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Older women
October 10 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my youth I loved to be with older women. They were past the hang ups of their younger counterparts and knew what they wanted.So the appeal to me was not physical, but attitude, and that goes a long way and make up for any physical blemishes you might ascribe to yourself (fairly or not).The good thing is that these days what I used to consider older women are now my peers. So there is a positive side to ageing. ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
You paint such a lovely picture (not!!) lol... If I thought like you did about my body there's no way on god's earth I'd be showing it off to ANYONE let alone a hunky much younger guy..I'd be constantly thinking is he holding back a gag!!! What's so sexy about that for either of you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its because you exude a sexiness that is attractive to whatever the age( For gods sake dont say what you really are thinking..) ..guys are attracted to someone that knows /feels they are sexy whatever package that comes in..even the crinkled/ over/under stuffed up packages!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! CrackUp:) OMG! Hun if this isn't toungue in cheek 1 you really feel this way then for god's sake and yours Shoot Yourself and Put yourself out of your misery n.I've never heard such dribble in My Life..Hun if this is how you Present yourself to Younger Guys I'd be surprised if any bother then maybe a Charity Sex..Gezz!I so hope you really acknowledge the Wonderfully Unique Life Skilled Woman you really are.Not this Pathetic Picture you're painting of yourself.. I'm 60yrs Going on 38yrs in Attitude ..I have many Younger Guys Interested in me and all wanting to be My Lover because they think I'm Amazing. their sentiments. Because they know I'm a Confident, Sexual, Sensual, very skilled fun Woman with a warped SOH they Love it!.Infact can't get enough of what I share..It is a very Precious thing for me to share Myself on every Level with another they understand why too.. I don't do it to validate anything..I know who I am.. What I want.. What I expect from Others I get it too.. I share Sexual Intimacy with Guys mostly Younger because, like me they have a zest for Life..It's a Celebration of our Connection, chemistry between us.. I Sincerely hope you were having an Off! day when you Put this topic out there and your views Hun.Because if not that's very sad Negative emotion and not bringing you happiness what so ever.. If you can't treat yourself as something very fine, Precious who's going too.. Kindest Regards Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you Madam Dragonfly. You said it all. I believe Crackup had a couple of weeks another issue on selfesteem, which I think she has to work on. Crackup...when you think you are ugly, old crinlky, then you are 100% right you are, because we cant argue with your self assessment. You look in the mirrow and you say I am old, then you are right. I am 55 beautiful round happy smiling FEMALE. Cheers and I mean Cheers Litonya. Please all men out there not every "PUMA" is as low as Crackup.
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RHP User
13 years ago
have always appreciated the allure of an older woman....so i understand why young guys lust so after them.... its less the physical, and more the emotional, the experience, the confidence... older women are just that.....they are 'women'... and as such, can be incredibly sexy and sexual, without all the ego, pouting and posturing that comes with youth....
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have friends both older and younger, and all of them sexy as hell...in my opinion, if you meet a guy (boy, do you have some "hot" friends on your profile) and you find the sex ordinary, then i guess he was just seeing you as a notch on his belt and didn't really care about you or your feelings...but if you meet someone and have sizzling sex, then i would suggest that is because he sees more than just your body...how about your sense of humor, your way with words, the way you look, the way you dress, I could go on, but I think you get my drift...
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RHP User
13 years ago
one of the most appealing things to me, is a womans smile and happiness ..when they are happy , they radiate it...and its sexy, no matter what the age..a younger woman may have the best body in the world , but if their attitude is crap ..well there is nothing sexy about that ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Now some of you lovely ladies I have met in reality. Your sexy as hell no matter what your age or your body shape. If your brain is sexy However there are days when we do look in the mirror and notice our flaws, we all have days like that. We also have days like that when others hold up a critical mirror to us, and say your bum looks big in that. Or your mutton dressed as lamb, mostly other women put you down if you are your sexual self. Rhp gives us the chance to glow, to allow men to undress us and seduce us and to turn on that tap of sexuality again. Just look at the pleasure you give a man, when he is in you, his lips buried in your neck , those lean strong arms around you. Who cares if its just a sexy interlude for an hour or a on going thing. Forget the mirrors except the lust in their eyes. If your sexy and you are out there and enjoying your life, people will think gosh that woman has something, some mojo good for her. I know you Crackup and that your life is stressful , but I also know you have a great rack and hot body and are beautiful. If I was a guy I would ravish ya and same for Litonya, that woman is one sexy hot woman who loves all her curves and it shows. I am 60 and have more sex than hot meals some weeks and my lovers are younger, some come back some don’t either way I just go with the flow , so long as I love my own body and self that is all that matters. If a guy don’t like my not so perky boobs or the scars on my body , or my flat arse he can just say no thanks..so far not happened yet, ...whew! I hope to be getting it from behind while in my zimmer frame....go go granny I was very ill for a long time, and could hardly walk up the stairs with my back, lived in terrible pain and never had sex for three y ears, I also died and got zapped back so now what I look like is the least of my concerns Your all beautiful to me :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are confident and won't put up with bullshit...cut to the chase. Did I mention we are hot! xx bs
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have always been a sensulist.Yes, I do believe the majority of younger guys who contact older women do think they are desperate and will shag anything just so they can get some lovin.Pfft, not interested thanks.I prefer men closer to my age who may have the early onset of wrinkles and crepe skin.....and they know exactly how they earned every laugh line,every sunkissed crepey bit of body they are comfortable in.There is a lot more to a person than the age of their body....a lot to do with attitude.and Taipans hand on my butt as we share a drink or two....lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well ladies....thank you all for putting the boot in so.. 'enthusiastically'. I am being totally honest and pragmatic. I don't look at an older woman and think 'hot' .. I look at her and think.. 