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To the girls size 14+
July 19 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
hehe you youngin's are funny... sounds to me like Nick_Wilde is going to Brisbane for the weekend. :p HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hahaha great... dont tip toe around my feelings or anything... Good to know
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's sad and it's toxic self-talk. I doubt you'll have a very enjoyable night unless you make a concerted effort to look at yourself in the mirror on the way out the door and LOVE what you see. If you measure your self worth through the eyes of anyone else but you, you're setting yourself (and the lovely guy who's looking forward to meeting you) up for failure! I hope you both have a fantastic night. Between now and then, practice smiling and saying thankyou to everyone who pays you a compliment. Especially Nick *eyeroll*Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate_08 you pay absolutely no attention to them. Nicky, glad to see you have not lost that sarcastic edge you funny man. No I never feel as if I am not good enough. l I Know I am good enough for anybody! No question about it. l In the beginnig I did think like that yes but then I had 15 years of conditioning by a master manipulator ) and the very first man I met (after a 20 year relationship and 2 1/2 yers on my own was absolutely gorgeous, a few years younger than me, fit and very much the gentleman. He knocked off work at 3 in the afternoon and drove 550 kms just to spend the night with me. Drove home again the next morning. We are still great friends 15 months later. l Size 14 is average so please stop putting yourself down. It is about confidence and obviously yours has taken a battering or else you would not be thinking like that at all.
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
Even when you're not size 14.I could have a rant about the media and societal expectations and the exponential increase of confidence and body issues in children but I'm sure we've all heard it before.I can't answer for anybody else, but if I like a person I find them attractive. If I think somebody is attractive it doesn't mean I will like then and it definately doesn't guaruntee I will sleep with them.HTHCheers,MS(the female half)PS - my size is debatable depending on which part of my body I'm trying to clothe...
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RHP User
14 years ago
now i know why woman r careful with men they meet on here With comments like nicks who is all of 25 and thinks his got wisdom comming out of his mouth by what he wrote Kate dont listen to negtive empty head people here or out there We all come in different packages but that doesnt make who we r If u have confidences in who u r and u have a great up beat personality then it does'nt matter what u look like And as far as nick say he just wants to get his end wet no matter what u like like dont take notice the day i start listening to a 25 year old who has been on this earth for a heart beat will be the day pigs fly go out girl take the world on and be happy and proud of who u r
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate most men I know prefer their women with a bit of meat on them, that way they have something to hold on to. Size 14 is average for most women, so please believe in yourself, you are beautiful on the outside and the inside. If the guy doesnt like you it is his loss. Personality is far more important. If he's not the one keep looking.
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RHP User
14 years ago
... too much chafing You're beautiful. I peeked at your profile and you are, every bit of you. And I say that knowing that I'm too old and 717 km in the wrong direction. Just accept the complement. Don't talk yourself out it. He could actually be the guy who will like to have sleep overs with you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I dont know what all the fuss is about... I mean.. look at that tittie. I'd tap that girl no questions asked. It's amazing... damned if we do.. and damned if we don't.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
We agree Stalky, send her over here after you're finished with her!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'We agree Stalky, Erm... me too. . C'mon Kate - seriously, this place has had it's share of 'I'm too fat' threads but I think you'd be struggling to be accepted into fat camp. And even if you were - there's plenty of people who find a positive, self-confident attitude way sexier than a flat tummy. Sure, there might be a selection of men who are happy to just get their dicks wet. Whether the guy you're meeting is one of them is something you'll have to suss out for yourself... But going on your profile pics, he's more likely to be put off by a self-doubting attitude than that body
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RHP User
14 years ago
Don’t beat yourself up 14 isn’t the end of the world .. if your happy with yourself that is all that matters. And for Little Nicky well I must admit I enjoy his comments they are rather funny but ignore that shit he is harmless
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RHP User
14 years ago
hey sweety .........let your hair down !! make yourself feel sexy with new lingerie and go for it !! im a size 22 and many men love da curves !! .....you need to be confident and know what you want and men will love it!! many men will approach wanting to get there soo called dicks wet ....... but there not all like that !! enjoy your nite :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Men do not do skinny girls because they just dont feed you. If you go out with a "little dumpy lass" ( his words not mine ) at least you know you are gonna get fed! l I guess that cuts both ways doesnt it. More cushion for pushin'
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree with JG - your attitude is more likely to cause you problems than your body is. You don't show any self-doubt or lack of confidence in your profile though - perhaps this is just a short-term crisis of confidence? If so, put it out of your head - that sort of thinking will get you nowhere.
