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So GUYS....blow-jobs!
January 16 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
When i'm receiving, looking down to see a set of pseudo-serious 'pornstar eyes' makes me laugh so much that, on occasion it has ruined the moment entirely. I can't help it, it's just so ridiculous. . When i'm giving i'd rather keep my eyes on the prize or just close my eyes and savour the feel and sounds
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erotictouch4u
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' When i'm giving i'd rather keep my eyes on the prize or just close my eyes and savour the feel and sounds For me giving cunilingus I love the taste and go by the feel of how the woman tenses her body and the soft (or loud) sounds she makes to know when things are progressing right rather than trying to look into her eyes. I would expect the same of a woman giving me head. ET x x x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' When i'm receiving, looking down to see a set of pseudo-serious 'pornstar eyes' makes me laugh so much that, on occasion it has ruined the moment entirely. I can't help it, it's just so ridiculous. . When i'm giving i'd rather keep my eyes on the prize or just close my eyes and savour the feel and sounds Oh go on... Serious sex is vanilla. Laughter is all good. Who can deny teh joy of finding a lover that'll make you queef just to see your reaction... someone who'll look for your tickle spots as well as your errogenous zones, someone who'll pull those faces and makes you laugh one minute and make you cum the next. Sex is meant to be fun... not like a gyno examination.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Amazing to see this thread still going...and some seriously interesting knowledge has been imparted to us all! So...here's the off, ladies. If you have any doubts at all and are in the Melbourne area...you know where this is going already, don't you? Send me a note and I am sure you will pass the oral exam. I will let you use any notes you have taken for the written one. Too easy...straight A students all around!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' When i'm receiving, looking down to see a set of pseudo-serious 'pornstar eyes' makes me laugh so much that, on occasion it has ruined the moment entirely. I can't help it, it's just so ridiculous. . When i'm giving i'd rather keep my eyes on the prize or just close my eyes and savour the feel and sounds Oh go on... Serious sex is vanilla. Laughter is all good. Who can deny teh joy of finding a lover that'll make you queef just to see your reaction... someone who'll look for your tickle spots as well as your errogenous zones, someone who'll pull those faces and makes you laugh one minute and make you cum the next. Sex is meant to be fun... not like a gyno examination.HugsStalky However, the problem is not the laughing, it's the uncontrollable fit of laughter that goes on so long it leaves him all pissed off and pouty cause he was trying to 'set the mood'. Pouty boys are a serious passion-killer.
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SirSpankalot1966
15 years ago
what can i say im open to just about anyone trying me out lets c who really wants to improve their ability in giving great head if your up for a challenge look me up
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RHP User
15 years ago
My pleasure is to give rather than receive....... (ex was lousey at giving so I chose to go without!! ) There haveb een plenty of great tips hehehe and lots to nod my head at and say yep absolutely, all part of the repetore !! Teeth...hmm maybe ive met the only men that like teeth and being biten ...quiote firmly at that too !! Eye contact mmmmmm very sexy....i do tend to keep mine closed but that look up and contact that makes him smile mm mmmmmm But Position !!..... lay him on his back ?? how contrare.....unless its a little treat between position changes !! I love to kneel in front ..hands loose to wander and explore and excite....or secured demurely behind my back.. His hands in my hair..gently or..... otherwise....his fingers on my nipples...gently or .....otherwise.... or to lay with him kneeling over me....his weight on my breasats yummmmmm.....just an added pleasure and as for that rocking motion created by two......oh just gotta love that..... oh damn.....the images abound...pant..pant.......I have to go be a muggle for a week without reprieve
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' When i'm receiving, looking down to see a set of pseudo-serious 'pornstar eyes' makes me laugh so much that, on occasion it has ruined the moment entirely. I can't help it, it's just so ridiculous. . When i'm giving i'd rather keep my eyes on the prize or just close my eyes and savour the feel and sounds Im with you on this one ... sooner the eyes closed and let the other sences take over . than break out in laughter and spoil the moment .. What surprises me is the guys who ask .. "do you swallow" .. because all they have ever had is women who let it dribble out of thier mouths without swallowing .. how many women swallow and how many do the alternative and let it transfer to another part of the body, either dribling over the balls or over the abdo .. But in saying that .. if they are not a regular partner .. perform oral with a flavoured condom ..and make sure you take your own so that the flavour is of you choice not his ...