'she's doing well for her age'.. or..' forget it hun.. you are embarrassing yourself'. I was simply curious as to how men viewed 'older women'..I didn't expect to be stabbed through the heart for daring to broach the subject. Maybe my view is 'skewed' .. hence though, me asking the question - I actually expected some candid responses re the subject, not a personal attack on me.. my esteem or lack thereof....girls, you did brilliantly, I hope you all feel satisfied and 'better' about yourselves after giving the hapless 'Crackup' a good serve. And speaking of 'negative self esteem' .. I didn't realise it was a mortal sin to mention in the forums...heaven forbid, should I admit to farting out loud, dribbling on my pillow, or having any other semblance of human weakness. It must be cosy living up there on Mt Olympus all you goddess type women, the air so rarefied, vulnerability is a dirty word. It does make me ponder though...why so defensive? To Tuscan.. xx thank you for answering graciously and being kind to boot, you are a lady through and through. Taipan...thank you as well, it was that kind of thing I was sort of hoping to hear being discussed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh and Ricky and Mike too, just read your responses.. that's great, so.. it's the attitude thing huh? I kind of ..and very stereotypically I admit, just figured guys see.. flesh.. in a way. You know.. like .. the firmer.. the better but, what in essence you boys are saying, is.. that men, do see beyond a certain point. Do you think it true of all men, or just some? For me, Ricky, humour is a fantastic starting point.. if you can laugh together, then, all those other things...just seem to flow but again, and forgive me for being dumb and naive, I just thought maybe it was me thinking that (that humour can be more important than the physical).. and the reality, in no way coincided with my beliefs. So tell me, if you saw an older lady (say in her late 50's, rounded but with a great sense of humour and cheek.. and then, a younger counterpart.. svelte, firm and gorgeous.. who would you pick??? Lol, now I'm putting you on the spot.. you can whisper it in my ear ok xx.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Howdy
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RHP User
13 years ago
CrackUp is like me. I look in the mirror and I don't see sexy or attractive, I see old, wrinkly, saggy, fat. It makes it very hard to accept that a man finds me attractive, which in turn makes me less attractive to men - yes, I get that. I can, and am, working on my body, but sometimes I wish I knew where all the harsh self-judgment came from. I'm a very smart, insightful, fairly spiritual woman, but I just can't seem to shake this one off. It would be incredibly difficult for me to believe that a younger man would be genuinely interested in me, for all the reasons CrackUp listed. I promise you this post is not a 'woe is me' one, just matter-of-fact. All of the different perspectives intrigue me. RHP has, fundamentally, been great for my confidence - all the sexy people appreciating each other certainly helps.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ruby, that is such an honest response, I thank you. I am fearful of that, being seen as 'desperate' and my pride bristles at it.. I would rather never have sex again, than be thought of as pathetic. I like your attitude too... 'pfft' is a perfect reaction to a numbskull that thinks you 'need' him. Mutual admiration is a far more desirable equation.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Tri... you are a honey.. and I should have mentioned you in there with Rick and Mike.. it's gratifying to hear that 'attitude' goes such a long way. People say it.. it's nice to hear it repeated here.. xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Actually Braveheart.. I heard something the other day that says our 'self image' is actually genetically determined. Some of the most beautiful people in the world can believe themselves 'not much'...some of the ugliest consider themselves 'gods gift'.. so, don't beat yourself up for not feeling the 'self love' that maybe some of your brothers and sisters do. If the latest research is anything to go by, it is largely, outside our control, xx, all we can do, is make the most of who and what we are, and try and accept ourselves in the face of our own self imagery and perception.
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RHP User
13 years ago
But quite frankly I think one should be grateful to experience "old" and not be inhabiting a body ravished by disease . I think one should be grateful for all that they have and the chance to "grow older" . From the moment we draw first breath on this planet we are decaying/dying...and our perceived physical flaws of wrinkles, fat, loss of firmness, confirms our aging process...but do you really want to experience the alternative just yet..being death. ?? ...you cannot alter your cell life nor change your genetic blueprint and no about of Lancome is gonna change that... My 49 year old g/f died earlier this year (unexpectantly) ....she will never know old Today I attended the funeral of a 28 year girl, who never even got the chance to marry, experience childbirth, travel unlike my g/f listed above....all she knew was one cancer ward to another, one hospital to another........that was her life I think one should be grateful if theyhave a body which is reasonably kind to them...... Long term and in the end, your health, being - physical, mental, emotional is the MOST Important thing..... As I was told once by my mother like 30 years ago, when lamenting as to why a boyfriend had dumped me for a girl who in my eyes was much plainer and uglier than me (I was charming at 18) , she quickly boxed my ears and put me in my place with these words... "It matters not what you look like but how you make others feel.....and this girl obviously makes him feel good !!!" Ive carried those words since. So in answer to the OP questions...well if a young bloke wants to be with you, so be it, does it really matter why ? We are on a site which is predominantly for sexual meets, so guys - young or old areall looking for a leg over (yes there are exceptions as there is to every rule) ....why be naive about that ? and yes some guys may have genuine attraction for older women and vice versa..... What matters, is how you make other people feel...and whether you are indeed a nice genuine kind person yourself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know hun.. compared to yours and others situations, worrying about aging and decay is crass. I am just writing because.. I am bored and .. a bit fed up with myself. It in no way, is of importance.. anything I write on here with regard to certain topics compared to your own battles. For the record though, with all your stresses and illness .. you are a beautiful woman. I think you wrote somewhere you have been blessed with youthful genes...you most certainly have and you will forgive me for being just a teensy bit envious xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you Ms V x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said ..xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
But in further response Ms V, yes, it is a 'sex' site but then, so are the more 'tame' sites which profess dating as their goal.. everything is underpinned by sex. Is that to mean though that, NEVER do people meet and actually develop anything beyond 'the leg over' routine? I have heard tell on sites.. and yes, even here, that people actually do form 'meaningful' relationships... and for some, it has been with 'younger' partners. None of that really impacts on what I asked however, and that is.. 'why'.. do some, seem to have a liking older women (in the face of factors that I find perplexing)... I'm curious as to the mechanism and the 'why' of it .. not the correctness of the assumption nor the nobleness of posing such a question. It is a rhetorical one, without a right or wrong response and definitely not a morally defensive question when compared to more weightier issues that others face.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its rhetorical.... and I also think you would have to decipher or interpret exactly what the definition of "meaningful" relationships is/are ?