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
They are only numbers which people use as a tag. Just like many judge by age, many also judge by size without looking into the person within. ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'kate_08'Hahaha great... dont tip toe around my feelings or anything... Good to know Confidence in yourself comes and goes, especially depending which area of your life you need it in. The media is a bitch and slaps our confidence down as we aren't all size zero, six foot lollipop heads! Go to the Secret Womens Business and read the forum, "What do you consider a 'bigger girl'?" You will find many of us silly females often experience a crisis of confidence, doubts set in, you only see your flaws blah blah My first RHP experience, i have to say my confidence came and went, and when it went it wasn't good.... *cringe* I soon realised that I was controlling my confidence, my behaviour and had control over whether I was going to dive in and go for it like a rockstar (alchol helps) or have anxiety attacks and think too much and act like an amature tool! My advice is, less thinking, MORE ACTION, no hesitation, works for me anyway. I figure you are both there giving each other an experience, you may as well give it all you've got, save the doubts for later, remember that it is a 50/50 thing, you both equally deserve to feel HAWT and be treated like the sexy horny devils that you are (getting excited now...) When's ya date, wanna bring a friend?
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RHP User
14 years ago
hi as for 14+ i dont care what the size but hay 14 and up is nice i do like a lady that can hold make it so nice to spoon with but yer you are right some guy just try to get a meet just to see what they can get as they think becase it is sex site that they will get them some but some guys on here are nice guy some like to chat some like to watch as for me well yer i have meet 5 lady off rhp and have only sleep with 2 of them and 2 of them has turn out to be real good mate,s and one is like sis to me so any way 14+ to me is a good thing as do like a lady cuddle tipe body
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's Not just the Body kate you have Much much more to offer and the right blokes would know that . if they dont just tell em to F### right off. BBW are Gorgeous 2
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think we all have something up our sleeve that we rarely consider...and the only way I can describe it is "presence". The only way we ever experience this is person to person....it may be a quirky smile, the way you laugh, the sound of your voice or even simply how you move. From what I see in your profile...I am sure you will be just fine, great in fact. | Come back to this thread and read it after the fact...it might look a lot different then. | And as for Nick....nice work. Turning him down 99 times may have really worked to your advantage. | ...carpe dium.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Have some self confidence girl!! (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
:) if Kate wants a threesome :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate you look wonderful I'd love to be a size 14 actually I'd love to be a size 10 right now.Accept your beautiful body.I have so much stress in my life right now I'm now size 8 its not a good look.Close friend of mine told me I'm withering away to nothing. I've hit 52 kilos I'm 5ft0 you can count my bones sticking out. I eat heaps of junk food to stay at a decent weight now thats not working and of course I feel like crap now I'm just eating healthy food which is making me feel better but my weight is getting lower.Love your curves ladies I want mine back.Healthy body with curves is beautiful, oh any spare fat just send it my way I'm not game to post pics of my body right now I look like a boy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
No one should ever feel like they are a disappointment and should definitely never ever stay with someone who makes them feel like that.You are hot Kate, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You live in the wrong city but are hot.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nick, it's "c'est la vie".ChasingMidnight: it's "carpe diem."Kate: You're fucking hot.0_PedanticHorse_0 over and out.x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ah that's why my guitar playing sounds like crap, I have the presence knob turned down too low..should make it all better now lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Of course Mr. P it could just be that your plectrum is too floppy. I like a nice firm one...and always keep your thumb ready to hit the harmonic and make her scream when you are running the neck right up to the top frets.|Then again...I bought Tiger Woods golf clubs and I still play crap golf. I wrecked my damn car too.|I hate golf.
