for an invite. There is a gig on there tomoz night. My first I went to, I just hung back and chatted with people for a few hours then ummm......... Look in events as there are always private ones being hosted. Let then know you are new and you will be welcomed with open arms. There is NEVER any pressure. Swingers don't always swing at parties either....some times it is good to catch up for a social chat with old friends.

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