- for some, a leg over for the nite, is meaningful for the time they are "legged over" ..irrespective of age or gender... Most of the people I know (in fact as I write this -all bar one relationship that I know of personally) who are in what society would call in a committed relationship, one that I would perhaps envy and love to have.......one of the partners is screwing around on the other, without the others knowledge ( and Im sure all hell would break loose if the others knew ) ...I am so the keeper of secrets among my friends....so whats meaningful ??? Humans are complex....and are driven more by wants/desire before needs.....and to be honest ( and Im not a young man, only a older lady and perhaps only a bevy of younger blokes can answer your question..) I truly do not think that many men (generalisation - sorry guys but theres something about you guys and testerone !!!) care what the age is of any perspective fuck as long as they get "the fuck" ........as Ruby said.. and I believe that it is a media driven concept that us older women are gagging for it....its up to the older woman (who btw, does call the shots) if shes happy to be just a leg over for a hour or so....and to see it for what it is..not what she/we may want it to be.................meaningful I work with all men.....of all different ages...and at times it disgusts me the way they bag their women ( their wives, g/f randoms, FWB, whatever name you want to call them) in the cafeteria at lunch time....a meaningful relationship ..does anyone have a "meaningful" relationship anymore...? But in answer to the WHY ?.......why is anything..it just is.....always has been and always will be.. And as Taipan beautifully wrote... one of the most appealing things to me, is a womans smile and happiness ..when they are happy , they radiate it...and its sexy, no matter what the age..a younger woman may have the best body in the world , but if their attitude is crap ..well there is nothing sexy about that ... So true.....we are our thoughts..if we think ourselves. old, then we are old............... but still better to be old and to experience it graciously...............than the alternative ...which sadly some will experience sooner than others...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Beautifully put Ms V.. I concur, that in the final analysis, you are exactly right. .. and at the end of the day, what does any of it matter really anyway xx.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp'Oh and Ricky and Mike too, just read your responses.. that's great, so.. it's the attitude thing huh? I kind of ..and very stereotypically I admit, just figured guys see.. flesh.. in a way. You know.. like .. the firmer.. the better but, what in essence you boys are saying, is.. that men, do see beyond a certain point. Do you think it true of all men, or just some? For me, Ricky, humour is a fantastic starting point.. if you can laugh together, then, all those other things...just seem to flow but again, and forgive me for being dumb and naive, I just thought maybe it was me thinking that (that humour can be more important than the physical).. and the reality, in no way coincided with my beliefs. So tell me, if you saw an older lady (say in her late 50's, rounded but with a great sense of humour and cheek.. and then, a younger counterpart.. svelte, firm and gorgeous.. who would you pick??? Lol, now I'm putting you on the spot.. you can whisper it in my ear ok xx. for anything to be whispered by me at least........ i'd pick the one with whom i had the greatest affiniity, the one whose history overlapped mine, who grew up and understood the same things i did... i'd choose the mature woman, every time...(oh thats right, i have all my life)
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RHP User
13 years ago
The idea that self-image is genetically determined is fascinating. Like many such things, I guess we all have it in our power to rise above it, but it certainly goes some way to explaining how challenging I find that. The most beautiful I ever felt was when I looked at myself through the eyes of a man who was completely enchanted by me. And even then I couldn't quite believe it. I admit OP that I also thought some of the early responses to your post were harsh, but perhaps that's because I share many of your views - and doubts! After a terrible heart break a couple of years ago, which threw me into the depths of self-doubt, I've spent some time slowing down and observing men and women with the gentlest eyes possible. I often find mysel watching the way a woman moves or laughs and just taking a moment to appreciate her uniqueness and beauty. Because ... when we pick at and criticise others, it's just a reflection of our criticism of ourself. I do think that learning to see the beauty and grace in others helps us to see it in ourselves. And vice versa, I'm sure.
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RHP User
13 years ago
But have to disagree with you on one point The OP put up a valid question - but then added how she felt which is also valid, but then got all bent out of shape when she got replies that didnt suit her Was her response back to her fellow posters somewhat harsh ? The OP only a few weeks ago put up a great thread on Self Esteem and was innudated with advice none of which she appeared to have heeded. I applaud Ms Velvet and fully undestand where she coming from, yes I know her offline, we both work in the medical profession so each day we both see people who will never "decay" or "grow old" especially Ms V - that is all she sees and I bet each and every patient I see wishes their lives were majorily different as they battle with what has been bestowed on them due to fate or genetics. So to the OP I say, keep posting for sure, but get over yourself - if your not up to hearing different points of view harsh or otherwise, then perhaps you shouldnt post until you develop a healthy dose of self esteem which only you can do and take the attitude that just because people post different from you doesnt necessarily mean they are wrong and perhaps just perhaps, you shouldnt post when bored I wish my biggest bloody problem was that I developed a wrinkle or additonal grey hair overnight and some lovely young lady wanted to be with me, be it for an hour or a life time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've been told by young men that with girls their age (late teens-early 20's) they either have one night stands or relationships, nothing in between. The young man in question told me he wanted to gain more experience and skill and that meant meeting with older women because we are beyond the stage of being coy and expecting young men to know exactly what we want without being told. Also with an older woman he expected they wouldn't want a relationship with a younger man but would be open to having sex regularly/creating a rapport which would enable him to learn more about pleasing different women than he would on a one night stand, and if he could get something going with a few different women he'd be able to get some variety in his education. Quite a good answer, I thought.Another charming young fellow said that with age comes experience and so older women know how to please a man. I countered by asking what that logic would say about him at the grand age of 20, he said he'd never thought about it that way. Bad example, kiddo. LOLxx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp' ....So tell me, if you saw an older lady (say in her late 50's, rounded but with a great sense of humour and cheek.. and then, a younger counterpart.. svelte, firm and gorgeous.. who would you pick??? Lol, now I'm putting you on the spot.. you can whisper it in my ear ok xx. ummm, so, putting me on the spot are you...well, firstly, I'd see if I could have both at the same time...bawawawawawawawawawa...but, age is not the issue...and nor is the "beautiful bod"...it's their attitude!ps, it helps it they like my pics toooo
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RHP User
13 years ago
what is Old ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Last week I caught up with a few of my long term girlfriends. Some I have known since 19. Several have younger husbands, one her husband is 25 years younger. They have been married over ten years and he still adores her, he ran around looking after all of us, waited on us hand and foot. I could see the way he looked at her, and he adores her the others have husbands , 15 , ten and my own husband is seven years younger than me. so one can never tell what it is that attracts I think its a good thing we can all see past the outside to the inside , the heart has no eyes :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love is blind but the eye sees the truth... Why have no younger guys replied here yet?? Childish?? lol For me, older women, it's all about attitude. Stick to no greater than 15years as a rule.. Don't want to sleep with someone old enough to be my mother! :/
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RHP User
13 years ago