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RHP User
14 years ago
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow09'Nicky .. you need to post more comments .. there so good to read .... Absolutely riveting. *raises eyebrow* Kate - Pretty sure we sent you a flirt when we first joined... I highly doubt you don't get attention from the other sex, or same sex for that matter... Work on your confidence... Confident women are sexy as fuck. (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
You're right albeit anal enough to peel a grape... | Quoting '0_DarkHorse_0' ChasingMidnight: it's "carpe diem." | I meant to say....yo prefiero aprovechar el culo de la chica y tirarse al suelo y su mierda. If she says "yes"...you can help. I always have strived for self improvement, thanks. Besides...this nice guys shit has never suited me anyway. |
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RHP User
14 years ago
"...Psychopaths lack a sense of guilt or remorse for any harm they may have caused others, instead rationalizing the behavior, blaming someone else, or denying it outright. Psychopaths also lack empathy towards others in general, resulting in tactlessness, insensitivity, and contemptuousness. Psychopaths can have a superficial charm about them, enabled by a willingness to say anything to anyone without concern for accuracy or truth..." - Wikipedia entry on Psychopathy
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' You're right albeit anal enough to peel a grape... | Quoting '0_DarkHorse_0' ChasingMidnight: it's "carpe diem." | I meant to say....yo prefiero aprovechar el culo de la chica y tirarse al suelo y su mierda. If she says "yes"...you can help. I always have strived for self improvement, thanks. Besides...this nice guys shit has never suited me anyway. | Yep. Boredom brings out the tedious in me...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey Sweetie in case you haven't noticed, most of the people on here have outdated profiles and pics much thiner or younger than they are in reality.I'm a size 16 (pushing 18) and have only ever had rejection even in a message, none to my face (what they think when they go home I have no idea but many have come back for more!) The one rejection was an asshole who was a gym junkie and quite frankly was after a female version of himself, I never claim to be something I'm not, and if this site has done anything for me - it's boost my confidence that I'm sexy no matter what size is on my tag!!Have a great time with this guy and don't stress, if you've been honest then I'm sure he'll be THRILLED with his catch!!Bin
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' I can't honestly remember the last time I had sex with a girls' personality, That is a good point actually. That's why I am way more interested when someone says 'she's a bit.. erm... well ... large, but has a great smile'
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RHP User
14 years ago
Boredom huh? Well Darkhorse, I beat you to this one and man, if this works...|Quoting 'foreverlove7985'Confident women are sexy to fuck. (MRS)...no arguments from me, young lady. Want to see my stroganoff, little girl? |Sorry, old boy...you're on your own from here.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Want to see my stroganoff, little girl? | *ahem* I'm not liking the whole 'Little girl' thing... (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
just checked ur profile kate_08 and you are fine. personally for me it comes down to whether you have a sexy or ugly personality. from ur pics i would definately give you every inch of my love :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow09'Nicky .. you need to post more comments .. there so good to read .... Nicky .. your spot on ...
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RHP User
14 years ago
All you need as a woman on this site..... is to know what you want.... self respect and a kick arse attitude. You are as good as the next person... Get out there... Live life...... and Be happy being you... xxxxxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
For a longer ride.... go wide?????
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RHP User
14 years ago
For a 25yo guy you do have some wisdom Nick. Thanks for your entertaining insights buddy. :)And Katie .....you look gorgeous....nice gentle curves in the right places. I'm a Zumba instructor and I get to meet women of all shapes and sizes. I've also dated a stick insect and a curvy girl, and I must say the curvy girl was far more attractive and great in bed. The stick insect is obsessed by weight and does 2 gym classes a day and worries about having a female butt. She thinks looking like a 12 year old boy is attractive. But she is so wrong. Men generally tend to like a bit of boob and booty....just look at Beyonce or J-Lo. Stunning ladies.Having said that a very overweight girl also isnt that attractive to me.....not just becaiuse of the extra unecessary weight, but beacuse of several other reasons....very big women tend to be very unhealthy, eat the wrong foods, will suffer bad health as they grow older, and tend to be lazy ...especially in bed.So Kate dont worry about yourself. Keep fit, stay healthy, but enjoy your beautiful body too. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm as guilty as anyone. I have always been attracted to girls size 8, 10 and 12. I recently met a girl who was probably size 14-16 had a really great night chatting. We agreed to meet for another date and well one thing led to another and I have realized I can be very shallow. Lovely girl, lovely evening and looking forward to more
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RHP User
14 years ago
they really need to add a like button for some of these comments
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate_08 I'll have you
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RHP User
14 years ago
The answer to your question actually lies within you!! But yes, sometimes Mrs Cheeky feels like she's not "up to scratch"!! You and her are both NUTS!!! LOL But to be honest I (Mr) LOVE size 12-14 girls!! Size 8's are good to look at but actually hurt!! If you need some help with your self esteem, we will be in Sydney in a week or so?! Pop down and we will make sure that you feel worshipped like the super sexy lady you are ;-) Dan n Kristie xxxxxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im also a plus size girl, and one thing you should learn to do is love your body. Ur pic is hot! And there are men out there who like women with curves. I have been everything from a size 6 - 18 and i found that more men wanted my attention when I had the curves. keep it in mind
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GezWouldGo
14 years ago
I prefer the term .......... fully ripened, Kate !
