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To the girls size 14+
July 19 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
if your not happy with yourself DO something about it? dont waste your time with feelgood stuff... when you feel good, good people will feel you...lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
ok it might just be me, but here is the way I see it... If i'm just looking for someone to have some fun with and nothing serious then I would tend to look at the more attractive people and by this I mean 14 or under. Personally I'm a face kinda guy, an attractive face will do wonders for me far more than a skinny girl with an average face ever would. If I am looking for an actual relationship then it dosn't really matter what size you are it's all about getting along with the person and enjoying similar things. I know some girls that are really really attractive at size 14 and some that are just not my thing... It's all personal preferance apparently this guy wants to meet you, and I'm going to assume he likes what you look like so go with it be proude of who you are!! IMO your very attractive and that's that :) regards.
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RHP User
14 years ago
if your fat , stop eating...pretty simple . Obesity is not something to feel good about or something to embrace??? I cant believe anyone would listen to over weight people who tell them its ok to be fat ? seriously , think about your health and the example you are setting for your kids
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some 14+ women are very sexy, they can have a lot of sex appeal, all women usually have something that is sexy about them wether it be their legs, ass, tits, face or all so unless you are obese you have nothing to worry about, just find that part of you that makes you feel sexy and flaunt it. You'll catch the eye of many guys especially those who appreciate the female body.
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RHP User
14 years ago
on your attitude mate.... there is a hell of a lot more involved to losing weight than just eating too much. If you don't know anything about the subject, don't throw your ill-educated opinions out there
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RHP User
14 years ago
Obesity is not something to feel good about or something to embrace??? I cant believe anyone would listen to over weight people who tell them its ok to be fat ? Three word which dont all necessarily meen the same .. unless you are relating it to the out of date BMI charts Some people can be fat, but not necessarily be over weight .. because fat is sized based.. so they can be a size 16-18 be considered to be fat, but still have a BMI around the 25-26 mark .. People can be over weight again based on the perception of weight to height and BMI .. but they might not be FAT .. for it is all muscle .. and a vast majority of intense body builders and olympic weight lifters are considered to be BIG, and Heavy based on thier BMI of 30+ .. but it is NOT fat .. it is MUSCLE .. OBEASITY is also linked to BMI ... but again .. it that a FAT BMI or a MUSCLE BMI .. And assumptions .. based also on the incorrect use of words .. Some 14+ women are very sexy, they can have a lot of sex appeal, all women usually have something that is sexy about them wether it be their legs, ass, tits, face or all so unless you are obese you have nothing to worry about, So this coment makes TWO inferences .. that Obese people cannot have anything sexy about them .. even their eyes or flowing hair or personality, if not their legs, ass, tits, face (as if thats the only parts of a woman that can be considered sexy) or have any sex appeal. Two .. and that only obese women have things to worry about. Everyone has SOMETHING in thier life to worry about its just the object and the degree of it which alters from one person to the next .. the wording of a statment makes all the difference . The size of someones clothing may not always reflect or determine thier size/weight. I am 15 kgs heaver than my best friend, yet I am 2 sizes in clothing smaller than her, the hight difference between us is what makes the difference for she is 5cm shorter than me, and a review of my clothing in my wardrobe current items I wear range in size from 16 to 24 depending on the manufacturer JMO
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well my young friend... Be happy in your own skin... You're the one who lives in it... Sexy is who you are and how you feel... Not a dress size... Never feel like you're getting attention because the competition for slim ladies... I reply to profiles, not pics... Real men like real women, not labels... Enjoy and embrace affection when it's offered by a gentleman .. Mick
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well...Im about a sz 18 prob hitting a 20, but I love the skin im in, I have never had anybody say that im terrible to look at. Dont put yourself down, learn to love yourself, have fun and dont worry about what other people think, if they didnt want to meet up with you they wouldnt have organised the meet in the first place. xoxoxoxo
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RHP User
14 years ago
If hes a decent guy he will like you for who you are,not all guys are after the perfect ten, go out relax and have fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
I know exactly how you feel .....I'm a size 14 -16 and have been so most of my life ..It has taken me 20 years to finally appreciate who I am .and appreciate my curves ,and I have finally find a friend who appreciates me for me!..I work hard , walk ,cycle and eat less than my counterparts but I'm still on the larger size .....some times insecurities do sneak in when I'm with my lover but within a few minutes of his touch ..wow ..I feel like a super model ...I do find the hardest times was when we were playing with a couple and she's a skinny minnie but sexy ..than its comparable as I wonder if her partner sees me a a heffer ?..Always hard to ask for that feedback ...So as for my taste ?( lol) I would rather be with another voluptuous woman, whose also comfortable in her own skin....and stay with a man who adores me ...many guys on here have pictures of great bodies but heads that looks like cyclopes ...and those are the ones who usually judge us !....lol....No ones perfect but you will know when the right guy walks into your life ..It will show in his eyes ( and in his pants )Good luck
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RHP User
14 years ago
You look pretty good to me. Don't listen to others, the media, or that self loathing little voice we all have and need to learn to silence! Haters are always gon' hate. Ignore em. x.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey kate_08There is nothing wrong with your body , it looks good to me :) Dont stressyes there is heaps of competition, more men then women , i have sent heaps of emails out all being polite and not saying i want to fuck you hard etc have i got replys NOPE ( i dont have that silver tongue ) sorry guys who have got it, im just saying pitty i'm not over there kate because i reckon you would be wild :) Lets:)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Its all about the innerself that makes a person glow and be truly hot. An Prick will always be a prick no matter what they wear