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tank__girl
15 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' My absoloute fave purely because of the powerful orgasm involved is to lay him down on his back and get on my knees between his legs. If i can pin his legs and hips down to minimise movement (thrusting and wriggling and that carry on) it produces an amazing orgasm. I guess i have found for myself that orgasm under restraint does that. If i can have control i can do a much better job, these are my best work. Never found anyone to be disappointed yet. That being said i'm told i'm just a spectacular gagger!ha! So feel free to go ahead and stand over me and thrust away and you'll get all the reaction you want. hmmm....i don't get the entertainment value but there you go. A tad sadistic perhaps :) I like this possie too Sweetie! Although I prefer to pin one leg down by sitting on it, positioning myself atop his nice bony knee of course! Clit to knee....I can cum bring myself to orgasm in minutes grinding down on his knee doing this..MMmmmm..! And yes, a good head fuck is always nice to give us a little bit of a rest after all that effort heheee..I like to finish that way sometimes, maybe when I'm feeling kinky'er!? Then they can be in control of the pace and thrusts, and yeah, they seem to like it too...very porn star'ish, holding a girl by the hair and pull her down onto your cock etc. Makes for kinky, dirty talk nearing the end. And I do love it deep down my throat, but again, good for the boys, sorry or men, who that to blow on your face, or boobies etc. Sadistic. I think I've only had one 'Sadistic experience'. I have met some very naughty and playful people on here. And I like to think I'm adventurous, willing to try new things, a bit kinky, love to push boundries etc and...the main thing, don't mind a bit of deep throat action....BUT! I met a guy off here, great if you know who you are, cos it was pretty fucking mean!!?? He walked in and pretty much lay me down on my back, and raped the shit out of my throat!!?? Again, I like to think and play outside the box, and tried my best to BREATHE and go with it, but at the same time I was thinking "Fuck me, you're a bit full on..oh well..never again!?". As I was gagging, choking etc. tears pouring out of my eyes, I was trying to push him up and off so I could catch some air, he says to me "Geeez, you're a mess!!?", with a smartarsed little grin on his face. Not at all in a 'jokey' kind of way..WTF!? Sorry, just felt the need to share? Fuck me! It wasn't til he was done, and left. I had the worst feeling come over me, and "that just wasn't right'. That was nasty. Within two hours I could hardly swallow..!! Soon after I called another male friend off RHP and told him about it, as I was feeling like I was 'raped'..??! I went to the doctor the next day, by then I couldn't really swallow water, and had to get something to numb my grazed, thrashed and swollen throat. It was awful....We all know the difference between right and wrong. I look back now, and I'm sure he knew he was being too rough, but I could tell he was enjoying it. Besides getting told to "Get off and DON'T touch!!" by a bitchy, jelous girfriend, sitting there stark naked in their home, too pissy to drive, just wanting to die...then having to sleep there, in their bed!!?? As bout as warm and inviting as a fucking freezer. The throat raping has got to be 'the' worst experience I've had off this site. The young boy who told me he was 'just getting something out of his car', then schreeeched off down the street at a 1000 miles an hr was a pretty funny one! Embarrasing at the time, I don't think he appreciated me squirting on his expensive shirt?? Oh well.....hehehheeee.. Then there was poor fitandfun, getting walked in on by 'the stalker ex' at 6:30am, porn blaring...hahahhaaa....sorry, again!! X
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RHP User
15 years ago
If your with the one you love make love to his cock with your mouth Talk to him, tell him how wet you are getting, how hard his cock feels in his mouth do this in between licking and sucking up and down his cock while making eye contact (lol) take your time make his cock wet, rub it over your mouth and checks while telling him how wet you are getting gently lick his balls (listen for any change in moaning from him) Please dont ram your finger in his arse play around a little with his arse ( little wet circles around the outside) If he pulls away STOP just think of it as your arse being penatrated for the first time (lol) some guys like me, like a little slap on there arse too cant tell to much otherwise all you girls will be getting told you give great head lol take your time and enjoy it. Its not meant to be a chore lol If you cant do that then fake it to make it! Oh and pratice makes perfect (he will agree)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'tank__girl' Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' My absoloute fave purely because of the powerful orgasm involved is to lay him down on his back and get on my knees between his legs. If i can pin his legs and hips down to minimise movement (thrusting and wriggling and that carry on) it produces an amazing orgasm. I guess i have found for myself that orgasm under restraint does that. If i can have control i can do a much better job, these are my best work. Never found anyone to be disappointed yet. That being said i'm told i'm just a spectacular gagger!ha! So feel free to go ahead and stand over me and thrust away and you'll get all the reaction you want. hmmm....i don't get the entertainment value but there you go. A tad sadistic perhaps :) I like this possie too Sweetie! Although I prefer to pin one leg down by sitting on it, positioning myself atop his nice bony knee of course! Clit to knee....I can cum bring myself to orgasm in minutes grinding down on his knee doing this..MMmmmm..! And yes, a good head fuck is always nice to give us a little bit of a rest after all that effort heheee..I like to finish that way sometimes, maybe when I'm feeling kinky'er!? Then they can be in control of the pace and thrusts, and yeah, they seem to like it too...very porn star'ish, holding a girl by the hair and pull her down onto your cock etc. Makes for kinky, dirty talk nearing the end. And I do love it deep down my throat, but again, good for the boys, sorry or men, who that to blow on your face, or boobies etc. Sadistic. I think I've only had one 'Sadistic experience'. I have met some very naughty and playful people on here. And I like to think I'm adventurous, willing to try new things, a bit kinky, love to push boundries etc and...the main thing, don't mind a bit of deep throat action....BUT! I met a guy off here, great if you know who you are, cos it was pretty fucking mean!!?? He walked in and pretty much lay me down on my back, and raped the shit out of my throat!!?? Again, I like to think and play outside the box, and tried my best to BREATHE and go with it, but at the same time I was thinking "Fuck me, you're a bit full on..oh well..never again!?". As I was gagging, choking etc. tears pouring out of my eyes, I was trying to push him up and off so I could catch some air, he says to me "Geeez, you're a mess!!?", with a smartarsed little grin on his face. Not at all in a 'jokey' kind of way..WTF!? Sorry, just felt the need to share? Fuck me! It wasn't til he was done, and left. I had the worst feeling come over me, and "that just wasn't right'. That was nasty. Within two hours I could hardly swallow..!! Soon after I called another male friend off RHP and told him about it, as I was feeling like I was 'raped'..??! I went to the doctor the next day, by then I couldn't really swallow water, and had to get something to numb my grazed, thrashed and swollen throat. It was awful....We all know the difference between right and wrong. I look back now, and I'm sure he knew he was being too rough, but I could tell he was enjoying it. Besides getting told to "Get off and DON'T touch!!" by a bitchy, jelous girfriend, sitting there stark naked in their home, too pissy to drive, just wanting to die...then having to sleep there, in their bed!!?? As bout as warm and inviting as a fucking freezer. The throat raping has got to be 'the' worst experience I've had off this site. The young boy who told me he was 'just getting something out of his car', then schreeeched off down the street at a 1000 miles an hr was a pretty funny one! Embarrasing at the time, I don't think he appreciated me squirting on his expensive shirt?? Oh well.....hehehheeee.. Then there was poor fitandfun, getting walked in on