unless they are a complete narcissist,and paradoxically that appears to be a product of low self esteem, has self doubt. Women have been socialized to peer deeply at our physical imperfections to such a degree that we ignore what is in fact, the just perfect.It is only when we are older and look at the photographs of our younger selves that we realize just how physically gorgeous we actually were. The truth is that right now you are beautiful, in a way that you wern't when you were young ,the hard part is to look at yourself in an objective way,when you look in the mirror look for the all the physical beauty that is there.Maybe it is your eyes,your smile,your hair,your skin,search out all the beautiful uniqueness that is you. Do younger men just want you because they think older women are ''gagging'' for it...perhaps some are,but I imagine that most are attracted to all the qualities you have that are visible and all the ones that are just unique you. x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me it's not so much women older than me rather older women in general and I'll take a chance and suggest in todays world that older would probably mean 45+ (forgive me if this offends) To me these older women are generally a lot more confident in the way they present themselves as the whole person so for me it's possibly the fact that a lot have come to terms with their changing phsyical attributes and therefore are more inclined to be relaxed and comfortable with conversation, what they want in life (not just in the bedroom) and so is a true picture of what she is a person. So in a nutshell this is who I am this is what I want and Crackup it is truly sometimes the fact they they generally have more life experience etc . I would trade a week with with a 20 something tight, taut, pert and active woman for 24 hours with an intelligent, comfortable and charming 45+ woman .........And that is the truth. I think we are all wired differently and I for one am greatful as I have a paunch, a few aches and pains, eye sight that is deteriorating but thankfully there are women (and men) out there who see past the packaging however worn and battered it is. 'Life's a Journey Not a Destination' James
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MsVelvetblue' one of the most appealing things to me, is a womans smile and happiness ..when they are happy , they radiate it...and its sexy, no matter what the age..a younger woman may have the best body in the world , but if their attitude is crap ..well there is nothing sexy about that ... For me as a guy there is nothing more sexy than confidence in who you are and what you want and everyone has their moments of insecurity.I know you are going through some shit times at the moment with a whole bunch of things. Try to keep being positive about yourself :) xox W.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'The_Team_Of_Me' Love is blind but the eye sees the truth... Why have no younger guys replied here yet?? Childish?? lol For me, older women, it's all about attitude. Stick to no greater than 15years as a rule.. Don't want to sleep with someone old enough to be my mother! :/I was about to say come west young fella :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' unless they are a complete narcissist,and paradoxically that appears to be a product of low self esteem, has self doubt. Women have been socialized to peer deeply at our physical imperfections to such a degree that we ignore what is in fact, the just perfect.It is only when we are older and look at the photographs of our younger selves that we realize just how physically gorgeous we actually were. The truth is that right now you are beautiful, in a way that you wern't when you were young ,the hard part is to look at yourself in an objective way,when you look in the mirror look for the all the physical beauty that is there.Maybe it is your eyes,your smile,your hair,your skin,search out all the beautiful uniqueness that is you. Do younger men just want you because they think older women are ''gagging'' for it...perhaps some are,but I imagine that most are attracted to all the qualities you have that are visible and all the ones that are just unique you. x Rdo you know how hard it was for me to put the mirror so I could see the best part of me! shit did my back in but your right I have a bewwwwwwwwwwtiful twat. Nobody no extra wrinkles there at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ouch Jonstar...not getting any hun? I find people who attack are often sexually frustrated at some level. I fight back if unfairly targeted...so.. why dont YOU get over it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That is a lovely response Freya .. and I think very true. Looking back does make one realise how fortunate we were at the time we were busy lamenting. A lot to be said for living in the here and now.
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RHP User
13 years ago
....oh and just one more thing: I asked about how younger men, view older women. The facts are.. our bodies do deteriorate and my question related directly to how this affects a younger mans view of an older women.. is appeal still there..and if so, why. Some have answered directly to my question and I thank them for that. Others seem to have latched on to the point that a few weeks ago I did post an article on low self esteem and now seem to feel the need to make a whipping boy out of me. What the hell gives with that? A few opinions and good advice does not turn around years of abuse and mental anguish (Jonstar I have you in mind stating that) and whether the opinions were from professional medical people or not, in fact, if they were involved in any kind of psychology type health work, they would understand those things take years to turn around, not just a few well intended post replies on a forum. People talk about 'bullying' in the forums and sadly, I can see, it appears to be a fact. Go take a good long hard look at yourselves, those who choose to 'pontificate' and work out what 'your' issues are, instead of having a 'go' at someone you see, somehow as 'fair game'.
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RHP User
13 years ago
And your response only serves to clarify. If you believe that people attack because they are sexually frustrated at some level then I hope you apply that thinking to yourself. Unfair in whose eyes ? Yours ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I cant believe the amount of younger guys proposition me!! I have yet to get the courage to take one up on his offer! But I must say that I am in better shape now than 15 years ago!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ur right Jon, uncalled for, same as ur comments. The difference is I think, I will admit my error in saying something out of line. U I fear, will hold on to the notion that ur comments r entirely fair and reasonable and will likely come back with some other withering opinion. Again, I hope it makes u and people of ur ilk happy, denigrading others.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Hun :) I'm sincerely sorry if you feel my message was putting the boot in . I felt you were having a low day about things and yoursel;f >I reacted to what you wrote.If you had said you look at an Older Woman and thinks she looks good for her age I would have replied in kind but you didn't it seemed you were Painting quite a Miserable Picture of your self.. I couldn't believe how sad that was I was hoping it was tongue in cheek.. Hun I don't know you personally .but I know you have it rough stress in your Life as was mentioned but it's in your vibes too.. I think this impacts on your self worth at times.. PLEASE GET WHAT I"M SAYING HERE.... I see a very kind, Loving, fun, Lady. I mean Lady .Who would give her all to whom ever you're with in whatever situation ..I know, and see you as that Wonderfully Unique Woman.. I tried to tell you this in My Message but you unfortunately focused on the wrong bits..Best wishes to you Regards Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks Hun :) Unfortunately it seems Crackup has misinterpreted our replies and wanting the best for her. Our view of who we are as Mature Women not needing to have Validation.. I hope My reply to her will help her understand where I was coming from . Cheers Lu..:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have had the craziest year so far, out meeting new people, some more mature than others and can honesty say mature ladys are as sexy and fun as any other demographic. The biggest thing for me was their ability to be completly free and uninhibited when enjoying themselves whether it was out on the town or between the sheets.