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RHP User
14 years ago
Inregards toyour comment about fat women that need to stop eating.. Thats a bit rough.. And it is people like you that make matters worse for women who have eating disorders. You cant just stop eating! Did u ever stopto think perhaps some women may have a medical condition, or psychological condition??? Or just maybe some of these gorgeous BBW just love themselves just the way they are!! Get a grip( oh sorry i see in your pic that you have), In this day and age body issues are rife and it is people like you who make it worse for us BBW ladies.And while imon the subject, keep pulling you need more length on that penis ;) \Trips
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RHP User
14 years ago
I can understand were you are coming from and I see how you came to this concussion. If he know what you look like and still wants to meet this is a good thing. Women suffer from vanity as men suffer from pride both parties blinded by these social norms. Now some people ( and I hope that the person you are going to meet up with falls under this) take things as face values and do not judge people on such means. I understand about male meeting real females on here but if some is just trying to "get anything he can get" then do not waste your time on such petty people. You will find some one with meaning to you one day. For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love. Carl Sagan
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'M_D1989' You look pretty good to me. Don't listen to others, the media, or that self loathing little voice we all have and need to learn to silence! Haters are always gon' hate. Ignore em. x.Kate, if you are within driving distance, then GET IN YOUR CAR NOW!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
There's a list forming in this post and I want to be added to it!Men can have problems too, for example being considered old when in fact you feel like you are in top condition, sexual and otherwise. It gets to you after a while so I guess I understand a little of how you feelMrA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xxTRIPSxx' Inregards toyour comment about fat women that need to stop eating.. Thats a bit rough.. And it is people like you that make matters worse for women who have eating disorders. You cant just stop eating! Did u ever stopto think perhaps some women may have a medical condition, or psychological condition??? Or just maybe some of these gorgeous BBW just love themselves just the way they are!! Get a grip( oh sorry i see in your pic that you have), In this day and age body issues are rife and it is people like you who make it worse for us BBW ladies.And while imon the subject, keep pulling you need more length on that penis ;) \Trips Love your style TRIPS.... couldn't have said it better!!Bella xPS. Although I do believe he should he should continue pulling - as it's the only action that man will be receiving after his post
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RHP User
14 years ago
Size isn't an issue - just enjoy yourself and let your personality shine. Some of us perfer our ladies to have a more curvaceous figure!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate you are HOT!!!!!! its always about size i blame the yanks lol but seriously be confident that you are an attractive and very very sexy oman and im headin to brisbane/ gold coast in a couple of weeks if you would like to be spoilt by a man that would be proud to take you out!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Personally, I dig normal size girls, yes size 14 is normal not fat. Kate you are way too hard on yourself, I would love to meet up!
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MrJingles
14 years ago
I have no idea how big size 14 is. What the be small, medium or large? I always like to upsize my meals anyway so the bigger the better is what Im saying.....big can be very sexy!
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MrJingles
14 years ago
I just looked at Kates pics....has ony one else noticed how hot she is!!! I want a cupcake please
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RHP User
14 years ago
i no what yr feeling cupcake, i'm a big girl, but i find no matter how much u tell them yr size they still expect 2 find a supermodel, i love who i am but just can't seem 2 find any1 else that does.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i was a size 24 when i had my daughter almost 3 years ago. i'm now a size 16-18 after losing almost 30kg due to a marriage breakdown. I feel the same as you. ^^They are right. But it's hard to learn how to love yourself. I know. hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks for the recent comments guys :)... Im no longer a size 14 anyway.... Lost a pretty decent amount recently and now sitting at about a 10/12 :).... I think alot of girls probably do feel this way so its a good forum to have for ppl to check in with.... Im very picky with who I meet up with so I now make sure that I know them well enough to not doubt their intentions... Cheers xoxo
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate, I definitely did at your age. Funnily enough, I was always very conscious of putting on weight and was very slim and attracted a certain type of guy. Usually they weren't interested in my personality ;p (that is NOT to say guys who are attracted to slim girls are shallow either! You like what you like... that's the way it is).I spent up to late 20s as a size 8, sometimes up to a 10. Had kids, *exploded* oO, then recently lost weight back to a 14 (some clothes are 12). I don't want to get below a standard size 12 as I am actually happy with my new shape in general. Now I am more concerned with being in the healthy range and being happy myself with my weight (I absolutely HATED being at my heaviest as it made every day things really hard and *I* didn't like how I looked and know that would of showed).To be honest Kate, your main photo looks nothing like a 14 - you look much smaller. Your other photos are absolutely gorgeous. I personally think you have an adorable feminine body! :) Are *you* happy with your body? I would of thought most guys would drool at seeing you.. but what counts is what *you* like!
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RHP User
14 years ago
... and that would be why you don't look like a 14.. because you aren't lol.As long as you are happy Kate, it really is the most important thing :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kate, your really sexy and gorgeous just the way you are!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi you ok I'm love you profile
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