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A pussy is a pussy, a cock is a cock?

January 07 2014

I had a conversation with a FB the other week and have been thinking about it on and off since then. Keep in mind I am talking about having sex for fun and not looking for a relationship type of scenario. So my FB said that a pussy is a pussy. He went on to say that he could have sex with any female (of age of course) and it doesn't matter what they look like or what type of personality they have. So he can (and does) have sex with women almost twice his age. For me, I need to see their face and be attracted to the guy or girl before I have sex with them. I don't usually mind about personality or emotional connection. This is why I have an age limit on my profile as I'm not usually attracted to people 15+ years older than me. For me emotional connection is only required when looking for a relationship. So my question is what do you need before you have sex for fun with a person? Just the right genitalia? Attraction? An emotional connection? Is a pussy a pussy and a cock a cock (to you)? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thank you mods, for removing the original.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and countless others written by the same poster that makes me feel like a sack of shit. Well done Chev. I hope you feel better about yourself. Get some counselling.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is poor 'ol Chev,no wonder women of a similar age can be seen running for the Perth Hills...love will continue to elude you with an attitude like this Chev....shame,shame ,shame.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and I've offered support in the forums that you've never chosen to acknowledge. Your posts have slid downhill lately that they seem deliberately provocative, even to me. Your post here and the one on the 'meet n greet' thread are the last straw for me. . Paint_Me, a very wise woman asked me once if I respected the person enough that their opinion mattered to me. I'm sure they'd say the same to you. You seem gorgeous to me.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    You sang a won hit wonder. Suggested I was to thrive on negativity, maybe think I am insecure or jealous. The truths people call out about themselves. It happens all the time. Are you OK Chevy, it doesn't need to be this way. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've read your comments in the past and restrained myself but I just couldn't let this one pass. Seems you've finally dug that hole and buried yourself. In answer to your question OP, I need it all .... physical and emotional connection otherwise I might as well just use my vibe.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A pussy is not just a pussy they vary , im not that hard up that I want to just stick it in anyone , there must be a mutual attraction for the sex to be awesome , for me that is anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You sure have a way with words. Im in Love

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I found a profile my ex husband set up stating "I don't care who you are or what you look like". (We were still together) Damn that sure made me feel special. For some, any hole's a goal. Ditch him Cute, you are worth far more. Far more. x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MissKay' For some, any hole's a goal. Oops, I think I meant

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    He's an absolute wanker and has to go.....not pulling out the pitchfork but still adamant about ignoring the piffle that sprouts from that poor beings mouth.....some people are just incredibly lonely and can be forgiven, others are just oxygen thieves. Can I submit multiple votes to boost our chances of strengthening the RHP gene pool? 🙈🙉🙊

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Indy, I don't know the man, so I can't and refuse to say he's a wanker, absolute or not. His behaviour on this thread though sucks!!!... even if it is honest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am sure wanking is involved Indy. He speaks like a young boy, still immature and a little juvenile I think. I am sure their are other men who think the same.... certainly women are just pussy comment.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I'm sure his hands would reject him too if they had a choice. (I am not a mean person by nature, but bugger me!!)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Just sayin'. It's been a good thread. . Hugs Indy. XXX

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I know the point he was trying to make, he typically did it in his very poorly worded way. We all know there are guys who look at women as if they're just a vessel to masturbate inside of..... the profiles and emails received in here clearly verify that. I am not supporting the person behind his profile.... only pointing out that his comment while offensive, still represents the shitty attitudes of some people that we have all witnessed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I wanted to comment on what Chev said also even though he put it so uncouthly there was merit in what he said. When I first stumbled across this site I was entering a competition, so I filled out a profile and left, soon after I started recieving messages. When I checked there were men asking to meet me I had put no effort in the profile no photo and was dumbfounded. After being told by my ex that I was unattractive to anyone and men wouldnt want me....but here were men who wanted me sight unseen. It made no sense why would guys want to go out/have sex with someone that they didnt even know what she looked like. At the time I had no time for anything like this and was polite and left. When I came back I discovered this site had a lot to offer........and as we all know who have been here for a while our needs and wants change with time. We just saw recently in the thread about the worst profile ever example and how those men didnt care about the woman attitudes as long as she was hot...same same. I have seen unfortunatley men chase women with no profile pics and quite unnappealing attributes possible because they have little faith in themselves. So I know first hand that men (some) want to have sex and they will chase it no matter. As with the statement of cougars we older women know how often we get messages from bucks. There are many women that will take a younger man, not I or a lot of others though. Just because some of our regular forumites are older does not define them as cougars. Labels suck. I dont agree with Chev or how he puts things or views women as in another thread (meet and greet) recently he said the most atrocious things. Well quite often he says the most distasteful things....I too wonder if he does get that lucky...when he's awake.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This was not an "A lot of men see mature women as just a pussy" comment, it was "That's why I laugh at cougars because they think they're hot." I won't quote the entire garbage again, it's easy enough to find. . I don't think name calling is ok and don't believe we have the right to decide who has to go, but I can say for myself I will not respect, nor acknowledge any posters like this again. .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I sure support his right to voice his opinion. Regardless of who his comments offend - he's entitled to his opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Different for everybody I suppose. Everybody has their own quirks, but yeah a cock is a cock and a pussy is a pussy for me...however I find that if I am genuinely attracted to the other person and we are like minded the sex is a whole lot more satisfying and therefore I will always keep this in mind when looking for a playmate. I'm not one to settle for second best whether it be a quicky in an elevator or a recurring arrangement. Ultimately I'm here for satisfaction without the commitment, that doesn't mean I don't have standards it means. But I think you really have to keep in mind why your doing what your doing. If he no longer satisfies you and makes you uncomfortable because he has no standards and ducks every dog on the street. Delete his number. Find a new FB. Easy. Amazing sex can come from more then one person don't get attached enough to a FB that you care who else he's fucking anyhow..