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sammilling
14 years ago
Kate size 14 is no problem at all a very health size if you ask me.Its not how or what a person looks like thats important ,its whats on the inside that counts personality etc.Girls please dont put yourself down.Kate i looked at your profile pics and realy you are very good looking lady go out have fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate, I am currently a size 18-20 and 39yrs old. I have various scars from many operations all over my body, and yet I still manage to get guys interested in me all the time from as young as 18yrs to 60yrs. I WISH I WAS A SIZE 14 WITH YOUR BODY GIRL THE WORLD IS YOUR OYSTER - SO ENJOY IT YOU ARE ONLY YOUNG ONCE! Just remember, beauty comes from within. What you feel on the inside is what will show on the outside. Be CONFIDENT, and Proud of what you have and who you are as these qualities are what Most Men find attractive and Sexy in a woman. Sure the physical side counts too, but if you look after yourself with good hygiene, keep your hair nice, wear a little makeup and Sexy underwear put it all together with a Sexy Attitude, Confidence and a Pretty Smile.... then they will be like putty in your hands. Good luck babe xoxo
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've asked myself the same question over and over again. I always feel self conscious when a woman or couple wants to meet me because half the time I feel like I wouldn't meet their "standards". I am always comparing myself to other women and wish I was skinnier and prettier but I'm not so I just accept the way I am (most of the time anyway lol)Some people can be really choosy plus shallow especially if they are very attractive and are gym freaks so it makes others feel like shit and like they won't make the cut. But to them, I won't even give them a second look because I know I can find someone who is a lot nicer and not so judgemental.Hope he treats you well kate =)Dalli
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey Kate, don't have so many self doubts or body worries your a lovely girl love your profile photos and if anyone is that shallow that looks alone matter well kick them into touch. There are plenty of us guys out there who love a fuller figure on a woman, stay positive your a GREAT catch for some lucky fella, good luck in your search and remember the thrill is in the hunt not the kill. Michael
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RHP User
14 years ago
Amazed more guys are not being honest with themselves or the other members. Come guys, who does not love some curves. It is feminie, it is sexy. Dig deep into that basic animal instinct and most guys should find they are consciously or not, attracted to round and soft. It is what gets the chemicals stirring in the brain, and the blood elsewhere. A very basic concept - good size hips and body represent ‘good breeding’ which sets the signals in the brain of men going. Maybe, maybe not. Don’t forget we men also get uncomfortable turning up to meet someone when we are overweight. We don’t have a basic psychology concept to justify the shape. The tide is turning and unless fully shaved and buff, I feel inadequate. Almost embarrassed. Enough advertising and media showing this style of man, giving the impression, this is what women want. So don’t forget guys can feel “bad for (her) that (she) is going to be getting me.” Perhaps being honest with each other from the start is the key. Why play along if you don’t genuinely find the person attractive. I would rather here that straight up and know to move on. It may be that more mature guys are more honest and less pressured by the men’s magazine advertising and or teasing by mates, rather than it is all they can get. It is most likely that (the feminie curves) are exactly what they want. Kate_08 - the fact you brought the topic up suggests a sensitive caring side to you. That and the wonderfully sexy look. Lucky lucky guy you choose in life. Best of luck for your weekend. So long as the weight is healthy, bring on the curves. Can’t help myself, love a nice round arse. That and eyes. Separate topic.
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RHP User
14 years ago
if you feel sex you will be sexy. it all about how u see yourself. when im out i always strut cause it makes me feel sexy. i really done give a shit what people around me think cause they probably wont get me anyway
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RHP User
14 years ago
Are you serious Kate? Come on girl you look lovely to me. Hold your chin up boobs out & go get the lucky guy. If he aint the one then plenty more will want you thats for sure, have belief.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I LOVE 14+...!