by 'the stalker ex' at 6:30am, porn blaring...hahahhaaa....sorry, again!! X TANK_GIRL..... You are a fucking trooper and a half for that shit hunny, to go through the shit that arsehole did to you with the throat raping incedent, and did i read it right that the fucker's girlfriend was there aswell watching, i bet she thought she was next and was holding her own throat huh.....What a sadistic fucking prick, pardon the pun.....Hope that gorgeous mouth of yours and throat ofcourse is ALOT better now after that crazy shit, you could of nearly fucking died.....THE FUCKING NERVE ON SOME MOTHER FUCKERS THESE DAYS HUH..... And to think the piece of shit was enjoying the fact that he was hurting you, fucking arsehole needs to be put in fucking prison for that kind of shit, but unfortunately the way the scenario was it probably wouldn't of held up in court anyway babe.....SHAME!!!!! And can i say the good stuff you spoke of.....AMAZING WORDS!!!!! You squirting on that young bloke's shirt though, that was hilarious to read..... It's just a damn shirt, maybe he had to be somewhere else afterwards.....FUCK HIM.....HAHAHA Your most sexually crazed cumming from the grinding on the knee.....ABSOLUTELY LOVED reading, you are certainly a Super Special Woman..... Can i say quite beautiful aswell if i'm allowed to say that..... You seem like a really cool person, and again i'm so sorry to hear/read that this happened to you hun.....Just remember that NOT ALL guys are like that..... PLAYFULGUY.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' I met a guy who says he is obsessed with getting blowjobs. When I asked him how he likes it and his answer was, "I like it..... in your mouth" It might just be that simple, haha.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is the same as the secret to basically anything in sex - communication.Everybody is different - some guys say no teeth - I love teeth.Some guys say no hands - I love some hand.Some guys don't like to hear you gag - some guys will force you to gag.The variables are endless.Pay attention to your partners breathing and don't be afraid to ask for directions - every dick is a little different.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Tank girl - were is Moffat Beach? :)Face fucking is good, but the girl has to enjoy it. (rape is not on, ever)Was with Ex 10yrs, the last 18months were the best BJ's i have ever had.like to be in charge, deepthroat, fast and slow, grab by hair ect . love it when the girl plays with herself whislt giving also, but watch your teeth when you cum though, tend to forget about them.If your really good, go for the 2nd 'O' with tip of finger in ass, put pressure (fast moving) at very base of penis/prostate. DDDDDDAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMNNNNNNNNNN.I nearly pass out from the 2nd orgasm (within 10mins of 1st) everytime, not much cum, but at least twice as good.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Who says you can't blow? You can if there is a foreskin. A woman who really like/loves her man can derive so much pleasure from fellatio (blowjob, headjob) that it drives her (me) wild! If he has a foreskin you can pull it over the edge of his penis with your lips and blow in it, he will go wild. Another thing to do is when you have his foreskin pulled down as far as it will go, insert your tongue under and run it around his glans. YUM. AS far as my man is concerned so long as I enjoy it he enjoys it more.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear63' Hmmm... then there's humming. Gotta go now... Mrs P lmfao.... YES! HUM the national anthem! hehe... brilliant.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
My personal delight is when a gal is licking the head and rubbing the area between the arse and testicles then loosly going down with loads of saliva to lube. Then start deep, long sucking with the rubbing and the suction going on simultaneously. You then switch to focus on the head and suck hard and lick the rim lightly. Keep this going with heaps of passion and slurping noises, look me inthe eyes with that 'cum for me baby' look and watch the sparks fly!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dont get me wrong, I love it, but not as much as a lot of guys seem to. A good blowjob is great as foreplay or as a finale, but the main event should always be the sex, I'm that fussed if a girl doesnt want to use their mouth. Although when she does, as others have said, pressure is a must, especially towards the end, and if she cant deepthroat, I love it when she sucks it along the side, right down near the base every now and then
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah head is good but you have to give to recieve!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I had the best BJ a while back with a sexy older woman. It was pure oral fun for both of us. Foreplay is very important to me and it was really mind blowing.I went down on her after some deep passionate kissing, ear nibbling, neck kissing and light nibbles and playing with her nipples. Then I teased her on my way down, kissing around her lovely hot wet sexy bits and slowly started licking her. After several teasing and light blowing on her clit, I brought her to several orgasms. It was wonderful to hear her moan and cum and that made me extremely hard. She went down on me, masturbating me and sucking on the head (headjob) slowly first then harder and humming and moaning.That vibration feeling is great and hearing her is mind blowing. She would then go down the shaft all the way and then mouth fuck me. She also played with my balls and all that was a huge turn. She didn't made me cum in her mouth, and thats something that I think most guys like. She had to press me down as I was shaking with her still sucking me dry. It was the best orgasm I have ever had with a woman, I was breathless and speachless, and she still proves to me she is good. So I think
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RHP User
15 years ago
We want eye contact tongue licking and swirling around the head aswell as shaft and balls We want teeth dragging deep throating and saliva all over ball sucking hand wanking We are men and we are happy just to get a blow job
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RHP User
15 years ago
Here is the trick Girls Fast on (lips down the cock) Slow off (lips up the cock)
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RHP User
15 years ago
It was said earlier that the best BJ is from someone who WANTS to give you a BJ. There is absolutely nothing better than having a woman who WANTS to give you a BJ giving you one. The pleasures are so much greater and that little horny dirty look and smile she gives you will make you forget all about any technique issues! In any case she will adapt her technique specifically to pleasure you because she loves to please! When she is getting off on pleasuring you it is shear joy! I am quite sure that the ladies also prefer a guy who actually enjoys giving oral as opposed to those who act like they really don't want to be down there and are just going through the motions!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am a guy so I know how a guy likes his hard tool sucked...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Every guy is different, so there are no set rules as to what will work- Same as you ladies, what works for one guy, will not work for another.That said there are 2 things you must do in order to give a mindblowing HJ or BJ to any guy!It has already been said on here, but i think the number one tip for me is knowing she absolutely loves doing it. If you adore the act, then you will try damn hard to make sure they never forget it.Second tip is LISTEN ladies. If you are doing something right, believe me you will know about it.After that there are a heap of different things you can do as listed on the posts above. and remember what works for one guy wont work for the other.For example, i love to lay Mrs Rough on the edge of the bed and fuck her throat (Not to the excess as described by Tank Girl), but do love this position HEAPS. Especially when we role play, and Mrs rough starts playfully biting. This is generally my cue to slap her clit, or thrust a bit deeper as punishment. She also knows to NOT go near my ass as it is not something i enjoy!So listen ladies, and if you do not ABSOLUTELY LOVE giving head, then you will NOT leave a great impression!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Add to the mix ladies.... a glass of chilled water on one side....and a cup of hot tea on the other... .......his eyes will roll...
