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what is FWB & wat do they do
June 10 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Always under the impression that yes you are mates who also look after each other sexually but not necessarily exclusively.Once upon a time i looked for a girl like that, you know just to hang out with, go see a movie, go to museums, go to dinner with, go on long drives with, go and see bands with, and if there was sex then great if not platonic was ok as well, but i could never find one, probably because i was married and live in Goulburn. As far as hand holding and kissing in public...why not...but then some bona fide couples don't do that either, so i guess thats a person by person thing, some people just don't do public affection.I thinks its really a case of whatever works for the two people involved, but its definitely a deeper more meaningful relationship than being just a fuck buddy in my opinion.Cheers Nev.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
For me, FWB is much deeper than just fuck buddies... FWB talk about things, do thing together that don't necessarily involve sex (such as movies, dinner, shopping etc), but they also have a sexual relationship. A fuck buddy, for me, is just that... you have sex, and that's the entire level of the relationship. As to PDA's - that's an individual thing. Some people are comfortable with them, some aren't. With some of my FWB's, yes, PDA's involved... with others, no. It's whatever works...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I hate to be an ignoramus, but i have learned its better to look silly and know the answer than not! So is a PDA something like an Ipad....lolCheers Nev..... who never asked dumb questions at school!
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RHP User
16 years ago
it took me a while but i worked it out lol....PDA would be public displays of affection...shit i hope im right hehehe as to the question....the way i see it is its your FWB do what ever you want with him...if you want to go to the cinema with him then go, if he isnt the one you wanna take then take someone else do whatever feels comfortable for you and him good luck with it roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Man you are so clever, i couldn't work it!....lolCheers Nev....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Say you had a PA (with a PDA)... is it still appropriate for her to be your FB? Or is she a CWB? And if you have a CWB is it ok to show ODA? Or should you limit yourself to BCDA or PCRDA? . Go on - you know you want to try and work it out... :D
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RHP User
16 years ago
You are doin my head in....lol Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'NevandKj' Man you are so clever, i couldn't work it!....lol Cheers Nev.... hehe who would have thought id be the clever one hehe roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Say you had a PA (with a PDA)... is it still appropriate for her to be your FB? Or is she a CWB? And if you have a CWB is it ok to show ODA? Or should you limit yourself to BCDA or PCRDA? . Go on - you know you want to try and work it out... :D PA - Personal Assistant PDA - Personal Digital Assistant (or Public Display of Affection, whichever fits best, lol) FB - Fuck buddy CWB - Colleague with benefits ODA - Office Display of Affection?? BCDA & PCRDA... ok, I'm stuck here... Coitus comes to mind for the C...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Say you had a PA (with a PDA)... is it still appropriate for her to be your FB? Or is she a CWB? And if you have a CWB is it ok to show ODA? Or should you limit yourself to BCDA or PCRDA? . Go on - you know you want to try and work it out... :D Is it ... no, hang on ... oh! I've got it! You mean to say ...*sigh*F**k it. Nightshift brain. I'm sure there's a balcony in there somewhere though ...But in answer to fizzwhizz's question, a FWB spends time with you clothed and tends to put up with your crap, a FB comes and goes. Literally. A FWB quite literally is a friend with whom you do the things friends do. With benefits - sexually. It's up to the both of you to negotiate what works for you both.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You're a smart girl
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RHP User
16 years ago
but thank you very much...any time i can be of any help at all just give me a call roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
BCDA = Behind Closed Door action PRCDA = ???????????
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RHP User
16 years ago
Great profile, love the ice cube idea. Ice cubes alternated with a warm drink always fun.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tease you and please you...on a regular basis...One of the most positive aspects of having a friend with benefits, is that you have regular contact with each other. This helps to keep the chemistry alive.