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RHP User
14 years ago
even tho im curvy i get nervous n think if i meet a chick off here that they only want skinny grls but guys usually like curvy gurls theyre more cuddly.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's just one of those damn yank slang things again....ma'am. We tease around a fair bit and if you said "Want some candy, little boy" ...chances are I would wash you car and mow your lawn for you. Quoting 'foreverlove7985' *ahem* I'm not liking the whole 'Little girl' thing... Just on 10 years in this country and I am still not sure whether to say "G'day cowboy" or "Howdy, mate". | Oh well...time to take my marinated tenderloin of baby beef and Maine lobsters off to another beach party. Draggin' my eskie full of Corona's and tequilla behind me.... | Does being a suck up help at all?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jas10119' Amazed more guys are not being honest with themselves or the other members. Come guys, who does not love some curves. Erm.... are we reading the same thread?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'jas10119' Amazed more guys are not being honest with themselves or the other members. Come guys, who does not love some curves. Erm.... are we reading the same thread? I agree with JG. I prefer a slim body to curves and the OP obviously recognises that plenty of men feel the same way - that's why she's suffering her crisis of confidence. Given that the guy she's seeing this weekend knows what she looks like, I doubt if she has much to worry about. In the longer term though, OP, if you're not happy with yourself, then change it. Plenty of us have been through the same thoughts and process.
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RHP User
14 years ago
ahh.. very very nice!!!
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blackie251
14 years ago
Looking at your profile Kate I know why he's meeting and it's got nothing to do with 'settling' Your gorgeous so he's lucky. My ex was a size 20, was all about personality and her eyes. Size means nothing. Oh and 14 is average not big.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate..I felt saddened reading your post...I guess because I can recognize that sense of self-doubt and inadequacy that you seem to be feeling about yourself....I have felt like that in the past too. Try to curb such negative and critical self-evaluations... they are so damaging and will only hold you back from truly connecting with people, letting go and enjoying yourself. As others have said...attraction involves so much more than body size, shape etc...and at the end of the day there is nothng more sexy that a curvaceous woman who is confident, unnhibited and self-assured... your attitude about yourself will have more of an impact on how much others find you attractive or desirable than your size alone... You need to feel sexy to be sexy! I am a bigger girl too and my partner has a much slimmer build than me...he adores me and thinks I am the sexiest woman alive - he loves my body and me!
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RHP User
14 years ago
kate im definately 14+. size 24 in fact, and im upfront right from the start i am who i am and if a guy likes what he sees we'll have a fantastic time and if he doesnt, then its his loss. i let them know that i dont magically turn into a size 10 when i get the gear off and its the ones that dont care that are the ones i wanna meet. ur a hot girl so just have some confidence babe, there is nothing more sexy!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hells bells Bella .... as a sexual person i just love to be with another similar minded person who digs their own sexual being, needs,wants and desires...and who is totally non judgemental.... so Big!, Small or inbetween doesnt come into it..... as long as there is that much touted spark !!!!!.... it's all good from there on ...... Enjoy your self gal!!!!
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Socsio
14 years ago
What a boring world it would be if we were all the same........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chicks with curves are hot!! There is nothing wrong with curvy ladies :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Two of the hottest sexiest types of girls... and hopeless without curves!I LOVE your curves. He's was a lucky lucky guy to have won your affections.
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Cut3Cpl3
14 years ago
Kate_08 a couple of points to add...A - Your hot, and we can tell very playful. ;)B - Yes the standard society 'stock image' of a woman does have a particular description, but that image is simply there so that guys associate sex with the product that they are being sold, and are thererfore more likely to buy it. If you think about it, its almost embarassing that advertising companies have to make it that bleedingly obvious in their ads!C - Contrary to what alot of woman think, many men LOVE curves and shape over skinny minnies! D - As others in this thread have suggested, take a moment to love yourself! Yes you can take that as meaning to masturbate, but think about how awesome your life is, and how great your friends are. Enjoy the journey and dont get so hung up on the destination!Go and have a blast babe, and if the guy/girl/couple disses you for not fitting some particular mold then you have picked the wrong person/people to play with XOXE + S
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was a walking skeleton a couple years back and I'm now a very proud size 14 bottom and 16 top (have the fit the puppies in!). If anything I'm getting much more attention now than I ever did when I was stick thin! Go out treat yourself to some rocking clothes, some new lingerie, put your shoulders back and find that inner sex kitten, you'll find that you will never want for a hot body in your bed cause there'll be a line outside your door!