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RHP User
15 years ago
My hubby LIKES to be bitten and roughed up a little - I dont think you can go wrong if you follow facial cues and ask him what he likes... I get uncomfortable with the whole spit or swallow ettiquette.......
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RHP User
15 years ago
eye contact really does add the pleasue. and much more intense. for me the most sensitive part of my cock is, tip of my knob and the first two inch's to be honest i find alot of girls have the tendency to be a little rough while sucking balls please be gentle there lol. cookie.
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RHP User
15 years ago
what's with guys holding onto my earlobes? is it a more subtle encouragement than pushing on my head (cos they know that'll get them kicked out) or just a weird coincidence that about half a dozen men have done it? xx sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lets put some numbers to it: 5% of blow jobs I have received were awesome 30% I have come in your mouth 10% I have come on the face (thats fun) 80% of people tasting my come say that its delicious (I drink heaps of pineapple juice) 70% involved action during sex 25% of blow jobs are given to me while watching porn 10% include a finger in the bum 2% include a vibrator on my prostrate 35% are given to me in the standing position (and I like it when they grab the scrotum with the balls in the lower position like a money bag 35% are given while squeezing the base of my penis so I know there is lots of pressure 5% include teeth (sometimes I like the bite- and I am circumcised - see the pics) 70% of BJs include communication - moans by both parties and so on 40% is the level of balance I have in receiving BJ's (therefor 60% preference in giving oral sex)
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RHP User
15 years ago
that a mouthful of Coke can really intensify the sensation. Anybody tried this?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'rcflyer69'that a mouthful of Coke can really intensify the sensation. Anybody tried this? coke-coloured saliva would look a bit icky. Sparkling white wine or lemonade works a treat on both boys AND girls. I have a big pack of pop-rocks i'm dying to try out but no boys will let me. :( pussies! Quoting 'yeamateyea'Lets put some numbers to it: 73% of statistics are made up on the spot
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'rcflyer69'that a mouthful of Coke can really intensify the sensation. Anybody tried this? coke-coloured saliva would look a bit icky. Sparkling white wine or lemonade works a treat on both boys AND girls. I have a big pack of pop-rocks i'm dying to try out but no boys will let me. :( pussies! Quoting 'yeamateyea'Lets put some numbers to it: 73% of statistics are made up on the spot
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' what's with guys holding onto my earlobes? is it a more subtle encouragement than pushing on my head (cos they know that'll get them kicked out) or just a weird coincidence that about half a dozen men have done it? xx sarah Earlobes huh? Hmmm... that's kind of cute really... I mean.. they're shy! I suppose that's for extra leverage but they don't know where to grab... ... you know it could be a safety measure..... in case he falls over from all that knee shaking... in any case... this is why it's best to have a buddy .. you know... a spit roast buddy.... so you can lock arms for that extra leverage.. and spare the earlobes... HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'in any case... this is why it's best to have a buddy .. you know... a spit roast buddy.... so you can lock arms for that extra leverage.. and spare the earlobes..if i lock arms with you, how can i use my hands on his... ohhh... i see how it is. you don't want to be MY buddy *sniffle*
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RHP User
15 years ago
Assuming the soft drink/sparkling wine works wonders, I reckon poprocks would be even more intense. Still, I've yet to experience the bubbly, but if I liked it, I'd say yes to the poprocks..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Blow jobs are great, but would rather have a woman sitting on my face, 69 is better.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes a Blowjob is Great as She 'Finishes' Job!...always a Good thing that!...
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RHP User
15 years ago
great contributions here... thanks to all, but I have to say oral is just one part of the play - in my experience it has to fit into what you do, some ppl are plain vanilla, others more on kinky side ;-)with the few partners I had a BJ was usually a mutual thing - I go down and she goes down, some are better at it than others, but if it fits into your overall experience it is good... to me it should involve all 5 senses - so eyes for visual, sound for the moans and vibrations, and apart from touch there is the taste and smell - do not forget that...! If we are talking about oral in isloation we are taking it out of context of the full sexual experience where it belongs :-)Just a small note - I could perhaps count on one hand how many times woman made me cum in her mouth, it only really happens if she's really into it...