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' I sure support his right to voice his opinion. Regardless of who his comments offend - he's entitled to his opinion. All have a right to their opinion but within limits. That has equal merit in opposition as well. If we give the right for all to engage in deliberate and provocational hate speech we allow and in a way encourage the proliferation of such attitudes to the detriment of all. Such rants of hate have a tendency to escalate to more than just words and encourages the spread of anti social morality if it is not seen that such attitudes are unacceptable in our society and not to be tolerated. Edmund Burke"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." I hope he has learnt something from the reaction to his out burst and thinks twice before he attempts similar posts. I also hope that others with similar resentment and hate see that it is unacceptable to put a voice to hate. That post was not in isolation and I felt it was about time someone say something.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This is the first time I've ever posted on here, but your last post made my blood boil! There are thousands of wonderful men on here that would love to meet you WHY are you bothering with this wanker? Seriously Curvey, get rid of him, he sounds repugnant. You can do better. x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    With over 3 billion cocks and pussies on the planet, I guess he does have a point from a broader sense. But add a good personality and the right maturity levels and all of a sudden that cock or pussy has it's own unique identity :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Blindman67' Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' I sure support his right to voice his opinion. Regardless of who his comments offend - he's entitled to his opinion. All have a right to their opinion but within limits. That has equal merit in opposition as well. If we give the right for all to engage in deliberate and provocational hate speech we allow and in a way encourage the proliferation of such attitudes to the detriment of all. Such rants of hate have a tendency to escalate to more than just words and encourages the spread of anti social morality if it is not seen that such attitudes are unacceptable in our society and not to be tolerated. Edmund Burke"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." I hope he has learnt something from the reaction to his out burst and thinks twice before he attempts similar posts. I also hope that others with similar resentment and hate see that it is unacceptable to put a voice to hate. That post was not in isolation and I felt it was about time someone say something. I don't always agree with you Blindman, but with this you are spot on. I'm so over people using the 'I am / he or she is entitled to express my / their opinion' line, to try and justify or defend the spewing out of all manner of hateful and ignorant crap. Free speech does - and should - have limits.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequences. . Which in this case (for me) includes judgement, disrespect and overall dislike.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Clearly some posts must have been removed prior to my post. Something deeply defamatory that I missed? Because surely this reaction wouldn't have appeared from the post I commented on! The incredibly open-minded wouldn't get all knicker-twisted over some dude simply saying cougars arent all that.... Surely?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Blindman quoted the offending blue comment on an earlier page.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Just re-read the last sentence of your post. Yes I did and I wasn't the only one. Put-downs and bitchyness are never hot, no matter how open-minded I may be.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It was not just that post that was offensive. He has ongoing history of offensive and belligerent postings. A friend of mine was very offended by what he posted in this thread and as she does not like to post I said something. There does seem to be a battle of the sexes in the forums from time to time but he stepped over the line. If he can get away with it who knows what idiots may think it ok to voice their hate of the opposite sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It was the way he chose to express his opinion that was the main problem. The descriptions and names he used were derogatory and offensive. And as Blindman pointed out, that particular poster has a history of using offensive wording and descriptions, particularly about women. This is a public forum so people need to be mindful not just of what they are saying, but how they are saying it. In fact, I would say the latter is actually more important as it significantly influences the way others understand, perceive, and react to what was said.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well said Apollo hi I'm jess u have made some very valid points ! Well done ... Hot profile to made me very w--

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I wont add to the above comments, just to say that there is a history there hence people's strong reactions to one comment. Welcome back by the way... I will be good, despite our history.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Something needs to attract you..the look..the discussion..the smell..the thought..hmmm..sex doesn't just happen..it builds up and then it takes over..evolves and succumbs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Something needs to attract you..the look..the discussion..the smell..the thought..hmmm..sex doesn't just happen..it builds up and then it takes over..evolves and succumbs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have always loved the female body, no matter the shape or size. Once eye contact is made and a connection enjoyed. That is enough for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I too shall attempt to behave!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    For me ? There is a need of attraction. In which way ever. Doesn.t need to be which size ? But yes there are feelings involved . And they don,t need to be clingy . It is never only the dick I want to feel, it is the man.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'artepwolf' For me ? There is a need of attraction. In which way ever. Doesn.t need to be which size ? But yes there are feelings involved . And they don,t need to be clingy . It is never only the dick I want to feel, it is the man. I'm with you Wolfy... Whether it's physical attraction, emotional connection, plain lust, a coming together of minds or personality that is attractive or intriguing, my experience is that most of us have a need to 'feel' something, even if it merely be just one single aspect, like those I've mentioned, we have to have that 'connection' or 'feeling' of 'likeness' before we can be intimate or at least, enjoy it the way it was meant to be enjoyed and I believe that is as something more than two non-sentient creatures humping to populate the earth. We ARE sentient, so for us we naturally (and to a degree because of conditioning over many millennia) need to have some connection or feeling in order to bring ourselves to share intimacy. The only difference is the level of feeling or attraction that different people need to have. I personally need to have a good degree of attraction and 'sparkage', if you like. But that's just me, so I like to spend some time with a Lady before I think about getting naked... That can take only an hour with someone I am 'connecting with' on a high level or it can take weeks, if that's how long it takes for me to feel I want to be with that individual... Friendship can happen in a very short time and that's a great pursuit, if nothing else comes of a meeting between people, but the 'connection' that MOST of us need is more like a 'chemistry'... I know it's cliché, but it's also in my mind, very real. And necessary for me. Cheers people

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Maybe if I check the date on a 'seemingly' recent post, I won't be 5 months too late.... LMAO. What wanker I be.

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