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RHP User
14 years ago
honey, in my opinion there are two things you can do.... a) stand in front of the mirror naked, and keep looking at yourself, observe your body...and learn to love the beauty about you...everyone is beautiful in their own way, regardless of their size...and there always be people who are attracted to exactly what YOU ARE..... b) if that doesn't work for you, and you just can't bring yourself to loving yourself for who you are, no matter how hard you try...if you keep judging yourself ...well, then get your stuff together, and start getting your sexy ass down to the gym... your body shape is not set in stone, and with a little effort and dedication you can easily achive the body YOU WANT, and feel comfortable in.... the one thing you shouldn't do, is sit around and beat yourself up, feeling bad about yourself, and bring yourself down...life is too short for that, babe... that is only my humble opinion though.....:) for what it's worth, i think you are hot...
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RHP User
14 years ago
my wife is a size 14 to 16 and i cant get enough off her lovely body. i love it and think it's fantastic.
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RHP User
14 years ago
But hunny if you ever choose to turn bi, hell put me on the top of your call 1st list
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RHP User
14 years ago
...that there are so many people here that take the time to post such beautiful words of encouragement, understanding and helpful advice for an OP. Mwah! OK, guilty... too much wine, a little sloshed... But it does amaze me how a sex site can actually provide real help to individuals on so many levels that they wouldn’t be comfortable raising in their day to day life. Offer lots of education, with no question being too much and blatant dirty talk/flirting etc The forums can have all the good stuff sometimes! I guess I was just especially glad that this topic didn’t get sabotaged as it initially looked like it was being derailed by the bullshit some people thoughtlessly post thinking they are smart and funny, disregarding that the OP genuinely has a real need for being given respect and constructive answers to their question/ topics. Just because many have heard it all b4, shouldn’t give licence for such heartless/sarcastic smart arse statements that belittle the OP and steal the show... I just cringe when it seems to me that someone is trying to figure stuff out, puts themself out there and isn’t shown the respect that they deserve. Bugger... this post was meant to be loving the warm fuzz, i guess i am still a little stuck on how some peeps cop it just for some twisted peoples amusement...
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RHP User
14 years ago
we believe plus size is the "real woman" and real woman know how to do it and know what they want
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RHP User
14 years ago
I couldnt have said it better myself Dalli, you took the words right out of my mouth. Hailz1/2 Quoting 'Dalli1989' I've asked myself the same question over and over again. I always feel self conscious when a woman or couple wants to meet me because half the time I feel like I wouldn't meet their "standards". I am always comparing myself to other women and wish I was skinnier and prettier but I'm not so I just accept the way I am (most of the time anyway lol)Some people can be really choosy plus shallow especially if they are very attractive and are gym freaks so it makes others feel like shit and like they won't make the cut. But to them, I won't even give them a second look because I know I can find someone who is a lot nicer and not so judgemental.Hope he treats you well kate =)Dalli
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RHP User
14 years ago
Regarl Quoting 'xxTRIPSxx' All you need as a woman on this site..... is to know what you want.... self respect and a kick arse attitude. You are as good as the next person... Get out there... Live life...... and Be happy being you... xxxxxxx kate_08, rest assured there is nothing wrong at all with size 14 and your profile pics look good. No need to worry yourself as a lot of men like a women to feel like woman.As xxTRIPSxx has said "self respect and a kick arse attitude" which dead-on and this is all you will need. After reading this thread, you should be feeling a whole lot better aboutt yourself.Have a great time.