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RHP User
15 years ago
where to start really, i mean it's a technical art as much as giving cunnalingus :) no teeth is a must, sometimes just a tease for a stroke or 2 is ok, but it's not for the length of the session. i have had a few girls that have trouble taking in my member, which if they struggle i tell them to stop as i dont want to make them feel dissapointed, it's my length and girth not you ok :P apart from that while inside a girls mouth it's important they use their tongue to tickle and run against the end of a mans penis as thats where all the nerve endings are and creates absolute bliss during orgasm. i know that i can control my orgasm and almost suffer a shuddering fit as i come when a girl sucks me off, and i love it if they either swallow or just jerk me off all over their tits or myself doesnt matter, it's just like getting a royalty wank :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well here is what works for meLick my balls , use your fingers on them softly and also tug at the skin on them firmly but not to hard.Put your thumb and finger around the top of my cock and then when you slide your mouth down on the shaft then continue moving your hand down so it feels like its all inside your mouth.Nicer for you and well I dont want to hear my girl gagging.when you slide your fingers back up then push firmly but gently on the vein. The biggest turn on is some one who loves what they are doing. When I come just stop moving and hold your head on it.Dont rush off afterwards to wash out your mouth, just swallow it and then come and cuddle me
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RHP User
15 years ago
you've got it spot on. Nothing like a women moaning around your cock as she looks up into your eyes!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I always find if she tickles my sack at the same time as I'm about to cum it really makes it much more intense.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'rcflyer69'Not going to be of much help because BJ's just don't do it for me. Maybe I've never had a decent one, let alone one that was mind-blowing...I just don't know. Much rather be dining at the Y, personally. :-) I'm with you - they never really do it for me, but its good to enjoy the silence for a while ( jokes ladies :) haha ) I'd rather be giving than receiving
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me, a girl that REALLY enjoys doing it - moaning and eye contact included - does it for me. Oh, and no gag reflex helps too! ha!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We blindfolded aq guy once and there was no touching by him and he had to give a rating and guess which was which. Lol needless to say I won. I might just have inside info that gives me advantage . Talk to your lover. I notice most posts indicated NO teeth well if the guy wants he gets.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The teeth thing is ok for a moment but it quickly gets sore if they press into the same place. Also- when a chick can deepthroat and says something like "put your hands around my head. So long as you let me take a breath then you can go for it". Even if you don't have those skills just do it with enthusiasm. Don't just lay there and acquiesce to taking him in your mouth if he gets up on his knees and sticks it in your face. Be hungry for it. Want it. Surprise him with a bj when he's half. Way through doing the dishes. In the middle of the night or some other random time. Set up food experiments- explore how the taste changes every day as hebeats different foods. That's the sort of thing that makes an awsome bj
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RHP User
15 years ago
i dont lie to my chicks if it isnt good i tell them what to do and it all starts with alot of spit and you have to use the hand
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RHP User
15 years ago
C'mon girls, unless you're grating flesh with your teeth no man is going to say that you're going about it all wrong! To me blow jobs are like pizza's - when its good its great, when it's bad it's still good!! Keep up the good work gals. Steve.
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RHP User
15 years ago
A topic that will go round in circles but fun all the same. Lets face it girls, when it comes to giving head we are all basically on par when we get the same end result. When I feel my man about to cum, I try to stick my tongue as far into the eye of his penis as possible and make a sawing motion with my tongue across the opening as he starts to ejaculate. Sounds cruel? Try it and gauge the results. A word of warning, you'll have cum oozing everywhere - but isnt that what we want?
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RHP User
15 years ago
The best BJ's I have ever had did not involve spit or hands at all!We are all different! A woman who enjoys doing it will ask what is good for him and adjust her technique to suit, she will never need to be told!
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RHP User
15 years ago
As a man who actually loves and enjoys going down on a women correct me if I am wrong. Ladies if a man shows true attention, love and enjoyment going down on you would you enjoy that 100 x more than if he was doing it because he thought it was polite and it will get him sex? Its the same for a man well certainly for me anyway If a women actually loves going down on me and yes we can tell if your enjoying it or not then it will always be fantastic but as I said above if your doing it just to please the man your with then I can tell you now the man your with wont be thinking its great he will be telling you what you want to hear so he gets to the next step!!! CORRECT ME IF ANYONE THINKS IM WRONG!!! So the more eye contact, the more moaning, the wetter it is and the more suck it like you havent had one for years then the more you will blow my mind!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now THAT'S what I call "STAMINA" Guys!!! :-) (Ohhh & we girls too) Have loved reading all of your imput...some fun and interesting ideas & techniques for sure! But let's face it, what's there not to love about oral sex??? Both giving & recieving is of equal fun & joy to me! In fact, it's my Birthday today & I had a RHP friend come over for a fun morning...you could say I've had a VERY Happy Birthday - over & over again...Mmmmmmmmmm!!! HeeHee... ;-) So, one good deed deserves another....and I know he rode (he's a tri-nut) all the way home, with a huge smile on his face, which he still can't wipe off!!! How do I know that??? - he texted me to tell me! CUTE!!! :-) So everyone's a winner in this Triathalon race! :-) Enjoy everyone & hope you're all polishing (pardon the pun) up your skills as I type!!! Big smiles, JustJuicy :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok so many think they are great due to misleading males saying as you said "your great blah blah blah" rule 1... no teethrule 2.... its not a friggin lolli poprule 3... we have a shaft, stroke itrule 4... NO TEETHrule 5... cup the balls and massagerule 6... most of the nerves are on the head (maintain pressure or stimulation)rule 7... suction is great, just dont try to suck my brain out through my dickrule 8... gagging dosent turn me on (some blokes may like it, ask)rule 9... if you cant swallow say before hand, dont want you throwing up on merule 10.. only if you enjoy it
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RHP User
15 years ago