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RHP User
13 years ago
QUOTED..."Another charming young fellow said that with age comes experience and so older women know how to please a man. I countered by asking what that logic would say about him at the grand age of 20, he said he'd never thought about it that way. Bad example, kiddo. LOL"Your kidding Right!?I would have taken that as he knows how young he is, and appreciated older women s experience.I'll bet he never thought about your counter. ROFL.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you Lu for your very lovely follow up. If I came across as negative well, I'm sure it is true, I have some gruelling personal issues on the home front, but.. I was genuine in my curiosity about 'how' older women are seen..and the motivations behind pursuing them. I really though, appreciate the very kind and caring nature of a woman who would come back to the forums and apologise and I in turn, apologise for biting back so hard. I think, should we ever have the fortune to be in the same place and time, we would find perhaps a kindred spirit each in the other.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Am I correct in interpreting the questionas being, what do younger men see in older women when I don't think I would be attractive to them??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp'Ur right Jon, uncalled for, same as ur comments. The difference is I think, I will admit my error in saying something out of line. U I fear, will hold on to the notion that ur comments r entirely fair and reasonable and will likely come back with some other withering opinion. Again, I hope it makes u and people of ur ilk happy, denigrading others. You have a shot at me saying Im not getting any, a somewhat childish retort on your behalf when you put posts up, garnering advice and fail to heed it and then rubbish other posters for their comments because you didnt like what they said and then you say I myself and other like denigrading others Crackup, if you put it out there then be prepared to receive comments that you will not like nor agree to. Its called a public forum. If your not open to all posters and their views perhaps then you should seek another medium . People say things out of line everyday but then we all come from our own perspectives dont we ? and yes I believe my comments were fair and reasonable given what you wrote.Its called an opinion as you have one so do I and I will express it accordingly, if you chose to open up to a public forum. I told you to get over yourself and this is denigrading how ? and your come back was to say Im not getting sex. Relevance ? Perhaps some self examination and a reality check is what you require right now
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RHP User
13 years ago
I tried unfortunately we can’t change what someone thinks about herself. That’s always the hardest. When a person is looking in the mirror she can be as pretty to anybody than herself because her mindset is on I AM NOT PRETTY. I am not into young men, I like the mature ripe men, LOL I call them like this. However I converse with some, and I like young people. But I will not and I say will not make my self think lower of my body or my age because I am not fitting into today’s beauty standard. I am beautiful to myself and to the males who come to me. So really that’s what counts nothing else. And no man will come back to me when I am in bed naked and complain about my body, whether older or younger. Because what I hear from males they are sick and tiered of us female’s complaining about our bodies. And men who are into the perfect female body....what ever this means anyway.....are not my type, so what is the problem. Oh yes we all have a bit of a fear of something. I know one male on here I call him in my mind beautiful, I would not go near, maybe he is to perfect to my mind...who knows. I shit my pants as you aussies would say.
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RHP User
13 years ago
when you say .. 'you tried' .. I assume because you responded kindly to my post on self esteem? Is that what you mean? Look, I wish that 'feeling better' about oneself could be rectified by good advice but in reality, it's a bit like anorexia nervosa, or any other problem where the person has a distorted self image, it takes a lot of work, usually overseen by professionals. I am not dissing anybody on here...it was great advice ..and very kindly offered. I did not intend for this to be 'a self esteem issue' post, I was, as I have already said, genuinely interested in the effect of aging on a woman (or man) and how this was perceived by the young from a sexual perspective. If this in fact, what you post alludes too...if not, forgive me for speaking out of line. It is great that so many of you 'older women' feel good about themselves, that in my mind .. was never in doubt (I know many confident women in their more mature years, I wanted to hear from 'younger' men and their perceptions. Strangely, as I go through the responses on here, there have not been that many. And again I ask myself, does this speak of a divide between what one demographic thinks as against the 'actual' thoughts and reality of another. Maybe actions speak louder than words and the fact that many of you 'older' ladies seem so popular is enough of a fact in itself...I was just curious as to the why's. It isn't...and never was, a shot .. at mature age women.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks Crackup, but this is Mr Tri posting.And yes Mrs Tri is a hotty and I'm lucky to have her.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I rest my case Jonstar.. thank you for contributing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Howdy just to let ya know im not desperate lol i love mature older women have for along time. Mature ladies are more relaxed they know what they want and what there doing its a real turn on for me. The feeling of turning on and making them satisfyied turns me on. Bout 80% of women i have been with have been atleast 10 or so yrs older than me and always was welcomed back. they said the same thing when i met them (never thought of being with a younger guy) all have asked me back quiet a few times after the first meet maybe its because im easy going nature? not sure. But to me pleasing mature women is a real turn on especialy when you make the cum over an over it nealy makes me cum making them cum especialy when you make them squirt for the first time now thats awsum hot feeling feeling them shake going off with pleasure. i one will pick me again lol. It,s not the body asmuch for me its the person and the spontanious sex that an older women will let you please her and trust you doing it. I do prefer volomptious nice boobs curves type not into stuck up barby,s the bored house wife or bored single lady miss average type realy turns me on that much i fantasise about pleasing them its a great feeling when you do. bye for now
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RHP User
13 years ago
yeah ya should you look nice an sound like a nice fun person
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luv2meatu
13 years ago
hey there is nothin wrong with an older woman! from a personal point of veiw i enjoy the company that an older woman gives whether it b in a sexual manner or just as friends! i know a lot of older women & find them fantastic in both sesnes nothin like gettin taught something new!!...lol...even at times u can become the teacher!!!.....to all the older women out there don't worry there are plenty of decent & respectful blokes out there 4 u of all ages!!!....just have to weed out the shit girls!!!......take care ppl!!! xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
My Sincere Pleasure Hun .I know you've Life issues I've been feeling them in your energies I'm very sorry you have to go through it. The positve thing is we learn from our experiences just remember you are a Wonderful Unique Woman there's never been 1 like you before there isn't now and Never will be.So treat yourself like a rare Jewel and accept no less from others:) focus on what you can personally change that usually starts with how you react to others. So look within Hun change that bring balance and the outter life will become balanced too ..If you're ill it's the universe telling you to take more care and not try and force things before their time..As for others It's their issues they are just dumping them on you .. If we ever get a chance to chat by phone or in Person you're most welcome ..:)Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Kurious, Luv2Meet, LionMagic, thanks for sharing...and putting a lot into your written opinion. Lol, you made me laugh Luv, with your comment of 'weed out the shit girls'. I think that's pretty common across the board isn't it.. for us girls as well as you guys. Just a matter of finding the right fit for you in the end with all this hooking up stuff. Lion, now I can see why you have that moniker...I bet you wear the poor darlings out but.. wow, what a way to go. Kurious, totally agree, I think the 'mature' thing means you can let loose a lot more easily and not give a toss what others may or may not think (well.. it seems to be from what is said). Glad you are having a great time with it all.. again, thanks for sharing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh! Thankgoodness you're Not Interested in Mature Women I was starting to get a bit nervous you were having a thing for me ha!ha!ha!.Oh!. I couldn't resist teasing you so I didn't ..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi LuI was just going to but I think they have taken our one msg allowance thingy away :-( You are a darling and thank you for making the offer. When I am a bit more financial I might throw some money on this pony so I can do just that...drop you a line in person. You are a sweetheart.. xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Older women dont want to have their babies Older women are financially independent Older women don't want to marry them Older women have life experience Older women are good teachers Older women are good listeners.x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
I actually prefer an older woman to be honest. The younger ones can't have a passionate discussion/heated debate without labelling it as a fight. They concern themselves more with what other people think, SOME are just straight out head fucks, whereas the older woman tends to appreciate the bluntness I seem to deliver. Then again I AM single, arrogant, and it's obviously for a very good reason, so really my take on these forums doesn't really matter in the big scheme of things. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Heya Hardtruckin'.. your take on the forums matters as much as the next person hun. I like the reasons you gave for appreciating older women and .. I didn't think you came across as arrogant at all, just a person who knows what they want/like. Thanks for sharing..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Hun :0 That's a good observation :0 Under Normal circumstances I'd agree completely but since I've lost My Money and Possessions twice .The Positive thing is UI know they Like me and want to be with me as Friends Lovers because of the Unique Amazing Woman I am ..So a Win Win in My eyes ha!ha! enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Hun :) I think we still get 1 MSG a week or there abouts ..Aside from that as you'll see I'm as Financial as You probably you're the rich Gal he!he!.. So I'm more than happy to go Dutch on Fish n Chips By The beach with you.I've just got to get My Info to you . I will I always keep My Promises Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I should graciously accept your compliment, however there's another reality that also exists. But ultimately anyone can ask for advice but its the ultimate choice of who accepts. Which is why my input here in these forums doesn't really matter in the big scheme of things. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
female guests can only message men,they have a free message once a week.Platinum members can receive messages any time from women who match their seeking criteria..x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe I used it up? The msg thingy.. I honestly cannot recall now but .. it won't let me send one at this point in time. Thank you both for your contacts. I will give it a few days and then try again so hopefully, can catch up in a more private setting lol. Take care ladies...
