No more Battle of the Sexes

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  • hot2nwild Couple Man 46yrs Woman 41yrs Melbourne

  • No more Battle of the Sexes



    I've had a good binge on the forums recently, and want to give a big hug to all the beautiful, compationate and intelligent people offering their help, humour and a swift poke in the eye when it's needed. LOVE IT 😁

    Now here's what kills me. 🥺

    We need to stop all this "Men do this" "Woman do that" rubbish. Individuals are responsible for their actions, not a group of people based on what sex organs they have..
    Hey...hold up... those sneaky little Hemaphrodites,
    smart they are, staying well clear of the battle.. 🤐

    Right... now where were we 🤔

    Every issue people want to attribute to a gender is due to an Education system that's illogical and nonsensical. Childcare systems educating children while Parenting devolves into something closer to Babysitting.
    Education needs to be focused on things like
    Psychology
    Biology
    Philosophy
    Sociology
    Independance
    Virtues
    Sexual Education
    Etc etc
    Basic math and english can be taught by Parents
    and any higher math can be added to relevant careers in
    Tertiary education.
    Then we can produce intelligent, enlightened humans
    and break this toxic cycle

    So anyway.. Blame society, blame education,
    Dont blame sex organs... Love them

    L 😉









  • Rising_Phoenix Woman 43yrs Euroa


  • I disagree. As men and women we are different and have different things we like and ways of behaving IN GENERAL. It’s 100% ok to acknowledge that in my opinion. No it’s not always easy to hear and sometimes we fight about it but that’s communication for you.

    We are not the same in general and it’s ok to speak in general terms. We should all know everybody is different and our comments don’t necessarily apply to the whole gender but good lord, men and women are SO different in a lot of ways, I think it’s healthy to discuss these things, try to understand each other more and see if we can make things work a little better.
    Men and women should also be appreciated for their general qualities, I don’t like that people are trying to take gender out of things, our gender is a huge reason for us operating the way we do, it definitely should not be ignored.

    A lot of what makes me beautiful is happening because I’m a woman, a lot of my hormonal nastiness also comes from being a woman, I’m ok with acknowledging both and trying to use them to my advantage.
  • FeistyFatty Woman 45yrs Brisbane


  • Couldn't disagree more with this dribble
  • ddlbm Couple Man 54yrs Woman 30yrs Sydney


  • Please don’t have children
  • RHP1183147619020 Man 50yrs Toowoomba


  • @FiestyFatty Took the words out of my mouth
  • RHP1183147619020 Man 50yrs Toowoomba


  • I disagree wholeheartedly.
    What I find is toxic is the way men are constantly being told that they shouldn’t be men, like it’s something to be ashamed of to be manly, and that women have to be more like men to succeed.
    Men and women are meant to compliment each other, our differences are there for exactly that reason in my opinion.
    I’ll probably be poo pooed over those comments but stiff shit!

    Instead of saying to men “you’re masculinity is toxic” or to women “don’t be feminine “ how about we tell people in general to just not be dicks
  • youngsyd_cpl Couple Man 45yrs Woman 19yrs Sydney


  • Some of the replies to this post are a bit too savage... You make some good points.
  • hot2nwild Couple Man 46yrs Woman 41yrs Melbourne


  • @Rising_Phoenix I agree with you totally that there are differences in many ways, but its a diverse spectrum not men vs women. I hate the division that happens from the moment someone is born. Its constant grouping and labeling our entire lives not just gender, in every way possible. It just feeds alienation and persecution. I think a lot of the issues people have with opposite sex stems from our what we call education. Which is a misnomer in my opinion. People dont finish their education with any knowledge of their own bodies, and minds, how to treat someone with compation and understanding, virtually no sexual knowledge at all.. the list goes on. A lot of people wont grow at all their entire life.. They will stay shallow, insecure, judgemental, fragile and miserable when they could be amazing enlightened people if they were taught the right subjects at school.
  • hot2nwild Couple Man 46yrs Woman 41yrs Melbourne


  • @FiestyFatty You made some very convincing points there. Thanks 😉
  • Rising_Phoenix Woman 43yrs Euroa


  • @Oil_beef_Hooked 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 here here!!
  • FeistyFatty Woman 45yrs Brisbane


  • FeistyFatty Woman 45yrs Brisbane


  • ddlbm Couple Man 54yrs Woman 30yrs Sydney


  • Anyones else notice that the people that tend to post these ridiculous posts tend to be invalidate
  • RHP1183147242447 Woman 46yrs Townsville


  • Education may be one component, but there are many others as well. Also, your ideas for how education should happen are ignoring some pretty glaring issues. Many parents are time poor as it is due to our societal and economic structures, I don't think adding to that by expecting them to teach all school-level maths and english is going to help matters. Not to mention that many parents simply do not have the knowledge and skills to teach effectively. That's just a couple of many issues I see with your proposal, although I do agree that things like philosophy, sociology, and other topics that encourage critical thinking should form a part of the curriculum.

    By the way, if you're going to critique others' education and intelligence, you should probably check first just how much validity there is to your apparent belief that academic institutions and the United States government are interested in your RHP profile.
  • hot2nwild Couple Man 46yrs Woman 41yrs Melbourne


  • Sorry if ive given the wrong impression, my point has nothing to do with not being able to celebrate your masculinity or femininity. I dont like the hateful way people say "bloody men" "bloody women" etc. Those sentiments arise because of lack of knowledge, not because we have differences biologically.. My real issue was incorrect education in the first 18 years of life.. who needs geography, history and advanced math if you dont know anything about yourself and how to treat other people, and god forbid be able to formulate your own opinion instead of repeat whatever someone else told you
  • ddlbm Couple Man 54yrs Woman 30yrs Sydney


  • Unvalidated
  • hot2nwild Couple Man 46yrs Woman 41yrs Melbourne


  • @ddlbm Parenting comment might be a bit harsh, but my partner is a kindergarden teacher and she spends more hours with children every week than most of the parents do. Unfortunately its the world we live in.. Once upon a time grandparents and parents would be passing down wisdom and life lessons, which i think is a healthier situation, but that has been lost to us
  • hot2nwild Couple Man 46yrs Woman 41yrs Melbourne


  • I was aiming for love, understanding, and insight into better education.. looks like i mistakingly pulled out the feather ruffler.. 😮 my bad.. back in the cupboard it goes
  • Ex007 Woman 47yrs Brisbane City


  • This is an adult forum where people come to for advice. Take the advice or don't take the advice the choice is that of the individual.

    No need to complicate something with a high school sermon supported by Adam Bandt and the Greens.

    As you were everyone, continue being your awesome self and be darn good at it.
  • RHP1183147722223 Man 44yrs Berrima


  • @youngsyd_cpl 100%
  • FeistyFatty Woman 45yrs Brisbane


  • @hot2nwild I don't need to point out the ridiculousness of your post..... It's crystal clear.