MissBJ - You've described the perfect BJ here. Hope to meet you sometime.Quoting 'MissBJ' First, I have you take your clothes off and lay on your back on the bed. Then I take off my clothes and crawl up between your legs, pushing them apart as I go. I slowly run my tongue up the length of your shaft, then back down again. I swirl my tongue over your balls. Then I go back to the shaft again, licking up, then using suction, I suck the head into my mouth. All this is hands free. As I hold your head in my mouth, I use my tongue to tease you right below the head, on that little sensitive string. Can you feel me humming?? Then I settle down on my haunches and bring my hands into play. With my right hand, I grasp your shaft, holding it firmly but not too hard. I get a good gob of spit and spit it onto your head, then use my hand to rub it all over, up and down. With my other hand, I cup your balls, jiggling them and gently squeezing them. Oh, they're too much to resist, so I release your cock from my mouth and lean down and take a nut into my mouth. I start to suck and tickle with my tongue. And hum. Mmmm.. Then onto the other one. Then if they're not too big, I'll put both in my mouth together. Then I'll push your legs up and my tongue will trail down, flicking your pereneum and going towards your pucker. I gently swirl my tongue around your ass, making you moan. All the while, my hand is wanking your cock, nice and firm and slow. Then I will sneak a finger down to tease your ass, get a good gob of spit on it, and gently slide it in, just a little bit, and wiggle it around. How do you like it?? Now my mouth goes back to your cock and I start sucking in earnest, using my hand and mouth in unison, my hand twisting to the right and my head twisting to the left. Got the suction going really good, and the spit production is in overdrive! I keep spitting out big loads of the stuff, keeping everything nice and wet and slippery. As I drive my finger deeper into your ass and start hitting the prostate, my speed on your cock increases and it's not long before you reach the point of no return. Where do you want me to take your cum? In my mouth? On my tits? Do you want me to keep sucking as you're cumming? Or stop? After you cum I slowly snake up between your legs, letting my tits drag along your body, and kiss you deeply.JMO....BJxxx
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Sigmalonewolf
15 years ago
Quoting 'PlayfulGuy2011' I apologize to you especially Salina, and as was just saying i have actually known dumbass fucking blokes who really do that kind of crap to women and i jumped the gun with it i'm more than sorry, i'm sure your man or whoever wouldn't do that atleast i hope you never experience it sweetie..... Lets just say i walked in on the situation not realizing what was happening, and when i seen this dickhead treating this young woman like a dog.....Put it this way i nearly went to prison because i got REALLY PISSED OFF..... AGAIN SALINA I TRULY APOLOGIZE AND I HOPE YOU CAN FORGIVE ME..... Playfulguy.....wow! i wish i had read the first page of this thread when it was current so i could point and laugh. you fucked up bad dude! and whats wrong with treating a woman a bit nasty if she likes it anyway? have you never been the master to the slave before????
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RHP User
15 years ago
Very nice mmmmmmmm
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'JustJuicy'So guys - let us hear your point (another pun it seems) of view!!!!! Big smiles, JJ :-)well when you have gotten the guy to release the treat for you and if it still stays hard you have done a top job if the guy has finished well ....the last time i had a girl on my rod that i will never forget about, she sucked and sucked 5 times i came in her mouth also i will never forget her , that was over 15 years ago and i tell you the way she got me off was to not only suck but to also blow with also the use on both the hands most of the sucking is done on the knob .you will find no matter who the guy is he will get off more than you think ,you ask for a guys post that has had the best blow job that he will never forget about well that's what i posted for I would be happy to give my stick to you , it will give out a treat when its finished but also will go right back up to being hard
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RHP User
15 years ago
sounds for me and eye contact during are definately important and most importantly the feeling that the girl is really enjoying it
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RHP User
15 years ago
Time for honesty here. NEVER had one.
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RHP User
15 years ago
yummy the below sounds fkn amazing Quoting 'xFunlovingx' That no guys have mentioned a girl moaning in pleasure as she has him in her mouth OR Eye contact! Eye contact I think makes the orgasm soooooooooo much more intense! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
the best blow jobs i've experienced are the ones where a girl just takes her time but the most awesome blowy i ever had was where there was a super quick change after getting a massively long blow job to her sliding her pussy straight onto my cock without me noticing at all.she did this by gradually lengthening out the time in between her having her mouth around my cock to hand stroking it to licking and back again to her mouth.i got so used to her doing that little routine for those few final minutes that i didn't even notice her position change until my cock was pushing into her as she slid down onto it.ya just can't coach that stuff.
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me its all about the girl doing it cos thats what she loves doing, nothing sexier than a girl that loves cock. I guess a blowjob is a great opportunity to show how much you love it, if ur not sure about it it definately shows, no matter how good ur tecnique is.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
i want focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Reminds me of a joke I heard recently. Describe the worst head job you've ever had. F@#$%^G Amazing!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
A little eye contact goes a long way....Definitely minimal teeth.Tickling the balls feels great, and then working them over with your mouth will send any guy over the edge.All add up to a very happy bj for me :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
A little eye contact goes a long way....Definitely minimal teeth.Tickling the balls feels great, and then working them over with your mouth will send any guy over the edge.All add up to a very happy bj for me :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Tease.I know it sounds odd, but tease us. If you build it up, it is so much more gratifying in the end.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The best BJ is done by two :PxxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Must say In my opinion blow jobs are OVERRATEDI am willing to be convinced otherwise....maybe Meeka you have the right idea about it being done by 2 ps btw like your new face pic Meeka....very Gidget like
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RHP User
15 years ago
So if I phone in an order... | Quoting 'Meeka100'The best BJ is done by two... | ...you deliver in 30 minutes or it's free, right? I called...and all the hot chick at the other end did was laugh and *snort*. | ...in time, on time, everytime or it's free.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' The best BJ is done by two :PxxMeeks Absolutely correct! One is great, 2 is amazing!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love being worked by hand first, then licked and a gal that looks at me for a period of time whilst she is going about her business is just awesome....precum on the tongue as she slowly pulls away gets me soo gosh darn hard..a girl that works me whilst sucking is a must..deep throat is also a pleasure indicating that she loves what she does and is INTO MEEEEEE A girly that loves giving oral- loves the power associated with giving absolute pleasure..so she takes her time to explore the difference between me and others...at the point of no return, I love being held and sqeezed gently NOT pulled like she is starting up a lawn mower...oh and guess what... I love being chewed at my base when it is engorged and at its thickest, a real mouthful, Many girls dont swallow so that is fine..but I love her face being near me as I cum. To be able to feel her heat...enjoy all
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me the most amazing Bj that I ever had was a long time ago and that is with no disrespect for any of the others I have recived after that but it was defiantly like being a 14yr old school boy all over again. The lady took her time with plenty of teasing with her mouth tongue and hands. There was plenty of eye contact and her soft moans made me feel as tho she was enjoying it as much as I was. I have has some pretty amazing ones after that but no one has ever CUM close to this. Agree deffently NO TEETH and not to sloppy there is a fine line between not enough saliva and way to much would guess its much the same for a woman when a man is going down on her last thing you need is the wet fish thing happening ,there has to be that connection between you both with eye contact and touch Oh and for the record not sure about any other men but my cock is not a 4 speed stick shift on race day so easy on the gear changes .