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RHP User
16 years ago
No, it is not ok to go shopping and hold hands with your fwb. That's definitely in the gf territory. However, a sweaty prolonged shagging is good for blood circulation, and after all... if they're not good for you... what are friends for? Jean. You're just an asshole or is that a Malarka? :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Photocopier room display affection?FWB - handholding in public, shopping = a big NO.dinner and a drink before shagging and then spending the night together = YESoccasional catch ups for a drink/coffee/meal without shagging = YESstay in touch at other times when not just looking for a root = YESFB - nothing in public, available for the booty call, meet, shag & leave. Very limited contact other than when organising the next shag.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'lilmissflirty75' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Say you had a PA (with a PDA)... is it still appropriate for her to be your FB? Or is she a CWB? And if you have a CWB is it ok to show ODA? Or should you limit yourself to BCDA or PCRDA? . Go on - you know you want to try and work it out... :D PA - Personal Assistant PDA - Personal Digital Assistant (or Public Display of Affection, whichever fits best, lol) FB - Fuck buddy CWB - Colleague with benefits ODA - Office Display of Affection?? BCDA & PCRDA... ok, I'm stuck here... Coitus comes to mind for the C... BCDA = Broom Cupboard Display of Affection And welll done to Polar Bear Girl on PCRDA
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RHP User
16 years ago
FWB - handholding in public, shopping = a big NO.dinner and a drink before shagging and then spending the night together = YESoccasional catch ups for a drink/coffee/meal without shagging = YESstay in touch at other times when not just looking for a root = YES Thanks Polar Bear Girl...that about sums it up in my books Lushxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Then what do you call a friend that you want to fuck but don't? I would never go shopping or out to dinner with a FWB. I might let him MAKE me dinner. Sweet
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RHP User
16 years ago
We lived together for 8mths, went overseas, and also for the last 14mths we call and see each other everyday he sleeps with me most nights, great sex but not all about that! we do other things together, lol i see him and spend quality time, more than most woman see there husbands! xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Friends With Benefits....fun things that friends do together and fabulous no strings attached sensual sex, stay intouch on semi regular basis, laugh with you when happy and have even been known to provide great hugs if ever sad. Fuck Buddies.......only contact you for a mutual fun booty call, disappear totally at the slightest sign of emotion. Fucking Bloody Idiots......appear genuine to begin with, message you constantly, make arrangements to meet for coffee/drinks, cancel constantly (work, kids, pets) then promptly put up a "Date finder" listing for the time you were going to meet. Just love those FBI 's (aka wanna be players with no substance or balls.....timewasters)
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RHP User
16 years ago
sorry about the above post folks, no idea how/why that happened!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think i would be calling that a defacto relationship! Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not all men are like that, 69...though your point is taken.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'd agree with that, Lush. I mean great sex is indeed great, but stimulation of the grey matter is just as great.No such thing as great sex with a partner as dumb as a bag of hammers!Nothing beats a day/evening over a coffee/dinner enjoying good conversation. Feeling comfortable with one another and letting nature take its course...Deliciously sweet...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why is is a big no to hold hands & go shopping in public with a fwb?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'fizzwizz02' Why is is a big no to hold hands & go shopping in public with a fwb? It's not, to me... but then, I'm a very tactile person, and so are my FWB's, generally... however, I have one who isn't, so we don't, because that's not his thing. I think that depends on the people involved.Shopping, though... why is that such a big no?? Do you not go shopping with your friends? So why would a FWB be any different? Especially if they like to shop too!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'fizzwizz02' Why is is a big no to hold hands & go shopping in public with a fwb? It was a big no-no...i'm not ashamed to hold hands or KIP....love the movies too....hehejose...still an
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RHP User
16 years ago
hmmm, when thinking about it .... yes we do go shopping with our friends, ofcourse .... but holding hands??? lol I personally have only ever held hands in public with a guy when i'v been in an affectionate relationship with them, though now that society has progressed slightly from the cave-dwelling days, and seeing our hands are in fact one of our erogenous zones, it is not to say that holding hands doesn't occassionally become part of foreplay ... better than being dragged back to the lair by the hair, lol Ok ok i concede, strike the 'no shopping / holding hands' comment off my first post and leave it open to individual discretion Lushxxx
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