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RHP User
13 years ago
im actually attatched now but extreamly bored lol thats why im on here see what younger women do to ya lmao wish could chat but im just one of those bodgy members that cant upgrade membership god there is alot of em lol I need a mature lady to fire me back up again lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bloody women Lion, you can't trust a one of them.. young or older. xx You take care .. and have fun with whoever is lucky enough to have your attention .
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jeremy8484
13 years ago
im very much into older women, they know how to be sexy, they are smart , leave the lights on and arent afraid to try things (well most of them anyways , theres always that one time lol, ) but yet very much enjoy just cuddling and watching a movie i dont need to talk to let them know im thinking about them ...... i guess it all comes down to maturity . plus im a bit submissive and younger girls dont seem to know what they like and dont control me enough :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Crackup, I get what you're saying. You're asking about looks, and people telling you it's all about attitude is not answering your question. I too worry about the cellulite, spider veins and sagging skin. And there's a fair bit of it. I have realised though that men don't care half as much as I do. I used to think they only said that to make me feel better and get me into bed. Now I know better. Joining this site has done wonders for my body image already. I'm not the most visual person. A man's looks are not nearly as important as his voice, gestures, the things he says and the way he looks at me. Having started seeing women recently, I've found the same is true. I thought I'd find a smooth bum more attractive than a lumpy one. But I realised that I really don't care. Beween the slim and toned woman who was shy and quiet and the bigger mature woman who looked at me like she wanted to eat me up, I know who I'll be seeing again. Conclusion: When being shown pictures of men and women we may choose the better looking ones. In 3D it is a completely different story. xx p.s. I saw a man's profile yesterday that stated he adores saggy breasts on a woman.
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RHP User
13 years ago
imagine for a moment that the shoe was on the other foot and that older women were finding it very difficult to get sexual partners of any age and that the older guys were scoring as many young girls as they could handle and excluding women over the age of 40.Oh dear me wouldnt the forums be a bit of a bitchfest then lolIt is interesting though when you see that a lot of women claim to be unconcerned with looks and that age is but a number, then why is it so that it is the older and not so good looking males that seem to have the hardest time hooking up with woman of any age?Most profiles I look at have their age seeking criteria cut off at 40~45~50 so even though men grossly out number women on this site me and guys around my age are out of the picture before they are even in it. In reality I rekonMost young guys will fuck most women of almost any ageMost old guys dont get to fuck almost any women of any ageMost women will mostly fuck younger men.♋
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Hun :) You do have a valid Point there.it's a Bummer! being in your Position..I checked out your Profile as you may notice.Frankly it seemd cool to me I have My seeking criteria set at 25-48yrs I think But that doesn't mean I'm not open to Guys Older or Younger over 22yrs.There are exceptioons.. . From your Profile and your vibes I'm picking up I certainly would get to know you and go from there .You're a Handsome,Sexy ,Sensual, Guy who can hold a conversation when required.. However I'm too Mature for your range ha!ha! so there !! Plus you live across the country from me but 1 can wonder!! I set the Mature age at that because I was getting too much Interest from Guys over 70yrs who Looked 90yrs who wanted to WebCam me and show me there bits.I'm so not into that ha!ha! It's not just about sex at all with me and Guys I select have the qualities I require..To be open to My Spiritual and Sexual abilities I use both in Sexual Encounters..Sex is the Celebration of our Strong Connection.. I did notice you're a Guest that could be why you're not getting much Interest .It's a dead end pretty much one can only wink so often .Few Women are Paid Members.Sure we get 1 MSG per week but we also have several Guys we want to get to know besides you, so it's a case of Priorities.. Look at buying MSGs I think it's 20per day for about $14 per mth.pay upfront 3mths.. Check it out for yourself.. if you don't want a full Membership that way Women could MSG you not just flirt.. Good Luck! Cheers Lu :) PS there are younger Women who Love Mature Guys so don't throw in the towel just yet.The Women who are meant to cross your Path will do anyway.. Good Luck! Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Soooo not true...many older women are not interested in young men,this is a popular misconception ,younger men maybe ,but young nooooooo. However,many men unlike your sexy self,who are older, are unfortunately batshit boring.I would much prefer a man of almost any age who was interesting and interested in me than a hunk of young spunk who can't string two words together or an old fogey who is so set in their ways he thinks that sex is all about missionarys,seven minutes and that the only flavour on offer is vanilla. As my hero Mae West said...''It's not the men in your life that counts,it's the life in your men"x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im presently a guest because Im not currently looking for anything other than having a laugh and getting a feel for the place and the possibilities available here.The reason Im not currently looking to hook up is because for the first 6 months of my time here Ive been recovering from a pretty nasty motorcycle accident. Just about mended, but now Im out of action again due to some very bad burns I received two weeks ago to my forearm and the palm of my left hand Grrrrrr bugger ouch @#%^$$*&@.I have had genuine offers from young and old women here, so I think I will do ok when I do become a paid member (and lie about my age he he he) (age is a number, age is a number, age is a number)I did say "most" men my age have trouble hooking up here and I do pass for around 45ish IRL so it will only be a white lie anyways, and I can honestly say Im probably fitter and stronger than "most" 30 year olds as well."Soooo not true...many older women are not interested in young men, this is a popular misconception ,younger men maybe ,but young nooooooo."Freya I didnt say "all" women and I did say "younger men" and not young men ;p ♋