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RHP User
15 years ago
Using your hand is important, I love having my balls licked & sucked, which is why I keep them shaved. Eye contact is a huge turn on. A bit of rimming never goes astray.
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RHP User
15 years ago
In my opinion, of a few great bj's, in no specific order. Moaning - love the noise mad of someone else enjoying it. Eyes - need to share the feeling. Wetness - a wet , messy, ball dripping, slobbery, one. Ending - swallow or not, not stopping before it's ALL over. Reach round - if position allows, a finger deep, thumb clitoris rubbing, sharing the moment, handful. I'm done.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Suck on it like its the most delicious lollipop you have had, balls and all work it baby, work it, keep it wet, ENTHUSIASM, eye contact, slurping, licking, push that cock in as far as is comfortable, really that's it, you cant do it wrong. You would expect nothing less for your pussy right!!!If you find your man doesn't seem to enjoy that, don't despair, keep up the good work, the problem then lies with him, relax and let her do the work buddy, give her some encouragement, it will keep getting better.
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RHP User
14 years ago
never had a bad BJ, just some are better than others
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd say teasing the the guy slowly... building moisture (getting wet is another)Rhythm is important.. but something that works for me when Im down on a woman is feeling her build up and then tuning off.. do that a few times and that ensures a build up that u just wanna pop HARD!Work with the mouth (no teeth of course) then incorporate the hand into the rhythm.Work up and down the shaft, if the sack is hair free or to a minimum, then work your hand as your tongue works the nerves on the sack. Eye contact is important too...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Aussie_beef' And can I just say that jamming a cock down your throat in attempt to deep throat a guy doesnt feel good ladies...lol. i agree...my ex use to jam it down there and the feeling was terrible. If i was close it quickly went away...i didnt say stop i just flipped her over.! hahaha
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smo669
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' It seems to me that we are all told we are amazing at giving head. I guess that so long as we are lying there with cock in mouth it is the thing to say. I mean really...how many men are game enough to tell you to your face that you give a lousy blow job?There is no such thing as A LOUSY BLOW JOB
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RHP User
14 years ago
It all depends on the boss LOL Are they more bark than bite :) Do they often spit the dummy? And most importantly, do you both want to keep coming back to the job?? In the end it all comes down to enjoyment. Different people enjoy different jobs. And it goes the same for head jobs. Some guys like it soft and slow. Some like it fast and furious. And the same goes for girls as well. If you don't match, don't worry. Someone else is out there is waiting for you. If you enjoy getting or giving, just show it. Sight is the primary sense. If you see it, believe it!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmm for meLickingSucktionrimming, finger in the arseDoes it every time
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RHP User
14 years ago
It turns me on when the girl genuinely loves sucking cock. I love to hear her make noises of enjoyment/pleasure while she sucks me. I like lots of saliva and wet stroking in between. I love having my balls sucked, nerve racking to start with but now I just love it - my girl is so good at it and trust essential of course. If a girl wants to try deep throat and is not too good at it, so what the turn on is she wants to try something new. Help her, her determination to try is a turn on itself to me. I love the head being sucked with short, almost teasing, strokes on the shaft using only a couple of fingers - have blown a huge load this way as it kind of teases, it's not quite enough, but my girlfriend knows how to persist and drove me to the edge then blew me over it! She loved the load and shared it with me after, but while I was still having contractions.... :-) Love my arse being fingered as well while she is devouring my cock. Love her on her knees with her gorgeous arse in the air so I can look at her figure, run my hands over her arse, and finger her arse and wet pussy wholes she does me. Then its maybe time for me to 69 her... And spend a half hour on her big wet pussy... :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
If its for foreplay, don't make me cum, dont even take me close. Make it erotic, sensuous, nice. Use your hair, use your breasts, take me slowly and deeply into your mouth. Tickle my balls, use your breath, keep me hard. If you do this to me, I'll do it to you..... If, for whatever reason, you just want me to cum, then the headjob should have the same intensity as masturbation. Find a rhythm, and rhythmically pick up the intensity, as the breathing and moans start, then start pressing the erogenous zones. Lick my balls, stick a finger up my bum, make some noise yourself, pinch my nipples. Faster, harder, wild. If you do it right Im going to explode really easy. Reach inside of yourself for inspiration. How do you masturbate yourself?
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RHP User
14 years ago
am i the only guy who likes a bit of teeth? when i was younger i had a girlfriend that used a bit of teeth in there and while i normally don't care much about BJ's but that was awesome.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree... Standing up while she looks up at you is awesome... eye contact is a must Obvious confidence she has in her technique and what each lick, suck and touch does to me... when she gets right into it and obviously getting off on what her movements are doing to me....
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RHP User
14 years ago
i love when a girl moans or tries to talk with my cock in her mouth i can feel the vibration and its amazing ..and eye contact is a must huge turn on ;P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' That no guys have mentioned a girl moaning in pleasure as she has him in her mouth OR Eye contact! Eye contact I think makes the orgasm soooooooooo much more intense! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' It seems to me that we are all told we are amazing at giving head. I guess that so long as we are lying there with cock in mouth it is the thing to say. I mean really...how many men are game enough to tell you to your face that you give a lousy blow job? totally true, rule #1 dont make a girl feel bad when shes doing you a favour.