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Robo355
14 years ago
Younger people don't appreciate a woman with a fuller figure generally. Personally anorexic women with no boobs or booty are no match for a voluptuous woman. Marylyn Monroe and Sophia Loren were both size 14 or a good 12 at least. I adore plus size girls. My trouble is lately I've personally put on a little weight over the last year or so and I find the BBW out there less interested in me than a slim muscular guy. Double standards seem to apply.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just had a look at your profile pics and I think you're hot as. If you were in Melbourne I'd go you in a heartbeat. I'm sure the lucky guy you're meeting feels the same way! Chin up girl, that sexy body deserves your love..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey Kate, I would just like to say I understand ur worries but please don’t think of it again. If you have self confidence and love yourself then men do too. It’s that simple. I am a size 14 and have never thought of myself as overweight. Though I know sometimes it is hard to stay positive. Most men prefer curves and the rest aren’t that picky anyway lol. Keep fit be healthy and happy. And FYI Marilyn Munroe was a size 14 :) from A. xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I havent seen kate post for a long time, but I hope she got some good advise and her "date" went well I am a very large BBW, so I know what it's like to self doubt yourself with people. Society (tv, mags etc) seems to dictate the way we should be! I have always been a large person, never slim, but after all these years I decided this is the way I am meant to be - take me or leave me lol. A recent survey showed men prefer women with "meat" on their bodies. Something to hold onto I had up to recently a wonderful FWB who was gorgeous slim and worked out at a gym, but he wanted me!!!!! At first I thougth why and I asked, it was the person inside he saw not the physical. Wish there were more men like him out there that dont look at the physical when meeting. There are lots of shallow people out there who have a type they prefer,but won't give other types a chance. *** its nice to be important - but its more important to be nice***
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RHP User
14 years ago
size 14 girls are the way to go love my girl she is a size 14 curves in all the right places, you have nothing to worry about its very sexy
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey guys... Thankyou so much to everyone who posted such positive things ive been going through and reading them and I really appreciate everything that has been said :). I didnt end up meeting that guy on the weekend cause he turned out to be a douche which im fine with, glad I found out before I met him. Now gives me a chance to try and find some nice guy who is genuine.... xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well hello boys..... :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
...one of the sexiest girls ive had the pleasure of spending the time with was a size 14 with a 12B bra size:-) and still she has my vote as the best proportioned female ive eva come across;-P in more ways than one lol....women that have curves are absolutely the reason i am a full blooded male
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just wishing you luck for the future, it was lucky you didn't get stuck with a douche. For the record you don't need to worry about what size you are, I'm a 14 too but I embrace it and love my body. Sure there are things I'd like to change and am slowly getting there but in the mean time I embrace what I have and do the best with it! I did have a low self esteem a while back but it was nothing a good outfit, hair cut and glass of wine couldn't fix.You have a great body from what I see in your profile, and for the future go in with an attitude that you're a sexy, amazing person and then thats what he'll see. Hope that helped in some way Mon
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RHP User
14 years ago
kate you obviously have no shortage of guys more than happy to go hard for ya. if i was in brisbane i would ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
As a BBW, I do prefer a stocky build, but not a guy with a big beer belly. I have had sex with plus size guys and find with me being big, and them being big, it is a little more difficult to get into different positions then if the guy or girl was smaller. But in saying that, I do not like skinny guys as I feel like I would break them. I like guys around the 80 to 100kg mark.And huni, you are HOT!! I would have you any day :P Quoting 'ozzielobster' Younger people don't appreciate a woman with a fuller figure generally. Personally anorexic women with no boobs or booty are no match for a voluptuous woman. Marylyn Monroe and Sophia Loren were both size 14 or a good 12 at least. I adore plus size girls. My trouble is lately I've personally put on a little weight over the last year or so and I find the BBW out there less interested in me than a slim muscular guy. Double standards seem to apply.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some people like skinny and other people like fuller figured, each to their own. There are plenty of men (and couples wink!)who love fuller figured ladies. Best to keep looking for those you are compatible with and who treat you with respect. Nice pictures by the way, I would say don't change a thing!