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not so interested in young, or even just younger, men. Very interested in older men Ozboy, but I do have some pretty important criteria that rule a lot of blokes out - this is of course because I'm looking for something special not something casual, which I make no secret of. I looked at your profile - I'd call you attractive for sure :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey there Ms M.. yes, you got exactly what I meant...and thank you for telling of your own experiences based around these things, that is, men .. as a general rule, don't seem to be that critical of the things we might feel as women (young and old), detracting from our overall appeal. Freya, so know what you meant by your most recent comments. I enjoy a young man (younger I should say) but, it's as much their attitude as anything else - they for the most part seem easygoing . Quite a few of the older men I have met up with, seem to have some quite definite and hardened views, and are less 'forgiving' in many respects. I am actually a bit intimidated by it.Ozboy, it's true, harshly so, that it is a numbers game and women have those odds on their side. I imagine the boot on the other foot, as you say...would be not quite so comfortable.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey ! OH! OUCH! Big Time Hun sorry to know that .. You know when you ride your Bike and cooking a BBQ the idea is to put your Mobile down and stop checking out the Nudie Rudie Pics online and lose consentration. The Plus side is atleast your cock is still working ummmmmm Geez I hope so !!he!he1 In any case enjoy your time online and catch up with the sexy Women waiting to chat and be Playmates Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi all, an observation Iv'e noticed over many years is popular porn sites most viewed and most popular stories posted are on mature vs young so it's no suprise. Most are mature women with the younger men, as I believe it's maternal and I also find myself attracted to mature women from the moment I had sperm flowing throughout my body... Voluptious women with full curvatious figures drive me nuts...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' have always appreciated the allure of an older woman....so i understand why young guys lust so after them.... its less the physical, and more the emotional, the experience, the confidence... older women are just that.....they are 'women'... and as such, can be incredibly sexy and sexual, without all the ego, pouting and posturing that comes with youth.... I believe this comes close to hitting the nail on the head, older women do have the experience, confidence and are "the woman". I personally find younger women more physically attractive usually (this is no doubt biological as many studies have found), but not necessarily more attractive overall. I believe that an older woman is perceived as attractive as they have the allure younger women don't. One way i see it is that an older woman is a woman, not a girl. She can be authoritative and dominant while submissive and can be "taken", this could be seen as an ego boost for both the younger male and older female and may play an important role in that attraction, but on the other hand attitude and ego is a key motivator also and i think that older women have more of a handle on how they approach a situation or "play the game".That's just some of my two cents.
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
youre an older woman
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RHP User
13 years ago
You have certainly opened a can of worms here. It is difficult to age, in a physical perspective. We are saturated with so much media now, a large portion which celebrates beauty, youth and success. I wonder how different the world would be if airbrushing was made illegal and models had to reflect the true age of their target audience - a forty to fifty year old woman advertising wrinkle cream, not a 20 something year old woman... I know from my own experience I sometimes do not like what I see in the mirror, but there is not really much I can do about that, short of botox or surgery, but then I look at the faces of those who have chosen to do this, and alot of them just look plain strange, so I think I will just age gracefully. My husband says I keep getting better with age... bless him xx. Actually I said the other day "I wish you took my virginity, (my experience was one of those shitty over in 5 minutes ones.) he replied "Nope!! I'm glad you weren't, had a few when I was younger... BORING!! Didn't know what to do, much prefer that you were a wildcat... and only getting better" So yes, experience is valued too. I would just like to point out that it disappoints me how many personal attacks go on in these forums too. Everyone has a right to their opinion, and people will feel how they feel, particularly when it is in regards to something as personal as their self worth/esteem. People have the right to reply too, whether that be in agreeance or not, in this case, if you feel great then that's wonderful, but that can be put across in such a way as to not be nasty/denigrating to the OP. I think that it is wonderful when people can come on here and voice their deepest feelings and opinions, some of the replies to posts on here have restored my faith in the human race :) Anyway to sum up the answer to the question IMHO you have to make the best of what ya got... so just get out there, and if some young buck wants to screw you and you wouldn't mind a piece of that... just go for it, life is short. What is the worst that can happen? Oh and someone quoted Mae West, now, she wasn't really a stunner, but her attitude exuded sexy...
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RHP User
13 years ago
In reality I rekon Most young guys will fuck most women of almost any age Most old guys don’t get to fuck almost any women of any age Most women will mostly fuck younger men. I agree with all of this. Especially on RHP. its like shopping online. Going out , I have found I can pick up now, as RHP has given me confidence and perhaps I now have that glint in my eye. Before I would never go out to a pub( as I do not drink) and sit on a bar stool and get hit on. Now I know that younger men really do want to get into my Bridget Jones panties... perverted little fuckers they are But I am a realist as well, I know that single women are getting not only fucked but fucked over by a lot of the hotties on here, because they live in hope. Hope that the guy will come back, hope that he really does like her and not just what is between her legs, hope that he will actually get her off before himself If you want all that, then picking a younger studly Dudley is not going to make you happy as he is the bumble bee of rhp Lucky for me I am a Faded Flower :) with a little honey still left in me. I have a partner so I do not have any concern about more than sex, but if you do want more its a struggle and many single women give up and just do the forums or leave RHP. I cant say I blame them I have seen men behaving badly and keeping them on the back burner , in case they have a fee five minutes to spare. or not turning up or as one of my girlfriends had, the thirty second blow job yep she was still on her knees when he zipped up and went out the door. Young men are not always the answer
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Hun :) I read your Post it made me giggle because Ummm There's nothing Maternal about My Sexual Connections I view Younger Guys as Sexy Lovers I want to enjoy ..They see me as a very Sexy Woman.Their words.. they want us to be Lovers because of who I am, .Not because they watched Porn on it he!he! I'm certainly not their Mum ha!ha! Thankfully they don't view me in that way .They're not My Sonny Boy may be Toy Boy ;) .Unless A Guy's kink is Him being a Naughty Boy and I'm the Aunt..who punishes him for getting aroused by me.. I did that once it was Hilarious when he brought out a 12" Rubber Penis to play. I was thinking where the Hell! does he want that Put!!! .I think it would be hard for a Woman to take in... He has only 2 choices .I cracked up giggling then and couldn't stop.. It seems he wanted me to slap his erect Penis with it. He wasn't amused and left soon after, never to return Ha!ha! O'Man 1 meets all kinds.. Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Old Siggy was correct Tikitiboox R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mature women are, I have found, more liberated with much less inhibitions. They seem to be more likely to experiment sexually. There are also lots of hot mature ladies who will give their younger counterparts a run for their money!