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RHP User
14 years ago
well what could i say, the last and best HJ i got was from my X on the last night. She wasnt so good at it but on our last big bang she did it right.Started with lots of nipple....licking, sucking and biting, than work her way down to the one eye snake, than she mouth and hand for a bit than lobed up back door, than with her hand rubbed the back of the head and at times lips and teeth as she did this over and over i came so hard than ever before was amazing. Now looking for some one to do it again
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting '12hot2touch' well what could i say, the last and best HJ i got was from my X on the last night. She wasnt so good at it but on our last big bang she did it right.Started with lots of nipple....licking, sucking and biting, than work her way down to the one eye snake, than she mouth and hand for a bit than lobed up back door, than with her hand rubbed the back of the head and at times lips and teeth as she did this over and over i came so hard than ever before was amazing. Now looking for some one to do it again a little bit of teeth is pretty fucking awesome. used to be my favourite but i got a new and naughtier favourite
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im only speaking on behalf of myself & Simo here, Im not ashamed to say that I've been rather promiscuous throughout my life as a male. I love sex, everything & anything to do with it i love, but i love it even more when i find a woman who loves it just as much as i do.So.......it'd be fair to say that I've had quite a few .........Gobbies.......(i love that term, lol).....in my time, some great, a few average, & a lot of poor ones, but i can only base that on my personal "likes & Dislikes", i can't speak for other men coz we all have different likes & dislikes. My partner Simo......well......without a doubt would have to be the best giver of Gobbies...(lol, sorry it makes me giggle wen i even think or type that word, i find it cute!, lol).... that i have ever encountered & I'm sure......im pretty bloody sure, that il never experience another Gobby..(lol)...quite like hers, maybe I'm a little biased, coz i love her guts out more than i have anyone else, so shoot me! But......for me.....she does it nice & wet, plenty of saliva, in fact she says my cock just makes her mouth drool uncontrollably . Her hand skills are perfect for me, starting of light & gentle & progressing to firm & FUCKING GREAT!........im not a well endowed man, just average, but wen she takes all of my Mr.Average down that throat of hers my eyeballs are like pokie machines & just roll around in their sockets........& then there are all the different angles she does it on.........between my legs, with her arse to the side, 69 position, which i love coz she has the hottest pussy I've ever seen or tasted...( theres that biased love again), me standing up with Simo on her knees, & i shit thee not, apart from seeing this only in porn movies.........ive never.....ever........had or been with a woman or partner who can pull off that look wen they have a mouthful of cock & look up at you with the most erotic, sexy, cock hungry, slutty, come fuck my mouth eyes the way she does, Fairdinkum, that drives me BONKERZ!.But.........she wasn't always this Fucking Great, wen we first met, it was pretty bloody average, its only as our love for each other has grown that I've been able to tell her of my likes & dislikes, being honest with each other, thats the key!.......im not proclaiming to have bought her all she knows, just wot & how i like it, the rest she just perfected on her own! So thus is my conclusion........i believe that if u have an amazing r'ship with a woman (sexualy) then there is no reason u should be getting average Gobbies...(lol).....but its a 2way bed.......u gotta go down on her like she is the best tasting lover u have ever had & be prepared to lick & suck & probe anything & everything with ur tounge, & Love & MEAN IT!.......u get what u give, that much i have learned. So......in answer to your question, (& my reply is sum wot very biased for which i do apologise), that is wot constitutes a mind blowing GOBBY...(lol).....for me, & only my Simo is capable of doing that to me in my eyes.But we are all very different, i hope this helps in sum way, just remember, try different things, ways, & be honest, don't be afraid to ask for it the way u like it, just don't "demand"it, be a gentleman & ask nicely, & if she gets it right, do not be afraid to compliment her on her new found skill, after all......its ur cock she has in HER mouth.........& thats no Mexican stand off, let me giv ya the tipp!
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RHP User
14 years ago
use the who shaft with you sucking from the base to the tip and once the head is nicely swollen suck the top like a lolly pop with your tongue licking all around the tip. You must enjoy it all no one wins.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ok, in reply to this "joke", it was obviously from a man who didn't get many at all! Imagine this if u can for a moment from a mans perspective......The penis does not moisten up on its own wen turned on, yes it gets hard, but moist....NO.....so in saying that could u imagine if ur pussy didn't get moist wen turned on & sum bloke going down on you with a DRY tounge & scraping his teeth on ur very precious & delicate pussy lips & rubbing & probing her with his very dry hands?........Yep you imagined right......not a very bloody nice thought at all.......so, id rather have no Gobby than a bad Gobby anyday, a bit like the old saying.......a good wank beats a bad root, hands down!......i rest my case!Quoting 'byesearcher' Reminds me of a joke I heard recently. Describe the worst head job you've ever had. F@#$%^G Amazing!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
ahh easy , go sllllooooowww, saliva, light touch in the same region , and eye contact is a winner, if nothing else to gauge enjoyment, maybe bit of handiwork right near the end then right down on it at the end , if their knees dont shake alittle , then it could have been better,and vocals, no mistaking that , i dont think many guys would bother making up an elaborate lie ,and hey , why not just ask the guy who is receiving ,they'll definitely tell you, communication is worth its weight in diamonds
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RHP User
14 years ago
I dont like any eye contact.. prefer that i watch them at work...and they show me how good they are at it Bernie
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RHP User
14 years ago
No teeth is good for a start..a friend of ours was a bit rough with her teeth!.Good sucking and some hand work at the same time...dont be to gentle!
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RHP User
14 years ago
i totally agree love when the guy looking down and rippled into my mouth
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was reading through the posts and noticed Irresponsibilities' comments about figure 8's which I think I get, but the whole reverse twisties?... It sounded like something that required 'phallus calisthenics' to do. So the ignoramous that I am, I got onto Red Tube and did a little research. After whiling away a few minutes viewing different 'performances', purely for research (winks) there it was, right in front of me... of course, the reverse twisty! Sliding the hand up and squeezing, then down the shaft while performing a firm twisting motion, while giving head... Yep, that's it and for the record while running a small census with close friends they all concurred. The reverse twisty rocks!See you learn something new every day!
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