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'kate_08' I didnt end up meeting that guy on the weekend cause he turned out to be a douche Hi Kate, I'm brand new to this site (profile not complete) and was drawn to your thread. I think you've received alot of very well meaning and also very good comments here. However, I think most of them have missed the mark. As I read your post and compared then to your replies, I kept thinking that they weren't really addressing the reality of your question. I think your quote above proves that you have good instincts....at the time of making this thread you may not have known it though and you just interpreted your feelings as self doubt or whatever. Don't let others self project onto you. So I think your take home message from this thread should be to; 1) Trust your instincts. They will serve you well to weed out the douches 2) Change your description from "a little extra padding" to average". I'm still not liking "average" but i think its a better representation 3) Be confident that we can tell from your profile (and not just your pics) that you'd be a great catch witha beautiful soul and that the body you rock is a great bonus - I consider your future dates to be lucky to have you. Now if you were a few years older then I'd be wanting a date with you just from your profile description alone but your body would make it all the more worthwhile One final thought: Its the shape, not the size that counts. My ex wife was size 10 and sexy when I married her. After the kids she got to size 18 and was always very sexy and desireable. She remarried at size 14 and e ven though she's gone back to size 16 I'm sure her new husband thinks she is sexy just like I used to. Good luck. Maybe we can double date one day and i'll help you identify the douches and you can help me identify the nutters...haha
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
How could a girl be a size 14 but wear a size 12 bra? That doesn't make any sense... Cheers, MS (the female half)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'cl_ms'How could a girl be a size 14 but wear a size 12 bra? That doesn't make any sense... Cheers, MS (the female half) Exactly what I was thinking... Maybe she was attempting to fit into something to small for her? Or maybe she just had a size 14 ass, and size 12 top... which, in that case, should have been noted instead of just saying that she was a 14... but wore a size 12 bra. (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm a 14 and I don't fit into most size 12 tops because of my boobs, but I'm measured as a 12 in bra size.I've found the arm pits too tight in 12's
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RHP User
14 years ago
KATE - my best times have been with ladies just like u !! TAKE CARE - L7 XX
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey darlin I am a bbw and 53 yrs to boot, never had any problems if someone doesnt find one attractive because of their weight that's fair enough but plenty out there who actually like to have bit of a laugh stimulating chat and at least cant be bored with a voluptuous body each to their own. Be a funny world if we all liked same thing hey, we all lack confidence somewhere along the line darlin. It is sad that people don't look under a shell they may have a nice surprise :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
We are who we are. Yes we do have control on how we look, but really- your body is just a shell. Its whats inside that really matters. Personally I find curvey girls are well adjusted, and not stuck up. and they make me weak at the knees. LOL
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RHP User
14 years ago
Young lady you are a real woman and I have to say alot of sex and fun is attitude so back yourself, if you think you are SeXXXy odds are we will too! If it helps I already do......Hmmmm Damn Girl!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have always been self conscious about my weight and apperance but now im finally comfortable with how i am. No im not skinny or have a flat tummy , ive had kids , i might have a few wrinkles , but ive grown to accept my big boobs and curvy figure.. Way i see it , if someone doesnt like you for you , their loss. There are plenty of guys on here and off here who appreciate a women with a real woman look , and no offense to the lovely ladies who are slim.. Love what you have got and dont change.. N
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi Kate just finished reading all the comments on your question and thought I better have a look at your profile to see for myself. And wow was I impressed with what i seen and read , you are are a truely beautiful woman with all the right curves in the right places. The only thing sticks and twigs ( size 10 and less ) is for starting fires where as a real woman as yourself keeps a mans whole body and sole warm and content for eternity. And sucked into the douche bag its totally his loss. So head up sexy lady, walk the walk cause you got so much to offer that is all good.
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you weren't soo far away, I would show you exactly how much I think you are the perfect size. I had a quick peek at your pics and you are sexy!!!
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married2aBBW
14 years ago
you are a size 14 ? only size 14 ? im married to a BBW who is 5 dres sizes more than yours {= a size 24 for anyone unaware of how dress sizing goes lol - mind you she does have a cpl of pairs of pants that are actually an odd number size , size 21 anyone? } and of course she is self concious about being naked in front of others . the average size of australian women is 14 to 16 so you are still a small average size , curvy or padded a little but not a bbw or thick lady . as for guys trust me they talk crap - i had 2 mates who usd to carry on about wanting those skinny things and what did they both get ? ladies of size 14 who grew to an 18 before they seperated and the size wasnt an issue in this . and the other is engaged to a size 16 - 18 lady who is gorgeous . reason for being with these women? they are great ladies and also look lovely without being a stick thin girl. if a guy likes you he will like the whole package not one part and ignore the rest , and trust me you have a pick of many many many guys - woman choose who they let in not the other way around.
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