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72' You have certainly opened a can of worms here. It is difficult to age, in a physical perspective. We are saturated with so much media now, a large portion which celebrates beauty, youth and success. I wonder how different the world would be if airbrushing was made illegal and models had to reflect the true age of their target audience - a forty to fifty year old woman advertising wrinkle cream, not a 20 something year old woman... I know from my own experience I sometimes do not like what I see in the mirror, but there is not really much I can do about that, short of botox or surgery, but then I look at the faces of those who have chosen to do this, and alot of them just look plain strange, so I think I will just age gracefully. My husband says I keep getting better with age... bless him xx. Actually I said the other day "I wish you took my virginity, (my experience was one of those shitty over in 5 minutes ones.) he replied "Nope!! I'm glad you weren't, had a few when I was younger... BORING!! Didn't know what to do, much prefer that you were a wildcat... and only getting better" So yes, experience is valued too. I would just like to point out that it disappoints me how many personal attacks go on in these forums too. Everyone has a right to their opinion, and people will feel how they feel, particularly when it is in regards to something as personal as their self worth/esteem. People have the right to reply too, whether that be in agreeance or not, in this case, if you feel great then that's wonderful, but that can be put across in such a way as to not be nasty/denigrating to the OP. I think that it is wonderful when people can come on here and voice their deepest feelings and opinions, some of the replies to posts on here have restored my faith in the human race :) Anyway to sum up the answer to the question IMHO you have to make the best of what ya got... so just get out there, and if some young buck wants to screw you and you wouldn't mind a piece of that... just go for it, life is short. What is the worst that can happen? Oh and someone quoted Mae West, now, she wasn't really a stunner, but her attitude exuded sexy... Yes, and I didn't mean too Saskia.. opening a can of worms I mean. Just my musing. Although, a good outcome, it has allowed me to get to know a few of the ladies better and conflict, can open up new lines of thinking. Yeah Saskia, what you said.. 'life is short'. I know I tend to over analyse, but really, somethings.. don't need answers.. you just need to grab on to the moment.. and enjoy it for all it's worth.. xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
A work colleague many years ago used to extoll the virtues of older women with the three "L's"They don't smellThey don't swellThey don't tell !Ozboy you are right on the money !Although I'm having a fine time just quietly
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hey Hun :) I read your Post it made me giggle because Ummm There's nothing Maternal about My Sexual Connections I view Younger Guys as Sexy Lovers I want to enjoy ..They see me as a very Sexy Woman.Their words.. they want us to be Lovers because of who I am, .Not because they watched Porn on it he!he! I'm certainly not their Mum ha!ha! Thankfully they don't view me in that way .They're not My Sonny Boy may be Toy Boy ;) .Unless A Guy's kink is Him being a Naughty Boy and I'm the Aunt..who punishes him for getting aroused by me.. I did that once it was Hilarious when he brought out a 12" Rubber Penis to play. I was thinking where the Hell! does he want that Put!!! .I think it would be hard for a Woman to take in... He has only 2 choices .I cracked up giggling then and couldn't stop.. It seems he wanted me to slap his erect Penis with it. He wasn't amused and left soon after, never to return Ha!ha! O'Man 1 meets all kinds.. Cheers Lu :) Lu, Thanks for posting as thats the funniest thing I have heard. I was predicting you writing that he was going to say its not for you is for him. Can't say I have ever heard of a massive dong slapping fetish but hey.... whatever floats your boat. Cheers
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for the reply regarding mainly maternal comment made... take a look at xhamster.com and check out the most watched link of the last month and of all time, hardsextube is another, you will notice it is dominated with mum and son vid's, surely that is telling us something. Not sure what exactly but there is definately a lot of interest from both. Lot more older women young men than there is older men younger women. maybe it's that older men can't perform as well as the younger counterpart yet thr mature woman still very sexually active therefore using the younger men, younger woman don't go for older men as much for the same reason, hard is better than soft.. So size may not matter but firmness certainly does..
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RHP User
13 years ago
That comment was one of the most misogynist I have read on here....this may come as a complete surprise to you but in these enlightened times we women can actually read
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Hun :) Oh! That encounter still makes me Laugh ..However I want to make it quite clear That was his Fettish not mine he asked me if I'd roll Play that I did but I can't say until I started to giggle at the Fake cock did it become rewarding for me he!he!.I didn't miss him ... Hun only cock I'm Interested in that is at the end of a Hot sexy Guy who happens to be My Lover he!he! For Future reference if /when you come across this yourself:) soft cocks can be just as Pleasureable.I've had some very Sexual, Sensual, Encounters with Guys who couldn't keep their cocks erect..When they were soft I directed them to slide it over My well aroused clit..OMG! both of us just kept cumming several times .It doesn't take an erect cock to orgasm, blow.. Thanks I checked out xHamster.because you asked I noticed what you mentioned .I did agree with you on that score just not the Maternal bit ha!ha! in my case.:) .I forgot to check out if they had a Porn Video on Young Guy Toothless Granny blow job ha!ha! because I did a Topic on that subject recently on the Forums Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
hahaha think weve gone close enough to the edge with this one.There is the latest craze right there..Dildo Ding Dong Slapping seems unpleasurable for everyone..It stems from the playground in schools... Uhoh here comes the ding dong lady were doomed for life if she gets us... Funny though how certain experiences in our youth or adolecence shows through as a sexual fetish in adult play. I.E wetting ones-self and getting in troublebecause they messed up seems to be a big kink for those who were tourmented because of it. Though I don't see where dildo ding dong slapping would stem from really thats too much even for me hahaha... Another kink in Japan is mother son sex in certain clubs, mature young trend type stuff, it stems so i am told from ther days where thre was enourmous pressure on the family name if the eldest son didn't do well in school and then unsuccessfu, this was a big shame on families so when the son reached adolecence and had sexual desires the mother often slept with him to relieve his urges and keep him focused on his study. True story google that and the mother son shows... it's a big thing in Japan, though it doesn't suprise me in the least, thse guys are interesting to say the least hahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Hun Sorry I meant to include you and Tikitiboo on My reply. Please don't feel rejected because I didn't mention your name too and reply Individually :) I somehow think you'll get over this very quickly he!he1 Cheers Lu :)
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Wild_Pagan_Love
13 years ago
When guys first become aware of their sexuality (usually quite young), their objects of desire are always much older. This dynamic never goes away, so when we see a beautiful older woman, its that essence of female sexuality that fires off in the brain.Not sure how similar this is to the 'daddy' kink that some girls like, but it could be?
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RHP User
13 years ago
love all you sexy older ladies
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