F56

Women that cry.

February 01 2014

Do you enjoy having a good cry? Is it cathartic? Or is just me that has a good cry every now and then? Reason why I ask is that I have been out all morning today, grocery shopping, post office, chemist, etc and I remember why you should never do that on a Saturday. Anyway, after hours and hours I got home and I felt so exhausted I could barely walk up the stairs... soon as I walked in my door I started sobbing my heart out for about 10 minutes. I had no idea I was even going to do that. I rarely do the sob cry...... only when I have a high fever. But I am hoping I will perk up soon. But I though how nice it would be for someone to be here to cuddle me, except that I would probably have cried harder. So men........ how do you feel about women that cry? Does it freak you out? Does it make you feel uncomfortable, is it hard to understand? Is it weird that a woman can cry for no apparent reason?

Comments

Page 2 of 2 1 2

RHP User

12 years ago

Tears wash your sorrow Tears clear your vision Tears reveal your soul Tears help you smile Tears never lie Tears remind you your living Tears will wash your fears Tears will turn fears to love Tears are a sign of strenght. - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

Quoting 'SultryKnight' It is entirely natural to cry, both for men and women. My understanding is that it is the human bodies natural way of shedding excess hormone. Some cry, others go to the gym and many guys have a wank. All of these bodily secretions help us shed the excess to restore balance. I guess if us guys wanked less often we would cry more often too. A woman crying is completely understandable, speaking for myself it is only difficult because there is not always a discernible reason or course of action for us guys to take to make her feel better. I guess its just frustrating for us guys as there is nothing we can sometimes do to fix the problem we just need to realise that nothing may need fixing and give you a hug or simply hold your hand in silence. Foxy

reply

like
MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

come here you marshmallow and have a Foxy hug. XXX

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

as a man, I feel very uncomfortable when my partner cries, because i feel that i need to do something to resolve the anguish that has brought about the tears. and the worst is when she says 'please don't do anything' just be here! that means that there is nothing for me to fix and i am 'redundant' - or at least i feel that way.

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

I've found that since I had my third child I'm such a sooky lala! I will cry at movies - ooh the best tearjerker ever? Pay it forward. Omfg my big tough tradie husband even had a cry. But all that aside, crying is great for the soul. I like to cry in the shower. Big face screwing up sobs. I find it helps with the hangover. Never Be ashamed of crying ladies. Oh and for the guys. Just tuck her under your arm, brush her hair behind her ear and wait it out. :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

I had a couple glasses of wine , crawled into bed , wasn't feeling sad, turned on the radio, and a certain song came on and I lost it! I didn't just cry.... I sobbed my heart out ! Felt better for it! - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

Feeling a little blue this morning and feeling rather sad indeed, shed a little tear in the shower. Daughter flys out in 5 nights!! It's hard to hide tears sometimes. I don't want her to know or her see that I will miss her. It would just make her feel worse I reckon. Foxy JAY JAY - Hugs xxx

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

Well that is hot IMO. As long as she isn't crying from how bad it is ;) :D

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

Seriously guys are rendered utterly powerless by the crying.... how many times has a guy gone to break up with a girl then caved as soon as the crying starts!? "I didn't mean it! Let's stay together forever, and have children, lots of children! Of course I'll give your Dad a kidney, just stop crying!" Anyway here's a little secret......guys cry too, although usually at totally inappropriate moments like watching a cheesy commercial or listening to 'Everybody Hurts' by REM, or watching Mitchell Johnson take 5 for 27. I had a friend who burst into tears during the Simpsons episode where Homer puts up a collage of Maggie spelling out 'Do It For Her'. Crying is great, releases endorphins, makes you feel all warm and fuzzy

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'KlixenFan'I had a friend who burst into tears during the Simpsons episode where Homer puts up a collage of Maggie spelling out 'Do It For Her'. Me too!

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'ShyPrincess74' Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'KlixenFan'I had a friend who burst into tears during the Simpsons episode where Homer puts up a collage of Maggie spelling out 'Do It For Her'. Me too! Me three ... and "Everybody Hurts"? Pass the tissues. Guess that leaves the Cricket as the point of difference! Something about the buildup of tension over several days, finally breaking through, almost like It's a metaphor for something.....hmmm....

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'ShyPrincess74' Mmmmmmmmm, metaphors .... Erotic Metaphors..... Meta 'Phwoaaaars'!? :D Sorry, cheesy... and off-topic!

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'ShyPrincess74' My favourite kind. ;-) Well that's almost a week trying to think of a sexy metaphor..... howzabout a creature that needs something desperately but only at the expense of that It truly loves...? Fresh!? btw Didn't Anne Rice write a whole pile of books which are essentially 50SOG, I seem to remember one about an island.....and didn't the Marqis de Sade pen a few manuals along similar lines!?...

reply

like
MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

I had a frustration little cry yesterday to my mum. Due to such a effin shitty shitty week where nothing seemed to go right. One thing after another and the build up of it all and then to top it off my shoulder. I'm so frustrated that I feel useless, cause I can't do much like pegging out he washing or stacking the dishwasher. It's those little things, I can't do that build up my frustration tears. And lack of sleep due to discomfort, thank god for Pharmaceutical drugs! Foxy on the road to recovery. :)

reply

like
MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

When there are others out there in worse off situations,than myself. HUGS and thinking of to those who are. Foxy XXX

reply

like
RHP User

12 years ago

I started the usual way, and listened to some music which started me bawling. Then I had a huge piece of chocolate cake for brekkie. It's amazing how much better I feel now. It must be all of those endorphins. Apparently chocolate releases the same endorphins as sex. Now I'm going for a long walk to think about chocolate and sex. HUGS xxx

reply

like
sweetgem

12 years ago

I won't say that I enjoy crying, whether it be a brief or long one, because the after-cry headache hurts my head like as if I got hammered lol but I do cry so hard to the point where I get instant headache when my stress level reaches its maximum. However, I do use cry to de-stress occasionally and it always helps to get that tension out of my mind :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

I shed a few happy tears today when I had to say farewell to a special someone, who I know when I see them next will be a totally new person. I disliked driving home (having some quiet reflection time) my sunnies kept fogging up. So I removed them...GRRRRRR!! I can post "tears of happiness", in here, can't I?? Foxy

reply

like

Page 2 of 2 1 2

Women that cry.

Comments

Tags

Boards

Forum help